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Family Forum / Parenting / Parenting / July 2004HELP! Women in my pocket!!
Finally, I've found a forum of men who support my opinions about women taking responsibility for chosing to have kids. I've just been summonsed by Dept of Human Resource Management to appear in court for child support. I'll tell you a little about my story. I was in a marriage 10 years ago. I struggled with drinking and during that time, had an extramarital affair. As a result, my wife left me. This woman got pregnant (twins) and is now trying to get child support from me. I have 4 kids by my ex-wife. Whenever I am employed, I send my ex wife what I can to help. I disagree with child support for the mistress (Ms. Stress) because she knew I was married and CHOSE to have those kids so SHE should take responsibility for them. She also knows I had 4 kids before her that I have to take care of. What I need to know is will my 4 kids be considered when the order for Ms. Stress is done and will I be requied to pay for her daughter she had by her dead husband? If my ex wife decides to sue, will my first order be considered? Also, will I be able to use the drinking problem as a way out of paying for Ms. Stess' kids? Alcoholism can be considered a disability, you know. I would appreciate a useful answer or advice. Thanks. Chris > Finally, I've found a forum of men who support my opinions about women > taking responsibility for chosing to have kids. I've just been summonsed [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > > I would appreciate a useful answer or advice. Thanks. You don't have a CS order for your ex's kids? The first CS order usually gets the biggest piece of the CS pie. Maybe you and your ex should go down and get a CS order in place before the inevitable happens with the mistress's kids. You did have a paternity test, right? I didn't have a paternity test for the last 2 but I am 100% sure they are mine because of a birth mark that nearly EVERYONE in my blood family has, a small patch of gray hair. They are 5 yrs old and one has the patch of gray hair just like my first 4 kids. My ex and I only have a separation agreement that says child support is reserved. My ex wife is the type to try to do this without my help and doesn't even want an order as long as I am helping her but Ms. Stress is the opposite. She doesn't make as much money as my ex and feels entitled to my help because she can't get out there and look for a better job or get some education. > Finally, I've found a forum of men who support my opinions about women > taking responsibility for chosing to have kids. I've just been summonsed [quoted text clipped - 16 lines] > > Chris Here is some quality advice for a man in your situation. Don't go cheap. http://www.bushmaster.com/shopping/weapons/lr-24v.asp  SignatureWhen did we divide into sides? "As president, I will put American government and our legal system back on the side of women." John Kerry, misandrist Democratic candidate for President. http://www.johnkerry.com/issues/women/ [Bob does not advocate any illegal, seditious, or immoral acts. All posts are for discussion, rhetorical, or humorous purposes only.] > > Finally, I've found a forum of men who support my opinions about women > > taking responsibility for chosing to have kids. I've just been summonsed [quoted text clipped - 20 lines] > > http://www.bushmaster.com/shopping/weapons/lr-24v.asp Nice piece! .223 just so happens to be my favorite caliber. I'd prefer something a little more messy. http://www.auroratactical.com/m600thermal.htm > > Finally, I've found a forum of men who support my opinions about women > > taking responsibility for chosing to have kids. I've just been summonsed [quoted text clipped - 20 lines] > > http://www.bushmaster.com/shopping/weapons/lr-24v.asp My advice, go underground----you are screwed----no way out for men!!!! be carefull some states can take your drivers licens away, even take your propety-your car and home . do not belive in hear say. Do research in your state law.Best of luck friend Here's some useful advise for the future...cover it up or pull it out. Abortion is not birth control. You said she chose to have the kids but you chose to get her pregnant by having raw sex. Anyone who knows how babies are made knows how NOT to make them. As far as answering your specific questions, I need to know in what state you live. I don't need your lecture, man. I already heard this from my father when all this happened. I'll tell you like I told him, If she can't support these kids, she needs to put them up for adoption or she should have aborted the pregancy. I can't take care of 6 kids, I'm only 1 person. Besides, she's on welfare anyway. She'll have to stay there until she can get a better job...bottom line. I barely have enough money for myself without this girl constantly looking for a handout. Those kids will be alright. I'm looking for advise to take to court with me. I'm in Alabama. > I'm looking for advise to take to court with me. I'm in Alabama. As was mentioned earlier, if you have a court order for child support for your first four children, the court will have to take that into account in determing the amount you owe for the next two. If you don't have a court order, the court does love to close it's eyes to reality and is likely to ignore the obligation you have to the first four. Which then means that the last two will get a disproportionate amount and you won't have much if any for the first four. Furter if the mother of the last two is on welfare, you can bet welfare will be down your throat. Also, once a number gets set it is extra difficult to get it lowered. As far as arguing alcoholism or her decision not to abort, you can argue whatever you want, but the court will only be bored and annoyed. I'm not a lawyer (thank god) just rather experienced as a result of 10 years of litigation. Don > > I'm looking for advise to take to court with me. I'm in Alabama. > [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > As far as arguing alcoholism or her decision not to abort, you can > argue whatever you want, but the court will only be bored and annoyed. Heh, and the last thing you want to do at the first hearing is annoy the judge. I've found that once you do, you're screwed. When my ex and I went to court to finalize the divorce, we had agreed upon an amount for child support, but the judge (after some testimony from her and some others) looked at me and said "Oh no, you're paying more than that. I'll make this a lesson you won't forget" or some crud like that. So, don't give the judge the death stare as he's talking to you, no matter what :o) short - and I only interrupted once!!! > > "InCharge" <flavorcharge@yahoo.com> wrote in message news:<52e996154224f44d59e715ece6d18a5b@localhost.talkaboutparenting.com>... > > > I'm looking for advise to take to court with me. I'm in Alabama. > > [quoted text clipped - 15 lines] > Heh, and the last thing you want to do at the first hearing is annoy the > judge. I've found that once you do, you're screwed. Correction: You're MORE screwed. You were already screwed when you were born without a vagina. > When my ex and I went to court to finalize the divorce, we had agreed upon > an amount for child support, but the judge (after some testimony from her [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > short - and I only interrupted once!!! |
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