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Kathy - 23 Apr 2007 18:56 GMT
Foster kids face future of homelessness
By Sara Steffens, MEDIANEWS STAFF

When a foster youth becomes homeless, no one social worker, guardian
or child welfare department is to blame. Like most states, California
has failed to provide an effective safety net for the more than 4,000
children who age out of its foster care system each year.

In ordinary circumstances, young adults count on continued financial
and emotional support from their families and are almost never
completely on their ownafter turning 18.

A typical parent spends an average of $44,500 on a child after he or
she becomes an adult, "and that doesn't include the kid being still in
his room at home," said Robert Fellmeth, executive director of
Children's Advocacy Institute, based at the University of San Diego
School of Law.

By contrast, foster youths get a median of $5,000 in public support
after aging out of care.

"Most kids don't get anything," Fellmeth said. "Most kids get zero.
(They get) 'Hit the streets with your clothes in your trash bag.'"

One study says that at least one in five former foster children
becomes homeless within a few years of becoming a legal adult. Other
research, using broader criteria for homelessness, sets the figure as
high as half.

In recent years, a growing number of programs have begun trying to
help better prepare foster children for independence.

But public and volunteer services remain fragmented, sporadic and
largely symbolic, Fellmeth said.

"The problem is scale," he said. "The problem is (lawmakers) want to
feel good and not spend the money." In the face of tough odds, some
former foster youths do manage to finish their education and build
productive lives.

Two bills pending in the state Legislature this year could help
prevent foster youths from becoming homeless.

One, AB845, would add $15.5 million to THP-Plus, a state-funded
transitional housing program for former foster youth ages 18 to 24.

Right now, the program can only house 167 young adults statewide.

The new money, also recommended in Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger's
budget, would expand that to 1,000 - enough for about a quarter of
those who become homeless after aging out of foster care, said Amy
Lemley, policy director at the John Burton Foundation for Children
without Homes.

"It's still not meeting the goal, but it would be a significant
investment," she said.

The proposal seems to be winning support from both sides of the aisle,
Lemley said.

Another bill, AB1331, would allow teenagers with serious mental or
physical disabilities to apply for Supplemental Security Income before
aging out of foster care.

About 15 percent of youths leaving the foster system potentially are
eligible for SSI, but only 3 percent receive the payments, Lemley
said.

Waiting until 18 is too late: The average time to process and review
an SSI application is more than 440 days.

"For a youth with a serious mental health or physical disability,
they've often just disappeared by then," Lemley said.

Although not on the legislative agenda, two larger reforms could
brighten the future of foster youths, Lemley said.

The first is allowing youths to voluntarily remain in care until age
21, as New York and Illinois do.

Equally important are efforts to support fragile families, keeping
children out of foster placement in the first place, Lemley said.

"Foster care was never designed to be a long-term environment to raise
children," she said. "It just doesn't have the rich support that a
family provides. A family's a lot more than just a program."

Only a fraction of families contacted by child protective services
departments end up having children removed from their home. New models
offer voluntary services to the rest, and many take them up on it,
Lemley said. Such strategies can be nudged along by waiving rules to
allow federal child welfare dollars to be spent on children not in
foster care.

Along with the Children's Advocacy Institute, Fellmeth proposes a more
radical solution.

In the five years after foster children emancipate from care, the
state should commit to spending $47,000 on each of its former charges,
Fellmeth said.

Guardians would act as parents normally do, ensuring the money is
spent according to a predetermined plan integrating housing,
education, job training and other needs.

The commitment would cost the state $160 million but would save twice
that much in costs of incarceration, welfare and lost productivity,
according to the group's cost-benefit analysis, Fellmeth said.

So far, he says, legislators have been unenthusiastic about finding
money to pay for the guardianship plan. And the Mental Health Services
Act, which includes former foster youths among its target populations,
distributes its tax revenue according to plans designed by individual
counties.

Society would be more concerned about the needs of former foster
youths if more people got to meet them, Fellmeth said.

"They are very deserving people," he said. "These are kids who are
trying, kids who have been mistreated and all they care about is their
sibling and the parent who mistreated them. They have total generosity
of spirit."

http://www.insidebayarea.com/sanmateocountytimes/ci_5731031
Dad - 24 Apr 2007 04:10 GMT
> Foster kids face future of homelessness
> By Sara Steffens, MEDIANEWS STAFF
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>
> http://www.insidebayarea.com/sanmateocountytimes/ci_5731031

"Foster care was never designed to be a long-term environment to raise
children," she said. "It just doesn't have the rich support that a
family provides. A family's a lot more than just a program."

4000 foster children will age out of foster care this year in
California alone.  I'll spare the rant - but that's just really sad.  :
(

Dad
joymadsen21@yahoo.com - 24 Apr 2007 09:48 GMT
Interesting that you would post this here as this is one of my chief
concerns, I donate to a local group that mentors and helps aged out
foster kids--this is a cause very close to my heart.-

This is my represents my problem with Permanent Placement, maybe
because I don't understand how it differs from foster care, which I
think sucks.

I have actually worked alot with troubled teens in gourp homes etc.  I
actively support people in these situations.

But what does this have to do with modern adoption?

Is there a group of people who are trying to adopt these teens that I
am unaware of?

Is the implication that adoption through older child (given that the
child wants to be adopted which is not always the case) and infant
adoption?

Honestly it seems to me, that there should be different terms
altogether for voluntary infant adoption and abuse/negligent adoption.

Many of the people that are separated by adoption are separated
unneccesarily, if I hadn't been adopted,I would not have ended up in
foster care, neither would my abrother.

So, I wonder why is this posted here, what is the relation?
Lilmtncbn - 24 Apr 2007 11:33 GMT
On Apr 24, 2:48?am, joymadse...@yahoo.com wrote:

> So, I wonder why is this posted here, what is the relation?

Maybe if some of these children were adopted they wouldn't age out of
foster care alone with no supports?
Dad - 24 Apr 2007 13:53 GMT
> On Apr 24, 2:48?am, joymadse...@yahoo.com wrote:
>
> > So, I wonder why is this posted here, what is the relation?
>
> Maybe if some of these children were adopted they wouldn't age out of
> foster care alone with no supports?

The best and worst parts of being adopted.  Comments from older teens
adopted out of foster care:

BEST:  "The best part is that I found the right family, and we get
along."
WORST:  "The bad part was being turned down by a lot of families.
That can be really painful."

http://www.sc.edu/ccfs/research/Teen%20Brochure.pdf

Dad
Kathy - 26 Apr 2007 07:11 GMT
> On Apr 24, 2:48?am, joymadse...@yahoo.com wrote:
>
> > So, I wonder why is this posted here, what is the relation?
>
> Maybe if some of these children were adopted they wouldn't age out of
> foster care alone with no supports?

Maybe she thinks the kids should stay stuck in foster care hell.

Kathy
Dad - 26 Apr 2007 13:43 GMT
> > On Apr 24, 2:48?am, joymadse...@yahoo.com wrote:
>
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>
> Maybe she thinks the kids should stay stuck in foster care hell.

No, that would be permanentplacement abiologicalfamilyornoneatall Ms
Welfare.  From what Joy's written, I don't think she shares Di's
opinion.  On the contrary, perhaps.  I dunno.

Given her work with foster teens, I think she would have some insight
on the matter.  Mebbe she'll share with us.  :)

Dad
Dad - 29 Apr 2007 20:56 GMT
http://www.canada.com/victoriatimescolonist/news/story.html?id=d3a56768-5c85-4e8
5-a9d8-0265d05b1c8a&k=78033


Pros and cons of posting photos of children available for adoption

Katherine Dedyna, Times Colonist
Published: Saturday, April 28, 2007

Two years in the making, a report by the Justice Institute of B.C.
into photo listing as a way to recruit adoptive parents, makes no
recommendations. But the just-released report by Shelley Rivkin,
director of the Centre for Leadership and Community Learning, provides
a snapshot of the controversial issue with plenty of pros and cons.

Responses came from 11 focus groups totalling 77 people, including
professionals, parents and caregivers. The Vancouver Island group was
cancelled due to low registration. As well, there were 216 responses
to a justice institute online survey circulated to adoption
stakeholders, although anyone could answer. Of the latter, 60 per cent
identified themselves as professionals and less than two per cent as
prospective adoptive parents or youth in foster care.

The majority of focus group members favoured photo listing with
certain restrictions. A majority of online respondents were opposed.

The most consistent drawback identified was "the lack of financial
support and human resources" for new recruitment or that current
methods would suffer and "already lengthy" waits for prospective
parents would increase.

Opponents see photo listing as a violation of children's privacy that
is ethically wrong for commodifying children by choosing them by
appearance.

Advocates see it as way to help find homes for kids who might never
have them, with the report suggesting safeguards such as the
prevention of downloading of photos as a privacy precaution.

Within two weeks of the Alberta launch, 13 of 93 children's photos
were removed because they attracted 40 potential adoptive families. In
two months, there were 48 matches, including 12 of children whose
photos were not listed.

According to the report, the pros to photo listing are:

· Increased visibility of adoptable kids
· Appears particularly effective for hard-to-place kids
· Starts bonding earlier
· Often results in kids who aren't photo listed getting placed through
the initial interest in adoption
· Appears effective in reducing waiting times
· Broadens definition of adoptable kids

The cons:

· Compared to "trafficking" of children
· Privacy concerns such as being identified by peers or a person
dangerous to the child
· Birth parents might believe the child they could not raise is being
marketed
· Kids might not comprehend how they'll feel if this last resort
leaves them still unwanted
· No clear documentation of increased placements and reduced waits
· Potential for prospective parents to respond emotionally without
knowing "what they are getting into"
· No data on long-term success

"The Adoption Council of Canada is really, really pleased that the
report has finally been released," says Victoria-based president
Sandra Scarth.

"It's controversial and it makes no recommendations but it provides
really good information. What I hope it will do is provide impetus to
do more active recruitment generally to find families for foster
kids."

Advocates from both sides were passionate in their comments:

· "How would you feel as a child or youth exposed over the Internet as
an unwanted child or everyone knowing that you have issues?" asked
one.

· "It seems to me that visual selection is used for picking a puppy,
not a child," said another.

· "Children . . . would feel rejected (again) when no one selected
them because they had obvious signs of a disability," said another.
"There is too much risk for emotional damage to already fragile
children."

On the other hand:

· "There are too many children left in care. Most are moved many, many
times. It is imperative for the children to be adopted ASAP. (The
ministry) needs to use all tools available . . . "

· "People are searching the Internet for adoption information and are
falling in love with pictures and profiles of children that they come
across" - meaning U.S. kids.

· "As we debate policies, children continue to have no families!"

· "It can make the reality of our waiting children more evident when
one can look at their faces."

< end >
rkbose@pacific.net.sg - 25 Apr 2007 01:20 GMT
On Apr 24, 1:48 am, joymadse...@yahoo.com wrote:

> Many of the people that are separated by adoption are separated
> unneccesarily, if I hadn't been adopted,I would not have ended up in
> foster care, neither would my abrother.
>
> So, I wonder why is this posted here, what is the relation?

I agree that most of the kids in foster care were born to parents who
wouldn't think to relinquish them, they have been TPR'd.

While it's true that some children are unnecessarily separated from
their original families by voluntary relinquishment, I think on a
global scale, it's really a small number. The vast majority, IMO, were
born to parents who *really* could not or would not care for them. The
separation was neither optional nor involuntary.

An interesting thing about this ng:

Some adoptees here believe the separation was unnecessary.  Most of
them are former HWIs. Still W, mostly still H, but many years past I.
We used to have a few adoptees posting here who were of other races or
ethnic identities, but they have disappeared over time.

A few of the birth-mothers also believe separation was unnecessary,
though they clearly know the social and familial pressures on them to
relinquish.  It was a different era. Some, like DI, actually had their
babies illegally stolen from them for the purpose of adoption, but
most relinquished because society (or their parents) gave them little
or no support. Or they may have been convinced that others could offer
their children a better future.

Most of the adoptive parents, though, haven't adopted HWIs. Some have,
but many of us have kids whose situations were different. Adad is the
only one I know who adopted from foster care, but Julia has adopted
older kids from orphanages in other countries, and the Ducks' daughter
was born in China and abandoned. The necessity of separation is moot.

So IMO anything about foster care, orphanages, intercountry and
intracountry adoption is all relevant to this ng.

(And - since this is an unmoderated ng, relevance is only moderately
relevant anyway.)
Kat - 25 Apr 2007 16:45 GMT
> On Apr 24, 1:48 am, joymadse...@yahoo.com wrote:
>
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> (And - since this is an unmoderated ng, relevance is only moderately
> relevant anyway.)

If this topic is 'irrelevant' I wonder how she would feel about the
relevance of aparent recipes,  alt.adoption movie scripts, fuckfests, etc.
;)

Kathy 1
rkbose@pacific.net.sg - 26 Apr 2007 19:20 GMT
> <rkb...@pacific.net.sg> wrote in message
>
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> relevance of aparent recipes,  alt.adoption movie scripts, fuckfests, etc.
> ;)

We're so staid these days!
Kathy - 26 Apr 2007 07:10 GMT
On Apr 24, 12:48�am, joymadse...@yahoo.com wrote:
> Interesting that you would post this here as this is one of my chief
> concerns, I donate to a local group that mentors and helps aged out
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
>
> So, I wonder why is this posted here, what is the relation?

I posted it here because I felt like it.....................

Kathy
 
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