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Family Forum / Parenting / Parenting / July 2007One good thing about ex
He will mop my floors and iron my clothes if I ask him too. I have not been ironing my clothes because I have not been caring so I have not been wearing my finer clothes. I decided its time to start dressing up every day. I have a whole closet full of stylish clothes and I can dress for church every day. We dress for the glory of God. My friend told me I am a good dresser. Well I want to start wearing the finer fabrics in my closet on a daily basis. I have been wearing cotton because I don't have to iron it. Time to upgrade to choir clothes on a daily basis. > He will mop my floors and iron my clothes if I ask him too. I have not > been ironing my clothes because I have not been caring so I have not been [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > on a daily basis. I have been wearing cotton because I don't have to iron > it. Time to upgrade to choir clothes on a daily basis. Is your ex hoping to get back together with you? >> He will mop my floors and iron my clothes if I ask him too. I have not >> been ironing my clothes because I have not been caring so I have not been [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > > Is your ex hoping to get back together with you? Always. "Soprano" <olympiada2007@gmail.com> wrote in > Well I want to start wearing the finer fabrics in my closet on a daily > basis. I have been wearing cotton because I don't have to iron it. Time to > upgrade to choir clothes on a daily basis. My My, that is really such a dilemma you have, if only the rest of us could have such problems. Maybe I'll go to the closet and select which outfit I should be deported in ot more import figure out which other country I can survive in. Don't you worry yourself though, I'm sure your worthless ex husband will be over to take care of all the ironing. LOL Pathetic! > "Soprano" <olympiada2007@gmail.com> wrote in > [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > > Pathetic! He's not worthless. He is of great worth. >> "Soprano" <olympiada2007@gmail.com> wrote in >> [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] >> Pathetic! > He's not worthless. He is of great worth. So are the people who post here of great worth. Some of them have been impoverished by the child support system--and very unfairly. I know you can't really understand that becuase you have not been negatively impacted by it. But to someone who cannot get a job becuase they cannot get their green card renewed because the mother of their child filed for and received massive and unjust arrearages, your joy over someone doing your ironing for you seems quite trivial. I have no problem with you being happy about it, but I do understand where the people who post here regularly are coming from. Would you like to stand in a courtroom and be told that your children are irrelevant? I've been there, done that. Great system CS, right? "Soprano" <olympiada2007@gmail.com> wrote in > He's not worthless. He is of great worth. If that's truly how you feel about your Ex, then realize that all the CSE is going to do for you is drive him away! The government is not the solution to the problem, they are the problem! > "Soprano" <olympiada2007@gmail.com> wrote in >>> [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > > The government is not the solution to the problem, they are the problem! This is not true. "Soprano" <olympiada2007@gmail.com> wrote in >> The government is not the solution to the problem, they are the problem! > This is not true. Think about this for a moment, your husband still does drugs and there is a law against that right? All the government is going to do for you is create some new laws that concern his ability to pay extortionate support payments that is sure to land your husband in prison. Is that in the best interest of your daughter? > "Soprano" <olympiada2007@gmail.com> wrote in >>> The government is not the solution to the problem, they are the problem! [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Is that in the best interest of your daughter? I divorced him. >> "Soprano" <olympiada2007@gmail.com> wrote in >>>> The government is not the solution to the problem, they are the [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] >> Is that in the best interest of your daughter? > I divorced him. Oh. Well, in that case, creating ruinous amounts of child support that drive him to the breaking point and send him spiraling back to drugs and alcohol and ending him up in jail won't effect your daughter at all, right? Think it through. >>> "Soprano" <olympiada2007@gmail.com> wrote in >>>>> The government is not the solution to the problem, they are the [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > and ending him up in jail won't effect your daughter at all, right? Think > it through. I didn't cause it, I can't cure it, I can't control it. I am sorry, this is done. >>>> "Soprano" <olympiada2007@gmail.com> wrote in >>>>>> The government is not the solution to the problem, they are the [quoted text clipped - 16 lines] > I didn't cause it, I can't cure it, I can't control it. I am sorry, this > is done. Look, I don't care if you file for child support. You came here asking for our advice, based on our experiences, and immediately disagreed with all the advice you were given. Getting the whole story from you took a while. But if you and your ex want to go the government route, go right ahead. It is nobody's choice but yours. However, if you think that HE no longer has any place int "the best interest of your daughter" because you "divorced him" you are sadly mistaken. What I have picked up from you is that he would like to get back together with you and is doing all sorts of things to show you that he wants that, including filing his own CS papers and ironing yourclothes for you. Surely you are not USING the man, with full intentions of throwing him away when you don't need him any more!! His alcoholism/drug addiction is not your fault or responsibility, but if you are using him, then you are behaving badly!! "teachrmama" <teachrmama@iwon.com> wrote in > But if you and your ex want to go the government route, go right ahead. I doubt her Ex has been advised of all the traps of the CS system that are awaiting him! 100 to 1 he has to drop out of their lives to hide from authorities. > >>> "Soprano" <olympiada2007@gmail.com> wrote in > >>>>> The government is not the solution to the problem, they are the [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > I didn't cause it, I can't cure it, I can't control it. I am sorry, this > is done. What a crock! > > "Soprano" <olympiada2007@gmail.com> wrote in > > [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > > > He's not worthless. He is of great worth. $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ ! > He will mop my floors and iron my clothes if I ask him too. I have not > been ironing my clothes because I have not been caring so I have not [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > closet on a daily basis. I have been wearing cotton because I don't have > to iron it. Time to upgrade to choir clothes on a daily basis. Atlanta, do these nice people realize you are under investigation by Marin County Child Protective Services? Are they aware that you are severely mentally ill, with an extensive history of drugs and alcohol abuse? That you've openly admitted to abusing your daughter? That you physically attacked your younger, blind brother? That you post an average of once every 3 1/2 minutes? Have you invited them to alt.recovery.adultchildren to see what you're REALLY all about? >> He will mop my floors and iron my clothes if I ask him too. I have not >> been ironing my clothes because I have not been caring so I have not [quoted text clipped - 16 lines] > Have you invited them to alt.recovery.adultchildren to see what you're > REALLY all about? You can tell just by reading her posts she Isn't all there In her head.... > <howard.aub...@gmail.com> wrote in message > [quoted text clipped - 22 lines] > > You can tell just by reading her posts she Isn't all there In her head.... I apologize, we tried our best to keep her contained in ARAC, but she slipped out. I've a feeling she wont be posting much longer, she's been reported to CPS by about a half dozen people by now. She'll be getting the help she needs, and deserves... |
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