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lvpi - 11 Apr 2007 20:44 GMT
Internet dating has already made a dent on society by leaving a dusty
trail of broken marriages, could-have-beens, and girlfriend and
boyfriend fights. With profile descriptions ranging from "not so happy
with marriage" to "married but we swing it", online cheating and
infidelity is on a career high for societies already hooked to the
Internet.

Some studies have shown that at least 30 percent of online dating
sites' visitors are already married and research done by the reputable
University of Florida conclude that most of it start out as flirting
and then eventually leads into cybersex and then if the "thing" goes
on, it becomes the real thing.
Online dating sites have been considered as a form of escape. Some
people in dating sites have been around at least 50 dates in as little
as two to three years. Some even hook up with married people who are
looking to sneak around and create the ultimate "spring fling".
Sexual addiction treatment centers have described the social dating
phenomenon over the internet as an entity which promotes lust among
married and unmarried people. The anonymity one can get on the
Internet can be very exciting and can trap people in a never ending
cycle of sex outside of the marital bond.
The Internet has made it possible for unsatisfied married couples to
INSTANTLY hook up with someone and fulfill their fantasies. People
used to post ads in swinger magazines but now, one can just post in a
dating site and hook up in the next hour or so. Things are
unbelievably fast right now that the temptation amongst married
couples to cheat is heightened immensely.
Spouses or husbands can seem to get away with it but there are a
myriad of computer programs out there both online and offline that
will help you identify if your spouse or husband is cheating on you.
Programs such as keyloggers record all data that is inputed in the
computer including passwords, instant messages, website addresses,
etc.

But there's really only one proven method to find out if your loved
one is cheating online.
WWW.emailrevealer.com. Dating Service Assessment will locate any
online personal ads your loved one is registered on..
saulgoode - 11 Apr 2007 23:29 GMT
> Internet dating has already made a dent on society by leaving a dusty
> trail of broken marriages, could-have-beens, and girlfriend and
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> Internet.
> <SNIP> didn't read all the snipped spammy parts...

Just wanted to comment: No such thing as online cheating. Blahditty
blah. Like saying looking at the sales-girl in the mall is cheating.

It's a bad habit, a vice, and yeah, I wouldn't appreciate it if my
lover were ignoring me and finding herself some occupations online,
but I wouldn't call it cheating.

I'd call it boredom. I'd call it a fantasy. I'd call it an R-rated
movie, or a weird dream. I might even call it rude and inconsiderate.
But not cheating. I mean, come on!

- Saul
Bogart - 12 Apr 2007 20:46 GMT
>> Internet dating has already made a dent on society by leaving a dusty
>> trail of broken marriages, could-have-beens, and girlfriend and
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> Just wanted to comment: No such thing as online cheating. Blahditty
> blah. Like saying looking at the sales-girl in the mall is cheating.

Depends.
It may not be just looking at.

bogey

> It's a bad habit, a vice, and yeah, I wouldn't appreciate it if my
> lover were ignoring me and finding herself some occupations online,
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
>  - Saul
ajoshi390@gmail.com - 13 Apr 2007 07:07 GMT
> >> Internet dating has already made a dent on society by leaving a dusty
> >> trail of broken marriages, could-have-beens, and girlfriend and
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
>
> >  - Saul

hi how r u?
S.D. - 12 Apr 2007 22:34 GMT
> But not cheating. I mean, come on!

Maybe that's part of the problem.  Mark my words - chatting online in
and of itself isn't the problem for most woman - it's the precursor to
online intimacy; which is what most woman seek and idiot men haven't a
clue about because they're so wrapped up in their own me, me, me
insecurities.  Then along comes the day when find themselves in a
hotel/motel room setting on the bed staring at their luggage asking
themselve why poor me??? ... LOL.
Signature

SD:)

Nearl J Icarus - 14 Apr 2007 05:07 GMT
and saulgoode made the comment...

>Just wanted to comment: No such thing as online cheating. Blahditty
>blah. Like saying looking at the sales-girl in the mall is cheating.

(ppssttt... Saul, they are trying to sell a service so don't give them ideas
on how to rack up the "they're cheating" routine...).
John - 12 Apr 2007 00:21 GMT
> INSTANTLY hook up with someone and fulfill their fantasies. People
> used to post ads in swinger magazines but now, one can just post in a
> dating site and hook up in the next hour or so.

Wow, hook up with someone in the next hour, what dating site is this?
lvpi - 12 Apr 2007 05:26 GMT
> > INSTANTLY hook up with someone and fulfill their fantasies. People
> > used to post ads in swinger magazines but now, one can just post in a
> > dating site and hook up in the next hour or so.
>
> Wow, hook up with someone in the next hour, what dating site is this?

Myspace is one.
ajoshi390@gmail.com - 13 Apr 2007 07:06 GMT
> > INSTANTLY hook up with someone and fulfill their fantasies. People
> > used to post ads in swinger magazines but now, one can just post in a
> > dating site and hook up in the next hour or so.
>
> Wow, hook up with someone in the next hour, what dating site is this?

hi how r u?
BP - 12 Apr 2007 02:57 GMT
*blah blah blah*
>But there's really only one proven method to find out if your loved
>one is cheating online.
>*snip spamlink*. Dating Service Assessment will locate any
>online personal ads your loved one is registered on..

Pffft. Yeah, right, by looking up their email address? As if anyone
uses their regular email for a dating service...

BP
lvpi - 12 Apr 2007 05:25 GMT
> *blah blah blah*
>
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> BP

About 60% of the orders we get return results to online personal ads
so yes they are using their real email address.
BP - 12 Apr 2007 13:37 GMT
>About 60% of the orders we get return results to online personal ads
>so yes they are using their real email address.

You're still a spammer, and so's your mom.

FOAD!
PH - 12 Apr 2007 19:41 GMT
> *blah blah blah*
>
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> BP

No, it's the people who want you to think that they are using the
dating services.  IOW, people  can be evil.
mhitsos@lycos.com - 23 Apr 2007 11:25 GMT
> Internet dating has already made a dent on society by leaving a dusty
> trail of broken marriages, could-have-beens, and girlfriend and
[quoted text clipped - 34 lines]
> WWW.emailrevealer.com. Dating Service Assessment will locate any
> online personal ads your loved one is registered on..

Cheating is not considered a crime by the law, neither explotation of
the poor by the rich.
Being cheated on can lead to depression and suicide but the law
protects the cheater not then one cheated open on.
If you mention even once the name of the cheater, even if not conected
in any way to yourself, to your marriage or to cheating, the law will
hunt you for years to come.
Meanwhile the troll who is posting obscene words about your ex and her
boyfriend goes free.
It can go even as far that a well known psychopathic troll is
threatening to kill a person who you know and for which you get the
blame.
They took our PC's on the 23rd last month and it will take one other
month for the investigation if we ever get our computers back.
Meanwhile informations are disapearing from the proxi servers the
troll has been using.
It's a weird world standing on it's head.
mhitsos@lycos.com - 23 Apr 2007 12:25 GMT
On 23 huhti, 13:25, mhit...@lycos.com wrote:

> > Internet dating has already made a dent on society by leaving a dusty
> > trail of broken marriages, could-have-beens, and girlfriend and
[quoted text clipped - 54 lines]
>
> - Näytä siteerattu teksti -

A hint:
Use the first name of my ex and my surname.
Do a google search.
All messages that are coming up are from the Irish troll.
" If "  I would have NEVER used my real name and location the troll
would have never been able to do what he did but am I responsible for
the doings of a troll who is posting obscene posts about my ex, her
boyfriend and me?
Yes he is posting obscene messages about me too.
Plenty of them
Something " you " failed to notice.
Wonder why!?
Nobody in the news groups believes that I am the Irish troll or that
he is doing me a " favor " but somebody here in Turku/Finland think's
otherwise.
 
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