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Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / September 2006I MUST LIKE IT!
WTH? As I am doing my hair, nails, make-up, picking out a perfect outfit, I realized something......I am a women who keeps picking abusive men, either physical or mental, I pick em, what is up with that? I have a wondeful Father and have NEVER been abused by him or anyone when I was a child, but yet, why do I find comfort in the ones that hurt me the most? I even thought about picking back up with the Lawyer that I fired, and he hurt me the most, because it had everything to do with custody... What is wrong with me? When will I be loved? (Linda Ronstat) 1976????? LOL.... Grrrrrrrr, Vicki. >WTH? As I am doing my hair, nails, make-up, picking out a perfect >outfit, I realized something......I am a women who keeps picking >abusive men, either physical or mental, I pick em, what is up with >that? If you put that much effort into picking out clothing and grooming yourself, why not put just as much effort into picking out a compatible mate? Get into some counseling to deal with this so that you won't continue in a negative pattern. Another thought.... on a day you don't have to go to work, try skipping the make-up, manicure, "perfect" outfit, every hair in place, etc... Throw on some clean comfy jeans and a simple blouse, go w/o makeup and let your hair dry natural, and see if you can get real comfortable this way - even try going out to the store or library as a "nature-girl"... see what happens and how you feel about yourself... Now i don't mean sloppy, just natural. You need to learn to love who YOU are on the inside. Get in touch with your inner beauty. That is the level in which you can connect with another person who is complimentary to your being (and you to his). Hummm, something to make me go...''hummm'' you have a good point! I'll try, but I never leave without make up,,,I DO wear sweat pants and ball caps, A LOT...LOL...a little more than I should...;-) > >WTH? As I am doing my hair, nails, make-up, picking out a perfect > >outfit, I realized something......I am a women who keeps picking [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > inner beauty. That is the level in which you can connect with another person > who is complimentary to your being (and you to his). >>WTH? As I am doing my hair, nails, make-up, picking out a perfect >>outfit, I realized something......I am a women who keeps picking [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > If you put that much effort into picking out clothing and grooming yourself, > why not put just as much effort into picking out a compatible mate? No need anymore. She found Xenos. > Get into some counseling to deal with this so that you won't continue in a > negative pattern. She must accept her masochist and evil nature for which she deserves punishment. > Another thought.... on a day you don't have to go to work, try skipping the > make-up, manicure, "perfect" outfit, every hair in place, etc... Throw on > some clean comfy jeans and a simple blouse, go w/o makeup and let your hair > dry natural, and see if you can get real comfortable this way - even try going > out to the store or library as a "nature-girl"... see what happens and how > you feel about yourself... Now i don't mean sloppy, just natural. With a dog collar around the neck. > You need to learn to love who YOU are on the inside. Please don't give wrong advice's. She is bad and deserves punishment by her master Xenos. > Get in touch with your > inner beauty. I am willing to do that to her. > That is the level in which you can connect with another person > who is complimentary to your being (and you to his). My dungeon is open for her. >My dungeon is open for her. She don't need no dungeon . Her problem is that she "DIDNT LISTEN" . Sorry ( just joking) . Couldnt resist : ) >>>WTH? As I am doing my hair, nails, make-up, picking out a perfect >>>outfit, I realized something......I am a women who keeps picking [quoted text clipped - 32 lines] >> complimentary to your being (and you to his). > My dungeon is open for her. Now I am really confused! lol > >My dungeon is open for her. > She don't need no dungeon . Her problem is that she "DIDNT LISTEN" . [quoted text clipped - 36 lines] > >> complimentary to your being (and you to his). > > My dungeon is open for her. > You need to learn to love who YOU are on the inside. Get in touch with your > inner beauty. That is the level in which you can connect with another person > who is complimentary to your being (and you to his). Yesss, yess, yes! Temily I suppose when you start thinking of yourself as a woman and not a little girl. Women want men, not little boys. > WTH? As I am doing my hair, nails, make-up, picking out a perfect > outfit, I realized something......I am a women who keeps picking [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > > Grrrrrrrr, Vicki. > WTH? As I am doing my hair, nails, make-up, picking out a perfect > outfit, I realized something......I am a women who keeps picking [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > > Grrrrrrrr, Vicki. You can love me if you want and I can give you a whipping here and then. It's perfect normal to be a masochist and want to be abused. I have a huge collection of tools that give pain/pleasure. > You can love me if you want and I can give you a whipping here and then. > It's perfect normal to be a masochist and want to be abused. > I have a huge collection of tools that give pain/pleasure. Just about choking on my banana here! Oh wait! Don't take that out of context or anything! But....using Vicki's acronym... "WTH"? Temily Vicki said > WTH? As I am doing my hair, nails, make-up, picking out a perfect > outfit, I realized something......I am a women who keeps picking > abusive men, either physical or mental, I pick em, what is up with > that? My guess is that maybe they pick you because you come across as somewhat subservient. > I have a wondeful Father and have NEVER been abused by him or anyone > when I was a child, but yet, why do I find comfort in the ones that > hurt me the most? Is it really comfort? Casey I don't know what it is, but whatever it is I finaly realize this and think I will keep to my self... Maybe I will just get some new batteries and, >>>>>>well, LOL....you know...lol..;-) > Vicki said > [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > > Casey Vicki said > > Vicki said > > [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > I don't know what it is, but whatever it is I finaly realize this and > think I will keep to my self... I think you need to put some real effort into being happy with yourself while with no one else. > Maybe I will just get some new batteries and, >>>>>>well, LOL....you > know...lol..;-) Hey, at least with the batteries, you are the one in control of the "situation". Casey > I don't know what it is, but whatever it is I finaly realize this and > think I will keep to my self... > > Maybe I will just get some new batteries and, >>>>>>well, LOL....you > know...lol..;-) http://www.extremerestraints.com/the-rider-fuck-machine_543.html No batteries needed with this " baby " and it's you who is in control. >>Vicki said >> [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] >> >>Casey > WTH? As I am doing my hair, nails, make-up, picking out a perfect > outfit, I realized something......I am a women who keeps picking [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > > Grrrrrrrr, Vicki. Wonder if it's because you just have a big heart, a nurturer, and you think you can 'fix' them? It's hard for women like that to realize that they can't fix anyone else. And they get used in the process by the damaged men they are trying to fix. You might be on to something Rod.....I Really need to fix *me* from picking broken men! I *am* forsure the nurtuing type...i'm a real kiss a.s too, now I want mine kissed...lol...that's a real joke.. > Wonder if it's because you just have a big heart, a nurturer, and you > think you can 'fix' them? It's hard for women like that to realize that > they can't fix anyone else. And they get used in the process by the > damaged men they are trying to fix. A couple of questions come to mind. Do you deep down feel like you are somehow not a good person, like you are not worthy of being treated well? A bad self image could be at the bottom of this. On the other hand, do you feel secretly relieved when these relationships end? Do you maybe have a fear of intimacy that causes you to find men who are going to sabotage the relationship for you? No idea if these even apply to you. Just something to think about. My best advice would be to see a therapist and delve into this. There is something going on here, and you need to figure out what it is. >Wonder if it's because you just have a big heart, a nurturer, and you >think you can 'fix' them? I'm sorry about my humorous responce to this thread . (all kidding aside) I have learned that people who are good to others make easy prey for those who are not so good . Being nice and good hearted is one thing . Being stupid and nice is another . I was once guilty of being stupid and nice . Boy did I pay a price for it . >> WTH? As I am doing my hair, nails, make-up, picking out a perfect >> outfit, I realized something......I am a women who keeps picking [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > they can't fix anyone else. And they get used in the process by the > damaged men they are trying to fix. |
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