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Concurrent planning: Coram's instant adoption plan helps to keep     babies out of care system

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Little Snowdrop - 02 Nov 2009 01:00 GMT
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/families/article6898675.ece

From The Times
November 2, 2009
Coram's instant adoption plan helps to keep babies out of care system

Rosemary Bennett , Social Affairs Correspondent
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A new type of adoption that allows babies to live with their
prospective new parents within days of birth has been developed by a
charity to stop young children spending years in the care system.

The scheme, known as concurrent planning, runs for up to one year,
during which the baby is cared for by the adoptive family while the
natural mother is given a chance to turn her life around and show she
could look after the child.

Unusually, the prospective adoptive parents agree regularly to bring
the baby to see the mother up to five times a week so that the
relationship can be maintained.

The charity offers the mother intensive support during this time to
give her the best possible chance to sort out her problems. At the end
of the year, if social workers judge she still poses a risk to the
child, the adoption goes ahead immediately.

Conventional adoption can take more than two years to complete, during
which time the baby may end up living with a series of foster families
or members of its extended family. There is usually minimal, if any,
contact between an adoptive family and the natural parents.

Concurrent planning, which costs £35,000, is also considerably cheaper
for local authorities than normal adoption, saving the costs of foster
care which, for young babies, can be £60,000 a year.

The new model has been pioneered by Coram, the children’s charity
founded by Thomas Coram, who created the London Foundling Hospital in
1742. Coram developed the model to speed up the process of adoption
and prevent very young babies from being moved around while decisions
are made about their future. The latest research on emotional
development suggests that babies have to “attach” to their primary
carer and suffer deep emotional trauma if moved around. Only a very
small proportion of the babies in the scheme have gone back to their
natural parents.

Coram has been piloting the scheme with four London local authorities
for several years and overseen about 50 successful placements. It is
most commonly used where the natural mother is a drug addict whose
behaviour during pregnancy suggests the child will have to be taken
into care from birth or shortly afterwards.

However, the charity is frustrated that, despite the enormous benefits
for the baby, most local authorities are still sticking to old
methods.

Jeanne Kaniuk, head of adoption at Coram, believes there are so many
advantages it should be taken up by all children’s services
departments. She said: “It is crazy that there are not more local
authorities using concurrent planning. It is a great system for
parents who want to adopt a baby, although obviously they carry all
the risk and have to be quite courageous.

“It is very sympathetic to the birth parents, who are given help and
support and every chance to show they can care for their baby. It
speeds up the process and a decision is made early. And, of course, it
is good for the baby.”

Ms Kanuik thinks there are several key reasons why the model has not
been take up more widely. It is complicated idea and social workers in
a busy local authority are often fire-fighting, doing everything in a
rush, such as considering care proceedings, finding foster carers or
finding a place at a mother and baby unit. Budgets are also made up of
different pots of money which, in some councils, works against
concurrent planning.

“There is also often a fear that some solicitors representing birth
parents will fight it very hard in the belief their clients are not
getting a fair deal,” Ms Kanuik said. “But the baby’s welfare should
be paramount and concurrent planning is a fair offer to both adoptive
parents and birth parents.”

Coram is hosting a conference in London today to help to explain how
concurrent planning works.
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http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/families/article6898619.ece

From The Times
November 2, 2009
Coram adoption process was stressful, but the result wonderful
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Claire and Eddie Fox were approved four years ago for one of the early
concurrent planning adoptions run by Coram. They recall that one of
the most difficult experiences was organising the contact with the
birth mother while trying to settle the three-month-old boy into their
home.

“We had contact once a week for two hours, which I know is not a lot
compared to some arrangements. Even so, getting him ready and driving
across London for two hours seemed an enormous undertaking. We could
manage it because we both work freelance, but I can see how for many
couples it could be very tricky,” Mrs Fox said.

“His birth mother was in prison so visits were not easy. She was not
allowed to get up off her chair and her hands had to be visible the
whole time because of rules on drug trafficking, so that was difficult
when he became unsettled and needed to be moved around.

"I was not allowed to bring in nappies to the visiting room, so if he
needed changing that was the end of the visit, by the time I got out
of the room, changed him, was searched and allowed back in. But
despite all that she was just great with him, very comfortable and
knowing what to do. She had other children. And we got on really well.
She was feisty and funny. She had a great sense of humour.”

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After seven months a decision was taken that the birth mother would
not be in a position to care for her child and a final visit was
arranged. Mrs Fox remembers it as a harrowing experience.

“I was trying to stay in the background. But he started to get tired
and sought me out. His birth mother said, ‘He’s saying Mummy but he’s
not saying it to me’. It was very upsetting for her, but I think in a
way she was giving me permission to be his mother, acknowledging what
was going to happen, and that was very important for me.”

Her son is 4 now and thriving. “We see his maternal grandfather and
siblings once or twice a year. I hear about how his mother is doing
and it’s pretty clear she could not have made this work. She is back
in prison, sadly. Looking back it was very stressful, taking a small
baby across London. And there was always the underlying layer of
anxiety that something would happen and we would not get to adopt him
in the end. But overall it has been wonderful. And he is getting more
wonderful all the time”
 
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