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CS questions Maine vs. Texas?

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Jaguar - 30 Dec 2006 23:53 GMT
Hi Everybody,
I'm new to this group and very new to the world of CS. My husband was
married, now divorced with 1 child. The mother who is also the
custodial parent lives in Maine. He and I just moved to Texas. He has
been ordered to pay $380 a week! The divorce was finalized a few months
back. I dont even know how they came to that amount. During the divorce
he had a very lousy attorney who incidentally is now in rehab for a
cocaine addiction. What i'm wondering is how do we go about getting
this absurd amount of money reduced? I'm not sure if we file in Maine
or Texas. Do we need an attorney?
Thanks in advance.
J.
Gini - 31 Dec 2006 01:30 GMT
> Hi Everybody,
> I'm new to this group and very new to the world of CS. My husband was
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> this absurd amount of money reduced? I'm not sure if we file in Maine
> or Texas. Do we need an attorney?
==
Perhaps. How long ago was the order established and where? Is it past the
time for appeal?
Support is established based on income. Did the court have his income
information? If the time
for appeal is past, and it appears to be, your only recourse is to file for
a modification based on
change of circumstances--but, the circumstances must have changed. You need
to file in the state
that established the order. In your case, I would recommend an attorney.
DB - 31 Dec 2006 02:30 GMT
>> Hi Everybody,
>> I'm new to this group and very new to the world of CS. My husband was
>> married, now divorced with 1 child. The mother who is also the
>> custodial parent lives in Maine. He and I just moved to Texas. He has
>> been ordered to pay $380 a week! The divorce was finalized a few months
>> back.

OMG, that is insane!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You are past the 30 days to file an appeal, but you can file in Maine for a
downward modification based on change of circumstance!

You can have an attorney appear for you at the hearing in Maine, should cost
around $400 bucks.
Gini - 31 Dec 2006 03:00 GMT
>> "Jaguar"  wrote
>>> Hi Everybody,
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> You can have an attorney appear for you at the hearing in Maine, should
> cost around $400 bucks.
==
Huh? That's the going rate for an atty. to handle a Maine CS case? Damn! We
had to plunk down a $2000. retainer! Where'd you find a ME atty for 400.?
janderson_ishere1@yahoo.com - 31 Dec 2006 04:02 GMT
> >> "Jaguar"  wrote
> >>> Hi Everybody,
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> Huh? That's the going rate for an atty. to handle a Maine CS case? Damn! We
> had to plunk down a $2000. retainer! Where'd you find a ME atty for 400.?

Gini, he was referring to an attorney showing up at the hearing, not an
attorney handling the whole case.  Going rate for an attorney is
probably 200 an hour in ME.  It is a simple matter.
DB - 31 Dec 2006 05:47 GMT
<janderson_ishere1@yahoo.com> wrote in

>> > You can have an attorney appear for you at the hearing in Maine, should
>> > cost around $400 bucks.
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> attorney handling the whole case.  Going rate for an attorney is
> probably 200 an hour in ME.  It is a simple matter.

Yes, I spent $350 to have an attorney to show up for me at a modification
hearing.
They adjusted it down, but then tacked on child care payments too.
It was a wasted $350 bucks!
Jaguar - 31 Dec 2006 07:21 GMT
What is the difference between child support and child care payments?
DB - 31 Dec 2006 20:18 GMT
> What is the difference between child support and child care payments?

It's another $120/wk for kids under 12. It's to cover day care expenses.
<Roll Eyes>
Jaguar - 31 Dec 2006 22:08 GMT
Thats the most ridiculous thing I ever heard!
DB - 31 Dec 2006 22:14 GMT
> Thats the most ridiculous thing I ever heard!

No more insane when the mother says I need more money for clothes too!

Maybe you can strainten some of these fools out!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsLSvoPhT_oUSh7pOrOGhO_zy6IX?qid=20
061231134525AABHGeX

Gini - 31 Dec 2006 22:17 GMT
> Thats the most ridiculous thing I ever heard!
==
Who are you talking to?
Jaguar - 31 Dec 2006 22:32 GMT
> > What is the difference between child support and child care payments?
>
> It's another $120/wk for kids under 12. It's to cover day care expenses.
> <Roll Eyes>

I was responding to that.
DB - 31 Dec 2006 23:06 GMT
>> > What is the difference between child support and child care payments?
>>
>> It's another $120/wk for kids under 12. It's to cover day care expenses.
>> <Roll Eyes>
>
> I was responding to that.

har, har har, here's a guy complaining about his land taxed being raised by
$150.
Imagine this guy of they forced him to pay $1200/mth for a child he didn't
know about?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061231145431AAl0PSU&r=w&pa=FZptHWf
.BGRX3OFMhzNTUJ54YNDcqBFTeZUXz91BitSE9Og6iO386KVJeKmGYqo46Up__lGlIDHPx87swg--&pa
id=answered#Q8YmDDbqBDN1bOpBxj1r9j00ydoFcFs8kRwjgURCNHhaCRV1MsCe

 
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