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Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / December 2005After she verbally agreed to the settlement she formally declined
My situation is so weird, almost at the end of the 2yr wait and she filed no fault, blah blah blah. I'm sure you heard it all. But anyway she is engaged has the house ruined my credit along with hers and verbally agreed to a settlement and now she declined. I am not sure if some people just run it out for the money or what. She is freaking engaged and has been for about a year. Anyone going through anything similiar? >My situation is so weird, almost at the end of the 2yr wait and she >filed no fault, blah blah blah. I'm sure you heard it all. But anyway >she is engaged has the house ruined my credit along with hers and >verbally agreed to a settlement and now she declined. I am not sure if >some people just run it out for the money or what. She is freaking >engaged and has been for about a year. She's been engaged while still married??? >> My situation is so weird, almost at the end of the 2yr wait and she >> filed no fault, blah blah blah. I'm sure you heard it all. But anyway [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > > She's been engaged while still married??? This is the New Age, dear. Please DO try to keep up with the times. >My situation is so weird, almost at the end of the 2yr wait and she >filed no fault, blah blah blah. I'm sure you heard it all. But anyway >she is engaged has the house Why does she have the house? > >My situation is so weird, almost at the end of the 2yr wait and she >>filed no fault, blah blah blah. I'm sure you heard it all. But anyway >>she is engaged, has the house... > Why does she have the house? As said about someone else, its time for the OP to show some cajones and set a date with the court for a trial, instead of letting her make all the moves. Why has he put his life on hold? The OP may or may not come out ahead, but its a damn sight better being free to move on than twisting in the wind. =R= My kids live there so I told her she could keep the house. I basically told her to keep everything and I will keep my 401k and claim one of our kids. We were only married for 3.5 years and she drug it out for 2years! This whole system is absolutley crazy! > My kids live there so I told her she could keep the house. > [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > > This whole system is absolutley crazy! so, what's your lawyer doing? curious... LL He said my offer is more than generous, basically we only have 2 more month's. He said if she don't want to agree lets go to court. He is only worried she will take it out on me with the children. But i say f*ck her, lets go to court and prove how you deserve alimony when you bought new boobs bought a new truck You are engaged get your hair done every week ruined my credit Are 3 month's behind on the mortgage for no reason 3 month's behind on the home equity loan. Thats what i say! >He said my offer is more than generous, basically we only have 2 more >month's. He said if she don't want to agree lets go to court. He is [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > >Thats what i say! YAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think the engaged part should nullify any alimony, don't care about the length of time for the engagement. > YAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think the engaged part > should nullify any alimony, don't care about the length of time for the > engagement. If he's not divorced yet, he's probably only paying spousal support until the settlement. Seems she's taking whatever she can get for right now. <shrugs> The support will stop on D day. just my 2¢ LL > He said my offer is more than generous, basically we only have 2 more > month's. He said if she don't want to agree lets go to court. He is > only worried she will take it out on me with the children. ok, so you have a waiting period in your state. I'm not sure your lawyer should be "worried" about her plans...seems he should be *prepared* for whatever happens. > But i say f*ck her, lets go to court and prove how you deserve alimony > when you [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > > Thats what i say! I gotta LOL- here.....a GF of mine decided she should judge how her CS payments were being spent....seems the real *Judge* in the case didn't think that was any of her business. ;-) Due to the length of your M, I wouldn't suspect your alimony will last too long. I do hope you've got a sep. agreement for the house & loan stuff. That's what I would've expected from my lawyer- protection... LL |
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