Family Forum / Parenting / Parenting / January 2008

Her dreams of marriage and collected marriage values disintegrate when
she finds her husband/partner is sharing with others what was meant
for her. The partner is her/his own property and dignity that she does
not want to loose. Her man for her is everything, whatever kind he is,
she manages and sacrifices to get along as long as he is honest and
dependable. Infidelity by her man is attack on her marital status and
is suicidal for her:

? She looses the trust and dependability; who would she trust when own
man has cheated. She is devastated sensitively and mentally. She leads
her tensed life with grieving emotions would be enough to develop
mental and physical deceases.

? Both partners believe sexual partner as a personal valuable asset
that demonstrates dignity and pride. A sexual partner is most valued
partner becomes own dignity thus loosing partner is loosing dignity.
Unfaithfulness of the partner is an insult to the personal values. So
the matter becomes unbearable and embarrassment if partner's sexual
attraction goes into others hands is shameful and loosing self-
respect.

? Her financial and other security is at risk. For a woman, her male
partner is her security and safety. In addition, for a woman who is
dependent, her man is the economic security. Her man shares her
necessities, burdens, takes responsibilities of her, and kids. When he
is there she is totally worry free.

? Loss of the best and emotional friend/partner she got. She, as she
wished could share with partner her sentiments, anger, sorrow and
everything of her

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