Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / August 2006

Divorce recovery class lol this town doesn't even have a crisis line.
I called the number in the book a while back and I got a recording the
number is out of service

So tell us all of YOUR feelings of failure Dave, and you worries about what
the future may bring.

This is quite a contrast to what you were preaching when you were trolling
the dating groups condemning everyone for having sex outside of marriage
etc. : There you seem to imply that you've never had a care in the world due
to your god handling everything for you, and that you're happily awaiting
your "treasure in heaven". The message you're putting over here is quite
different. I note your god didn't take away all your worries, or your
homosexuality which was the major cause of your divorce come to that. 'Well
it's just another case of your hypocrisy and lieing for Jesus again isn't
it? I see you think that, in addition to being an expert on how everyone
should live their lives, on religion, and on sex, you're also an expert on
divorce too! Well you did cause your own. Perhaps you'd like to inform
everyone on how your own divorce came about, so that they never make the
same mistakes. Do you think that failure makes you an expert? If that were
true you'd indeed be an expert in virtually everything! Sadly a string of
failures without even minor successes makes you a failure generally. It is
true that failure is a step toward success; but that is only if one is at
the threshold of discovery. : Once discovered, those who fail didn't read
the instructions on the tin. Yes you've listened to fundy tapes on the
subject and read all thier mannuals, like shutting the stable door after the
horse has bolted. Even then
you're only getting a religiously-biased view of why you cocked up, as you
have done in every area of your life. Hmm, and now here you are dispensing
your in-hindsight biased advice in this group.

So Dave, if you're such an expert then why haven't you remarried and made a
success of it? What's that? : You can't marry a sheep...! Well it's true an
animal can't say "No.". Have you ever thought of becoming a shepherd? Ah
yes, you're a single shepherd of the flock of god. : Nice cop-out. If you
can cause a minor spectacle here and there to divert people's attention from
reality, and bend the truth occasionally, talk smart words full of
diversions, you can fool a lot of people. But remember; you can fool some of
the people all the time, and you can fool all of the people some of the
time, but you can't fool all of the people all of the time. - And you've
burned all your bridges in the dating groups already...It's just a matter of
time until everyone sees through the mask you use. Why not put down your
webtv keyboard and make a go of that phoney hvac business you purport to
run? Oh I see; you'll have to learn the trade properly rather than being an
odd-job cowboy. OK stay a hack then.

Tell me; just how many people have you "converted" through your constant
trolling? How many people have you helped with your "advice"? Your game plan
is clear to me. : Give advice from the fundy textbooks, and if it helps
someone they'll be impressed and want to know how you gained such "insight".
You tell them that your god has written it in "his word" the Bible, and
voila; maybe a convert at last! You won't fool the children of the
revolution though. I see your subtle mind-games for what they are; a
religious recruitment drive. (Of course, you were taught exactly how to do
this by your minister in "God's Holy Church of George Bush", or is that
"George Bush's Holy Church of God."?

Don't let this fraud fool you people; he's doing all this as part of a
Bushite Christian Extreme Fundamentalist recruitment drive, and all of you
are prospective candidates for the Republican Extreme Right supporter's
club.

Having made himself unpopular and a proven hack in alt.hvac (Posting as
"hvacfella".), having alienated all posters in the dating groups (posting as
"Advicegiver4u", and "GodisNumeroUno", as well as "DaveinIllinois",
"itisdave", and other identities - even posting under 2 identities at once
agreeing with himself since nobody else would.) having proved himself to be
a total ignoramus fuckwit under the guise of "Vettefella" in the corvette
groups, he now has decided to come here with his campaign and give "advice".

Please excuse me butting in; but I thought it best to put those of you not
in the know in the picture.

No car I like the one I got........I am thinking a bigger big screen.

We didn't have any kids together but we did raise my two boys and her
boy as a family. They are all over 18 and on thier own.

lol.....so I have to wait three months or thirty days to remarry?
sh.t....
Lol I can wait another 300 years for all I care.......The belief of the
instituition of marriage is gone from this dude FOREVER.
Ya know I got out cheap indead I did ..............still bet I would
have been beeter off today hiring a hooker to feed my kids and service
me for the last 15 years...........sorry to sound bitter against women
........I am not .......just against the system..........dont think I
could survive another stint of that.............took me 13 years to get
out........ the last 6 were Brutal.....what a joke and now they tell me
I have to wait 30 days............why dont they make it three million
days............that wud regain my faith! Thanks for your input eh!