Not knowing NY law ... it appears to me that your idea is a little bit more
complex than need be.
Is it possible, since you are both willing to work collaboratively through
the worst part of the divorce, that you could continue to co-own the
property until your son graduates high school, or another set date? At that
time, the property could either be sold and the proceeds divided
appropriately, or one or the other of you could buy out the other's
interest.
You would need to be reimbursed off the top what your separate property
brought to it, she would get credit for her payments (assuming she maintains
the mortgage) paying down part of the equity, and the balance would be
split. The property would be worth more and you would both net more than
selling it now or bickering over it.
On the surface, your wife's suggestion doesn't sound fair at all, child
support or no.
Just some ideas ... Glad that you're willing to go collaborative.
Laura in CA
> The wife and I seem headed toward a, hopefully, collaborative divorce in the
> very near future. Our main asset, our home, may be an item of contention.
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> Greg S.
Greg S. - 30 Nov 2004 16:00 GMT
Thanks Laura.
I think you have a very good point. Is there any law or hard rule that
REQUIRES home and property to be divided, assigned and or sold at the time
of divorce? I don't believe there is. You seem to propose a (time)
structured settlement agreement for payment that could benefit all parties.
Am I correct? It would be similar, for example, to when a young child
receives a large jury award in a lawsuit but doesn't really need it nor can
adequately manage it until later on, say college age, when that (invested)
money would be most useful. Let me reiterate, even after divorce, I will
still feel extremely responsible to my child, my ex-wife and our marital
home. She can't afford to hire out everything that needs fixing and I can
visit more often! I'm gonna go out and buy some paint now. Thanks again.
Divine Wisdom:
It's hard to see the forest or the trees when you knock yourself senseless
with a branch.
Greg S. in NY
----- Original Message -----
From: "Laura" <tlvdatsi@pacbell.net>
Newsgroups: alt.support.divorce
Sent: Tuesday, November 30, 2004 3:24 AM
Subject: Re: Property Division
> Not knowing NY law ... it appears to me that your idea is a little bit more
> complex than need be.
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> Laura in CA