International Adoptions by US Down by 15%
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John - 02 Dec 2007 01:08 GMT http://www.dailyherald.com/story/?id=87831&src=110
Daily Herald [Chicago]
Foreign adoptions down by 15 percent
Associated Press Published: 12/1/2007 12:22 AM
NEW YORK -- The number of foreign children adopted by Americans has dropped for the third year in a row, a consequence of tougher policies in the two countries -- China and Russia -- that over the past decade have supplied the most children to U.S. families.
Figures for the 2007 fiscal year, provided by the State Department on Friday, showed that adoptions from abroad have fallen to 19,411, down about 15 percent in just the past two years.
It's a dramatic change. The number of foreign adoptions had more than tripled since the early 1990s, reaching a peak of 22,884 in 2004 before dipping slightly in 2005, then falling to 20,679 in 2006.
"A drop in international adoptions is sad for children," said Thomas Atwood, president of the National Council for Adoption. "National boundaries and national pride shouldn't get in the way of children having families."
Adoptions from China, the No. 1 source country since 2000, fell to 5,453. That's down by 1,040 from last year and well off the peak of 7,906 in 2005. Two main factors lie behind this: an increase in domestic adoptions as China prospers and tighter restrictions on foreign adoptions that give priority to stable married couples between 30 and 50 and exclude single people, the obese and others with financial or health problems.
One consequence, adoption agencies say, is that the waiting time to complete an adoption from China has more than doubled to 24 months or more.
Adoptions from Russia also dropped sharply over the past year -- from 3,706 to 2,310. Russian authorities suspended the operations of all foreign adoption agencies for several months earlier this year and have been re-accrediting them only gradually. Like China, Russia has been trying to boost the number of domestic adoptions.
U.S. adoptions from South Korea and Haiti also declined significantly, although the overall drop was partially offset by large increases in adoptions from Guatemala up from 4,135 to 4,728, Ethiopia 732 to 1,255 and Vietnam 163 to 626.
Tom DeFilipo, president of the Joint Council on International Children's Services, said adoptions from Guatemala could decline over the coming year as its government -- under intense international pressure -- tries to impose tough new regulations on an adoption industry that was widely viewed as susceptible to fraud and extortion.
The State Department has advised Americans not to initiate adoption applications for Guatemala while that overhaul is under way. The proposed reforms are required under an international adoption treaty, the Hague Convention, which both Guatemala and the United States have agreed to adhere to starting next year.
Overall, DeFilipo -- whose council represents many international adoption agencies -- found reason for optimism in the new statistics.
"What you're seeing is fewer countries sending very large numbers of children and a broader range of countries participating," he said. "Over the long term, I think this is a healthy trend."
He mentioned Kenya, Peru and Brazil as countries not now among the major sources of children, but which might increase international adoptions in coming years.
Michele Bond, deputy assistant secretary of state for overseas citizen services, also viewed the new figures positively.
"Interest in intercountry adoption remains very strong," she said in a telephone interview. "People are increasingly well-informed. They're more likely to look at new countries instead of always looking at the same small number of countries."
By contrast, another adoption expert, Harvard law professor Elizabeth Bartholet, depicted the new numbers as "totally depressing."
She said China and Russia reflected a trend in which countries opened themselves up to international adoption, then scaled back. She attributed this in part to UNICEF and other international organizations encouraging countries to care for children within their homeland, even when domestic programs such as foster care might be inadequate.
"UNICEF is a major force," Bartholet said. "They've played a major role in jumping on any country sending large number of kids abroad, identifying it as a problem rather than a good thing."
UNICEF's child protection spokesman, Geoffrey Keele, said the U.N. agency does believe it is preferable to care for orphaned or abandoned children in their own countries if good homes could be found for them.
"The best interests of the child must be the guiding principle," he said. "We don't go about discouraging international adoption. We just want to be sure it's done properly."
Thomas Atwood, of the National Council for Adoption, said there should be no competition between domestic and international adoption. With an estimated 143 million orphans worldwide, he said, there was enough need to go around.
For U.S.-based adoption agencies, the biggest impact has been on those specializing in placing children from China.
The president of one of the largest such groups, Joshua Zhong of Colorado-based Chinese Children Adoption International, said the agency had placed about 620 children this year, down from about 1,200 in 2005, while average waiting times had increased from nine months to two years.
Some clients are so committed to adopting a Chinese child that they are willing to wait, Zhong said. "Others say forget about it."
For the second straight year, no Romanian children were adopted by Americans. The Eastern European country, which provided 1,119 children to U.S. families in 2000, has banned adoptions by foreigners, except for relatives.
Larry - 07 Dec 2007 13:23 GMT What is the attraction for adopting children from other countries and other cultures? What is wrong with giving children in your own country a home and family? Adopting a child from overseas does have a higher profile and makes a person appear to be more concerned and more tolerant. Adopting a child from your own country does not reflect the same degree of compassion, at least in some peoples minds.
> http://www.dailyherald.com/story/?id=87831&src=110 > [quoted text clipped - 113 lines] > U.S. families in 2000, has banned adoptions by foreigners, except for > relatives. Steve White - 08 Dec 2007 20:27 GMT > What is the attraction for adopting children from other countries and > other cultures? What is wrong with giving children in your own country > a home and family? Adopting a child from overseas does have a higher > profile and makes a person appear to be more concerned and more > tolerant. Adopting a child from your own country does not reflect the > same degree of compassion, at least in some peoples minds. There are multiple potential attractions to an international adoption.
For some, it's that the wait can be a lot shorter. For some, perhaps they can't qualify for a domestic adoption (a year too old for the agency, for example).
Some are altruistic -- they believe that it's appropriate to adopt a child who otherwise will have a short, miserable life in a third-world hell-hole adoption. Think of that as you wish, but that's the thought.
There is nothing wrong with adopting at home, or abroad, as long as it's an ethical adoption and done right. Different strokes.
steve
Larry - 08 Dec 2007 22:53 GMT n article <steve-AC089B.14275108122007@newsgroups.comcast.net>,
> > What is the attraction for adopting children from other countries and > > other cultures? What is wrong with giving children in your own country [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > they can't qualify for a domestic adoption (a year too old for the > agency, for example). I acknowledge that the wait times are exceptionally long and people should be lobbying the government to shorten them. Being too old is also something that should be changed in our law. People are having children at a much later age than 20-30 years ago so why can't older people adopt?
> Some are altruistic -- they believe that it's appropriate to adopt a > child who otherwise will have a short, miserable life in a third-world > hell-hole adoption. Think of that as you wish, but that's the thought. As far as adoptiing a child who might have a short and miserable life, where I live we have had many like that, fostered, not adopted, and eventually died of either neglect, starvation, abuse or whatever. It would have been great to give them a home. No different here than in other countries.I
> There is nothing wrong with adopting at home, or abroad, as long as it's > an ethical adoption and done right. Different strokes. I just can't seem to understand why people feel it is more desirable to adopt abroad than at home. Change the adoption laws. Make it easier to adopt at home. Help our own children. I believe it makes us hypocritical to feel we are doing good helping other children, when we have so many of our own that need help and do not receive any.
> steve rkbose@pacific.net.sg - 09 Dec 2007 04:24 GMT > I just can't seem to understand why people feel it is more desirable to > adopt abroad than at home. Change the adoption laws. Make it easier to > adopt at home. Help our own children. I believe it makes us > hypocritical to feel we are doing good helping other children, when we > have so many of our own that need help and do not receive any. It's partly because many people who adopt want to adopt children who are very young, babies or newborns. Infants in the US do get adopted, they're not the ones who end up in long term foster care - unless, of course, parental rights haven't been terminated so they cannot be adopted by another family.
The kids who need help in the US are usually those who are older, and troubled - often because of the very circumstances that led to a termination of their parents' rights in the first place. I think many adopting parents perceive that children from abroad have fewer issues.
J. - 09 Dec 2007 04:31 GMT > n article <steve-AC089B.14275108122...@newsgroups.comcast.net>, > �Steve �White <st...@spam.me.never> wrote: [quoted text clipped - 38 lines] > hypocritical to feel we are doing good helping other children, when we > have so many of our own that need help and do not receive any. Right, wrong, or otherwise, many adopt internationally because they want to adopt infants and can't do so here. When we began to look at domestic adoption 16 years ago, we were told to start marketing ourselves to young women looking for adoptive parents for their children. That wasn't something we were comfortable with. Transracial adoption was out, locally, due to same-race preference laws that were in effect in my home state. Interstate transracial adoptions were a possibility, but complicated. International adoption seemed a logical alternative. There was no altruism involved. We wanted to raise a child from infancy; this was a way to do it. As it turned out, our son was 14 months old when he entered the country.
There is no need to change our laws to make adoption easier. If anything, it is too easy in many states and particularly in interstate adoptions involving private placements. It's simply a question of the availability of the most desired children - healthy white infants. If a person wants to adopt a child in foster care, other than an infant, there is no real wait involved. There are tens of thousands of children legally available for adoption right now. Prospective adoptive parents are what is lacking for these kids, for a number of reasons. Some, like me, simply didn't / don't have the desire or balls to take on the challenges, real or imagined.
J.
John - 10 Dec 2007 08:51 GMT When my wife and I decided to adopt, we didn't have any real theory as to adopting in the US versus overseas. Looking back on it, we were probably too old for adoption here (although we never made that determination for sure), but it was still possible for us to adopt overseas. We went to two open houses held by adoption agencies here, and both concerned adoption overseas. We went with one of those agencies because we thought that those two agencies limited our field of choices.
We learned that we could not adopt in China (the age limit had already been dropped) but that we could in Kazakhstan (although we would not be able to today--a change in the age limit, again). Kazakhstan seemed like a good alternative to us because my wife is Asian, I am not, and the people of Kazakhstan look as though they could have come off any street in Honolulu.
I learned that the children up for adoption there were in orphanages, and I can't say that that fact didn't have some appeal for me. We had already been told about one "program" in Georgia (of the former Soviet Union) in which the adoption process was initiated at conception or soon after. That had struck us as inherently wrong. We had the same concerns that everyone does about birth defects and the like--foetal alcohol syndrome was high on the list--but we ultimately thought we would just throw the dice and see what happened. I had it in my head that there was some child there to whom fate had not been kind in the way that fate had not been kind to me and my wife. If we found that child, we would bring him or her home; if we didn't, we would just live out our lives. We found Maia--she of the one normal ear and one "broken ear," as she calls it--fell in love, and brought her home. She was then nearly two. I think we may have been her last chance, as she was ours.
Do I think of our adopting Maia as an altruistic act? No. To be honest, it was purely selfish, and I knew that it was selfish when we were doing it, but it was selfish in that sense that's sometimes good. I knew that we could give her a loving home and that if anything could be done for her ear, we were in a position to do that. And I thought that she needed us, if that's not too corny. She has brought great joy to us (and, to be honest, some challenges, too, but it's the joy that dominates. Tonight, she wanted me to sleep beside her, and I did, on the other side of Big Pooh. I stroked her forehead and hair once, and she was asleep.).
Do I feel guilty about not having adopted here? Only when I think about the difficulty that we have put in Maia's path in re-establishing contact with her birth family. She has two parents and two brothers, and we know who they are, but the linguistic and cultural barriers to connecting with them will be high for her now.
I don't feel guilty in the sense of having deprived a child here of a home. Maybe it's a failing of mine, but that thought just doesn't occur to me.
I may be a little jaundiced, but I don't much trust altruism as a motive. I admire and respect those who are truly altruistic--how could one not?--but I think it's a rare gift. In the everyday world, give me selfish motives. I understand those and don't see anything particularly wrong with them, within limits.
On Dec 8, 4:53?pm, Larry <lds...@yahoo.com> wrote:
> n article <steve-AC089B.14275108122...@newsgroups.comcast.net>, > ?Steve ?White <st...@spam.me.never> wrote: [quoted text clipped - 40 lines] > hypocritical to feel we are doing good helping other children, when we > have so many of our own that need help and do not receive any. Right, wrong, or otherwise, many adopt internationally because they want to adopt infants and can't do so here. When we began to look at domestic adoption 16 years ago, we were told to start marketing ourselves to young women looking for adoptive parents for their children. That wasn't something we were comfortable with. Transracial adoption was out, locally, due to same-race preference laws that were in effect in my home state. Interstate transracial adoptions were a possibility, but complicated. International adoption seemed a logical alternative. There was no altruism involved. We wanted to raise a child from infancy; this was a way to do it. As it turned out, our son was 14 months old when he entered the country.
There is no need to change our laws to make adoption easier. If anything, it is too easy in many states and particularly in interstate adoptions involving private placements. It's simply a question of the availability of the most desired children - healthy white infants. If a person wants to adopt a child in foster care, other than an infant, there is no real wait involved. There are tens of thousands of children legally available for adoption right now. Prospective adoptive parents are what is lacking for these kids, for a number of reasons. Some, like me, simply didn't / don't have the desire or balls to take on the challenges, real or imagined.
J.
John - 13 Dec 2007 15:32 GMT I was thinking about this--about the linguistic and cultural barriers that we've put between Maia and her re-connection with her birth family--and I've had some different thoughts.
Suppose we hadn't adopted her, and she had stayed in the orphanage system? At some point (I think it must be 18 because "postplacement reports" on her are due from us to the government of Kazakhstan until she turns 18), the system would have declared her guardianship at an end and pushed her out into whatever awaited her as an autonomous adult.
Then what?
She would have had access to the same information that we do, including the names of her birthparents and what their places of work were at the time of her birth.
She would be in an impossible situation, knowing who they were but with whatever it was that had caused them to give her up once still between them. I know it's not just the birth defect--the middle and outer ear that failed to develop--but what that represented to this family, probably economically. That would still be there. If the economics of the choice had to do with the economics of marriage, as I suspect it did, then with Maia at 18, all of those considerations would be at their height.
She would be in an impossible situation. So would her birth family.
It is conceivable, in other words, that our having adopted her will make it easier for them to re-connect. At least, it will give her some protection, if and when she wants to try to do that. Them, too, in a way.
A thing full of complexities.
> When my wife and I decided to adopt, we didn't have any real theory as to > adopting in the US versus overseas. Looking back on it, we were probably [quoted text clipped - 124 lines] > > J.
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