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Debate v Propaganda

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Kane - 13 Sep 2004 19:02 GMT
Hello,

When challenged to discuss a questionable claim she has posted to
these newsgroups Fern will, rather than engage honestly, rattle off an
ad hom or two, and immediately post a flurry of even more questionable
propaganda.

Her responses consist of sound bites rather than reasonable,
thoughtful attempts to rebutt others challenges to the claims.

Her posts endings are replete anti CPS and often anti government
materials, referances to websites of the same nature, and claims she
cannot and does not support with facts.

In ascps, we are culled down now to two propagandists, a bigot of
fundamentalist mindset, and an out of work freeloader.

I'd say we've humored them long enough, and that some real business
can be done here now without engaging them at all, other than to
occasionally laugh in appreciation of the comic relief they offer.

They actually believe there are still people that will fall for their
nonsense, and I suppose there will always be a few, but then, that's
who they are themselves, people that fall for each other's nonsense.

From a 2004 informational report of the NASW,
NASWChildWelfareRpt062004.pdf

"'As the United States enters
the 21st century, the depth and
breadth of society's most insidious
ills continue to affect children
profoundly. Racism, poverty,
violence, and abuse of alcohol
and other drugs impinge on the life of every
child in the United States. Children are
influenced by the society in which they are born
and raised; they, in turn, influence society.'
David Liederman, 1997"

In sharing child welfare social worker opinions from a nine issue
survey, they offered the following:

"They [workers] described how public
perception impedes their ability to establish trusting
relationships with families; how time spent on
paperwork takes time away from direct interventions
with families; and how long work hours and the
general lack of available resources for clients are
points of frustration."

The public perception of CPS is misconstrued by those that themselves
are or have been clients of CPS or by those that are currently finding
a second career for themselves as paid, or ego fulfilling,
propagandists. Clusters of needy, misinformed, misathropic anti this
and anti that types flock to them, along with the few families that DO
have legitimate complaints against CPS.

These families in real need are in turn fed off of by the former group
of dedicated propagandists and hangers on. Rather then being helped
they are too often led astray wasting their energy on CPS "reform"
outlandish schemes instead of focusing on their own pressing need to
deal with CPS, their own child(ren) and the own family.

Doug, Fern, Greg, bobb, you aren't fooling anyone.

Common propaganda ploys of the Anti CPS phony reformer crowd.

(Not in any particular order)

- claiming that children in foster care suffer more mental illness,
or other negative conditions, leaving the less knowledgeable to assume
foster care itself caused the condition the child actually came into
care burdened and crippled with by prior care-givers...usually
parents.

- claiming that CPS is an "industry" when in fact researchers have
pointed out for decades that it is chronically underfunded to perform
its mandated tasks.

- referring to sorely needed services for children injured and
disabled by their own parents as being delivered by "jacklegs" in it
just for the money flies in the face of authoritative research that
shows such services are in fact in terrible short supply for lack of
funding.

- focusing solely on failures in various areas of the agency, such as
fiscal responsibility, foster parent malfeasance, and similar concerns
when these are traceable mostly to individual person's criminal or
unprofessional behavior, for which they are punished,  and are rare
occurrences.

- claiming CPS actively seeks out cases of abuse, when the truth is
all CPS investigations begin as reports from the public and mandated
professionals, and even families themselves. The only "outreach" from
CPS, and others for that matter, are pleas to report abuse and
information on how to do it properly and responsibly.

- stating that workers waste their time and tax payer money driving
around in state cars looking for occurrences of abuse by stopping
innocent families they encounter and harassing them.

- claiming that CPS deliberately investigates families they know
beforehand are innocent, and using post investigation failure to found
a case as reason to support the above nonsense...a non sequitur .

- the previous bit of chicanery is further exploited by claiming that
because CPS doesn't have proof beforehand sufficient to found or
substantiate they are therefore remiss in even opening an
investigation...and even more disreputable use of non sequitur.

- promoting false assumptions based on partial or out of context
information, such as claims of comparisons of malfeasance by one group
being greater than that of another group when the groups are highly
dissimilar, as in a foster family group is dissimilar from the general
population of families in there relative availability for monitoring
by the state.

- claims that CPS regularly engages in illegal behaviors to force
parents to comply with mandated services.

- attempts to hide real abuse and neglect behind euphemism.

- conniving arguments that the U. S. Constitution protects abusive
families thereby insinuating no equal rights for children exist, or
ignoring counter-arguments that children do have rights that
government should and must protect.

- and that government is deliberately malevolent toward children and
deliberately destructive of families.

They walk away from successful rebuttals and return to their "argument
by volume" and insinuation. And later simply repeat the same lie they
were clearly defeated in espousing earlier.

What they don't respond to is often as telling as how they boldly lie
by commission of untruth or spinning partial truth.

Kane
Sherman - 13 Sep 2004 22:43 GMT
> Hello,
>
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> can be done here now without engaging them at all, other than to
> occasionally laugh in appreciation of the comic relief they offer.
<snipped>

It topped off my tolerance level when it's outright bias and bigotry went
off the scale of decency and commonly acceptable limits.

Engaging in any type of battle of the wits with an unarmed person is futile.
It is without remedy and should be held in disregard.  I have refused to
involve myself directly any further with that type of lifeform.

I review this newsgroup because I care.  Because I believe in the Rights of
Children.  I believe that CPS does need reform and help, along with the rest
of the related corners in "the system" of child protection, including
Judicial Reform.  I believe in the great '60's maxim: "If you are not part
of the solution, you are part of the problem."

This ol' putz, if it ever had any real value to other human beings, let
alone for children, has turned into a toxic influence of such minor import
that it does not deserve any further attention.  Responding, other than to
correct erroneous information which may harm an unaware poster, does not
benefit the serious folks who CARE about children.   After all, it IS about
the children.

Sherman.

Sherman.
Kane - 14 Sep 2004 19:00 GMT
>How many children have asked you why they are in a Group Home,
She-Man, when
>they have FAMILY?

I presume you know Sherman is not replying to you posts, on the
grounds you are inconsequential, as I recall. Pretty astute
observation, eh?

Now this leaves you with the opportunity to pose claims, couched in
rhetorical questions, that you can be confident won't be answered by
Sherman...a wonderful playground for you.

I admire Sherman's kindness in providing you some unchallenged space
on the playground YOU seem to think this is.

I'm not so generous, however.

Your question is pointless.  Sherman does not deal with children in
group homes, as far as I've seen from posts to this ng. Sherman does
family foster care.

But on the off chance there is something you wish to share with us to
try and make all the past posts on this one incident you experienced,
I'll bite.

How many children in group homes, that have FAMILY, have asked YOU.

>How many kin have been disallowed to foster by DSHS, FSSA, CSB, AND
DSS?

Not as many as you would try to insinuate. You were wrong on one
state, and I know you are wrong on most others. WA has an unusually
high count of children in kinship care, both voluntarily outside the
system, and within the system as placed children in foster, guardian,
and adoptive relative homes.

I posted the citation clearly with active URL so that you could see
how wrong you were about WA state, and the claims of a small but loud
group there. You never responded, except here you are yet again
ignoring that information and lying again.

>"How many ears must one man have before he can hear people cry"?

Why not acknowledge the author, as I do when I quote someone else's
copyrighted creative product?

Thank you, Robert Zimmerman for your anthem of the 60's.

Fern, your use of it for propaganda purposes better not be bringing
you any financial remuneration or you could be in trouble, again.

>CPS cries out for accountability, oversight

It answers to the judicial and the legislative..and the media reports
on it without restraints of any kind. This is our system at work, that
you pretend does not happen.

> and complete abolition of IMMUNITY.
>
>And it is coming.  

All this has always been here anyway, with the exception of your
desire for "complete abolition of IMMUNITY."

Doing that would effectively cripple CPS completely and abolish it as
a social agency of control over those that abuse and neglect children.

It would no more work than abolishing the immunity of police, totally,
would abolish the police and I'm not in favor of that.

Your desire to destroy CPS is obvious. Would you then have a solution
to child abuse, sans CPS?

>She man bleats and reveals his age.  Putz? or Schmuck?  You decide?

It appears you are feeling the heat a little.

But I'll take you up on it. I'll decide. My decision: Neither "Putz or
Schmuck" but has your number, obviously.

I disagree with Sherman on your level of importance. You have
none..not a bit..other than as a danger to children and families.

As a reformer or a reporter you are inconsequential. A dog pissin' on
a post leaves more information for other dogs than you leave for
readers here. And it's better formatted than your babblings.

Kindly tell us what you have to say to defend yourself against my
accustations that you post misinformation and error, that you refuse
to debate and simply continue to parrot the same misinformation
instead.

Any defense against my accusation?

Respectfully,

Kane

>>Subject: Re: Debate v Propaganda
>>From: "Sherman" ShermanT@adelphia.net
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>>
>>Sherman.
Sherman - 15 Sep 2004 14:15 GMT
> >How many children have asked you why they are in a Group Home,
> She-Man, when
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> group homes, as far as I've seen from posts to this ng. Sherman does
> family foster care.

Interestingly, it was the result of a child's needs who was in placement in
a group home that I became a foster parent for the first time.  A teenager
that I knew was placed in a group home by social serves because her family
and extended family (kin) were not found to be "fit" for providing their
daughter with a safe family home.  Her family was a mess - she was
surprisingly not, given her living conditions with her bio's.  She was a
really great kid.  Not only did her bio father marry her grandmother, her
mother ended up marrying (or something like that) her uncle.  Within this
child's family, there were numerous convolutions, including varying degrees
of sexual assaults and pimping of the child going on.  I helped her to
become legally emancipated when she reached the age of sixteen, helped and
encouraged her complete a GED, get into a community college program and
provided her with a job with flexible hours with one of my companies which
coincided with her educational pursuits.  She has always had a home and
shelter with me whenever the need has arisen.

My next two foster children were teenaged boys.  One had no kin fit to care
for him and the other's family had moved away from the school district where
he had been in since first grade.  He stayed with us until he graduated from
highschool.  He entered foster care because his bio's would not pay to
support him and gave him over to the State so that they wouldn't have to get
j-o-b-s and w-o-r-k and  support the boy.

The other boy went to a University, got a degree, has a professional career,
and joined the Air National Guard where he became a gifted pilot.  Sadly, he
has now been called up to Iraq, having had to leave his family and three
children behind, his career, interrupted, his family's income seriously
decreased.  He has strong values and believes in his commitment to his
country, however.

The boy who had an unfit family and extended family tried in his twenties to
reconcile the generational problems in his family and tried to actually have
parents as a grown man.  Sadly, this didn't work any better than when he was
a child.  The bio father offered him a hit off of his crackpipe after he
travelled far to visit and "reunite" with him...   The bio mother's then
husband - something like the 7th one - attempted to molest his little girl.
Fortunately he, like the Panty's girlfriend's father, avoided jail over the
incident.  He has not had any contact whatsoever with his bio family since.

Both boys have grown up functioning well in society, being rational and
generous contributing members, happy and well-adjusted -  and they are good
fathers.

Most of our foster children have remained a part of our Ohana.  Many of
their parents and extended family, after having been reunited, have as well.

I didn't seek to become a foster parent, it was just that it was the "right
thing to do" and I learned that for me, I could offer solutions, one child
at a time.  Because, after all: "It's about the children."

Sherman.

> But on the off chance there is something you wish to share with us to
> try and make all the past posts on this one incident you experienced,
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>
> >"How many ears must one man have before he can hear people cry"?

> Why not acknowledge the author, as I do when I quote someone else's
> copyrighted creative product?

It probably doesn't know, the author was far past it's time.  In addition to
which, it more than likely thinks (if it does) that the verse should be, if
at all, attributed to PP&M:
*
Yes,  'n' how many times can a man turn his head,
Pretending he just doesn't see?"  -Dylan
*
Of course, as demonstrated, some don't pretend at all, they really do not
see!

Kelemana.

> Thank you, Robert Zimmerman for your anthem of the 60's.
>
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> >>
> >>Sherman.
WitchWirsen - 15 Sep 2004 15:33 GMT
debate, propaganda, I don't care....Sherm, will you adopt me?

> > >How many children have asked you why they are in a Group Home,
> > She-Man, when
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> > >>
> > >>Sherman.
 
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