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emporio - 23 Jan 2009 22:13 GMT

Without a basic foundation, marriage can be tough.
If you're having problems within your marriage, it can be the most
horrible feeling in the world.
It's hard to think of what your live would be like without your
significant other, and people might want to change their situation
(me) and although it's a work in progress, it's coming along.

http://relationship-help-now.blogspot.com/
I've provided a link to a blog that I wrote about experiences and how
to save your marriage, or find out if your spouse is cheating, general
marriage problems. Please feel free to check it out and comment, add
insight, anything to help me or anyone else.

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BethMcCree - 24 Jan 2009 21:27 GMT

> Without a basic foundation, marriage can be tough.
> If you're having problems within your marriage, it can be the most
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> marriage problems. Please feel free to check it out and comment, add
> insight, anything to help me or anyone else.

My husband of 10 years told me last April he wanted a divorce. It's
been a rough road for me since then. We were married really young and
over the years slowly but surely starting separating more and more
from each other even though we didn't realize this was happening. When
it at first happened I was devastated and couldnt imagine living
without him, but now I can imagine my life without him in it and I
have to say now that I can handle it. We haven't started the divorce
proceedings yet, but mainly cause neither of us can pay a lawyer yet.
He's already move on with a new girlfriend after just a few months
where I want to take my time and be real picky making sure I choose
the right person I'll be compatible with. I'm starting to get some
ideas, but it's still too soon. Part of it is also that before I went
with him I always had to have a boyfriend or I wasn't happy. So now
that I'm alone it feels like it's the right thing to do for a while.
It's strange being alone, but it's good for me. I've made tremendous
progress as one of the things that gets hurt when you're left after a
long marriage is your self esteem. It was already pretty low before
this happened and now well I'm working on it and improving every day.

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Rog' - 25 Jan 2009 18:19 GMT

A new website has been established by some of the ASD
regulars, with a forum that we are using to avoid the spam
and cross-posts which has overrun this newsgroup of late.
... The location is... http://asdweb.ning.com/
We welcome newcomers, old-timers and anyone with a
sincere interest in this subject to join us there. = Rog' =
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My husband of 10 years told me last April he wanted a divorce. It's
been a rough road for me since then. We were married really young and
over the years slowly but surely starting separating more and more
from each other even though we didn't realize this was happening. When
it at first happened I was devastated and couldnt imagine living
without him, but now I can imagine my life without him in it and I
have to say now that I can handle it. We haven't started the divorce
proceedings yet, but mainly cause neither of us can pay a lawyer yet.
He's already move on with a new girlfriend after just a few months
where I want to take my time and be real picky making sure I choose
the right person I'll be compatible with. I'm starting to get some
ideas, but it's still too soon. Part of it is also that before I went
with him I always had to have a boyfriend or I wasn't happy. So now
that I'm alone it feels like it's the right thing to do for a while.
It's strange being alone, but it's good for me. I've made tremendous
progress as one of the things that gets hurt when you're left after a
long marriage is your self esteem. It was already pretty low before
this happened and now well I'm working on it and improving every day.

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