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Question for moms of babies with peirced ears

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Tori M. - 27 Jul 2004 05:59 GMT
What kind of earings do you use?  Bonnie had been doing really good with her
earings for a long time.  She has had them in since she was 6 months old and
every 8 months or so we fly throuh an eight pack of um like nothing.
Do you ever use hoops?  I have just been using the kind with safety backs
but short of spanking her hand every time she touches her ear I dont know
how to keep the things in.  I would not worry except after only a few days
of them being out the last time the holes seemed smaller and I do not want
to risk it hurting her to get the earings in and out.
I had taken them out due to irritation from the earings she had before and
wanted to give them a few days to heal.. they looked itchy.. it must have
been a straggler pair from the ones that had irratated her ears before.

Tori

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Xavier due 10/17/04

Denise Anderson - 27 Jul 2004 06:53 GMT
> What kind of earings do you use?  Bonnie had been doing really good with her
> earings for a long time.  She has had them in since she was 6 months old and
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> Tori

I use hoops on my oldest daughter because she doesn't touch them.  Never
has, I think its just her personality.  I prefer the kind with the screw on
safety backs for the younger girls because they can't take them out
themselves.  I've tried using the cheap earrings you buy in multiples, but
all the girls get infected ears when I try that.

Denise
firedancer623 - 27 Jul 2004 12:57 GMT
> What kind of earings do you use?  Bonnie had been doing really good with her
> earings for a long time.  She has had them in since she was 6 months old and
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> Tori

Not on a toddler i wouldn't. My daughter had her ears pierced at 3 mos and
she ripped one out completely when she was a toddler. She's 8.5 now and she
just got them re-pierced a few months ago. It took *years* to heal and she
still had to have the new hole pierced above the other scar so it never
really healed totally. Not worth it IMO.

Kari
Tori M. - 27 Jul 2004 15:30 GMT
> Not on a toddler i wouldn't. My daughter had her ears pierced at 3 mos and
> she ripped one out completely when she was a toddler. She's 8.5 now and she
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> Kari

That is what I was worried about.  Thank you.  I hope she gets over playing
with her ears soon.

Tori

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Xavier due 10/17/04

enigma - 27 Jul 2004 13:09 GMT
> What kind of earings do you use?  Bonnie had been doing
> really good with her earings for a long time.  She has had
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> backs but short of spanking her hand every time she touches
> her ear I dont know how to keep the things in.  

i would NEVER put hoops, even small ones, in a toddler's
ears! hoops get caught on things. earlobes tear pretty easily.
you don't want to risk that with a toddler. hoops should wait
until she's much older (i used to manage a kennel. i forbid my
employees from wearing hoops at work because of the tearing
danger... & i personally prefer hoops to studs)
i hate to say this, but if she keeps pulling on her earrings,
you might want to just let the holes close & allow her to get
them repierced if & when she shows an interest when she's
older. i've had mine repierced & it's no big deal. i lost my
earrings (i own one pair. i'm not big on jewelry) & didn't get
around to buying another pair in a couple years... i've also
worn just one earring for, um, 5 years now, just switching
ears every few months. can't find a pair of tiny silver hoops
i like... i'm allergic to nickle & gold.
lee
Tori M. - 27 Jul 2004 15:34 GMT
>  i hate to say this, but if she keeps pulling on her earrings,
> you might want to just let the holes close & allow her to get
> them repierced if & when she shows an interest when she's
> older. i've had mine repierced & it's no big deal.

I actualy had to have my ears repierced when I was 8 or 9 since we let my
piercings close that I got when I was 5 and now I have 2 holes in 1 ear
right next to each other because that ear never healed completly just enough
in the back to make it impossible to get an earing all the way through.  It
made putting in earings verry painful as a child so I would like to avoid
hers closing since she is not allergic to all the types of metals I seemed
to be allergic to as a child.

Tori

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HOWA476 - 30 Jul 2004 06:09 GMT
Tori
they make earrings for kids that have the backs that have to be squeezed to get
off but I'm not sure where to find them.  I will ask around.  also you can try
the stud type earrings because they are harder to remove the backs from.

Jennifer
Ariana 8/17/03
Sunshine - 30 Jul 2004 19:15 GMT
My daughter only wears studs with child safety backs.  She has had
them since she was 4 months (now 24 mo) and doesn't play with them at
all.  I plan on keeping her in the piercing studs until she is 7 or 8.
The studs made for piercing are typically harder to take out so we
prefer those.

Sunshine
Tori M. - 31 Jul 2004 03:10 GMT
> My daughter only wears studs with child safety backs.  She has had
> them since she was 4 months (now 24 mo) and doesn't play with them at
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> Sunshine

we lost the peircing studs when she got the backs off at about 12 months;)
She goes through spurts of playing with her ears and we go through a multi
pack quickly and then we get a new pack and she will leave them alone for a
few months then it starts all over.  We put the peircing studs back in when
we realized that she was reacting to the earings my sil gave her and not
long after they were gone:(

Tori

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OJ - 30 Jul 2004 20:20 GMT
> What kind of earings do you use?  Bonnie had been doing really good with her
> earings for a long time.  She has had them in since she was 6 months old and
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> Tori

Hi,

Just wondering why you are putting your 2 year old through this.  Is
it that necessary for a toddler to sport earrings, at the cost of pain
and irritation?  Did you pierce them at 6 mos. just for yourself or
did she ask to have them pierced?

oj
Tori M. - 31 Jul 2004 03:18 GMT
> > What kind of earings do you use?  Bonnie had been doing really good with her
> > earings for a long time.  She has had them in since she was 6 months old and
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> oj
k I am being highly sarcastic right now..

Yes she asked me to peirce her ears.  She said to me in a verry excited
voice that she wanted to get them done so she could start her way to getting
as many earings as her grandmother.

That said, I was not looking for a "why in the world did you peirce your
childs ear post"  That is why I did not ask every mother to answer what I
should do just mothers of babies that have their ears peirced.  I dont care
if others find earings in little girls to be good/bad because I am Bonnies
mother and I get to make those desisions.  Since I know in this life that
others have had their childrens ears peirced I wanted to know how they delt
with losing earings like mad now and then. I peirced them because I wanted
my little girl to have peirced ears their is no other reason good or bad.
For the most part they do NOT cause her pain and have never been more then a
little irratated because I look at them every day to make sure that they
look ok and I have since they where done.  I would have peirced them sooner
but we asked a pediatritian what age he thought she could safely have them
peirced and he said 6 months because she had little ears.

BTW I have a friend that is 27 years old and she is just as bad as Bonnie
with losing the backs of the same brand of earings so I was kinda thinking
the ones I got just have bad backs.

Tori

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Bonnie 3/20/02
Xavier due 10/17/04

tristyn - 31 Jul 2004 03:26 GMT
>  I dont care if others find earings in little girls to be
> good/bad because I am Bonnies mother and I get to make those
> desisions.

No, you really don't. It's HER body to modify as she sees fit. Not yours.

tristyn
www.tristyn.net
Tori M. - 31 Jul 2004 04:02 GMT
> >  I dont care if others find earings in little girls to be
> > good/bad because I am Bonnies mother and I get to make those
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> tristyn
> www.tristyn.net

Apartently I do.. since she has peirced ears.  Like I said I was not asking
for opinions on IF I should peirce them since I dont agree that it is wrong.
It is the same reason I wont be asking opinions on Circ. or hair dying or
tatoos All of which I have an opinion on and unless you are my dh I dont
care what your opinion is of them.

Tori
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Bonnie 3/20/02
Xavier due 10/17/04

tristyn - 31 Jul 2004 16:15 GMT
> Apartently I do.. since she has peirced ears.

Just because you went and did it doesn't mean you had a right to. If I have
the physical ability to go around breaking people's noses, does that mean I
have the right to do it?

tristyn
www.tristyn.net
HOWA476 - 31 Jul 2004 04:07 GMT
tori
do you have a place called sally's beauty supply you can get her studs there
for relatively cheap instead of going through packs and packs of the cheapy
earrings and these might even last longer.  If you don't have a sally's you can
check any beauty supply place they could also have them.

Jennifer
Ariana 8/17/03
Tori M. - 31 Jul 2004 04:21 GMT
Thanks!  I have heard of Sally's Do you have to be a beautitian to shop
there?  I will check it out anyway.  I would rather pay more for a pair of
earings that will be findable then the cheap ones that end up costing me
more;)

Tori

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Bonnie 3/20/02
Xavier due 10/17/04

> tori
> do you have a place called sally's beauty supply you can get her studs there
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> Jennifer
> Ariana 8/17/03
HOWA476 - 31 Jul 2004 16:10 GMT
actually no I don't know a beautician but anyone can shop in there.  I go in
there to get hair dyes, brushes and all kinds of nail stuff all the time.

Jennifer
Ariana 8/17/03
 
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