Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / January 2009

timchuks87 <timchuks87@yahoo.com> wrote in news:8e345411-b5be-4904-b52d-
dc95dc2d8a75@35g2000pry.googlegroups.com:

Oh f.ck you!

I am newly divorced. I hurt for my kids. I do not miss, for one moment,
the   nasty vengful spiteful witch to which I was married. There is not  
a doubt in my mind, that divorce is the best for all of us.

I pray that my children come to understand the meaning of marriage. I
know that will be difficult as they did not have good role models.

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If you want to rail, turn to the lawyers and legal system. There is no
truth or justice. There is NO consideration all all involved, least the
kids. The whole thing boils down to:

How much the lawyers will make.
Not "loading" the courts. ( this is a ruse)
How much the lawyers will make!

The whole system is flawed. Starts by filling out a net worth statement.
The lawyers gloat, rub their hands and say "this is how much money I
will make". When it is gone, the "parties" settle.
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Unless you have infinite money, here's the outcome

1. Both of you will be a whole lot poorer.
2. Both of you will really suffer at the hands of the lawyers, the
"system" and each other.
3. Your children will take sides, never fully understand what happened
and have permanent scars.
4. If you are a man, you are totally f.cked. You will be thrown out of
your house. You will live very substaintially. The courts will not care
one bit about you. Your children will see you as a failure. They will
live much better than you. You will be a have not. You will pay for the
children, and their mother to "be haves".
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The whole system needs to be overhauled.

I can only hope that couples really consider the consequences, ditch the
lawyers and "system" and come to a resolution. It is the only way to
remain as "whole" as possible and unscarred as possible.
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Put the damn laywers out of business!