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British justice: a family ruined

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kippaherring@hotmail.com - 26 Feb 2008 22:26 GMT
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British justice: a family ruined
A chilling example of our secret State where a mother and child are
forced into hiding
Camilla Cavendish

Last autumn a small English congregation was rocked by the news that
two of its parishioners had fled abroad. A 56-year-old man had helped
his pregnant wife to flee from social workers, who had already taken
her son into care and were threatening to seize their baby.

Most people had no idea why. For the process that led this couple to
such a desperate act was entirely secret. The local authority had
warned the mother not to talk to her friends or even her MP. The judge
who heard the arguments from social services sat in secret. The open-
minded social workers who had initially been assigned to sort out a
custody battle between the woman and her previous husband were
replaced by others who seemed determined to build a guilty case
against her. That is how the secret State operates. A monumental
injustice has been perpetrated in this quiet corner of England; our
laws are being used to try to cover it up.

I will call this couple Hugh and Sarah. Neither they nor their
families have ever been in trouble with the law, as far as I know.
Sarah's only fault seems to have been to suffer through a violent and
volatile first marriage, which produced a son. When the marriage
ended, the boy was taken into temporary foster care for a few months -
as a by-product of the marriage breakdown and against her will - while
she "sorted her life out" and found them a new home. But even as she
cleared every hurdle set by the court, social workers dreamt up new
ones. The months dragged by. A psychologist said the boy was suffering
terribly in care and was desperate to come home. Sarah's mother and
sister, both respected professionals with good incomes, apparently
offered to foster or adopt him. The local authority did not even deign
to reply.

For a long time, Sarah and her family seem to have played along. At
every new hearing they thought that common sense would prevail. But it
didn't. The court appeared to blame her for not ending her marriage
more quickly, which had put strain on the boy, while social workers
seemed to insist that she now build a good relationship with the man
she had left. Eventually, she came to believe that the local authority
intended to have her son adopted. She also seems to have feared that
they would take away her new baby, Hugh's baby, when it was born. One
night in September they fled the country with the little boy. When
Hugh returned a few days later, to keep his business going and his
staff in jobs, he was arrested.

Many people would think this man a hero. Instead, he received a far
longer sentence - 16 months for abduction - than many muggers. This
kind of sentence might be justified, perhaps, to set an example to
others. But the irony of this exemplary sentence is that no one was
ever supposed to know the details. (I am treading a legal tightrope
writing about it at all.) How could a secret sentence for a secret
crime deter anyone?

Sarah's baby has now been born, in hiding. I am told that the language
from social services has become hysterical. But if the State was
genuinely concerned for these two children, it would have put "wanted"
pictures up in every newspaper in Europe.

It won't do that, of course, because to name the woman and her
children would be to tear a hole in the fabric of the secret State, a
hole we could all see through. I would be able to tell you her side of
the story, the child's side of the story. I would be able to tell you
every vindictive twist of this saga. And the local authority knows
perfectly well how it would look. So silence is maintained.

And very effective it is too. The impotence is the worst thing. The
way that perfectly decent individuals are gagged and unable to defend
themselves undermines a fundamental principle of British law. I have a
court order on my desk that threatens all the main actors in this case
with dire consequences if they talk about it to anyone.

Can that really be the way we run justice in a country that was the
fount of the rule of law? At the heart of this story is a little boy
who was wrenched from the mother he loves, bundled around in foster
care and never told why, when she appears to have been perfectly
capable of looking after him. When she had relatives who were
perfectly capable of doing so. In the meantime, he was becoming more
and more troubled and unhappy. To find safety and love, that little
boy has had to leave England.

What does that say about our country? The public funds the judges, the
courts, the social workers. It deserves to know what they do. That
does not mean vilifying all social workers, or defending every parent.
But it does mean ending the presumption of guilt that infects so many
family court hearings. It does mean asking why certain local
authorities seem unable to let go of children whose parents have
resolved their difficulties. It does mean knowing how social workers
could have got away with failing to return this particular boy, after
his mother had met all the criteria set by a judge at the beginning.
It is simply unacceptable that social services have put themselves
above the law.

We need these people to be named, and to hear in their words what
happened. We need to open up the family courts. We need to tear down
the wall of secrecy that has forced a decent woman to live as a
fugitive, to save her little boy from a life with strangers, used like
a pawn in a game of vengeance. Even if the local authority were to
drop its case, it is hard to see how Sarah could ever trust them
enough to return. At home, for their God-fearing congregation, the
question is simple: what justice can ever be done behind closed doors?
And in whose name?
kippaherring@hotmail.com - 29 Feb 2008 15:00 GMT
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How do you judge a court held in secret?
BY WILLIAM REES-MOGG

11 February 2008

THERE are extreme occasions on which public law and private conscience
collide. Some of them, as in the cases of Socrates or Charles I, end
in martyrdom. Some lead to imprisonment, though it is a terrible thing
to imprison a man for doing what he believes is his duty.

Almost invariably, this collision of law and private duty tends to
discredit the law and the judges concerned.

No one now defends the judges of Socrates, though there are still some
admirers of the English dictator Oliver Cromwell. All human sympathy
flows towards the man of conscience who is inevitably seen as the
victim. Law itself becomes suspect, because it leads to consequences
that seem to be horribly unjust.

Such a case was reported last week. A 56-year-old businessman of good
character appealed against his prison sentence of 16 months for
helping his wife flee British social services because she feared she
would not be allowed to keep her unborn baby. The appeal was rejected
by Mr Justice Bennett in the High Court.

The businessman's wife had been separated from her previous husband in
2004 after a 'volatile and violent' marriage.

At that time, her son from that marriage was taken into temporary care
by the local authority, until she had 'sorted her life out'. After her
remarriage she asked for the return of her son, but was refused by
social services. A Family Court judge upheld this refusal. At some
point, she was led to believe social services would take away the
unborn infant.

There can be no reports of such cases in the Family Courts. We know as
much as we do only because the eventual appeal against sentence took
the form of a criminal appeal that could be reported in the normal
way.

There are numerous questions to be asked. They would affect public
confidence in the decisions of social services and of the Family
Courts. Is it true that the original agreement was for a voluntary
period in care? Did social services change this to an enforced
adoption? If so, why? Did the son, now aged eight, agree with the
proposed enforced adoption? As he subsequently ran away with his
mother, one can assume that he was reluctant to be adopted.

None of these questions can be settled because the Family Court
proceedings are kept secret 'in order to protect the child'. It is
questionable whether secrecy protects the child threatened with
separation from his or her parents.

The mother made contact with her son at school; he absconded from his
foster home and met his mother and stepfather and they went to France.
The husband then returned home alone and was arrested and charged with
the abduction of the boy. The mother has since given birth to a
premature baby.

The High Court has now rejected his appeal against sentence. Mr
Justice Bennett acknowledged the 'powerful emotions' involved, but
seemed to regard them as a reason for severity rather than a
mitigation. He observed that 'those who act must expect a prison
sentence because a real punishment is called for and to deter others
who might be subject to the same pressures'. The 'pressures', it may
be noted, are the feelings any father might have at the enforced
adoption of his stepson, and the possible seizure of his own child at
birth.

Mr Justice Bennett summed up the issue in these terms: 'Such
proceedings, taken by a local authority, must be respected by
parents.'

How would any of us react if a local authority attempted to take away
our children in order to hand them over for permanent 'enforced
adoption'? Such a policy may be justified in some cases, but it is an
outrage against any family.

Most people have had their own collisions with local authorities on
matters such as housing, planning or rubbish collection. Some agents
of some local authorities are well-qualified, helpful people. Others,
such as obstructive junior staff, are not.

Some barristers do not have great confidence in the Family Courts
because of the secrecy in which they operate. One hears of relaxed
procedures, which afford little protection to the parents -- or,
indeed, to children. One hears of a loose approach to the evidence, an
undue reliance on hearsay, and an absence of any firm assumption of
innocence.

Secrecy breeds miscarriages of justice. Public scrutiny is the real
test of the quality of justice. Almost all major miscarriages of
justice in recent years have come to light only because the courts
were open to the public.

One cannot discover whether the Family Courts' standards are
appropriate, because they are secret. Families are threatened with
imprisonment if they go public in the fight against the removal of
their children. That is a gross injustice.

There are also questions of class and status. It sometimes happens
that there are enforced adoptions in middle-class cases. But they are
much rarer. Many low-income parents do not carry the social authority
or self-assurance to defend their children against possibly unjust
social services rulings.

On average, children who have been in care are more likely to be
school truants, more likely to leave school early, less likely to
attend higher education, more likely to become addicted to drugs or
alcohol, more likely to be abused, more likely to die young, more
likely to become homeless and far more likely to be in prison. There
should never be a bias in favour of compulsory care.

The real issue is secrecy. Justice cannot be done behind closed doors.
For most of us, the businessman who risked prison to protect his wife
and children is the hero.

That view may be mistaken, but secrecy means the social services, and
Mr Justice Bennett, cannot justify their apparently arbitrary
decision.

(Lord William Rees-Mogg is a former editor of the Times. This column
first appeared in the Mail on Sunday)
Britmex - 27 Mar 2008 10:21 GMT
"We need these people to be named, and to hear in their words what
happened. We need to open up the family courts. We need to tear down
the wall of secrecy that has forced a decent woman to live as a
fugitive, to save her little boy from a life with strangers, used
like
a pawn in a game of vengeance."

http://exile-blog.blogspot.com/2008/03/blog-exclusive-free-martin-mccabe.html

The man's name is Martin McCabe, but I haven't been able to find out
any more information as yet.
 
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