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Mike Dobony - 08 Oct 2007 22:36 GMT
I just received some non-identifying info from NY about my birth parents.
My mother was 22 when she gave birth and I was delivered at 40 weeks.  She
was an office worker, unmarried, and gave birth to a daughter 2 years before
I was born.  She was also Catholic.  My father was a 26 yo US army soldier,
married, also Catholic.  I wonder if the newspaper archives would list the
name of my mother?  I know I was born on May 9, 1959 at Our Lady of Victory
in Lackawanna.
Marley Greiner - 08 Oct 2007 23:20 GMT
>I just received some non-identifying info from NY about my birth parents.
>My mother was 22 when she gave birth and I was delivered at 40 weeks.  She
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>list the name of my mother?  I know I was born on May 9, 1959 at Our Lady
>of Victory in Lackawanna.

First of all--congratulations!

I doubt if the newspapers would list the birth.  Births to unmarried women
were not published back then, but it wouldn't hurt to look just in case
something snuck through.  NY birth records for all births are tight as  can
be. Onr thing you might want to check is baptismal records in the local
diocese since Catholic babies were usually baptized pretty quickly, even if
they were being put up for adoption.  I'm not sure if the church archvist
can track by DOB or not.  I suppose you'd need a nama, but again, it never
hurts to try . Good luck!

Marley
Mike Dobony - 09 Oct 2007 01:15 GMT
>>I just received some non-identifying info from NY about my birth parents.
>>My mother was 22 when she gave birth and I was delivered at 40 weeks.  She
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> Marley

I was picked up at the hospital, so I was likely not baptized there.  Then
again, it was a Catholic hospital.  Now I just need to get back there to
check.
Mike Dobony - 09 Oct 2007 01:16 GMT
>>I just received some non-identifying info from NY about my birth parents.
>>My mother was 22 when she gave birth and I was delivered at 40 weeks.  She
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> Marley

BTW, it only took nearly a year to get this info.
Marley Greiner - 09 Oct 2007 03:33 GMT
>>>I just received some non-identifying info from NY about my birth parents.
>>>My mother was 22 when she gave birth and I was delivered at 40 weeks.
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>
> BTW, it only took nearly a year to get this info.

That doesn't surprise me.  Did they charge you an arm and a leg?

My records were never sealed and I had my obc but I wanted to know other
stuff and it took several years for the agency to even have the decency to
reply.  I finally sent a request and cc'd the probate court and I got an
immediate reply  I got the old song and dance about the records were
destroyed.  Well, in this case it was true.  I was directed to file with the
probate court, which had actually investigated the destruction of thousands
of records.  I ended up with a set of court records for $6.00.

Were you adopted through Catholic Charities?

Marley
Mike Dobony - 10 Oct 2007 19:38 GMT
>>>>I just received some non-identifying info from NY about my birth
>>>>parents. My mother was 22 when she gave birth and I was delivered at 40
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> Were you adopted through Catholic Charities?

Private adoption.  The attorney became a circuit court judge and has now
passed away.  His partner has not replied to any requests.  I have a letter
from him to my parents and it is full of errors;i.e., incorrect town and
date of birth.
pinkyjabberbox - 15 Oct 2007 05:32 GMT
> >>>>I just received some non-identifying info from NY about my birth
> >>>>parents. My mother was 22 when she gave birth and I was delivered at 40
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God bless you, you called them "errors". You really put a smile on me!
Moses
ninjagirl196440@yahoo.com - 09 Oct 2007 20:24 GMT
> I just received some non-identifying info from NY about my birth parents.
> My mother was 22 when she gave birth and I was delivered at 40 weeks.  She
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> name of my mother?  I know I was born on May 9, 1959 at Our Lady of Victory
> in Lackawanna.

this is awesome news im so very happy for you gosh what a miricle good
luck
 
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