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DaKitty - 24 Feb 2005 07:12 GMT
Every other post here has my name in it.
I get to live with myself all day long... It's repetitive.

Can we do something else?
Let's exchange pet pictures!
Bill in Co. - 24 Feb 2005 07:32 GMT
> Every other post here has my name in it.
> I get to live with myself all day long... It's repetitive.
>
> Can we do something else?
> Let's exchange pet pictures!

No.
Joe St. Lucas - 24 Feb 2005 07:35 GMT
>> Can we do something else?
>> Let's exchange pet pictures!

Got a web site we can post them to?  Binaries aren't allowed here.
DaKitty - 24 Feb 2005 07:45 GMT
> >> Can we do something else?
> >> Let's exchange pet pictures!
>
> Got a web site we can post them to?  Binaries aren't allowed here.

alt.bin.pictures ?
Xenos the Elder - 24 Feb 2005 08:09 GMT
>>>Can we do something else?
>>>Let's exchange pet pictures!
>
> Got a web site we can post them to?  Binaries aren't allowed here.
I am certain that there is a binaries group just for pets.
alt.binaries.pictures.animals
under pets there are only birds.
mL - 24 Feb 2005 20:08 GMT
>>>>Can we do something else?
>>>>Let's exchange pet pictures!
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>alt.binaries.pictures.animals
>under pets there are only birds.

I'd also be interested in seeing/hearing about pets that other posters have.
I love animals!  
DrLith - 24 Feb 2005 20:50 GMT
> >>>>Can we do something else?
> >>>>Let's exchange pet pictures!
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> I'd also be interested in seeing/hearing about pets that other posters have.
> I love animals!

I seem to acquire emotionally disturbed pets. I have a beagle with
separation anxiety and an eating disorder, and a cat with oppositional
defiant disorder (possibly also a sociopath). DD has a gerbil and a
goldfish, both "handmedowns" from DS. The gerbil has a chewing compulsion.

She has made great strides in compasionate pet ownership, although she is
still a little too huggy with psychokitty. She had a hamster once. It
crawled up her sleeve. She tried to shake it out. Hamsters occasionally
recover from comas, but this one was not among the lucky.

DS retains only the last in a series of pet rats, a box turtle that appears
to be hibernating at the moment, an assortment of goldfish, and a beautiful
but lethargic beta.

Let's see...DF had a cat, with a vulgar name that rhymes with "Kitty." No,
not "Pussy." That does not rhyme. It died while we were on vacation last
summer, which is probably for the best, as he is now free to acquire a new
one with a more family-friendly moniker. DF also wants his own dog, "one
that will play fetch." He has a pond full of goldfish that pretty much do
their own thing. We've been looking into getting some ducks to keep the fish
company, to satiate DS's desire to have "a zillion pets," and to provide a
tasty alternative to Thanksgiving turkey. We have a copy of "Enslaved by
Ducks" on order from amazon.com to make sure we are not making a mistake.
mL - 24 Feb 2005 21:00 GMT
>I seem to acquire emotionally disturbed pets. I have a beagle with
>separation anxiety and an eating disorder, and a cat with oppositional
>defiant disorder (possibly also a sociopath). DD has a gerbil and a
>goldfish, both "handmedowns" from DS. The gerbil has a chewing compulsion.

So the fish is not emotionally disturbed, i take it. :-)
Our dog seems to have abandonment issues, as she needs to be against or ON you
all the time, and she's not a small dog.  We got her from a shelter and it
appears she was abused and abandoned.  She's the sweetest dog, but she still
sometimes cowers when you reach up for something, although we've NEVER struck
her.

>DS retains only the last in a series of pet rats, a box turtle that appears
>to be hibernating at the moment, an assortment of goldfish, and a beautiful
>but lethargic beta.

Lethargic beta?  One word:  mirror
;-)

>Let's see...DF had a cat, with a vulgar name that rhymes with "Kitty." No,
>not "Pussy." That does not rhyme. It died while we were on vacation last
>summer, which is probably for the best, as he is now free to acquire a new
>one with a more family-friendly moniker. DF also wants his own dog, "one
>that will play fetch." He has a pond full of goldfish that pretty much do
>their own thing.

Maybe once the dog learns to "fetch" the goldfish........
John Riggs - 25 Feb 2005 00:34 GMT
   Oh good! Give a Siamese fighting fish a mirror.

   Can fish get concussions from head butting a mirror?

| Lethargic beta?  One word:  mirror
| ;-)
Nearl J Icarus - 25 Feb 2005 09:55 GMT
>   Oh good! Give a Siamese fighting fish a mirror.
>   Can fish get concussions from head butting a mirror?

Yeah. They certainly live up to their name.
kato - 24 Feb 2005 22:28 GMT
> Let's see...DF had a cat, with a vulgar name that rhymes with "Kitty." No,
> not "Pussy." That does not rhyme.

Clitty?
John Riggs - 25 Feb 2005 00:28 GMT
   Thought the beagle died from smoke in a fire.

| > In article <385gbnF5km3e2U1@individual.net>, Xenos the Elder
| <someplacesomewhere@nothere.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 34 lines]
| tasty alternative to Thanksgiving turkey. We have a copy of "Enslaved by
| Ducks" on order from amazon.com to make sure we are not making a mistake.
DrLith - 25 Feb 2005 03:12 GMT
>     Thought the beagle died from smoke in a fire.

There are more beagles in heaven and on earth than are dream't of in your
philosophy, Horatio.
John Riggs - 25 Feb 2005 04:58 GMT
   I wanna see Beagle II ! Is it as sweet as Beagle I was?

| >     Thought the beagle died from smoke in a fire.
|
| There are more beagles in heaven and on earth than are dream't of in your
| philosophy, Horatio.
DrLith - 26 Feb 2005 03:08 GMT
>     I wanna see Beagle II ! Is it as sweet as Beagle I was?

I don't think I have any digital pics right now, but I'll try to remember to
scan some in at work next week. Your basic tri-color. I took it with great
pride when we were out hiking in West Virginia and someone commented,
"That's a fine-lookin' beagle ya got there. Fine-lookin' beagle!" She's very
friendly, but insecure.
John Riggs - 26 Feb 2005 04:21 GMT
   Well, insecure beats "Li'l Miss Independent" any day.

| >     I wanna see Beagle II ! Is it as sweet as Beagle I was?
|
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
| "That's a fine-lookin' beagle ya got there. Fine-lookin' beagle!" She's very
| friendly, but insecure.
DrLith - 27 Feb 2005 02:44 GMT
>     Well, insecure beats "Li'l Miss Independent" any day.

Well, not really.
Bill in Co. - 27 Feb 2005 03:31 GMT
>>     Well, insecure beats "Li'l Miss Independent" any day.
>
> Well, not really.

LOL.  Was this a generalization, or was this code for a couple of people in
here?
John Riggs - 27 Feb 2005 05:38 GMT
   Okay...but better than her chasing a deer halfway across a canal before
realizing that she's not got her Jesus shoes on and is sinking like a rock,
or taking herself for a walkabout.

| >     Well, insecure beats "Li'l Miss Independent" any day.
|
| Well, not really.
Joy - 25 Feb 2005 04:09 GMT
>> In article <385gbnF5km3e2U1@individual.net>, Xenos the Elder
> <someplacesomewhere@nothere.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> separation anxiety and an eating disorder, and a cat with oppositional
> defiant disorder (possibly also a sociopath).

How would that differ from any other cat?  (I've never been owned by a cat
that would do *anything* I told them to do!)  OTOH, I looked up the
characteristics of a sociopath, and darned if these these don't describe all
three of my current cats (especially the "grandiose sense of self-worth and
parasitic lifestyle" parts!)

Glibness/superficial charm.
Grandiose sense of self-worth.
Need for stimulation/proneness to boredom
Pathological lying
Conning/manipulative
Lack of remorse or guilt
Shallow affect
Callous/lack of empathy
Parasitic lifestyle
Poor behavioral controls
Promiscuous sexual behavior
Early behavior problems
Lack of realistic, long-term plans
Impulsivity
Irresponsibility
Failure to accept responsibility for own actions
YooperBoyka - 25 Feb 2005 13:17 GMT
>>> In article <385gbnF5km3e2U1@individual.net>, Xenos the Elder
>> <someplacesomewhere@nothere.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 20 lines]
> all three of my current cats (especially the "grandiose sense of
> self-worth and parasitic lifestyle" parts!)

Where did I see that?,...

A dog says, "He feeds me, he shelters me, he takes care of my
every need,...he must be a god."

A cat says, "He feeds me, he shelters me, he takes care of my
every need,...I must be a god."

> Glibness/superficial charm.
> Grandiose sense of self-worth.
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
> Irresponsibility
> Failure to accept responsibility for own actions

"Me-owwwch,...I meant to do that"

(...although the "Dumb Guy" has realistic long term goals,
...sleep)
DrLith - 26 Feb 2005 03:12 GMT
> >a cat with oppositional
> > defiant disorder (possibly also a sociopath).
>
> How would that differ from any other cat?  (I've never been owned by a cat
> that would do *anything* I told them to do!)

It's not just that she won't do anything I tell her--it's that she's very
aggressive and a terrible biter.

> OTOH, I looked up the
> characteristics of a sociopath, and darned if these these don't describe all
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
> Irresponsibility
> Failure to accept responsibility for own actions

Sounds about right!
Nearl J Icarus - 26 Feb 2005 07:12 GMT
>It's not just that she won't do anything I tell her--it's that she's very
>aggressive and a terrible biter.

My little angel has a cat like that. She's trying to get the cat to quit
biting so much, I don't see what the problem is. It is a cat. She found hers
as a wild kitten. I imagine the aggresivenss comes from it not being very
tame.

I ran across a cat a few weeks ago that is just getting into the full grown
stage. There was no taming this one, it was wild. If I caught her, I could
hold her and pet her. As soon as I let go I'd get hissed at and she'd run. She
was a real nice black cat, I wish I had found her earlier.

At first I thought it was one my son caught. There are some young black cats
running wild where his mother lives. He told me one time that he wanted to try
and catch one.
DrLith - 27 Feb 2005 02:44 GMT
> >It's not just that she won't do anything I tell her--it's that she's very
> >aggressive and a terrible biter.
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> as a wild kitten. I imagine the aggresivenss comes from it not being very
> tame.

The problem is, that even if a biting cat is not a threat to one's safety in
the way an aggressive dog is, it's still pretty unpleasant for children and
guests to have to deal with the onslaught of minor flesh wounds all the
time.
Nina - 27 Feb 2005 16:46 GMT
>> >It's not just that she won't do anything I tell her--it's that she's very
>> >aggressive and a terrible biter.
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>guests to have to deal with the onslaught of minor flesh wounds all the
>time.

My aunt had a psychotic cat who would randomly leap on people's ankles
and bite and scratch the hell out of them.  Yes, it's just a cat, but
it's still really painful, and cat scratches often get infected.  

But I think it's a lot harder to figure out how to deal with
behavioral problems in cats than in dogs.  My favorite cat has decided
that he's a magpie and is stealing my jewelry and hiding it.  I have
NO clue how to discourage this other than making it harder for him to
grab things.

Nina
Bill in Co. - 27 Feb 2005 19:12 GMT
>>>> It's not just that she won't do anything I tell her--it's that she's
very
>>>> aggressive and a terrible biter.
>>>
>>> My little angel has a cat like that. She's trying to get the cat to quit
>>> biting so much, I don't see what the problem is. It is a cat. She found
hers
>>> as a wild kitten. I imagine the aggresivenss comes from it not being very
>>> tame.
>>
>> The problem is, that even if a biting cat is not a threat to one's safety
in
>> the way an aggressive dog is, it's still pretty unpleasant for children
and
>> guests to have to deal with the onslaught of minor flesh wounds all the
>> time.
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> Nina

I got cat scratch fever from one cat.   And that was no fun, I can tell ya
that.
Nearl J Icarus - 28 Feb 2005 02:55 GMT
>My aunt had a psychotic cat who would randomly leap on people's ankles
>and bite and scratch the hell out of them.  Yes, it's just a cat, but
>it's still really painful, and cat scratches often get infected.  

What age is the cat? I've always liked to rough house with cats when I was
younger. (you'd think after a while that I would admit that cats are a lot
faster than I am). They tend to grow up a little more aggresive.

My son called the black stray we had "psycho." He said he got it tamed a
little bit when it wandered off to where ever it is now.

>But I think it's a lot harder to figure out how to deal with
>behavioral problems in cats than in dogs.  My favorite cat has decided
>that he's a magpie and is stealing my jewelry and hiding it.  I have
>NO clue how to discourage this other than making it harder for him to
>grab things.

Linda tells me that the cat she took in off the street runs off with various
things also. Pens, slippers. It used to get up on the frig, pull a tile off
the ceiling, and climb up into the ceiling.

When I was a kid, we had this one cat that in the middle of the night would
run full speed from one end of the house to the other. I came down stairs one
time to see what was going on. It came through the kitchen as fast as she
could, ran into my legs, got up and took off.

Cats don't surprise me anymore in what they do. When Linda tells me about her
cat, I just say, "well, it is a cat." When mine disbehave, I tap them on the
nose and tell them to quit. After a while they get a hint.
Nearl J Icarus - 24 Feb 2005 08:28 GMT
>Got a web site we can post them to?  Binaries aren't allowed here.

Who needs binaries?

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Nearl J Icarus - 27 Feb 2005 11:55 GMT
>>> Can we do something else?
>>> Let's exchange pet pictures!
>
>Got a web site we can post them to?  Binaries aren't allowed here.

Not exactly about pets, but who needs binaries? From a distance it isn't too
bad. At least I can tell who they are. 8-)

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DaKitty - 24 Feb 2005 07:44 GMT
> > Every other post here has my name in it.
> > I get to live with myself all day long... It's repetitive.
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> No.

Oh, come on now, don't tell me you don't have a name for 'it'
Every guy has a name for 'it'
What is it?   C'mon, give it up!
Bill in Co. - 24 Feb 2005 08:05 GMT
>>> Every other post here has my name in it.
>>> I get to live with myself all day long... It's repetitive.
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> Every guy has a name for 'it'
> What is it?   C'mon, give it up!

"I think i'm going to take my toys and go home".     :-)
Xenos the Elder - 24 Feb 2005 08:12 GMT
>>>>Every other post here has my name in it.
>>>>I get to live with myself all day long... It's repetitive.
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
> "I think i'm going to take my toys and go home".     :-)

I bought myself a infrared thermometer.
It takes only half a second to measure the temperature.
Don't has a probe.
The Dave© - 24 Feb 2005 16:33 GMT
> Xenos the Elder wrote:
> I bought myself a infrared thermometer.
> It takes only half a second to measure the temperature.
> Don't has a probe.

They take the fun out of everything.
John Riggs - 24 Feb 2005 17:39 GMT
   "No", because that is just too weird, and "No" because I personally
don't name my body parts.

| Oh, come on now, don't tell me you don't have a name for 'it'
| Every guy has a name for 'it'
| What is it?   C'mon, give it up!
Rog' - 24 Feb 2005 18:34 GMT
That's right, only women do that.  So DK, what did you name
your B/F's  Tell us, and we'll have Grace ring him up again. ;-)

> I personally don't name my body parts.
>
> | Oh, come on now, don't tell me you don't have a name for 'it.'
> | Every guy has a name for 'it'  What is it?   C'mon, give it up!
DaKitty - 24 Feb 2005 19:50 GMT
I think Grace wants my boyfriend.
:P~~~~~~~
Can't have him, he likes me better!

> That's right, only women do that.  So DK, what did you name
> your B/F's  Tell us, and we'll have Grace ring him up again. ;-)
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> > | Oh, come on now, don't tell me you don't have a name for 'it.'
> > | Every guy has a name for 'it'  What is it?   C'mon, give it up!
John Riggs - 24 Feb 2005 20:01 GMT
   Aaaaaaargh!

|I think Grace wants my boyfriend.
| :P~~~~~~~
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
| > > | Oh, come on now, don't tell me you don't have a name for 'it.'
| > > | Every guy has a name for 'it'  What is it?   C'mon, give it up!
Grace - 24 Feb 2005 21:16 GMT
> That's right, only women do that.  So DK, what did you name
> your B/F's  Tell us, and we'll have Grace ring him up again. ;-)

Actually Rog,  I think that call would be far more amusing if it were
to come from one of the men.

Maybe Rambler could callhim collect from Hong Kong?

Grace
GGGNH - 24 Feb 2005 13:28 GMT
> Every other post here has my name in it.
> I get to live with myself all day long... It's repetitive.
>
> Can we do something else?
> Let's exchange pet pictures!

You mean you don't like being the center of attention and the universe?
Could have fooled me. But then, I'm sure you feel you often do.

GGG

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DaKitty - 24 Feb 2005 19:03 GMT
> > Every other post here has my name in it.
> > I get to live with myself all day long... It's repetitive.
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>
> GGG

Not really, but some how I manage to end up in the middle.
I like positive attention from my friends and people close to me.
This kind of junk is just a by product of my moodiness and unrefined people
skills.

Then again, something tells me you're not looking for an honest answer from
me, but rather that yours was a rhetorical question with a built-in little
put-down. If you intended to hurt my feelings, it worked. Is it my turn to
hurt yours now? Oh, I know, you can do it to me, but if I do it to you, then
it's a bad thing.

Also, I'm wondering, you could have started talking about pets, or anything
else besides me, but you decided to turn the focus back on me, and put me on
the spot to talk about me again. Then you're going to accuse me of me liking
to be the center of attention. You know, that's very contradictory, on your
part.
See, when I don't answer, people make a big deal of it, and insist on an
answer, and try to challenge me into answering, and complain and dish out
putdowns if I do, and when I do, then many people complain I'm liking to be
the center of attention and insinuating that's a bad thing, and dish out
another set of putdowns.

So, I end up feeling like no matter what I do, it's going to be wrong, and
people are going to be unhappy about it, and it will always be my fault.

Tell you what, my people skills aren't that great, and I really don't know
what to do to make you all happy. Maybe I'm overanalyzing, but I'm seeing so
much conflicting information, I don't know how to make sense of it all, and
yeah, then I get frustrated and stop caring, and snip back at people.
Contrary to what most people here have convinced themselves of, I too have
feelings, and they do count. (I know, what a surprise, Kitty has feelings
too. How could that possibly be!)

So, why doesn't this group put their heads together, come up with a set of
instructions on how you'd like me to behave, that will make everyone happy,
and I'll be happy to follow it, and please you all.
Grace - 24 Feb 2005 19:25 GMT
> So, why doesn't this group put their heads together, come up with a set of
> instructions on how you'd like me to behave, that will make everyone happy,
> and I'll be happy to follow it, and please you all.

Promise?

Leave! Do not pass go.  Do not collect $200.

Grace
John Riggs - 24 Feb 2005 19:28 GMT
   That was equally uncalled for, Grace. Throw away that stick yer pokin'
at folks with.

| > So, why doesn't this group put their heads together, come up with a
| set of
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| Grace
iNet - 24 Feb 2005 19:43 GMT
Grace - DaKitty

Go to your garage/where you store your tools.

Get a pair of pliers & wire cutters.  Put next to your computer.

When the urge to write or respond to this newsgroup, take pliers, rip out
the "enter" key on your keyboard.

Should the urge continue, take wire cutters, cut electrical cord.

>    That was equally uncalled for, Grace. Throw away that stick yer pokin'
> at folks with.
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> |
> | Grace
mL - 24 Feb 2005 20:24 GMT
>Contrary to what most people here have convinced themselves of, I too have
>feelings, and they do count. (I know, what a surprise, Kitty has feelings
>too. How could that possibly be!)

You're not allowed to have feelings, kitty!
;-)

My SO and i have been told to f*ck off, go to h*ll, etc. in here over the
years.  It does hurt, especially when offering help that gets
misunderstood;  But when you learn to consider the source of the words instead
of the words themselves, it's easier to let it roll off your back.

There's a lot more inner-peace in rising above the BS than there is in
wrestling in it.

Try, when you feel yourself being provoked or dragged into something, to just
drop it.  Keep one of those squishy squeezie things next to your keyboard and
when you feel the urge to strike out, pick that up instead.  Or whatever other
method of self-restraint works for you. :-)  
DaKitty - 24 Feb 2005 20:33 GMT
> >Contrary to what most people here have convinced themselves of, I too have
> >feelings, and they do count. (I know, what a surprise, Kitty has feelings
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> when you feel the urge to strike out, pick that up instead.  Or whatever other
> method of self-restraint works for you. :-)

Yeah, good point.
I think I just need to be done with this place. I'm too sensitive for it.
Bill in Co. - 24 Feb 2005 23:34 GMT
>> In article <3YSdnTTG2pOFuIPfRVn-tg@giganews.com>, "DaKitty"
> <Imgo...@dotcomsomething.net> wrote:
>>
>>> Contrary to what most people here have convinced themselves of, I too
have
>>> feelings, and they do count. (I know, what a surprise, Kitty has
feelings
>>> too. How could that possibly be!)
>>
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>> misunderstood;  But when you learn to consider the source of the words
>> instead of the words themselves, it's easier to let it roll off your
back.

>> There's a lot more inner-peace in rising above the BS than there is in
>> wrestling in it.
>>
>> Try, when you feel yourself being provoked or dragged into something, to
just
>> drop it.  Keep one of those squishy squeezie things next to your keyboard
and
>> when you feel the urge to strike out, pick that up instead.  Or whatever
>> other method of self-restraint works for you. :-)
>
> Yeah, good point.
> I think I just need to be done with this place. I'm too sensitive for it.

Nah, I don't think so.   Somebody's gotta stick around here to keep these
people in line.    Despite their *pathetic* protestations.
DaKitty - 25 Feb 2005 00:02 GMT
> >> In article <3YSdnTTG2pOFuIPfRVn-tg@giganews.com>, "DaKitty"
> > <Imgo...@dotcomsomething.net> wrote:
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> Nah, I don't think so.   Somebody's gotta stick around here to keep these
> people in line.    Despite their *pathetic* protestations.

I suppose.
Next time someone crosses the line and makes an uninvited intrusion IRL, I
shoot first, ask questions later.
Nearl J Icarus - 25 Feb 2005 09:49 GMT
>So, why doesn't this group put their heads together, come up with a set of
>instructions on how you'd like me to behave, that will make everyone happy,
>and I'll be happy to follow it, and please you all.

Just be yourself. Count to 10, and then post. 8-) You can't please everybody,
just please yourself.
DaKitty - 25 Feb 2005 19:15 GMT
> >So, why doesn't this group put their heads together, come up with a set of
> >instructions on how you'd like me to behave, that will make everyone happy,
> >and I'll be happy to follow it, and please you all.
>
> Just be yourself. Count to 10, and then post. 8-) You can't please everybody,
> just please yourself.

I *am* being myself, that's what gets me in hot water all the time.
Bill in Co. - 25 Feb 2005 23:33 GMT
>> In article <3YSdnTTG2pOFuIPfRVn-tg@giganews.com>,
Imgo...@dotcomsomething.net
>> says...
>>
>>> So, why doesn't this group put their heads together, come up with a set
of
>>> instructions on how you'd like me to behave, that will make everyone
happy,
>>> and I'll be happy to follow it, and please you all.
>>
>> Just be yourself. Count to 10, and then post. 8-) You can't please
everybody,
>> just please yourself.
>>
> I *am* being myself, that's what gets me in hot water all the time.

Only with the ding-a-lings.
Nearl J Icarus - 26 Feb 2005 07:01 GMT
>I *am* being myself, that's what gets me in hot water all the time.

There's an awful lot going on in between you being yourself and the trouble
you get into. A lot of people around here don't see the issues you're dealing
with. Lashing out at faceless people is pretty easy. If we were all sitting at
a big table drinking coffee, the conversations would not nearly be as extreme.
The only reason I can see for you getting into so much hot water is because
you're an outsider. Look at some of the stuff I get into. 8-) I'll always be a
clique of one, so it doesn't bother me in the slightest.
% - 24 Feb 2005 14:45 GMT
: Every other post here has my name in it.
: I get to live with myself all day long... It's repetitive.
:
: Can we do something else?
: Let's exchange pet pictures!

yea , we can read the posts without your name in them ,
they're more fun anyway cause they're all about ... me
 
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