Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / October 2006

A pre-nup is a written contract. So is a handshake agreement. Anyone who
will break a handshake agreement will also break a written contract. Women
FEEL absolutely no compunctions whatever about breaking contracts of any
sort. They do whatever they FEEL like then find justifications for their
actions later. Their FEELINGS are their reality. Check out the new book _The
Female Brain_ for an extensive, scientific, discourse on the subject.

Monogamous marriage was created by the Judeao-Christians as a way to provide
wives to most men. Women naturally go to the harem system that prevails in
the rest of the world. They really do NOT want to spend much time with any
particular man. They just want a man around for a short time to get them
pregnant and to support them and their brood. By being in a harem they get
all the advantages of having a man around without having to spend much time
with the actual human being that he is. They only get hot for a small
percentage of men, and they care not if he is doing other women. They
actually prefer to have him doing other women, it lessens their time
requirements with him. Look at Tom Jones, Mick Jagger, Bill Clinton,
Casanova as examples of this process at work.

Women don't stay because they get married and they don't leave because he
refuses to marry them. All marriage does in this age is allow them to take
half of his success with them when their FEELINGS flip for hormonal reasons
that have nothing to do with anything he ever said or did. Look at what
Heather Mills is doing to Paul McCartney. She actually thinks she is
entitled to half of Paul's lifetime success and the results of all his
creative genius and hard work getting it out to the world just because she
was married to him for the last six years. She never helped him write a song
or record it or go on the road to perform it, yet she still wants half of
all his ca$h.

In _The Grapes Of Wrath_ Steinbeck makes a great analogy about men and
women. Think of a creek. Men are the rocks in the creek, women are the water
that flows around the rocks. Nothing a man does can prevent a woman from
moving on.

Protect yourself, men, and NEVER get married. Be nice to them, enjoy their
company when they FEEL like granting you some time. Even have children with
them (The woman I used to be "married" to and I raised five together). Just
don't sign away half your worldly success to her with a contract that has no
true meaning to her.

Bottom line: just FORGET ALL ABOUT MARRYING HER in the first place. That
makes the whole problem of pre-nups irrelevant, just like her wedding "vows"
are to her.