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bullying (NYT stories)

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Beliavsky - 25 Mar 2008 18:57 GMT
The NYT recently had a horrific story about a high school boy being
bullied:

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/03/24/us/24land.html
A Boy the Bullies Love to Beat Up, Repeatedly
By Dan Barry, March 24, 2008

He has been beat up repeatedly, and it sounds like the school district
and/or the perpetrators ought to be sued for big bucks.

Today the NYT had a story on workplace "bullying":

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/03/25/health/25well.html
When the Bully Sits in the Next Cubicle
By Tara Parker-Pope, March 25, 2008
'An eye roll, a glare, a dismissive snort -- these are the tactics of
the workplace bully. They don't sound like much, but that's why they
are so insidious. How do you complain to human resources that your
boss is picking on you? Who cares that a co-worker won't return your
phone calls?'

Ooh, a "glare" can be bullying.

I wonder if part of the bullying problem is the failure to distinguish
between serious transgressions that ought to get the perpetrators
expelled from school and/or put in juvenile detention and run-of-the-
mill rudeness that will end only when people become angels.
Banty - 25 Mar 2008 19:31 GMT
>The NYT recently had a horrific story about a high school boy being
>bullied:
[quoted text clipped - 23 lines]
>expelled from school and/or put in juvenile detention and run-of-the-
>mill rudeness that will end only when people become angels.

I've read both these articles already, and you're mixing these articles up,
apparently trying to stretch for your point.

The bullying at work, between adults, described the subtle below-the-radar but
continuous denigration which occurs between adults, which is where the
description of glares came up.

The discussions were quite different regarding these two types of bullying, as
to their descriptions, impact, and recourse.

The bullying at school that was described, consisted of instances of pretty much
run of the mill assault, and I wonder why the parents of this boys aren't
pursuing criminal charges.

Banty
Clisby - 25 Mar 2008 21:55 GMT
> The bullying at school that was described, consisted of instances of pretty much
> run of the mill assault, and I wonder why the parents of this boys aren't
> pursuing criminal charges.
>
> Banty

I do, too.  Why on earth would you leave it up to a school to decide
whether to call
police?  Now, maybe the parents did, and the police paid no attention -
but if that's the case, it looks like the article would say so.  (And it
sounds like there's plenty of evidence of assault - not just a he
said/he said kind of thing.

Clisby
 
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