Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / May 2006

...DON'T!!!

Break off that engagement right now!

This is the BEST free advice you as a single or divorced man will ever
get.

I began to hear stories of married men who were unhappily married, or
whose wives didn't have sex with them but once a year. I used to think
this was the exception.

Lately I am beginning to think it is the norm:

1) The owner at the office has an unhappy marriage and a wife who
doesn't have sex with him at all.

2) The field super isn't getting much from his wife.

3) The Contracts Admin and her husband don't wear their wedding bands
anymore and are actively searching out affairs. She even made a subtle
play for me and I demurred.

4) At a previous job the field super wasn't getting enough sex from his
wife.

5) At this same job the GM said that his wife only cares if the direct
deposit was there on Thursday at noon, and that his wife has needlessly
redecorated his house 5 times in the past 20 years.

6) One of my own brothers has been shut down by his wife. She just
doesn't care and doesn't even defend her position.

6 men, 6 with sexless or nearly sexless marriages.

This is now the norm in the U.S. I don't think that any man who gets
married can expect sex from his wife anymore. They just refuse to put
out. The laws, the courts, CPS, and Family Judges have put so much
power on the side of the women that they just don't even care about
honouring their vows anymore.

As the shrink from "Breaking Bonaduce" told Danny B. - "Danny, no
married man has sex as much as he wants to."

I heard another man say that on camera, and I thought, "Why should any
man marry, then? Why put oneself in a situation where you can 100%
guarantee your needs will not be met at all? With the added burden of
financial ruin? WHY?"

I would conservatively estimate that 80% of all American marriages are
sexless or nearly so.

Don't get married, guys. You aren't even paying for it, because you
aren't getting anything in exchange.

This is what marriage is like in the states. The women eventually stop
having sex, and nothing can be done to have them change their position.
They got what they want - the family, the 3 kids, the 2 cars, the
5,000sq.ft. house, the part-time job that relieves boredom but has zero
stress, the husband who busts his a.s to earn 6-figures.

But they don't even think they have an end of the bargain to keep up,
so they just stop trying at all.

It is all about them. There is no longer a benefit to any man with
marriage in the U.S.

Men don't get anything in return except responsibilities, liabilities,
and burdens.