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Conflict By Design

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Meldon - 16 Nov 2004 18:27 GMT
It has occurred to me that without conflict there is no need for many if not
all of the fundamental building blocks of society. Put another way, the
fundamental building blocks of society may indeed require conflict in order
to exist.

This has profound implications spanning almost the entire human timeline.
Are we simply a product of conflict by design?
Bill in Co. - 16 Nov 2004 18:45 GMT
Gee, didn't you leave out a group?     I only see 5 newsgroups here, Meldon.
You must be slipping.

> It has occurred to me that without conflict there is no need for many if not
> all of the fundamental building blocks of society. Put another way, the
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> This has profound implications spanning almost the entire human timeline.
> Are we simply a product of conflict by design?
-Lone_Wolf- - 16 Nov 2004 18:47 GMT
> Gee, didn't you leave out a group?     I only see 5 newsgroups here,
> Meldon. You must be slipping.
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>> This has profound implications spanning almost the entire human
>> timeline. Are we simply a product of conflict by design?

...and you replied to them all?

John
Bill in Co. - 16 Nov 2004 18:49 GMT
>> Gee, didn't you leave out a group?     I only see 5 newsgroups here,
>> Meldon. You must be slipping.
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>
> John

Wasn't sure which group he was in.
Rambler - 17 Nov 2004 01:45 GMT
>>Gee, didn't you leave out a group?     I only see 5 newsgroups here,
>>Meldon. You must be slipping.
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>
> ...and you replied to them all?

Rofl.

Rambler
Meldon - 16 Nov 2004 18:58 GMT
Sorry if the number of groups trouble you. I thought the subject was
important enough to each of them. This has likely been one of the highest
numbers of groups I've cross-posted - ever. Perhaps next time I feel the
need to cross-post, I will change the subject line. That way no one will
realize it's the same message until they read it. ;)

Regardless, I have acknowledged your point and offered an explanation. Since
you didn't provide any criticism of the post's content, I'll assume you
agree.

> Gee, didn't you leave out a group?     I only see 5 newsgroups here, Meldon.
> You must be slipping.
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> > This has profound implications spanning almost the entire human timeline.
> > Are we simply a product of conflict by design?
Joy - 17 Nov 2004 00:42 GMT
> Sorry if the number of groups trouble you. I thought the subject was
> important enough to each of them. This has likely been one of the highest
> numbers of groups I've cross-posted - ever. Perhaps next time I feel the
> need to cross-post, I will change the subject line. That way no one will
> realize it's the same message until they read it. ;)

One reason to avoid cross-posting is the issue of thread drift - threads of
any length at all do tend to drift, and when you cross-post to such diverse
groups with such different points of view the drifted subject tends to
become either 1.) of no interest to most of the groups and therefore an
annoyance or 2.) become acrimonious because the different groups DO have a
different point of view and when enough groups are involved at least a
couple of people are likely to become offensive over it, and therefore it
becomes an annoyance.  Since your topic was "conflict by design", I suspect
you were trying to provoke #2.  Not everybody likes that, though, so would
you please consider not cross-posting, and also including "OT" in the
subject line, to denote an off-topic post?

Thanks
Meldon - 17 Nov 2004 02:54 GMT
> > Sorry if the number of groups trouble you. I thought the subject was
> > important enough to each of them. This has likely been one of the highest
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>
> Thanks

I appreciate your explanation but I do not control which groups people wish
to include in their reply. Replies do not have to include all of the groups.

Off topic? That's ironic since you are discussing cross-posting while I am
attempting to discuss the nature of conflict in the development of society.

You criticize me for being an annoyance and provocative (for cross-posting)
yet NG's a full of rabble-rousers dedicated to annoying and pulling
off-topic, otherwise productive conversations and spend little time in any
meaningful conversation.

Of course if conflict in the development of society is a subject which you
don't wish to discuss, I can understand.
Joy - 17 Nov 2004 03:19 GMT
> > > Sorry if the number of groups trouble you. I thought the subject was
> > > important enough to each of them. This has likely been one of the
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> I appreciate your explanation but I do not control which groups people wish
> to include in their reply.

To some degree, you do, though - for example, if you post something to
alt.support.divorce without crossposting, then the replies will stay in
alt.support.divorce, or if you post to soc.men, the replies will stay in
soc.men, etc. That doesn't mean that you can't post the same topic to
different groups - but it is considered poor form to do it simultaneously,
instead it is considered good manners to post them separately - one to
alt.support.divorce, another copy to another group, etc.

Replies do not have to include all of the groups.

> Off topic? That's ironic since you are discussing cross-posting while I am
> attempting to discuss the nature of conflict in the development of society.

Not really - I was making a request to eliminate the cross-post in a thread
that you started, and therefore did not change the subject line.  However,
your original post did not appear to pertain to conflict specific to
divorce - and this is alt.support.divorce.  Discourse on topics pertaining
to divorce is on-topic here, topics not pertaining to divorce are off-topic.

> You criticize me for being an annoyance and provocative (for cross-posting)
> yet NG's a full of rabble-rousers dedicated to annoying and pulling
> off-topic, otherwise productive conversations and spend little time in any
> meaningful conversation.

Yeah, that's often the result of the thread drift I was talking about.  In
this newsgroup the biggest rabble rousers seem to come from some of the
other groups that you cross-posted to - hence the concern.  We get cycles in
which some of them come over and rant and rave in a hostile fashion for a
while, and the newsgroup becomes darn near unreadable, IMO.

> Of course if conflict in the development of society is a subject which you
> don't wish to discuss, I can understand.

I can't speak for everybody, of course, but is true that I personally am not
particularly interested in that topic.
Casey - 17 Nov 2004 03:31 GMT
Joy said

> > Of course if conflict in the development of society is a subject which you
> > don't wish to discuss, I can understand.
>
> I can't speak for everybody, of course, but is true that I personally am not
> particularly interested in that topic.

Me neither ... especially not in a divorce newsgroup.

Casey
Bill in Co. - 17 Nov 2004 05:16 GMT
>>>> Sorry if the number of groups trouble you. I thought the subject was
>>>> important enough to each of them. This has likely been one of the
highest
>>>> numbers of groups I've cross-posted - ever. Perhaps next time I feel
the
>>>> need to cross-post, I will change the subject line. That way no one
will
>>>> realize it's the same message until they read it. ;)
>>>
>>> One reason to avoid cross-posting is the issue of thread drift - threads
of
>>> any length at all do tend to drift, and when you cross-post to such
diverse
>>> groups with such different points of view the drifted subject tends to
>>> become either 1.) of no interest to most of the groups and therefore an
>>> annoyance or 2.) become acrimonious because the different groups DO havea
>>> different point of view and when enough groups are involved at least a
>>> couple of people are likely to become offensive over it, and therefore
it
>>> becomes an annoyance.  Since your topic was "conflict by design", I
suspect
>>> you were trying to provoke #2.  Not everybody likes that, though, so
would
>>> you please consider not cross-posting, and also including "OT" in the
>>> subject line, to denote an off-topic post?
>>>
>>> Thanks
>>
>> I appreciate your explanation but I do not control which groups people
wish
>> to include in their reply.
>
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>> Off topic? That's ironic since you are discussing cross-posting while I am
>> attempting to discuss the nature of conflict in the development of
society.

> Not really - I was making a request to eliminate the cross-post in a thread
> that you started, and therefore did not change the subject line.  However,
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>
>> You criticize me for being an annoyance and provocative (for
cross-posting)
>> yet NG's a full of rabble-rousers dedicated to annoying and pulling
>> off-topic, otherwise productive conversations and spend little time in any
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> I can't speak for everybody, of course, but is true that I personally am not
> particularly interested in that topic.

Besides which, society isn't developing; it's regressing.    (How many times
do I have to explain it to y'all)?
Meldon - 17 Nov 2004 16:20 GMT
> Besides which, society isn't developing; it's regressing.    (How many times
> do I have to explain it to y'all)?

Ooops. Hey Bill, we're not speaking specifically about divorce. Watch out or
the fempolice will be on your case. Frankly, I'm in agreement with you. It's
going backwards.
Meldon - 17 Nov 2004 16:17 GMT
> > > > Sorry if the number of groups trouble you. I thought the subject was
> > > > important enough to each of them. This has likely been one of the
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> instead it is considered good manners to post them separately - one to
> alt.support.divorce, another copy to another group, etc.

Poor form? Huh? NG's can be set up to bounce cross-posted messages. I would
suggest it is up to the person who adds the newsgroup to make that choice.
If cross-posting is allowed it will occur. Ask the moderator to remove the
ability to cross-post to the group and get off my case. I'm sure there are
plenty of other cross-posters around to keep you busy.

> Replies do not have to include all of the groups.
> >
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> divorce - and this is alt.support.divorce.  Discourse on topics pertaining
> to divorce is on-topic here, topics not pertaining to divorce are off-topic.

Yes really. Cross-posting has nothing to do with my subject of Conflict by
Design yet, here we are. Further, you suggest a discussion about conflict
isn't relevant in a divorce forum. Clearly you have a beef with me
personally so why don't you start a new thread and get all your frustrations
out there.

> > You criticize me for being an annoyance and provocative (for
> cross-posting)
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> which some of them come over and rant and rave in a hostile fashion for a
> while, and the newsgroup becomes darn near unreadable, IMO.

That's the nature of newsgroups. I'm simply partaking and I have to share in
some of the unpleasant aspects of forums just like you except I put up with
it and try to stay on topic.

> > Of course if conflict in the development of society is a subject which you
> > don't wish to discuss, I can understand.
>
> I can't speak for everybody, of course, but is true that I personally am not
> particularly interested in that topic.

Could have fooled me.
Rambler - 17 Nov 2004 17:08 GMT
> Poor form? Huh?

yes, actually, it is poor form.  The newsgroup FAQ even references
cross-posting as poor form.  The best thing to have done at this stage,
Meldon, would have been to say, "Oops, I'm sorry."  But you seem to want
to beat this one to death, so here goes ...

> NG's can be set up to bounce cross-posted messages. I would suggest
> it is up to the person who adds the newsgroup to make that choice. If
>  cross-posting is allowed it will occur. Ask the moderator to remove
>  the ability to cross-post to the group and get off my case.

Well, I am not a Usenet junkie, but I think that this is an unmoderated
group, and changing newsgroup settings (if it is possible) I would
presume takes as long as setting up a newsgroup in the first place -
i.e. a long time

> I'm sure there are plenty of other cross-posters around to keep you
> busy.

Sure, but the obstinant ones get my attention the most.

<snip>

>> Not really - I was making a request to eliminate the cross-post in
>>  a thread that you started, and therefore did not change the
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>  you have a beef with me personally so why don't you start a new
> thread and get all your frustrations out there.

Missing the point I see.  you, Meldon, aren't listening real well.

First off, Joy is talking about crossposting.

Second off, "Conflict by Design" as it relates to the human ages *is*
off topic.  It might be interesting, (then again) but it is off topic.

Third, she was (if I have guessed right) stating that a generic
discussion about conflict (i.e. wars and whatnot) is *not* germane to
divorce, unless you really begin to stretch it out.

Fourth, I think it is you that have a beef with somebody telling you,
very nicely in my opinion, that you are way out of line.

Fifth, noticed the posts coming in from soc.boys?  That is exactly what
Joy was talking about.

Sixth, people are going to have a beef with you if you continue to have
the Leaning Tower of Pisa on your shoulder.  Not that anybody can do
much about it ... it's Usenet, but your credibility will take a nosedive.

<snip>

> That's the nature of newsgroups. I'm simply partaking and I have to
> share in some of the unpleasant aspects of forums just like you
> except I put up with it and try to stay on topic.

But yo uare not staying on topic.  In fact, to me, it sounds like this
thread and your responses was designed to get to Conflict by design just
because.  Disingenious.

>> I can't speak for everybody, of course, but is true that I
>> personally am not particularly interested in that topic.
>>
> Could have fooled me.

Sarcastic twit.  She was being nice.  You decided to be a bunghole
because you didn't like that she called you on doing something you
shouldn't have.  See, it is responses like this that take your
credibility on a nosedive.

Que sera.

Rambler
Meldon - 17 Nov 2004 18:24 GMT
> > Poor form? Huh?
>
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>
> Rambler

You're right. I'm no good at all. Sorry for becoming involved. I hope that
after I crawl into my hole, this newsgroup will have no further problems.
Sorry to have troubled anyone.
Meldon - 17 Nov 2004 18:33 GMT
> > Poor form? Huh?
>
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>
> First off, Joy is talking about crossposting.

With regard to me original subject, she is off-topic.

> Second off, "Conflict by Design" as it relates to the human ages *is*
> off topic.  It might be interesting, (then again) but it is off topic.
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> Fifth, noticed the posts coming in from soc.boys?  That is exactly what
> Joy was talking about.

I didn't notice but why are you blaming me for missing it when someone else
has included it in the first place. I did not include that group originally.
Someone else did and your blaming me for missing it f.ck off!.

> Sixth, people are going to have a beef with you if you continue to have
> the Leaning Tower of Pisa on your shoulder.  Not that anybody can do
> much about it ... it's Usenet, but your credibility will take a nosedive.

You're right. I should remember that newsnet credibility is very important.
f.ck off.

> <snip>
>
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> thread and your responses was designed to get to Conflict by design just
> because.  Disingenious.

I've been trying. Start a new thread on forum ettiquete and f.ck off.

> >> I can't speak for everybody, of course, but is true that I
> >> personally am not particularly interested in that topic.
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> shouldn't have.  See, it is responses like this that take your
> credibility on a nosedive.

I've seen much worse. Go after them and stop waiting my time - freak!
Joy - 18 Nov 2004 03:05 GMT
> > > Poor form? Huh?
> >
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> > >  cross-posting is allowed it will occur. Ask the moderator to remove
> > >  the ability to cross-post to the group and get off my case.

There is no moderator.

> > > Yes really. Cross-posting has nothing to do with my subject of
> > > Conflict by Design yet, here we are. Further, you suggest a
> > > discussion about conflict isn't relevant in a divorce forum. Clearly
> > >  you have a beef with me personally so why don't you start a new
> > > thread and get all your frustrations out there.

Not at all - I don't even know you, why would I have a beef with you
personally?

> > First off, Joy is talking about crossposting.
>
> With regard to me original subject, she is off-topic.

The point I was trying to make is that for this particular newsgroup, your
original topic was off-topic, since this is a divorce newsgroup.  There may
well be other newsgroups where it would be on-topic, this just doesn't
happen to be one of them.  Not that being off-topic is that big a deal - any
thread of any length seems to go off-topic, and often the off-topic threads
are very interesting.  Personally, I don't mind off-topic threads - but some
folks do, and for them it helps if the original post has OT in the subject
line and in general that is considered good netiquette.  (FWIW, it is also
considered to be good form to include the words VENT or RANT in the subject
line, for those occasions when one might be venting or ranting - this warns
off those who might be sensitive to harsh language, for instance)

I'm really not trying to be snotty to you, believe it or not - after you've
been here a while you'll see why cross-posting gets people's dander up.  It
really has caused problems before.
Meldon - 18 Nov 2004 15:15 GMT
> > > > Poor form? Huh?
> > >
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> been here a while you'll see why cross-posting gets people's dander up.  It
> really has caused problems before.

I've been posting on newsgroups since the early 90's. I have never read
anyone so concerned with net-etiquette. Start a new thread and criticize me
all you want. Your point has been made but clearly you do not wish to accept
mine.

I was hoping to have a constructive dialogue on the subject instead I have
spent literally days trying to defend my judgment on cross-post the message.
You're hereby ignored.
iNet - 18 Nov 2004 15:50 GMT
>> > > > Poor form? Huh?
>> > >
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> message.
> You're hereby ignored.

Moose (Mooses?) have a very difficult time following net-etiquette.  Thier
hooves get in the way.
Casey - 18 Nov 2004 16:04 GMT
iNet said
> "Meldon" <meldon_fens@meldon.com> wrote in message
> >
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> Moose (Mooses?) have a very difficult time following net-etiquette.
> Thier hooves get in the way.

I always thought Mr. Moose on Captain Kangaroo was very polite.

Casey
-Lone_Wolf- - 18 Nov 2004 22:53 GMT
> iNet said
>> "Meldon" <meldon_fens@meldon.com> wrote in message
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>
> I always thought Mr. Moose on Captain Kangaroo was very polite.

Canadians (moose and caribou) are know for being overly polite, unless of
course they are a politician and then there is a different standard to live
down to!

John (I thank you ever so much for your time. Have a great day, eh!)

(Now where did I put my beer?)
Casey - 18 Nov 2004 23:52 GMT
-Lone_Wolf- said
> > iNet said
> >>>
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>
> (Now where did I put my beer?)

Would that beer happen to be a ... Moosehead?


Casey
DrLith - 18 Nov 2004 17:02 GMT
> Moose (Mooses?) have a very difficult time following net-etiquette.  Thier
> hooves get in the way.

Realii?
YooperBoyka - 19 Nov 2004 22:54 GMT
>> Moose (Mooses?) have a very difficult time following net-etiquette.
>> Thier
>> hooves get in the way.
>
> Realii?

Yeah, my sister got BIT!
Casey - 18 Nov 2004 16:02 GMT
Meldon said
> Joy said
> >
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> all you want. Your point has been made but clearly you do not wish to accept
> mine.

I seriously can't believe you've been posting that long and yet do not
seem to understand the points being made.

> I was hoping to have a constructive dialogue on the subject instead I have
> spent literally days trying to defend my judgment on cross-post the message.

Yeah, but you were trying to have a dialogue on a subject that has
nothing to do with *divorce* ... and you were trying to drag 4 other
groups into it as well.  

> You're hereby ignored.

You're getting there yourself.

Casey
John Riggs - 17 Nov 2004 17:22 GMT
   Are you saying that if we all got along we wouldn't have need to invent
rules, therefore, we have laws rules, courts systems, governmental
oversight, etc. because we, in fact, cannot get along without them, as a
society.

   I understood that much.....unless he meant something else

| Gee, didn't you leave out a group?     I only see 5 newsgroups here, Meldon.
| You must be slipping.
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| > This has profound implications spanning almost the entire human timeline.
| > Are we simply a product of conflict by design?
Meldon - 17 Nov 2004 18:27 GMT
That's the principle but of course we know conflict is inevitable. I'm
suggesting that conflict has been leveraged and even encouraged in order to
gain economic benefit.

>     Are you saying that if we all got along we wouldn't have need to invent
> rules, therefore, we have laws rules, courts systems, governmental
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> timeline.
> | > Are we simply a product of conflict by design?
iNet - 17 Nov 2004 18:30 GMT
> That's the principle but of course we know conflict is inevitable. I'm
> suggesting that conflict has been leveraged and even encouraged in order
> to
> gain economic benefit.

My sister was once bitten by a moose.
DrLith - 17 Nov 2004 18:51 GMT
> > That's the principle but of course we know conflict is inevitable. I'm
> > suggesting that conflict has been leveraged and even encouraged in order
> > to
> > gain economic benefit.
>
> My sister was once bitten by a moose.

I believe Hitler was once bitten by a moose.

Or maybe it was an elk. I don't think they have mooses in Europe.
Casey - 17 Nov 2004 20:28 GMT
DrLith said
> "iNet" wrote
> > >
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>
> Or maybe it was an elk. I don't think they have mooses in Europe.

I ate some elk once.  It was pretty good.

Casey
iNet - 17 Nov 2004 20:45 GMT
Keep in mind, moose bites can be painful.

> DrLith said
>> > "Meldon" wrote
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>
> Casey
Casey - 17 Nov 2004 22:36 GMT
iNet said
> "Casey" wrote
> > DrLith said
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
>
> Keep in mind, moose bites can be painful.

I wonder how they compare to elk bites?  

If your sister had also been bitten by an elk, she could tell us.


Casey
John Riggs - 17 Nov 2004 21:33 GMT
   Keep it up, guys. You're gonna make me go out and kill something (
sheesh! all this talk of eating moose, and elk ). I can do without the
expense of     buying a permit for a month of hunting. Deer, antelope, elk,
and big-horned sheep here.....maybe make it south one day for javelina. I
would enjoy that very much, I think.

| DrLith said
| > > "Meldon" wrote
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|
| Casey
Fido - 18 Nov 2004 02:36 GMT
>     Keep it up, guys. You're gonna make me go out and kill something

You want to borry my Winchester?

Best - Fido
John Riggs - 18 Nov 2004 02:38 GMT
   What? You have one bigger than .45?

| >     Keep it up, guys. You're gonna make me go out and kill something
|
| You want to borry my Winchester?
|
| Best - Fido
Fido - 19 Nov 2004 04:34 GMT
"John Riggs" <johnri60626@netzero.net> wrote in news:302g9eF2q53m3U1@uni-
berlin.de:

>     What? You have one bigger than .45?

Bigger GUN? Hmmm... Well, actually, my Winchester is a 30-30.

The only thing I have bigger than a .45 would be my 12 gauge slugster.

Here's a good load:

http://tinyurl.com/6rb8z

I wonder if one of those babies could knock down a moose or elk or polar
bear, or whatever. .

Best - Fido



>| >     Keep it up, guys. You're gonna make me go out and kill something
>|
>| You want to borry my Winchester?
>|
>| Best - Fido
John Riggs - 19 Nov 2004 07:34 GMT
   I have a few boxes of those already, but they ain't real good much
beyond 50yd.

| "John Riggs" <johnri60626@netzero.net> wrote in news:302g9eF2q53m3U1@uni-
| berlin.de:
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| >|
| >| Best - Fido
Fido - 19 Nov 2004 17:21 GMT
>     I have a few boxes of those already, but they ain't real good much
> beyond 50yd.

I have heard that they are  really good against television sets, microwave
ovens, refridgerators, etc.

Best - Fido

>| "John Riggs" <johnri60626@netzero.net> wrote in
>| news:302g9eF2q53m3U1@uni- berlin.de:
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>| >|
>| >| Best - Fido
John Riggs - 20 Nov 2004 05:53 GMT
   Well, at under 50 yards they do a decent job on white-tail and mulies.

| >     I have a few boxes of those already, but they ain't real good much
| > beyond 50yd.
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| >| >|
| >| >| Best - Fido
DrLith - 18 Nov 2004 16:37 GMT
> >     Keep it up, guys. You're gonna make me go out and kill something
>
> You want to borry my Winchester?

Didja get it wet shooting them fish in a barrel?
Fido - 19 Nov 2004 04:41 GMT
>> >     Keep it up, guys. You're gonna make me go out and kill something
>>
>> You want to borry my Winchester?
>
> Didja get it wet shooting them fish in a barrel?

No, if you read the duck-hunting threads, you will see that I put a condom
over the end of the barrel before I get it all fishy.

Anyway, that wasn't my Winchester, but I will go "bump firing" with my AK-
47. More bump firing on the web:

http://www.redstararms.com/uploads/bumptime.wmv

Best - Fido


John Riggs - 19 Nov 2004 07:28 GMT
   See, Doc.! I'm not the only guy that uses them things for protecting gun
barrels.

| >> >     Keep it up, guys. You're gonna make me go out and kill something
| >>
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|
| Best - Fido
DrLith - 20 Nov 2004 21:16 GMT
> Anyway, that wasn't my Winchester, but I will go "bump firing" with my AK-
> 47. More bump firing on the web:
>
> http://www.redstararms.com/uploads/bumptime.wmv

Hoooooo-doggie! I feel reasonably certain that no animals were harmed in the
making of THAT video! I imagine that's not the point though, is it?
YooperBoyka - 20 Nov 2004 21:18 GMT
>> Anyway, that wasn't my Winchester, but I will go "bump firing" with my
>> AK-
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> the
> making of THAT video! I imagine that's not the point though, is it?

I love the music.
Fido - 21 Nov 2004 05:53 GMT
>> Anyway, that wasn't my Winchester, but I will go "bump firing" with
>> my AK- 47. More bump firing on the web:
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> in the making of THAT video! I imagine that's not the point though, is
> it?

Well, you can't hunt animals in Maine with a gun that holds more than 5
rounds. I suppose if I hunted animals I could use my Mosin-Nagant M44 which
will only hold 5 rounds. But it has a bayonet in case you run out of
bullets.

Best - Fido


YooperBoyka - 21 Nov 2004 09:19 GMT
>>> Anyway, that wasn't my Winchester, but I will go "bump firing" with
>>> my AK- 47. More bump firing on the web:
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> will only hold 5 rounds. But it has a bayonet in case you run out of
> bullets.

My God man,...you don't hunt?
Fido - 22 Nov 2004 03:02 GMT
"YooperBoyka" <cj.don'twant@no.spam> wrote in news:VYOdnfez4rhewD3cRVn-
vg@comcast.com:

>>>> Anyway, that wasn't my Winchester, but I will go "bump firing" with
>>>> my AK- 47. More bump firing on the web:
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
>
> My God man,...you don't hunt?

No, I just started shooting this year. I ended up with about a dozen guns
or so and a few thousand rounds of tucked away. Today we were out shooting
various targets including a propane tank. That was a blast.

I am reading a lot about hunting, though. Looks like fun.

Best - Fido
Donna - 23 Nov 2004 02:14 GMT
Ummm ... if you start thinking that hunting is "fun" I will have to
ask for a divorce.

: P

donna

> > My God man,...you don't hunt?

> No, I just started shooting this year. I ended up with about a dozen guns
> or so and a few thousand rounds of tucked away. Today we were out shooting
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> Best - Fido
Casey - 23 Nov 2004 02:35 GMT
Donna said
> Fido said
> > Yooper said
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
>
> : P

Well, at least this is the perfect newsgroup.

Casey
Fido - 23 Nov 2004 04:48 GMT
> Ummm ... if you start thinking that hunting is "fun" I will have to
> ask for a divorce.

Well, umm.. there are LOTS of good reasons to hunt. Not that I do, you
know. Hunt, that is.

For example - you get your meat in the supermarket all wrapped up in
cellophane - isn't hunting a more "honest" way of getting food? Hunters
provide a valuable culling function in wildlife management, and an animal
raised in the woods lives a better life than a animal raised for
butchering.

Also, it is not just the killing of the animal that is the appeal of
hunting - it is becoming one with nature. Immersed in the environment,
senses heightened, noticing every tree and branch, seeing things you never
saw before - or would ever see unless you had taken the time to sit
quietly in the woods and look and listen for a few hours.

... Hey, what's that guy doing in my tree stand...

I'm going to tell him to get the hell out of there. I'll be back in a
minute.

Best - Fido

>: P
>
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>>
>> Best - Fido
YooperBoyka - 23 Nov 2004 06:21 GMT
> ... Hey, what's that guy doing in my tree stand...
>
> I'm going to tell him to get the hell out of there. I'll be back in a
> minute.

You heard about that, eh?
Terrible.
Casey - 23 Nov 2004 15:17 GMT
YooperBoyka said
> "Fido" <tomchandNS@gwi.net> wrote in message
> > dtschet@yahoo.com (Donna) wrote in
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> You heard about that, eh?
> Terrible.

That was about the most bizarre thing I've read in a long time.

Casey
YooperBoyka - 23 Nov 2004 22:10 GMT
> YooperBoyka said
>> "Fido" <tomchandNS@gwi.net> wrote in message
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
> That was about the most bizarre thing I've read in a long time.

...and another little part of my innocence is shattered.
John Riggs - 24 Nov 2004 11:09 GMT
   Tree stand?

| > ... Hey, what's that guy doing in my tree stand...
| >
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
| You heard about that, eh?
| Terrible.
YooperBoyka - 24 Nov 2004 21:13 GMT
>    Tree stand?

http://tinyurl.com/3rwl3
DrLith - 24 Nov 2004 21:56 GMT
> >    Tree stand?
> >
> http://tinyurl.com/3rwl3

It's interesting how the ethnic/immigrant side of the story seems to be tthe
most important aspect. The AP article, for example, states not once, but
twice, that the shooter is "an immigrant from Laos." And yet, this guy came
here 24 years ago, at the age of 12, is a U.S. citizen, speaks English not
only fluently but probably without a trace of an accent....

Yet with white folks, it's not every time "Jim Carrey, an immigrant from
Canada," or "Albert Einstein, an immigrant from Germany."
YooperBoyka - 25 Nov 2004 02:47 GMT
>> >    Tree stand?
>> >
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> Yet with white folks, it's not every time "Jim Carrey, an immigrant from
> Canada," or "Albert Einstein, an immigrant from Germany."

Yup.
Seems some people find strange that an Asian immigrant would
even go deer hunting, too.
YooperBoyka - 25 Nov 2004 02:59 GMT
>>> >    Tree stand?
>>> >
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
> Seems some people find strange that an Asian immigrant would
> even go deer hunting, too.

[Insert "it" where appropriate]
DrLith - 25 Nov 2004 03:24 GMT
> [Insert "it" where appropriate]

Yer gettin' mighty refined on us, Yooper old boy. Time wuz when you'da said
"Stick it where the sun don't shine!"
Fido - 25 Nov 2004 05:43 GMT
> [Insert "it" where appropriate]

heh heh heh


Fifty Hertz - 25 Nov 2004 12:59 GMT
> Seems some people find strange that an Asian immigrant would
> even go deer hunting, too.

...and that his nickname is 'Rusty'.
Fred - 25 Nov 2004 04:05 GMT
>> >    Tree stand?
>> >
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>here 24 years ago, at the age of 12, is a U.S. citizen, speaks English not
>only fluently but probably without a trace of an accent....

The bigotry being spewed about this guy here in MN is pretty
disgusting.  It's bad enough without some of the sleaze that's being
spread around.
John Riggs - 25 Nov 2004 07:55 GMT
   Well, I used to rent an apartment below a family of  (South ) Viet
Namese. They apparently were evac'd out of the country because the father
was an officer in the South Viet Namese Army. The oldest son would tell me
stories of his family before they came here.
   No, they weren't treated very nicely by a lot of folks, but they also
stepped on a lot of toes inadvertently, leaving a bad taste in a lot of
people's mouths.
I also lived in Grand Island and a larger contingent of Laotians . They had
a problem with pets turning up missing and part of these people's dinner.
The police, churches, and city fathers had to calm the local populace and
explain to the Laotians that eating your neighbor's pets is not done here.
Not stories...facts.
   Cultural conflict creates a lot of problems. Now, given that that was a
number of years ago, I would imagine this is not the story with this guy,
but I suspect his actions opened a lot of old wounds, and added ammunition
for the local bigots to use, but that will happen no matter what your ethnic
background, although the U.S seems to have a larger problem with it, or
maybe we are just more aware of it.

| >> >    Tree stand?
| >> >
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
| disgusting.  It's bad enough without some of the sleaze that's being
| spread around.
Fido - 25 Nov 2004 05:34 GMT
>> >    Tree stand?
>> >
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> Yet with white folks, it's not every time "Jim Carrey, an immigrant
> from Canada," or "Albert Einstein, an immigrant from Germany."

Or how often do you hear: "Fido the white Black Muslim".

Vang was a hothead, there's plenty of evidence of that, but what I have
been watching closely is the anti-gun slant on this.

The SKS is consistently described as "an assault weapon", when technically
an assault weapon is one that can be switched from semi- automatic to full
automatic - which could not have been done with Vang's gun. But the
nomenclature seems to have been broadened to include military-style semi-
automatics. The gun (more accurately the cartridge) has been described
variously as "powerful" but also as "underpowered for hunting". The SKS has
been described both as a common hunting gun and also as an unusual weapon
for hunting. An anti- gun press release incorrectly described the gun as  
"a spray-fire gun, capable of 'hosing down' a target area". (Typically with
a semi- automatic, each shoot would be squeezed-off individually. Because
the gun tends to buck, it is typically leveled and aimed again after every
shot, much like a bolt action gun would be.)

Vang has been described as "frightened", or as 'provoked" but also as a
cold blooded murderer who ran down some of his victims and killed them as
they begged for mercy. The incident has been described as a duel where Vang
outgunned armed hunters, and as one where he sought out only unarmed
victims.

The blame for this incident has been specifically laid at the Bush
administration's feet as a result of allowing the "assault-weapons ban" to
expire - but the SKS was not a banned gun.  

So read you could read whatever you want into it. Those that have an axe to
grind will certainly twist and distort the truth, and even outright lie to
advocate their little causes.

Best - Fido
Fido - 29 Nov 2004 02:35 GMT
Here's a good article:

http://www.wisinfo.com/postcrescent/news/archive/local_18770910.shtml

> Vang was a hothead, there's plenty of evidence of that, but what I
> have been watching closely is the anti-gun slant on this.
[quoted text clipped - 28 lines]
>
> Best - Fido
John Riggs - 25 Nov 2004 07:26 GMT
   I don't want to remind you, but at 12, he was probably a seasoned
veteran in the Viet Nam war. In some places children 6 years old are
fighting alongside the adults, pick a side.

| > >    Tree stand?
| > >
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
| Yet with white folks, it's not every time "Jim Carrey, an immigrant from
| Canada," or "Albert Einstein, an immigrant from Germany."
John Riggs - 25 Nov 2004 07:22 GMT
   It was a git at Nebraska, I heard the news. Thanks anyway. That is
always one of the things I try to avoid. Met up with some real pieces of
work in the field a few times. This guys sounds like another "hunting
accident" story

| >    Tree stand?
| >
| http://tinyurl.com/3rwl3
Donna - 23 Nov 2004 13:00 GMT
I am not buying your defense. Immersing oneself in nature does not
mean having the unfair advantage of carrying around a gun to use on a
small animal.

When is the last time you saw an armed rabbit?

Deer herd thinning is a more platable argument for hunting in densely
populated woods where a painful dealth by starvation will serve to
naturally select over the toughest of winters.

Hunting for sport - the thrill of the kill is distasteful to me.

Just the way I view things. Enjoying the woods on a good hike will
give you the same benefit of being at one with nature without
disturbing the balance of things.

Introducing human violence into a place where natural predators and
survival challenges are already in place seems to be redundant.

donna
Casey - 23 Nov 2004 15:16 GMT
Donna said

> I am not buying your defense. Immersing oneself in nature does not
> mean having the unfair advantage of carrying around a gun to use on a
> small animal.
>
> When is the last time you saw an armed rabbit?

Nobody has ever survived such an encounter to tell about it.  Those
hellish little assault-rifle-toting creatures never leave any surviving
witnesses.

Casey
YooperBoyka - 23 Nov 2004 22:10 GMT
> Donna said
>
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> hellish little assault-rifle-toting creatures never leave any surviving
> witnesses.

Bring the Holy Hand Grenade.
Casey - 24 Nov 2004 02:42 GMT
YooperBoyka said

> > Donna said
> >
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
> Bring the Holy Hand Grenade.

One... two... five.

Casey
iNet - 24 Nov 2004 02:54 GMT
> YooperBoyka said
>>
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
>
> One... two... five.

THREE SIR!!
John Riggs - 24 Nov 2004 11:12 GMT
1,2,5....

| > Donna said
| >
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
|
| Bring the Holy Hand Grenade.
John Riggs - 24 Nov 2004 11:11 GMT
   ...it has long, nasty teeth and sharp claws

| Donna said
|
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
|
| Casey
YooperBoyka - 23 Nov 2004 22:08 GMT
>I am not buying your defense. Immersing oneself in nature does not
> mean having the unfair advantage of carrying around a gun to use on a
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> give you the same benefit of being at one with nature without
> disturbing the balance of things.

We as a species are "disturbing the balance of things" no matter where
we are, or what we do.
For those of us who hunt for food, we feel that we are taking a closer
view of our place in the balance.
Humans are omnivores.
Predation is part of that.
I prefer to take personal responsibility for killing the animals that I am
going to eat.
It tends to put eating meat into it's proper perspective.
Most true hunters will tell you there is no "thrill of the kill".
The kill is an anti-climax.
Me?
I cry and thank the creator for the gift.
Then I throw up while I'm field dressing.
It's a price one should pay for eating meat.
It seems to be a small price when I'm sizzlin' up some
venison backstrap, though.

> Introducing human violence into a place where natural predators and
> survival challenges are already in place seems to be redundant.

A very common misconception.
We have been on this rock for a long time.
Everything "wild" you see has already been shaped by human intervention.
Most predators in North America were pushed to the brink by
a "common wisdom" that held that they were "evil".
Sportsmen in the US were at the original cutting edge in ecology
and conservation when no one else seemed to care.
We tend to understand more intimately what "survival challenges"
there are than *anyone*.
A lot of people seem to think they know better, though.
<shrug>
DrLith - 24 Nov 2004 19:10 GMT
> > Introducing human violence into a place where natural predators and
> > survival challenges are already in place seems to be redundant.
>
> A very common misconception.
> We have been on this rock for a long time.

"You cannot go against nature, 'cause when you do
Going against nature is a part of nature, too."
Xenos the elder - 24 Nov 2004 23:12 GMT
>>>Introducing human violence into a place where natural predators and
>>>survival challenges are already in place seems to be redundant.
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> "You cannot go against nature, 'cause when you do
> Going against nature is a part of nature, too."

The gorilla next to me has a different opinion but he want's some
bananas first before he commends any further.
DrLith - 24 Nov 2004 19:08 GMT
> When is the last time you saw an armed rabbit?

A moose once bit my sister.
Fido - 24 Nov 2004 19:59 GMT
>> When is the last time you saw an armed rabbit?
>
> A moose once bit my sister.

http://www.angelfire.com/pa4/spacelord36/moo2.html
DrLith - 24 Nov 2004 20:36 GMT
> >> When is the last time you saw an armed rabbit?
> >
> > A moose once bit my sister.
>
> http://www.angelfire.com/pa4/spacelord36/moo2.html

Nice rack.
LoriMc - 17 Nov 2004 21:23 GMT
>> That's the principle but of course we know conflict is inevitable.
>> I'm suggesting that conflict has been leveraged and even encouraged
>> in order to
>> gain economic benefit.
>
> My sister was once bitten by a moose.

Dang a moose! ROFL
YooperBoyka - 19 Nov 2004 22:56 GMT
>> That's the principle but of course we know conflict is inevitable. I'm
>> suggesting that conflict has been leveraged and even encouraged in order
>> to
>> gain economic benefit.
>
> My sister was once bitten by a moose.

Freakin' day late and a dollar short again.
-Lone_Wolf- - 16 Nov 2004 18:45 GMT
> It has occurred to me that without conflict there is no need for many
> if not all of the fundamental building blocks of society. Put another
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> This has profound implications spanning almost the entire human
> timeline. Are we simply a product of conflict by design?

Huh?
Meldon - 16 Nov 2004 22:38 GMT
> > It has occurred to me that without conflict there is no need for many
> > if not all of the fundamental building blocks of society. Put another
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
> Huh?

Care to elaborate?
Joy - 17 Nov 2004 00:34 GMT
> > > It has occurred to me that without conflict there is no need for many
> > > if not all of the fundamental building blocks of society. Put another
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> Care to elaborate?

I can't speak for John's "huh", but for my own "huh" that I would have
posted if he hadn't beat me to it, I can say that I didn't understand your
point and therefore didn't see any profound implications.
Meldon - 17 Nov 2004 16:25 GMT
> > > > It has occurred to me that without conflict there is no need for many
> > > > if not all of the fundamental building blocks of society. Put another
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> posted if he hadn't beat me to it, I can say that I didn't understand your
> point and therefore didn't see any profound implications.

I'll spell an example out for you.

One implication might be that many if not all major conflicts (particularly
armed conflicts), instead of something that we wish to avoid if possible,
actually becomes something which is just waiting to happen. I can think of
other implications but I'll let you have a go.
Casey - 17 Nov 2004 16:36 GMT
Meldon said
> "Joy" <joydoesntlikespam@nospam.yahoo.com> wrote in message
> > I can't speak for John's "huh", but for my own "huh" that I would have
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> actually becomes something which is just waiting to happen. I can think of
> other implications but I'll let you have a go.

My take is that you have way too much time on your hands.

Got anything divorce-related going on in your life?

Casey
Meldon - 17 Nov 2004 16:57 GMT
> Meldon said
> > "Joy" <joydoesntlikespam@nospam.yahoo.com> wrote in message
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>
> Casey

You're off-topic again.
Rambler - 17 Nov 2004 17:10 GMT
> You're off-topic again.

Major Tom to ground control ...

Rambler
Meldon - 17 Nov 2004 18:21 GMT
> > You're off-topic again.
>
> Major Tom to ground control ...
>
> Rambler

It must be me.
Joy - 18 Nov 2004 02:46 GMT
> "Casey" <cclremovethispart@cox.net> wrote in message

> > Got anything divorce-related going on in your life?
> >
> > Casey
>
> You're off-topic again.

How so?  He asked about divorce related stuff, and this is
alt.support.divorce.  Whether a post is off-topic or on-topic is not
determined by the content of the first post in the thread - it is determined
by whether the content of the thread (including the original post) is
consistent with the purpose of the newsgroup, as set out by the FAQ for that
specific NG.  The FAQ for this particular newsgroup is found here:

http://www.altsupportdivorce.org/

The first part of it is excerpted below:
Section 1:   A.S.D Introduction
(What the group is for, how it started, what it is not for, Common Acronyms
and Terms)
Q1.1:   What is alt.support.divorce? A1.1:   This newsgroup is intended for
people who are divorced, divorcing, considering divorce, or affected by
divorce (their own or others), or other loss of a long-term romantic
relationship even if "legal" divorce is not involved. This includes children
and other family members or friends of those directly involved.   Q1.2:
That's what it's for? What is it NOT for? A1.2:
a.s.d is NOT for the crossposting of messages from (or to) other newsgroups
(so check and trim your headers when you reply!).  It is also not for the
posting of binary files (pictures or executable programs.)
Meldon - 17 Nov 2004 17:15 GMT
> I can't speak for John's "huh", but for my own "huh" that I would have
> posted if he hadn't beat me to it, I can say that I didn't understand your
> point and therefore didn't see any profound implications.

How about a divorce implication? Take for example the skyrocketing divorce
rates over most of the past 20 years. Suppose for a moment that (which many
people claim) divorce is an industry. I would suggest that given my theory,
the divorce industry may not only provide services to those in need but in
fact encourage that need.

There are numerous examples which show either companies, industries or
individuals take steps to create a need in the marketplace. Conflict in the
form of divorce provides fertile ground for significant profits and economic
activity.

I suppose you could say that everything we do is simply another opportunity
for someone to generate revenue. Conflict is simply gaining in economic
strength. I think what is being missed however is how much these types of
activities impact people's lives. In other words, instead of simply
capitalizing on people's adversity and perhaps even encouraging the
practice, it is something which we should be trying to minimize.

Simply stated, the theory that adversity causes growth may be true in a
sense, but in the end if we allow adversity to run amuck, we do it to the
detriment of society, not to it's benefit.
Fred - 17 Nov 2004 04:14 GMT
>It has occurred to me that without conflict there is no need for many if not
>all of the fundamental building blocks of society. Put another way, the
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>This has profound implications spanning almost the entire human timeline.
>Are we simply a product of conflict by design?

No.

You've got it exactly backwards.
rj - 17 Nov 2004 16:49 GMT
>>It has occurred to me that without conflict there is no need for many if not
>>all of the fundamental building blocks of society. Put another way, the
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
>You've got it exactly backwards.

LOL...

So, Fred, I take it that you mean that in reality, we design to
conflict.

I think I *like* that idea.  Except, of course, that's it's a tad to
close to the "original sin" idea for my comfort.

OTOH...

Oh, the hell with it...

rj
Fred - 17 Nov 2004 23:03 GMT
>>>It has occurred to me that without conflict there is no need for many if not
>>>all of the fundamental building blocks of society. Put another way, the
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
>So, Fred, I take it that you mean that in reality, we design to
>conflict.

In reality, we "design" civil society if response to conflict.

>I think I *like* that idea.  Except, of course, that's it's a tad to
>close to the "original sin" idea for my comfort.

Religion has nothing to do with it.  Human nature has everything to do
with it.
connor_a - 17 Nov 2004 04:28 GMT
> It has occurred to me that without conflict there is no need for many if not
> all of the fundamental building blocks of society. Put another way, the
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> This has profound implications spanning almost the entire human timeline.
> Are we simply a product of conflict by design?

Feminism is conflict by design, they demand 'equality' but retain gender privlege.
Lady Chatterly - 17 Nov 2004 04:34 GMT
>> It has occurred to me that without conflict there is no need for many if not
>> all of the fundamental building blocks of society. Put another way, the
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
>Feminism is conflict by design, they demand 'equality' but retain gender privlege.

It is sweet to drink but bitter to pay for.

--
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stupidity in a followup I could ever want and more!  And it's
automated!  With Brand X" programming!  Oh, oh you're obsolete now,
mother f.cker." -- Onideus Mad Hatter
 
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