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Family Forum / Parenting / Adoption / September 2006Any help appreciated re: locating birth parents
Hi there: Searching for a jump-off point. My boyfriend is searching for his birth mother (she left, there was no adoption involved) and I was hoping someone could help point me in the right direction so I can do some searching on my own before hiring an agency. Again, any help appreciated. Thanks! > Hi there: Searching for a jump-off point. My boyfriend is searching > for his birth mother (she left, there was no adoption involved) and I > was hoping someone could help point me in the right direction so I can > do some searching on my own before hiring an agency. > > Again, any help appreciated. Does he know her name?  SignatureRobyn Resident Witchypoo Atheist Bastard Extraordinaire #1557 > Hi there: Searching for a jump-off point. My boyfriend is searching > for his birth mother (she left, there was no adoption involved) and I [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > > Thanks! There are those who would object to the use of the term birth mother in any context, but it is generally used in an adoption context, at least. For info on how to find someone, see http://www.bastards.org/search/ J. >> Hi there: Searching for a jump-off point. My boyfriend is searching >> for his birth mother (she left, there was no adoption involved) and I [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > > J. There's always someone out there ready, willing and able to be offended by something, anything. It's their purpose in life... I'm sick of this politically correct crap! >>> Hi there: Searching for a jump-off point. My boyfriend is searching >>> for his birth mother (she left, there was no adoption involved) and I [quoted text clipped - 15 lines] > something, anything. It's their purpose in life... I'm sick of this > politically correct crap! Ooooooookay :/ SignatureRobyn Resident Witchypoo #1557 > >> Hi there: Searching for a jump-off point. My boyfriend is searching > >> for his birth mother (she left, there was no adoption involved) and I [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > There's always someone out there ready, willing and able to be offended by > something, anything. Which would be why I pointed it out to her. She doesn't need to alienate anyone who may be able to help her. > It's their purpose in life... I'm sick of this > politically correct crap! There's a difference between political correctness and tact. But then you don't seem to know what the latter is. I'm sure the OP found your comments helpful. J. >> >> Hi there: Searching for a jump-off point. My boyfriend is searching >> >> for his birth mother (she left, there was no adoption involved) and I [quoted text clipped - 26 lines] > > I'm sure the OP found your comments helpful. Had I known this was a pre-requisite for posting, I might have refrained... But I doubt it... > J. J. If anyone is annoyed by the term 'birth mother', that is their problem. I know one birthmother who was referred to as 'that other woman' by the adoptive family. When someone is really interested in helping they will ignore such so called 'political correctness' and just help. Everyone isn't as educated in the 'correct' terms to use as some people like to think they are. Ignore these comments from those who can't or won't help you anyway and trust that someone will not be so critical and will honestly want to help. Good luck in your search. Roy > Had I known this was a pre-requisite for posting, I might have refrained... > But I doubt it... > > > J. Hey, who left the door open and let in the troll?? >>> Hi there: Searching for a jump-off point. My boyfriend is searching >>> for his birth mother (she left, there was no adoption involved) and I [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > something, anything. It's their purpose in life... I'm sick of this > politically correct crap! 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