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Little Caylee's legacy: 'No Child Unwanted'. Twisting the message.

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kippaherring@hotmail.com - 29 Dec 2008 19:34 GMT
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Caylee murdered by *birth* mother. Huh ?
What the hell is he talking about? Caylee was murdered by her mother.
The qualifier was totally unnecessary.
Unless, of course, the message people are *really* meant to take away
is  "Birth mother, bad mother: Her story of unfathomable damnation."
Oh dear.

http://blogs.usatoday.com/oped/2008/12/little-caylees.html

Little Caylee's legacy: 'No Child Unwanted'
Plain Talk By Al Neuharth, USA TODAY Founder

This special Christmas week for children was saddened by news that the
remains of missing 3-year-old Caylee Anthony were found in the woods
near her Orlando home. Her birth mother, 22-year-old Casey Anthony, is
in jail, charged with murdering her little girl.

The months-long mystery of what happened to Caylee should help us
focus on these two prime human problems in our society:

• Unwanted children by women who get pregnant by mistake.

• Wanted children by women who can't get pregnant.

The best answer for both groups is adoption.

My wife, Rachel, and I adopted six racially diverse children chosen at
their birth Alexis, now 17; Karina, 12; twins Andre and Ariana, 10;
and twins Ali and Rafi, 8.

Those blessings were made possible because Dr. Rachel founded a not-
for-profit adoption agency, Home At Last (HAL) in Cocoa Beach, Fla.
She has developed a network of schools, churches, doctors and
hospitals that brings unwanted pregnancies to her attention. Through
HAL, those birth mothers are given educational, financial, legal and
medical help.

HAL has placed many dozens of children with eager parents from Florida
to New York to California and in between.

When Caylee's birth mother decided she didn't want or couldn't care
for her baby, state and/or federal help should have been readily
available for aid in adoption. Unfortunately, it wasn't and isn't.

Our government has addressed education problems for children,
including President Bush's No Child Left Behind plan.

President Obama should prioritize a "No Child Left Unwanted" program
to encourage and support adoptions. It might be one of the most humane
of his ambitious Health and Human Services plans.

Other views on adoption

"If pregnant women who cannot or do not want to raise a child could
view the adoption process as practiced by HAL, then Mr. Neuharth's
Christmas wish would be answered and no children would go unwanted."

— Don and Therese DeMarco of New York, parents of an infant recently
adopted through HAL

"Adoption is a responsible choice to an unintended pregnancy. When
birthmothers choose adoption with their infants' future and best
interests in mind, everyone involved benefits from that decision."

— Chuck Johnson, vice president and COO,National Council For Adoption
kat - 29 Dec 2008 22:44 GMT
Top post.
Caylee murdered by *birth* mother. Huh ?
What the hell is he talking about? Caylee was murdered by her mother.

Yeah that was my first thought too.  He's an old coot though ;) so I figured
his frame of reference was probably a little 'dated'.  What is distrurbing
to me is that he was able to adopt at all given his age.  Guess that's what
money (his) and connections (his wife's agency) will get you!

Kathy

The qualifier was totally unnecessary.
Unless, of course, the message people are *really* meant to take away
is  "Birth mother, bad mother: Her story of unfathomable damnation."
Oh dear.

http://blogs.usatoday.com/oped/2008/12/little-caylees.html

Little Caylee's legacy: 'No Child Unwanted'
Plain Talk By Al Neuharth, USA TODAY Founder

This special Christmas week for children was saddened by news that the
remains of missing 3-year-old Caylee Anthony were found in the woods
near her Orlando home. Her birth mother, 22-year-old Casey Anthony, is
in jail, charged with murdering her little girl.

The months-long mystery of what happened to Caylee should help us
focus on these two prime human problems in our society:

• Unwanted children by women who get pregnant by mistake.

• Wanted children by women who can't get pregnant.

The best answer for both groups is adoption.

My wife, Rachel, and I adopted six racially diverse children chosen at
their birth Alexis, now 17; Karina, 12; twins Andre and Ariana, 10;
and twins Ali and Rafi, 8.

Those blessings were made possible because Dr. Rachel founded a not-
for-profit adoption agency, Home At Last (HAL) in Cocoa Beach, Fla.
She has developed a network of schools, churches, doctors and
hospitals that brings unwanted pregnancies to her attention. Through
HAL, those birth mothers are given educational, financial, legal and
medical help.

HAL has placed many dozens of children with eager parents from Florida
to New York to California and in between.

When Caylee's birth mother decided she didn't want or couldn't care
for her baby, state and/or federal help should have been readily
available for aid in adoption. Unfortunately, it wasn't and isn't.

Our government has addressed education problems for children,
including President Bush's No Child Left Behind plan.

President Obama should prioritize a "No Child Left Unwanted" program
to encourage and support adoptions. It might be one of the most humane
of his ambitious Health and Human Services plans.

Other views on adoption

"If pregnant women who cannot or do not want to raise a child could
view the adoption process as practiced by HAL, then Mr. Neuharth's
Christmas wish would be answered and no children would go unwanted."

— Don and Therese DeMarco of New York, parents of an infant recently
adopted through HAL

"Adoption is a responsible choice to an unintended pregnancy. When
birthmothers choose adoption with their infants' future and best
interests in mind, everyone involved benefits from that decision."

— Chuck Johnson, vice president and COO,National Council For Adoption
kippaherring@hotmail.com - 29 Dec 2008 23:33 GMT
> <kippaherr...@hotmail.com> wrote in message
>
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> Yeah that was my first thought too.  He's an old coot though ;) so I figured
> his frame of reference was probably a little 'dated'.

Yes indeed. I didn't realise he was so ancient. Born 1924 - that
qualifies as serious cootiness.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Allen_Neuharth
And, according to Wikipedia, he "fathered an out-of-wedlock daughter,
Rosamunda Neuharth-Ozgo, but never acknowledged her."
Lovely.

>  What is distrurbing
> to me is that he was able to adopt at all given his age.  Guess that's what
> money (his) and connections (his wife's agency) will get you!

Gack.

> Kathy
>
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>
> — Chuck Johnson, vice president and COO,National Council For Adoption
kat - 29 Dec 2008 23:47 GMT
On Dec 29, 5:48 pm, "kat" <katla...@hotmail.com> wrote:
> <kippaherr...@hotmail.com> wrote in message
>
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>
> Yeah that was my first thought too. He's an old coot though ;) so I
figured
> his frame of reference was probably a little 'dated'.

Yes indeed. I didn't realise he was so ancient. Born 1924 - that
qualifies as serious cootiness.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Allen_Neuharth
And, according to Wikipedia, he "fathered an out-of-wedlock daughter,
Rosamunda Neuharth-Ozgo, but never acknowledged her."
Lovely.

Nice. I didn't know that. It puts a lot of what he writes about adoption in
a different  light, imo.

Kathy

> What is distrurbing
> to me is that he was able to adopt at all given his age. Guess that's what
> money (his) and connections (his wife's agency) will get you!

Gack.

> Kathy
>
[quoted text clipped - 61 lines]
>
> — Chuck Johnson, vice president and COO,National Council For Adoption
kippaherring@hotmail.com - 30 Dec 2008 00:41 GMT
> <kippaherr...@hotmail.com> wrote in message
>
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> Nice. I didn't know that. It puts a lot of what he writes about adoption in
> a different  light, imo.

It really does, doesn't it? One lives and learns.
Get this. Third post down, by Rosamunda Neuharth-Ozgo herself
http://www.bloggernews.net/115358
Marley - 30 Dec 2008 09:24 GMT
That was exactly my thought, too.  I just put up a blog about it:
Note to Al Neuharth:  Casey Anthony is not a "birth mother" or why
language counts

http://bastardette.blogspot.com

Marley

On Dec 29, 2:34 pm, kippaherr...@hotmail.com wrote:
> Top post.
> Caylee murdered by *birth* mother. Huh ?
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
> http://blogs.usatoday.com/oped/2008/12/little-caylees.html
kippaherring@hotmail.com - 30 Dec 2008 12:56 GMT
> That was exactly my thought, too.  I just put up a blog about it:
> Note to Al Neuharth:  Casey Anthony is not a "birth mother" or why
> language counts
>
> http://bastardette.blogspot.com

If the below is true, which it sounds as if it may very well be, I
wonder what term he would use to describe his own relationship to
Rosamunda Neuharth-Ozg. "Birth father"?
She calls him a hypocrite
http://www.nypost.com/seven/04072008/gossip/pagesix/squabble_over_media_exhibit_
105337.htm


SQUABBLE OVER MEDIA EXHIBIT
April 7, 2008 --

THE brass in charge of the new $450 million Newseum - a Washington-
based exhibit dedicated to the freedom of the press - are a big bunch
of hypocrites who actually squash the rights of the media. That's the
charge by Rosamunda Neuharth-Ozgo, who claims she's the love child of
USA Today founder Al Neuharth, creator of the Freedom Forum, which
funded the Newseum. Neuharth, she said, has never admitted he's her
dad, even though he sent her $100 a month until she turned 21 and his
name is on her birth certificate. "To me, the story is about the
hypocrisy of Al Neuharth and the Freedom Forum. They make a mockery of
the principles they claim they want to uphold," Ozgo told The Post's
Keith Kelly, adding that the Freedom Forum once killed a bio of
Neuharth because it was to contain word that he fathered an out-of-
wedlock daughter and shut her out of his life. "They are supposed to
be promoting journalistic integrity, but they suppress the news when
it doesn't suit their needs." A Newseum flack had no comment and
declined to put us on the phone with Neuharth.
 
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