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kippaherring@hotmail.com - 19 Apr 2009 03:05 GMT
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Father tries to cash in on daughter's fame
By Mazher Mahmood, 19/04/2009

Slumdog Millionaire star Rubina Ali's poverty-stricken dad tried to
blame Hollywood bosses for forcing him to put his daughter up for
sale.
As he tried to fix an illegal adoption deal with the News of the
World's undercover fake sheik this week, real-life slum dweller Rafiq
Qureshi declared: "We've got nothing out of this film."
Then, almost embarrassed to speak it out loud, Rafiq whispered to an
accomplice the price tag he has put on his innocent young daughter:
"It's £200,000!"
That was an astonishing FOURFOLD increase on his opening demand. But
Rafiq's equally demanding brother Mohiuddin insisted: "The child is
special now. This is NOT an ordinary child. This is an Oscar child!"

Dad Rafiq is desperate to cash in on their nine-year-old's success in
the blockbuster film by selling her to the highest bidder.
He sees it as his family's escape route from the notorious Bandra slum
sprawl of Mumbai.
Rafiq revealed his scheme to undercover News of the World reporters
posing as a wealthy family from Dubai.

We travelled to Mumbai to expose the illegal sale after a tip-off from
a concerned close family friend and former neighbour.
Shockingly, this sort of transaction is far from unusual in an
impoverished nation where human life comes cheap and children are
often treated as a commodity.

Rubina won the hearts of film-lovers around the world playing young
Latika in British director Danny Boyle's movie that picked up eight
Oscars and a pile of other glittering awards. It tells the rags to
riches story of a young man from the slums who wins the Indian version
of Who Wants To Be A Millionaire?
Filmed in Mumbai's seething pauper ghetto it depicts starkly true
scenes of poverty and child cruelty, where young orphans are blinded
and crippled by Fagin-like thugs and forced to beg on the streets. And
with a staggering 11 million children abandoned in India every year,
there is no shortage of young prey.
Our informant, now a city tour guide, told us: "Rubina's family are
furious that despite the film doing so well and their pretty daughter
becoming so famous, they are still living in such rough conditions.
"They were approached by one wealthy Middle Eastern family who saw
their plight in an item on Al Jazeera TV. The couple expressed an
interest in adopting young Rubina and her parents' eyes lit up.
"Dad Rafiq is streetwise and knows that soon his daughter's success
will be forgotten and her moment of fame will be over. He has a family
to feed and simply can't afford it. He is keen to find a rich family
to bring up Rubina but only if they are willing to help the whole
family to get out of the slums.
"The Middle East family were moved to tears by the plight of the young
orphans shown in the film and fell in love with Rubina.
"Just as Western stars like Madonna do, they want to adopt children
from poor areas and give them a better life.
"This family wanted to take Rubina abroad. They agreed to come to
Mumbai to discuss the adoption in May.
"But the approach has made Rafiq very greedy and he has said that he
will consider the highest offer for his child. But they realise that
the money will soon stop coming in and Rafiq is open to all offers."

Our investigator made contact with Rafiq and said we had heard he was
considering having Rubina adopted. He told Rafiq he was acting for a
wealthy Arab sheik who wanted to take the youngster to live with him
2,000 miles away in Dubai.
Rafiq replied: "Yes, we are considering Rubina's future. Why don't you
speak to my brother-in-law, Rajan and he will discuss it with you? I
will ask him to call you."
After contacting us, Rubina's uncle Rajan More- who speaks good
English- confirmed: "Yes, we are interested in securing our girl's
future.
"Rubina's life is miserable and she lives here with her stepmother.
Most of the time she stays with me because she is not happy at her
parents' home.
"Obviously if you wanted to adopt we could discuss this, but her
parents would also expect some proper compensation in return. We are
talking of around £50,000 for this to happen." In another phone call,
father Rafiq coolly confirmed: "Whatever you have discussed with
Rajan, I agree with. Whatever money is agreed by Rajan, I will accept.
"We can discuss everything about this deal when we meet. There's a lot
of interest in Rubina, she's become very famous."
Without querying the background, intentions, or even the names of
Rubina's prospective new parents, Rafiq arranged to meet us.
And as soon as we said the wealthy family lived in the United Arab
Emirates Rafiq suggested: "We would love to come there. I have never
been there but I have seen it in Indian films. It looks a great
place."

Trafficking of poor Indian children to the Middle East, where they are
forced to risk their lives as camel jockeys or subjected to sexual
abuse, is common in the Mumbai slums. But that did not deter Rafiq.
His first plan was to bring Rubina plus other relatives to visit us in
Dubai to discuss the deal. But he had to scrap the idea because he
could not get a passport. He is disqualified because he is facing
police charges over a knife attack.
That is why he did not accompany Rubina to the Oscars ceremony and her
Uncle Mohiuddin went instead.
Rafiq tried to shrug off the problem, claiming: "There is a case
against me but it's nothing. I'm trying to get it sorted now. In India
you can buy anything if you have money!"
His Plan B was the meeting in Mumbai fixed for Thursday evening. But
he arrived late with his little daughter at the luxurious Leela
Kempinski hotel at 11.35pm, when most children her age would be in
bed.
Also tagging along were trusted sidekick Rajan More, Rafiq's brother
Mohiuddin, a friend called Dinesh Dubey and two young nephews. "They
were all keen to see what the hotel looks like inside," explained
Rajan as he entered the £480-a-night suite.
Smiling broadly, Rubina, who was wearing a torn orange and white
Indian dress, looked around the room in amazement. She was proudly
clutching her new Nokia mobile phone, a gift from a well-wisher.
She said: "My house is as big as the toilet you have here. We live in
Gharib Nagar (Poor Man's Colony)."
As the young VIP ordered strawberry milk shake and ice-cream, dad
Rafiq proudly told how his daughter clinched the part in the
international blockbuster film.
"One of our neighbours where we live took her to the audition," he
said. "Around 1,500 kids turned up and my daughter passed. The film
took over a year to make and she worked on it for a month."
Slumdog has been a roaring success, raking in a staggering £185
million at box offices around the world.
But Rafiq, 36, again complained: "They haven't looked after us. They
gave some money at the start but they gave us nothing afterwards. They
gave us around 150,000 rupees (£2,040). They've been talking about
giving us a house, but all they do is talk." Rubina chipped in: "But I
did get toys. When we were filming in Juhu beach I got some crayons."
In fact Danny Boyle and producer Christian Colson have set up a trust
to ensure Rubina gets a proper education, is well housed and receives
support dealing with media attention.
It was reported that Rafiq had spent some of his daughter's film fees
on medical treatment to a leg he broke while working as a carpenter.
He also used her cash to buy a new mobile phone for himself so agents
can contact him to discuss work offers for his daughter. Rafiq has two
other children-Sana, aged 13 and six-year-old Abbass-as well as
another baby on the way by Rubina's stepmum Munni. Street-kid Rubina
is one of only a handful of youngsters who attend school in her
neighbourhood.
Rafiq added: "What they showed in the film is exactly how life is
here. The government doesn't help us. We get nothing.
"We live in one room, seven of us sleep on the floor. I earn £2 to £3
a day. I have to consider what's best for me, my family and Rubina's
future."
A fortnight ago Rubina and fellow child actor Azharuddin Ismail were
each given a £12,000 luxury apartment by Slumdog sound engineer Rasul
Pookutty. The property in Kerala, south India, was awarded to Rasul-
who himself escaped poverty-by the local council in honour of his
Oscar achievement.
But Rafiq dismissed the gesture, complaining: "We haven't got anything
yet, it's all supposed to come later. It's all talk. It's being built,
it'll take a year to be finished."
And Rafiq insisted he had no intention of moving to Kerala, even when
the apartment is complete.
"I won't move," he said. "I can never leave Mumbai. My childhood was
here, everything I know is here in Mumbai."
As Rafiq spoke, Rubina excitedly looked around the suite, giggling and
pointing out a large plasma TV on the wall to her 13-year-old cousin
Mohsin.
Then she spoke about her new-found stardom. "I like being famous," she
said. "Everyone where I live knows me and likes me now. Some people
who I don't even know shout my name wherever I go-'Rubina, Rubina'!"
She proudly told us how she had worked with the stars on Slumdog and
with "Uncle Danny (Boyle)".
When our female investigator, posing as a princess-the sheik's wealthy
wife -handed Rubina three boxes of chocolates, she was thrilled. She
shrieked with delight as we gave her a silver pendant.

Director Danny Boyle, Rubina Ali and Slumdog Millionaire co-star
"Can I stay in your bedroom?" asked the innocent youngster. "I've
never seen a bed like this in real life. I've seen one like it in
films though.
"Where we live there are all poor people. That's why the area is
called Poor Man's Colony. There are all small huts, sewers and
gutters, and sometimes the dirty water comes in the house. And there
are lots of creepy-crawlies. I'm scared of spiders and mosquitoes. Our
house is very small. We sleep on the floor."
As Rubina jumped on the bed and played with the TV remote, her cousins
tucked into a bowl of fruit and ice-cream.
Flicking through the channels, Rubina said: "Our TV is clapped out. It
hardly works. The sound keeps going, especially when my favourite
songs are on."
Excitedly she added: "I'm going to be in a TV advert with a famous
English actress soon!" In fact, she recently finished filming a soft
drink commercial with Australian star Nicole Kidman. It was shot in
India and Rafiq pocketed £2,000 for Rubina's performance.
Rubina was completely unaware she had been brought to the hotel by the
men she trusted, those who should love and protect her, to discuss her
SALE. We made certain throughout that Rubina did not know she was
being offered for adoption in return for cash.
Rubina believed that she was merely at the hotel to meet a wealthy
movie fan who wanted to present her with chocolates.
As midnight passed, our undercover reporter pointed out to Rafiq that
it would be a good idea to take his youngster home to bed. Together
with his entourage, Rafiq eventually left just before 1am.
"We can talk other matters tomorrow," said Rafiq, as he arranged to
return to our suite to discuss business. He then asked for 1,000
Rupees (£13) to cover his cab fare back to the slums.
As Rubina left she asked our man: "Uncle, can I come here again as
well? Please, please!"
On the way out Uncle Rajan, a burly man in his fifties with his hair
and moustache dyed jet black, also had a request.
He pulled our reporter to one side and said: "Besides Rubina, if you
are interested in having a young boy then I can arrange that. There
are several available for adoption. Obviously you won't have to pay
anything like the money for Rubina. Have a think and let me know then
I can arrange for you to meet the children and choose the one you
prefer."

Although illegal, India's sickening baby trade is widespread. Last
year we revealed how a local social worker was exploiting dirt poor
families and selling their kids for £1,500 a time. She even lined up a
poverty-stricken mother willing to sell her unborn child for just
£1,000.
On Friday, yet more of Rubina's family, friends and even a neighbour's
kid joined the outing from the slums to the Leela hotel to meet our
reporters.
This time the 13-strong party included Rubina's 28-year old stepmum
Munni Qureshi, who is three months' pregnant. Staff at the plush hotel
looked on bemused as the kids began staging races along the corridor
and lobby.
Meanwhile, Rafiq, Rajan and Mohiuddin headed to our suite to talk
business. Rubina, in white blouse and jeans, sat next to her dad and
Uncle Rajan on the cream sofa, still unaware her fate was being
decided by them.
To save her discovering the truth our man suggested she go next door
and play with "the princess"-our female investigator.
Then the men, got straight down to business. "Let's talk openly,"
urged Rajan. Our reporter said his boss the sheik was willing to adopt
Rubina and take her to Dubai and asked the men what their demands
were.
Rajan explained that no deal could go ahead for a few weeks because
the family have been promised a house by the Indian government. If
Rubina went abroad they would lose the house.
The governing Indian Congress Party president Sonia Gandhi-currently
campaigning for the general elections later this month-has vowed to
help them find a home.
Calculating Rajan explained: "Rafiq is about to get a property which
will be in his name after Rubina is 18, so it'll take a bit of time.
The other thing is about the amount. He wants to tell you. Listen to
him." Rafiq looked visibly uncomfortable and returned to the theme of
the free government house.
"We need time, until after the elections," he insisted. "We need two
or three months."
Again Rajan chipped in: "You have to give time. . . you have to wait.
Until then we can negotiate the amount. We'll come to Dubai, the girl
will come and go."
Rafiq said he too would be able to get his hands on a passport but
only if we paid Rajan 35,000 rupees (£475) to bribe an official.
"It'll be ready in eight days," said Rajan.
After all the extra demands our man asked about the final price for
the adoption. And that's when they upped their demand over FOUR-FOLD.
"Just tell them," said Rajan. Coyly Rafiq insisted: "You say it." Then
Rajan said: "Whisper in my ear!"
Eventually Rajan announced: "It's 20 million rupees, £200,000." (In
fact 20 million rupees is £270,000, but their calculations were
wrong.)
When reminded that this deal was illegal, Rajan promised: "This
discussion will not go beyond the three of us." Asked if Rubina's
birth mother Khursheed might object and interfere, Rafiq insisted he
had divorced her seven years ago and that she had no rights on the
child.
"It's nothing to do with her," he said. And brother Rajan chimed in:
"She's nothing! It's over!"
In fact Rafiq's family have been involved in a bitter row with
Khursheed, who walked out on Rafiq when Rubina was just four. She
showed up in the slums to reclaim her daughter on her return from the
Oscar ceremony in February.
Rafiq and Khursheed had to be pulled apart after brawling. Khursheed
also had a catfight with new wife Munni. Rubina has had little contact
with her real mum.

When our man asked Rafiq if he had any questions about the proposed
adoption he said calmly: "No, there's nothing more to say."
With the deal seemingly struck the party headed down to the imposing
hotel lobby, decorated with a huge chandelier, for a buffet lunch.
Two of Rubina's pals were larking about doing headstands in the lobby
as Rubina slid along the shiny marble floor to the restaurant. "Come
on, everybody follow me!" she shouted. "We're having dinner here. I'll
tell you what to do!"
The party-all in the dark about the deal except the dad and two uncles-
were escorted to a long dining table in the lavish restaurant.
Stepmum Munni, wearing a white sari, sat with her feet up on the chair
until her husband told her to sit properly. Then they all raced to the
buffet, piling their plates high with food-a change from their usual
diet of cheap rice and lentils.
"We can eat anything we like here," said Rubina excitedly.
After several main courses the party descended on the desserts,
washing it all down with glasses of mango juice-each one costing more
than Rafiq earns in a day.
Delighted Rubina grabbed our man by his arm and told him: "You are the
best uncle ever!"
Touchingly she then took photos of everything from the food to the
hotel armchairs on her mobile phone, to remind herself of her big day
out. "This hotel is like the big ones in America," she said. "One day
can I stay in an hotel like this?"

But after dinner it was back to reality. The group clambered into two
people-carriers to be ferried back to the slums.
On Friday evening Rajan met our undercover reporter again-to escort
him to another shanty town to tout two MORE children for sale.
In the coastal Mumbai suburb of Madh Island, an hour's drive from
Rubina's home, several thousand people live in a similar sprawling
slum. Rajan led our man thorough the dirty narrow streets to another
single room shack where decorator Akbar Khan lives with his wife and
four children. There was just one straw bed in the cramped room.
"Look at the pretty girl over there and see if you think she is
suitable," whispered Rajan as he pointed to a nervous 10-year old
called Rukhsar.
"This family want to have their daughter adopted. They have three
girls and a son and cannot survive on their income. Take a photo to
see if the sheik likes the look of her."
Outside in the rubbish-filled alley soft-spoken dad Akbar begged:
"Please consider my daughter for adoption. We are poor people and want
her to have a better future."
Later conniving Rajan added: "I can let you have their girl, or you
can take their seven-year old boy. These people are desperately hard-
up and will take less money."
Last night Rajan phoned us and demanded: "Have you decided which child
you want besides Rubina? If you want these kids we have to get moving
straight away."

The News of the World yesterday contacted Save The Children, a charity
with a strong presence in Mumbai, to seek their help with Rubina's
case.
Director of Campaigns Adrian Lovett said: "Save the Children pays
tribute to the News of the World for highlighting this awful reality.
We will do all we can to help Rubina.
"The Indian government must sign up to the International Labour
Organisation's convention for abolishing the worst forms of child
labour and trafficking."

The makers of Slumdog Millionaire have announced they are to donate
£500,000 to improve the lives of children like Rubina living in the
slums.
Oscar-winning director Danny Boyle said: "Having benefited so much
from the hospitality of the people of Mumbai it is only right that
some of the success of the movie be ploughed back into the city in
areas where it is needed most."
The money will go to development charity Plan. "Despite intimidating
odds, extraordinary work is going on to help people break the cycle of
poverty through education. We're delighted that this initiative will
add to that ongoing work," said Danny.
------------------------------------------------------------

Kids are as easy to buy as Pot Noodles
By Adrian Lovett, Save the Children's director of campaigns

IT'S a tragic fact that buying a child in India is almost as easy as
buying a Pot Noodle from your local corner shop.

India is still a poor country where millions of babies are born and
raised in stinking slums. What flashed before us in Slumdog
Millionaire wasn't made up for dramatic effect-that is the reality.
The misery and horror doesn't end when the credits roll.

It's easy for us here to condemn parents willing to sell their kids.

And let's be clear, Save the Children does not condone it. It is
wrong. But when you're poor- and I mean bare-footed, torn-clothed and
so hungry you can't sleep-cash is a currency of life and death.

When a child gets a tummy upset here it's no more than an
inconvenience. In an Indian slum it can mean death from dehydration.
No wonder some parents sometimes decide to give up, or even sell a
child.

In a world of poverty and pain it can seem the least bad choice. But
it is wrong and it is illegal. These  children can end up all over the
world as sweat shop slaves or even prostitutes.

Ultimately we have to face this simple fact-it is poverty that drives
people to desperate measures. If we want to see an end to this awful
trade we must all do our bit to tackle it, make poverty history in
India and across the world-and make a new life for millions of
children.

For more information or to campaign with Save the Children see
savethechildren.org.uk
rkb - 19 Apr 2009 10:39 GMT
How terribly sad. And yet entirely plausible.

On a slightly different note...
A problem we saw time and time again in India - particularly among the
poor - is the men's sense of entitlement to the women in their
families. Anything given to a woman is liable to be taken by the men,
with complete confidence that it's theirs for the taking. And children
are entirely at their father's disposal; under both Hindu and Muslim
law, a father has much stronger rights than the mother has.

So it doesn't surprise me that Rubina's father is trying to cash in on
his daughter.

On Apr 18, 7:05 pm, kippaherr...@hotmail.com wrote:
> http://www.newsoftheworld.co.uk/news/271325/Slumdog-Millionaire-star-...
>
[quoted text clipped - 374 lines]
> For more information or to campaign with Save the Children see
> savethechildren.org.uk
kippaherring@hotmail.com - 19 Apr 2009 15:38 GMT
Well, he's denying the allegations.
How very sad, Rupa, when women and children are regarded as little
more than chattels by their men :-(

http://www.indianexpress.com/news/slumdog-child-star-for-sale-father-denies/448797/
Sunday , Apr 19, 2009
London/Mumbai:

The father of 'Slumdog Millionaire' actress Rubina Ali Qureshi
allegedly tried to sell her for 200,000 pounds for adoption, a sting
operation by a British tabloid has revealed but he has refuted the
claim.

The 'News of The World' today claimed that Rafiq had tried to sell
nine-year-old Rubina to their reporters, who were posing as the agents
of a wealthy Arab Sheikh keen on adopting the famous child during a
sting operation last week.

The newspaper has published the photographs of Rubina and her father
alongwith their reporters and also posted a video of the sting
operation titled "Oscar Girl For Sale" on their website.

But Rubina's father Rafiq Qureshi has denied their claim saying it was
a conspiracy to "malign" him.

"They said that Sheikh's wife wanted to adopt Rubina but I said, 'I
can't give away my child'. They called me again the next day and
talked in English. I could not understand but said yes to whatever
they said. I never knew it would create such a controversy," Rubina's
father said about the meeting.

"I will never sell Rubina. All these allegations are false. It is a
conspiracy to malign my reputation. The voice in the video is not
mine," Rafiq claimed.

Rubina's stepmother Munni reiterated her husband's statement saying,
"An Arab lady had approached us to adopt Rubina but her father told
her that she could come and meet the child but we will not give her
up."

> How terribly sad. And yet entirely plausible.
>
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> So it doesn't surprise me that Rubina's father is trying to cash in on
> his daughter.
rkb - 19 Apr 2009 18:25 GMT
As he must do, of course.
What other option has he?

On Apr 19, 7:38 am, kippaherr...@hotmail.com wrote:
> Well, he's denying the allegations.
kippaherring@hotmail.com - 19 Apr 2009 19:27 GMT
> As he must do, of course.
> What other option has he?

None.
It just doesn't cut the mustard.  I bet it doesn't cut it for Rubina's
mother either, who, according to this report
http://www.thaindian.com/newsportal/entertainment/slumdog-star-rubinas-mom-drags
-her-ex-husband-to-police_100181826.html

lodged a complaint with the police. I hope they don't turn a blind
eye.
I doubt the NOTW, greasy scandal-mongering tabloid though it is, have
their facts wrong.
The tabs are generally pretty careful about stuff like that, and this
sounds like it was a pretty thorough sting operation.
rkb - 22 Apr 2009 10:01 GMT
On Apr 19, 11:27 am, kippaherr...@hotmail.com wrote:

> > As he must do, of course.
> > What other option has he?
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> The tabs are generally pretty careful about stuff like that, and this
> sounds like it was a pretty thorough sting operation.

The latest is that he's been arrested.
kippaherring@hotmail.com - 22 Apr 2009 22:25 GMT
> The latest is that he's been arrested.

And the latest latest that he will not be charged because of lack of
evidence.
http://artsbeat.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/04/22/no-charges-for-father-of-slumdog-mi
llionaire-actor/

rkb - 23 Apr 2009 03:56 GMT
On Apr 22, 2:25 pm, kippaherr...@hotmail.com wrote:

> > The latest is that he's been arrested.
>
> And the latest latest that he will not be charged because of lack of
> evidence.http://artsbeat.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/04/22/no-charges-for-father-of...

Urgh. Oh well, one can only hope that with the spotlight on him, he'll
be a decent father. And it might force the government's hand, too, to
provide an apartment for these people. Though it sounded as though he
could hardly wait to lay hands on that apartment, too.
 
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