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Family Forum / Marriage / Marriage / January 2009I think he is still married!
I have been dating this guy on and off for about a year now. At first, he did not tell me that he was married, and when I found out about it, he said that he was separated, that she was a manic depressive with major mental health issues, dangerous to herself and their 3 children,... We started seeing each other casually -I did not want a relationship with him for obvious reasons, I just lonely and wanted someone to hold me every now and then. Now, I have found info online that leads me to believe that he is still totally married and that they have never been separated! I am pretty pissed and I am wondering whether I should tell his wife about the affair! I found her website where she states that she has been married to a wonderful man for 20 years! How sad when the truth is that he has been having unprotected sex with an other woman!!! What should I do? Tell her the truth? I know her email address so I could email her the emails he has been sending with all of his lies! I know I am obsessing a bit here but I would love to hear feedback! Thanks! :) In news:a7ba724b-25eb-4f3c-8873-70effe808001@g38g2000yqn.googlegroups.com, melimerkle@gmail.com <melimerkle@gmail.com> mused: > I have been dating this guy on and off for about a year now. At > first, he did not tell me that he was married, and when I found [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > emails he has been sending with all of his lies! I know I am > obsessing a bit here but I would love to hear feedback! Thanks! It's not up to you to police anyone. What you should do is stop any co ntact wth him, and move on. On Jan 24, 1:17 pm, melimer...@gmail.com wrote: > I have been dating this guy on and off for about a year now. At first, > he did not tell me that he was married, and when I found out about it, [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > sending with all of his lies! I know I am obsessing a bit here but I > would love to hear feedback! Thanks! :) I think that you should just drop him. First of all, he obviously doesn't like his wife cause he's out dating other women. If you e-mail her and tell her about him, she might do something dangerous to him, herself or maybe even come after you. The kids would be the main ones really hurt in the long run. If you really want to make her think twice about her so called wonderful husband, then tell her subtle hints about his real actions through her website. I advice you do it through another discrete e-mail service with a different logon name, so he doesn't find out its you. To get rid of him and not having him think about you being the one telling his wife about him, tell him that you thought about it and that you don't want to be the one to be blamed on ruining their life, and you're dating someone else. Get out of this while you can do it without any hassle. You had your fun with him, now it's time to end it. There are plenty of other men in the world who can make you happy, and they're free of luggage. > On Jan 24, 1:17 pm, melimer...@gmail.com wrote: > [quoted text clipped - 31 lines] > There are plenty of other men in the world who can make you happy, and > they're free of luggage. Be honest. It depends on how old and how attractive the OP really is. It is natural for most men to be ignored while females line up for certain guys, married or not. >> On Jan 24, 1:17 pm, melimer...@gmail.com wrote: >> [quoted text clipped - 31 lines] >> There are plenty of other men in the world who can make you happy, and >> they're free of luggage. Free of luggage? >>> There are plenty of other men in the world who can make you happy, and >>> they're free of luggage. > > Free of luggage? Those online translation services don't always work the way you want them to. >>>> There are plenty of other men in the world who can make you happy, and >>>> they're free of luggage. [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > Those online translation services don't always work the way you want them > to. ROFL. >I have been dating this guy on and off for about a year now. At first, > he did not tell me that he was married, and when I found out about it, [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > sending with all of his lies! I know I am obsessing a bit here but I > would love to hear feedback! Thanks! :) Suck it up and avoid all contact. You made your bed earlier when you first found out he was lying to you. You were lonely...Ok. But now, it's just turning ugly. Do YOURSELF a favor and just walk away. Trust me, it will do you a lot better good. EB > I have been dating this guy on and off for about a year now. At first, > he did not tell me that he was married, and when I found out about it, > he said that he was separated, that she was a manic depressive with > major mental health issues, dangerous to herself and their 3 > children,... Oh brother. been theere, done that. I will never forget walking out of a restaurant on a man who had insisted he was not married then fessed up at dinner. > We started seeing each other casually -I did not want a > relationship with him for obvious reasons, I just lonely and wanted > someone to hold me every now and then. Now, I have found info online > that leads me to believe that he is still totally married and that > they have never been separated! I am pretty pissed and I am wondering > whether I should tell his wife about the affair! No. Drop him like a hot rock and move on. > I found her website > where she states that she has been married to a wonderful man for 20 [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > sending with all of his lies! I know I am obsessing a bit here but I > would love to hear feedback! Thanks! :) Drop him. Drop it. Be goooooone. |
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