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Family Forum / Marriage / Marriage / July 2009Change for the better
Following some unsettled years of marriage, my husband is now being very nice to me - making strenuous efforts, inspite his illness, to be a good husband. I appreciate that a lot. I am also trying to cooperate with the kind of lifestyle he needs to reduce stress. All's well that end well. Bye Erin > Following some unsettled years of marriage, > my husband is now being very nice to me - [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > > Erin Thanks Erin for giving us a positive update. It's nice to hear something good is going for you. Bob > > Following some unsettled years of marriage, > > my husband is now being very nice to me - [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > > Bob Sorry I've not made an effort to be more positive Bob. I'm so stuck on the biological psychiatry track that I sometimes regret not giving some credit to David Oaks, for example. Best to keep an open mind. Erin >>> Following some unsettled years of marriage, >>> my husband is now being very nice to me - [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > > Erin Erin - Just to make my thought more clear, I was glad to see a less than "troubled" post by you. If someone comes on here with troubled feelings, and has issues, and you are seeing those as the majority of the posts, you feel glad for them when you see a positive posting. Sort of like stepping out of a sauna after having been it for 30 minutes. It just feels good. I hope your week-end is going well, Bob > >>> Following some unsettled years of marriage, > >>> my husband is now being very nice to me - [quoted text clipped - 31 lines] > > Bob Tx Bob, the times they are a' changing; Erin >>>>> Following some unsettled years of marriage, >>>>> my husband is now being very nice to me - [quoted text clipped - 36 lines] > > Erin But alas, I'm afraid not for the better - if you're talking about people. Technology, for sure; but people, and their "values" (snort)? I don't think so! > >>>>> Following some unsettled years of marriage, > >>>>> my husband is now being very nice to me - [quoted text clipped - 40 lines] > Technology, for sure; but people, and their "values" (snort)? I don't think > so! What do you mean Bill.... you've done a 360o degree turn since you started posting. Erin > > >>>>> Following some unsettled years of marriage, > > >>>>> my husband is now being very nice to me - [quoted text clipped - 45 lines] > > Erin LOL. I love them 360 degree turns! >>>>>>>> Following some unsettled years of marriage, >>>>>>>> my husband is now being very nice to me - [quoted text clipped - 50 lines] > > LOL. I love them 360 degree turns! That means I'm right back where I started from. I'm not sure that's a good thing, though. On Jul 4, 10:26 pm, "Bill in Co" <surly_curmudg...@earthlink.net> wrote: > >>>>>>>> Following some unsettled years of marriage, > >>>>>>>> my husband is now being very nice to me - [quoted text clipped - 53 lines] > That means I'm right back where I started from. I'm not sure that's a > good thing, though. That's why I thot it was funny. You are, IMO, not "right back where [you] started from"--tho indeed you visit that place at times--don't we all? > On Jul 4, 10:26 pm, "Bill in Co" <surly_curmudg...@earthlink.net> > wrote: [quoted text clipped - 62 lines] > [you] started from"--tho indeed you visit that place at times--don't > we all? Maybe, although it seems that some people are able to move on without any such regressions or encumberances. Or maybe it just seems that way, through some rose-tinted glasses; I don't know. >>>>>>> Following some unsettled years of marriage, >>>>>>> my husband is now being very nice to me - [quoted text clipped - 46 lines] > > Erin I have? How so? (not necessarily disputing it, but I just don't know or see it) > >>>>>>> Following some unsettled years of marriage, > >>>>>>> my husband is now being very nice to me - [quoted text clipped - 49 lines] > I have? How so? (not necessarily disputing it, but I just don't know or > see it) If my memory serves me well, you used to be extremely positive about the potential of marital reconcilliation, etc., but now you seem to be questioning that on the grounds of character incompatibility. Erin >>>>>>>>> Following some unsettled years of marriage, >>>>>>>>> my husband is now being very nice to me - [quoted text clipped - 59 lines] > > Erin I would like to be positive about that. BUT if the two parties aren't able and/or willing, or even care enough to really try, then what (rhetorical). Is that what you meant by character incompatibility? > Following some unsettled years of marriage, > my husband is now being very nice to me - [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > > Erin hai erin congrs bcs your hs is too loyal, you can admit another guy bcs life is too short and you must need one guy support. so you can |
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