Family Forum / Marriage / Marriage / September 2009

On Aug 14, 10:19 pm, redboltoflife <redblotoflife@hotmail.com> wrote:

of a qualified adult

NO!!  The incest experience should be witnessed by a participating
adult to assure that no unacceptable boundaries are crossed.

If you'll examine both beastiality and necrophilia you will find that
besides the antiquated
taboos associated with participation they are totally victimless
crimes. You cannot insult
the dead can you? The body is only a shell, what is wrong with
expressing your love in that
manner? The world is full of hate and war, we must allow our minds to
expand and accept
new concepts. When my father passed away {god rest his soul} I had a
fantasy of fondling
his scrotum. I was able to make this fantasy a reality and it was
good. There's nothing wrong
with expressing your love in such a manner just as there's nothing
wrong with expressing your love with a non human entity.

NO. As of May 2006, there is no federal legislation specifically
barring sex with a corpse
So if we abolish the silly taboos associated with expressing this type
of love it can be
a fulfilling experience for all of us! I would recommend that each and
everyone of you try it at least once.

Here's the research.

In 1958, Klaf and Brown[5] commented that, although rarely described,
necrophilic fantasies may occur more often than is generally supposed.

Rosman and Resnick[8] (1989) theorized that either of the following
situations could be antecedents to necrophilia (pp. 161):

  1. The necrophile develops poor self-esteem, perhaps due in part to
a significant loss;

         (a) He/she is very fearful of rejection by women/men and he/
she desires a sexual partner who is incapable of rejecting him/her;
and/or
         (b) He/she is fearful of the dead, and transforms his/her
fear — by means of reaction formation — into a desire.

  2. He/she develops an exciting fantasy of sex with a corpse,
sometimes after exposure to a corpse.

The authors also reported that, of their sample of 'necrophiliacs,':

   * 68 percent were motivated by a desire for an unresisting and
unrejecting partner;
   * 21 percent by a want for reunion with a lost partner;
   * 15 percent by sexual attraction to dead people;
   * 15 percent by a desire for comfort or to overcome feelings of
isolation; and
   * 11 percent by a desire to remedy low self-esteem by expressing
power over a corpse (pp. 159).

Minor modern researches conducted in England have shown that some
necrophiles tend to choose a dead mate after failing to create
romantic attachments with the living

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Regards
David
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