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1 Year Old Keeps Falling Down

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Carol Ann - 25 Apr 2005 19:08 GMT
I just can't believe it!!!  Morgan fell down today and scraped up her nose,
lip and forehead.  She was not even walking fast.

Last week 3 times in one day she fell and bumped her noggin.

I feel like a horrible mother!

~Carol Ann
Sue - 25 Apr 2005 19:14 GMT
Don't feel like a horrible mother. It's gonna happen and lots more in the
next few years. :o)
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Sue (mom to three girls)

> I just can't believe it!!!  Morgan fell down today and scraped up her nose,
> lip and forehead.  She was not even walking fast.
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>
> ~Carol Ann
The Watsons - 25 Apr 2005 19:30 GMT
>I just can't believe it!!!  Morgan fell down today and scraped up her nose,
>lip and forehead.  She was not even walking fast.
>
> Last week 3 times in one day she fell and bumped her noggin.
>
> I feel like a horrible mother!

Don't feel bad-this is the Age of Bump. Sproglette had various gooseeggs or
light bruises when she first month-ish started crawling because she'd take
off and overshoot-right into wall, table, door, bookcase....

Jess
zeldabee - 25 Apr 2005 23:12 GMT
> I just can't believe it!!!  Morgan fell down today and scraped up her
> nose, lip and forehead.  She was not even walking fast.
>
> Last week 3 times in one day she fell and bumped her noggin.
>
> I feel like a horrible mother!

Happens all the time. Welcome to the Horrible Mother Club. ;o)

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Auntie Bubbles - 26 Apr 2005 05:41 GMT
>I just can't believe it!!!  Morgan fell down today and scraped up her nose,
>lip and forehead.  She was not even walking fast.
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>
> ~Carol Ann

Yikes!  Mike's getting ready to put me in that group!  He already crawls
full tilt with his head down, not caring if he's about to bump into
something!
Cheers,
Alexis
Jake Mysterio - 26 Apr 2005 13:38 GMT
Within one week Sean who at the time was 15months old had to have stitches
in his head had two other lumps on his head and chiped his front tooth which
also killed the nerve in the tooth next to it. I was waiting for a visit
from childrens services!!!!

Cheri
Mum to Sean and Jasmine
#3 due June
>I just can't believe it!!!  Morgan fell down today and scraped up her nose,
>lip and forehead.  She was not even walking fast.
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>
> ~Carol Ann
Sue - 26 Apr 2005 14:39 GMT
> Within one week Sean who at the time was 15months old had to have stitches
> in his head had two other lumps on his head and chiped his front tooth which
> also killed the nerve in the tooth next to it. I was waiting for a visit
> from childrens services!!!!

You don't have to worry. Most doctors can tell abuse from normal childhood
accidents. Bruises on the shins of the legs and head traumas are all within
normal limits. No one would have questioned you. The injury would have to be
located in a not so normal spot for anyone to raise an eyebrow.
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Sue (mom to three girls)

hobbes - 26 Apr 2005 19:07 GMT
> You don't have to worry. Most doctors can tell abuse from normal childhood
> accidents. Bruises on the shins of the legs and head traumas are all within
> normal limits. No one would have questioned you. The injury would have to be
> located in a not so normal spot for anyone to raise an eyebrow.

Right. In fact, one of my friends was once told by her doctor that a child
of that age with NO bruises, scrapes, etc. actually raises red flags. Makes
them wonder if they're meeting milestones appropriately. You can't learn how
to walk and run and jump without having a few falls. Just a part of life.
It's agonizing when it seems like they always land on their heads, but I'm
always amazed at how few of them really sustain any major injury.

--
Jodi
SAHM to Oliver (4 years)
and Arwen (2 years)
zeldabee - 27 Apr 2005 03:53 GMT
> [...] It's agonizing when it seems like they always land on
> their heads, but I'm always amazed at how few of them really sustain any
> major injury.

*sigh* Lately, Sprogly has been flopping off chairs or the couch onto his
head. He's doing this deliberately, and it's driving me nuts. We'll be
sitting on the couch, and he'll just slide backwards off the arm, and
thump! on the floor. Last night I had friends over for dinner, and he
"fell" backwards off a dining room chair. They both screamed, and he got up
smiling.

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Carol Ann - 27 Apr 2005 16:44 GMT
>> [...] It's agonizing when it seems like they always land on
>> their heads, but I'm always amazed at how few of them really sustain any
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> up
> smiling.

That's hysterical!  Morgan has this thing about flinging herself backwards
as if she wants to do a backhandspring.  Scares me to death!

She also likes to stand on her head???  I think I've aged a good 10 years
over the last few months.

~Carol Ann
Carol Ann - 27 Apr 2005 16:43 GMT
> Within one week Sean who at the time was 15months old had to have stitches
> in his head had two other lumps on his head and chiped his front tooth
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> Mum to Sean and Jasmine
> #3 due June

Oh my goodness!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Poor mum AND baby!!

~Carol Ann
T Flynn - 26 Apr 2005 14:43 GMT
> I just can't believe it!!!  Morgan fell down today and scraped up her nose,
> lip and forehead.  She was not even walking fast.
>
> Last week 3 times in one day she fell and bumped her noggin.
>
> I feel like a horrible mother!

No, you're a GOOD mom. Horrible moms' kids have really horrible accidents
because their moms don't make the spaces safe at all, and not great at all
moms hover around their kids, don't let them walk around, wrap the kid in
bubble wrap...

You're fine. Your sunshine is just past the "hey, if I move my feet I can
WALK" phase to the "hey, what's that over there?" phase :^).  
Sue - 26 Apr 2005 17:03 GMT
"T Flynn" <terri@uwm.edu> wrote in message
>Horrible moms' kids have really horrible accidents
> because their moms don't make the spaces safe at all,

That's not true either. There are some really good moms whose kids have had
horrible accidents. Stuff happens to good people too.
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PattyMomVA - 26 Apr 2005 17:39 GMT
"Carol Ann" <lowcarber@mindspring.com> wrote and I snipped:
>I just can't believe it!!!  Morgan fell down today and scraped up her nose,
>lip and forehead.  She was not even walking fast.
>
> Last week 3 times in one day she fell and bumped her noggin.
>
> I feel like a horrible mother!

How does your toddler falling over when she's just learned to walk translate
into you being anything?  Sounds like you're giving yourself entirely too
much credit/responsibility.  Unless there's something going on like
inappropriate clothing, shoes that are too big, uneven floors criss-crossed
by debris.  Is that it?

-Patty, mom of 1+2
Carol Ann - 27 Apr 2005 16:46 GMT
>> I just can't believe it!!!  Morgan fell down today and scraped up her
>> nose,
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>
> -Patty, mom of 1+2

No, I guess that I feel that I should anticipate a fall like that.  But, I
swear, she was standing there....then suddenly, she tried to take a step and
fell.  ARGH~!!!

I wondered whether I should not let her walk on the pavement.  Perhaps
that's it.  She should not walk on anything that can cause her this type of
pain.

Grass is okay, rugs, tile....but the pavement is a no no.  Lesson learned.

I still think a helmet is in order!  LOL!

~Carol Ann
Sue - 27 Apr 2005 20:40 GMT
"Carol Ann" <lowcarber@mindspring.com> wrote in message
> I wondered whether I should not let her walk on the pavement.  Perhaps
> that's it.  She should not walk on anything that can cause her this type of
> pain.
>
> Grass is okay, rugs, tile....but the pavement is a no no.  Lesson learned.

If you never let her walk on pavement, how is she going to get used to it?
Sorry, doesn't sound like a good idea to me.
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eliz_reid@yahoo.com - 27 Apr 2005 02:54 GMT
> I just can't believe it!!!  Morgan fell down today and scraped up her nose,
> lip and forehead.  She was not even walking fast.
>
> Last week 3 times in one day she fell and bumped her noggin.
>
> I feel like a horrible mother!

Your subject line is sort of funny.  1 Year Old Keeps Falling Down
sounds like it belongs as a headline in the Herald-Obvious, along with
Water Found To Be Wet, Hamburgers Better Food Than Rocks Say Experts,
and Breaking News! Wednesday Follows Tuesday!

Anyway, my son has very fair skin and a giant head with a big pale
forehead, and when he was in the always-falling-down phase he always
had at least one big bruise clearly visible.  I got into a conversation
during that period with a mom at the mall who was carrying her son and
not letting him move around, and she said, "I'm afraid if I let him
down to try to walk he'll look like THAT!" <points to my son>.  I
wanted to say, "Well, yeah, lady, probably, but you're going to have to
put him down eventually, and a one-year-old looks a lot more normal
with some falling-down bruises than a sixteen-year-old does!"

And that's not even talking about the time a little later in life he
decided to find out what it was like to run with your eyes closed, and
before I could grab him ran straight into a tree.

Beth
Marie - 27 Apr 2005 03:23 GMT
>And that's not even talking about the time a little later in life he
>decided to find out what it was like to run with your eyes closed, and
>before I could grab him ran straight into a tree.

That is cute! How old was he?
My oldest daughter was dared by a younger sister to *ride her bike
with her eyes closed*. Really smart! Of course she rode it right into
our car (parked in the driveway). This child will do anything you dare
her to, she's loads of fun (really she is). She was 8 or 9 when she
did that, so old enough to know better. I sometimes wonder what the
heck kids are thinking sometimes. Or aren't they.
Marie
eliz_reid@yahoo.com - 27 Apr 2005 16:15 GMT
> >And that's not even talking about the time a little later in life he
> >decided to find out what it was like to run with your eyes closed, and
> >before I could grab him ran straight into a tree.
>
> That is cute! How old was he?

Not that much older, about 2 maybe.  He was throwing dirt up in the air
over his head, which was fine with me in terms of the mess, but I was
afraid he was going to get it in his eyes.  I told him to close his
eyes so he didn't get dirt in them, but I neglected the all-important
followup instruction, "...and then open them again before you try to
run anywhere!"

> My oldest daughter was dared by a younger sister to *ride her bike
> with her eyes closed*. Really smart! Of course she rode it right into
> our car (parked in the driveway). This child will do anything you dare
> her to, she's loads of fun (really she is). She was 8 or 9 when she
> did that, so old enough to know better. I sometimes wonder what the
> heck kids are thinking sometimes. Or aren't they.

It is sometimes a wonder that any of us survive to have children of our
own!

Beth
Carol Ann - 27 Apr 2005 16:47 GMT
> And that's not even talking about the time a little later in life he
> decided to find out what it was like to run with your eyes closed, and
> before I could grab him ran straight into a tree.
>
> Beth
=
LOL!!!!!

You are so funny.  

~Carol Ann
 
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