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Are you GOOD ENOUGH for Heaven ??

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The Lord's Work E-mail Ministry - 20 Oct 2009 02:37 GMT
Are you GOOD ENOUGH for Heaven ??  Read about it at
http://emailministry.webs.com/areyougoodenoughforheav.htm

Thanks
phelbooth - 20 Oct 2009 02:41 GMT
On Oct 19, 8:37 pm, "The Lord's Work E-mail Ministry"
<emailminist...@yahoo.com> wrote:
> Are you GOOD ENOUGH for Heaven ??  Read about it athttp://emailministry.webs.com/areyougoodenoughforheav.htm
>
> Thanks

nope, i'm not
Bill in Co - 20 Oct 2009 02:47 GMT
> On Oct 19, 8:37 pm, "The Lord's Work E-mail Ministry"
> <emailminist...@yahoo.com> wrote:
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>
> nope, i'm not

Me either.    In fact, I don't know how many of us really are.
phelbooth - 20 Oct 2009 02:53 GMT
On Oct 19, 8:47 pm, "Bill in Co" <surly_curmudg...@earthlink.net>
wrote:
> > On Oct 19, 8:37 pm, "The Lord's Work E-mail Ministry"
> > <emailminist...@yahoo.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Me either.    In fact, I don't know how many of us really are.

Hours later, days later, weeks later, awhile later...I'm still not.

Sigh. I struggle to smote the mote from mine own eyes, daily.

But I'm guessing ppl in this newgroup *are*??
Bill in Co - 20 Oct 2009 03:27 GMT
> On Oct 19, 8:47 pm, "Bill in Co" <surly_curmudg...@earthlink.net>
> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>
> But I'm guessing ppl in this newgroup *are*??

Are good enough to get into heaven??    You mean along the likes of say
Jesus, Gandhi, Mother Teresa, and say Fred Rogers???

I don't think many in this world really are.   I'd guess a handful are.  I
think it all depends on how high your standards are.  In this forsaken
world, it is painfully obvious to me that some people have no standards,
whatsoever, and it seems these days, the bar has been lowered quite a spell.
(I'm not sure how far above ground it is anymore, but if you've seen it, let
me know, will ya?).
Vickie - 20 Oct 2009 15:31 GMT
>> On Oct 19, 8:37 pm, "The Lord's Work E-mail Ministry"
>> <emailminist...@yahoo.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Me either.    In fact, I don't know how many of us really are.

What the?

Of course you both are deserving.

Vickie
Bill in Co - 20 Oct 2009 21:50 GMT
>>> On Oct 19, 8:37 pm, "The Lord's Work E-mail Ministry"
>>> <emailminist...@yahoo.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
>
> Vickie

No, I've been demoted from being a real prince, by a real princess.
Vickie - 21 Oct 2009 15:22 GMT
>>>> On Oct 19, 8:37 pm, "The Lord's Work E-mail Ministry"
>>>> <emailminist...@yahoo.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>
> No, I've been demoted from being a real prince, by a real princess.

Lol.
I'd rather be a dragon.

Vickie
Bill in Co - 21 Oct 2009 19:47 GMT
>>>>> On Oct 19, 8:37 pm, "The Lord's Work E-mail Ministry"
>>>>> <emailminist...@yahoo.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
>
> Vickie

Or alternatively, maybe instead we can both be dragon slayers!!

Which reminds me of that recent mystical dragon movie, with Josh somebody in
it.   Pretty weird.  Nice epecial effects, though.  I have to admit the
special effects are better these days.  But .. I'll leave it at that.
abualmaty - 20 Oct 2009 10:45 GMT
> Are you GOOD ENOUGH for Heaven ??  Read about it athttp://emailministry.webs.com/areyougoodenoughforheav.htm
>
> Thanks

good question, depend on what yiou are doing or what you have been
doing since along time ago!
any how every body could guess about that , and make reevaluation to
your situation
dejablues - 21 Oct 2009 11:34 GMT
> Are you GOOD ENOUGH for Heaven ??

Of course I am, if there were such a thing anyway.
Bill in Co - 21 Oct 2009 19:43 GMT
>> Are you GOOD ENOUGH for Heaven ??
>
> Of course I am, if there were such a thing anyway.

:-)
Oh yeah???    Are you as worthy as Mother Teresa??
dejablues - 22 Oct 2009 04:07 GMT
>>> Are you GOOD ENOUGH for Heaven ??
>>
>> Of course I am, if there were such a thing anyway.
>
> :-)
> Oh yeah???    Are you as worthy as Mother Teresa??

Mother Teresa? The Ghoul of Calcutta? The one who withheld succor and relief
from the poor wretches in her care until they converted to Catholicism?
Teresa, who pocketed donation money and sent it to Rome while hospitals in
her area of ministry went without basic equipment?
My cat is more worthy of Heaven than Agnes Gonxha Bojaxhiu, and I am happy
that there is no Heaven, because that means she is not in it!
Vickie - 22 Oct 2009 05:07 GMT
>>>> Are you GOOD ENOUGH for Heaven ??
>>>
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> My cat is more worthy of Heaven than Agnes Gonxha Bojaxhiu, and I am happy
> that there is no Heaven, because that means she is not in it!

Incredible.
Your cat may be worthy, but so is Mother T.

610 missions in 123 countries
hospices and homes for people with HIV/AIDS, leprosy and tuberculosis
soup kitchens
children's and family counseling programs
orphanages
schools
refugees for the blind, disabled, aged, alcoholics, the poor and homeless,
and victims of floods, epidemics, and famine
opened the first Home for the Dying
assisted and ministered to the hungry in Ethiopia
helped radiation victims at Chernobyl and
helped earthquake victims in Armenia

If she is a ghoul, we are all devils.

Isn't it easy to criticize when someone else does the work...

"If you can't feed a hundred people, then feed just one."
-MT

Vickie
dejablues - 22 Oct 2009 13:34 GMT
>>>>> Are you GOOD ENOUGH for Heaven ??
>>>>
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>
> Vickie

She was evil and selfish, keeping people poor instead of helping them out of
poverty.
Dr Nancy's Sweetie - 22 Oct 2009 21:22 GMT
"dejablues <dejablues@comcast.net>" wrote, of Mother Teresa:
> She was evil and selfish, keeping people poor instead of helping them
> out of poverty.

About 15 years ago, in another group, someone explained that he thinks
missionaries do everything wrong.  They shouldn't be building churches,
they should be building hospitals!  A lot of other people chimed in to
agree.

Some friends of ours were missionaries at the time.  The mountain
village they lived in had no running water or electricity.  An average
"house" was a 15x10 foot wooden structure with no glass or screens in the
windows; some couldn't even afford a curtain inside to divide their home
into separate rooms.

The husband is a skilled craftsman, and could easily earn many
thousands of dollars in the USA, but instead he taught people in this
village to build, maintain, and operate woodworking and other
equipment.  After a year or so, they actually achieved a small degree
of income, as residents learned to make things that they could sell,
and he took them to markets in his truck.  The wife has a degree in
biology, and could also earn a handsome salary in the States; instead,
she taught classes in reading (since the literacy in their area was
about 2%), hygiene, cooking safely, child care (infant mortality was
very high), gardening, and nutrition.

Their reward for this consisted of being able to live in a shack fancy
enough to have a curtain.

So I asked: how many of the people condemning Christian missionaries
have ever actually done similar work?  People were blabbering about how
my friends should be building hospitals, when they had to drive for an
hour to get to a telephone.  And every time they headed back into the
mountains they had to be sure the truck was gassed up, because there
weren't a lot of places to refuel.  Build a hospital?  They may as well
try to build a space shuttle.  Their first priority was to learn the
local dialect (they spoke the language of the nearest large city, which
was good enough to get started.  They eventually built a multi-purpose
building to serve as a church, school, and clinic, but it was more than
a year before they even started on it.

Maybe MacGyver could whip up a hospital from chewing gum and dirt, but
in a place where the average income is zero, things just don't work
that way.  If you think that you can go into poverty and just fix
everything in 22 episodes, you watch way too much TV.

*

So, if you were dropped in Calcutta with just what you own today, what
would you do to get things fixed?

If you're so sure you know what to do, why not go do it?  Everyone is a
perfect quarterback on Monday morning.  Using only what you own right
now, go fix poverty in Calcutta.  Give it a go for 10 years and report
on how it went for you.  If you're at all successful, you can write a
book which will easily make you a millionaire when you get back.

However, like all those childless people who have great theories on
parenting, you may find that you know way fewer of the answers once you
are actually face-to-face with the problems.

Darren Provine ! kilroy@elvis.rowan.edu ! http://www.rowan.edu/~kilroy
"There is always an easy solution to every human problem -- neat,
plausible, and wrong." -- H.L. Mencken (quote is often misreported)
Stephanie - 23 Oct 2009 00:02 GMT
> "dejablues <dejablues@comcast.net>" wrote, of Mother Teresa:
>> She was evil and selfish, keeping people poor instead of helping them
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> So, if you were dropped in Calcutta with just what you own today, what
> would you do to get things fixed?

I don't know a great deal about Mother Theresa or Calcutta. I don't know
what her motives were. But I do remember the lessons of Christ I think I
learned in school. They did not involve requiring a certain believe system
in order to receive assistance. I have no idea if that was really the system
under which she operated, but if it was, it lends a certain suspec to her
work.

I don't see deja condeming the efficacy of her work. Only her motives and
the real value for her. When I was in Catholic school as a child, good works
for the sake of something other than the work for the people whom you were
offering was not condered good work at all. So *if* that is what M. T. was
doing, then it really does tend to dust up her halo a bit.

> If you're so sure you know what to do, why not go do it?  Everyone is
> a perfect quarterback on Monday morning.  Using only what you own
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> "There is always an easy solution to every human problem -- neat,
> plausible, and wrong." -- H.L. Mencken (quote is often misreported)
Dr Nancy's Sweetie - 26 Oct 2009 20:32 GMT
> I don't know a great deal about Mother Theresa or Calcutta. I don't
> know what her motives were.  [...]
> When I was in Catholic school as a child, good works for the sake of
> something other than the work for the people whom you were offering
> was not condered good work at all. So *if* that is what M. T. was
> doing, then it really does tend to dust up her halo a bit.

Since no evidence whatever has been presented except the bald assertion
by a person who doesn't even have a real name, it is simply unseemly
gossip for anyone to entertain any accusations at all.  ("One who
listens to backbiting is a backbiter himself." -- Ali ibn-abu-Talib)

Further, except those who are truly sinless, nobody's motives are
completely pure.  Most people who do volunteer work readily admit that
they feel good about themselves when they do it, and that part of the
reason they do it is to feel better about themselves.  One could argue
that's somewhat selfish, but the people who get the help don't seem to
mind.

At freshman move-in day, many student groups show up to help new
students; partly because they remember being new freshman and know how
nice it is to have help when moving in, but partly because it makes the
new students aware of the various clubs and may help them get new
members.  Maybe that's not entirely selfless, but none of the freshman
moving in seem to mind at all.

Is Bach's music somehow tainted because he wrote SDG on the scores?

*

Christopher Hitchens, who wrote an unflattering book about Mother
Teresa some years ago, was invited on TV to provide commentary for her
funeral.  He said how awful it was that so many people thought she had
done such good things, when she was really trying to attract people to
the Roman Catholic faith -- as if, all by itself, that was proof she
was a bad person.  In his litany of her evils, he even asked something
to the effect of "Did you know she was against abortion?!" -- as if
being against abortion made her evil, or as if this would come as a
shock to people who would previously have believed that a Roman
Catholic nun was in favor of abortion.  He also complained that lots of
the money she'd been donated was used to build convents in many other
countries; but I'm not sure what the problem is with that, because
there are poor people in lots of places.

He did have one objection I considered substantive: that her
organization provided relatively primitive medical care, which may be
what you expect when she got started but not after funding had improved
a great deal.  I don't know enough to gainsay this one, and so
provisionally grant it as correct given Mr Hitchens's claims to have
researched it.  But as I have no idea about the numbers of people
involved, and what exactly constitutes "primitive", I don't know how
seriously to take it.  (I used to work in a hospital, and the place
spent money like you would not believe.  Just in my department we had
over $20million worth of equipment, and easily went through $3million
a year -- before adding in the cost for any of the patients.)

I did not read Mr Hitchens's book, but I did listen to him for about a
half-hour of TV coverage.  Much, but not all, of what he said seemed
silly.  I'm pretty sure I would remember it, even across this large gap
of time, if he had said "She lets people starve unless they convert".
If anyone would be in a position to raise that complaint, it would have
been him him, but he said nothing of the kind.  He *did* say that
people who came to her for food or help also got preaching in the deal,
but nothing about conversions being mandatory.

Darren Provine ! kilroy@elvis.rowan.edu ! http://www.rowan.edu/~kilroy
"Hey, all you frowny faces, who are still moping because you lost your
job, and your house, and any shred of dignity: everything's fine now,
because the Dow Jones Industrial Average hit 10,000.  Everybody is all
excited about it.  Wall Street is poised to give out its biggest
annual bonuses in history, and it looks like 9.8% of Americans took
the year off work to celebrate." -- Peter Sagal
Stephanie - 26 Oct 2009 20:42 GMT
>> I don't know a great deal about Mother Theresa or Calcutta. I don't
>> know what her motives were.  [...]
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> ("One who listens to backbiting is a backbiter himself." -- Ali
> ibn-abu-Talib)

I used words like If and whatnot. You seem quite excited over this topic. I
am sorry this topic excites you. I have no strong opinion at all.

> Further, except those who are truly sinless, nobody's motives are
> completely pure.  Most people who do volunteer work readily admit that
> they feel good about themselves when they do it, and that part of the
> reason they do it is to feel better about themselves.  One could argue
> that's somewhat selfish, but the people who get the help don't seem to
> mind.

The desire to feel good about oneself is not a crime. What I would say is
pretty awful is to link one's good works to the religious beliefs of the
beneficiaries. To require someone be the same religion as you in order to
receive poverty aid is simply blackmail.

Again I have no idea of M Teresa was of this ilk. Nor do I particularly
care.

> At freshman move-in day, many student groups show up to help new
> students; partly because they remember being new freshman and know how
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> Is Bach's music somehow tainted because he wrote SDG on the scores?

You are cerainly equating motives that I don't see as equal.

> *
>
[quoted text clipped - 40 lines]
> annual bonuses in history, and it looks like 9.8% of Americans took
> the year off work to celebrate." -- Peter Sagal
AllYou! - 26 Oct 2009 20:59 GMT
>> Since no evidence whatever has been presented except the bald
>> assertion by a person who doesn't even have a real name, it is
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> this topic. I am sorry this topic excites you. I have no strong
> opinion at all.

So, if I say that without any evidence whatsoeve to know if it's
true, that I heard that you're a lying ho and whatnot, and that if
that's true, that you would make a vile scumbag and whatnot, that'd
be OK by you because I used the words "if" and "whatnot"?

(Prediction..... right-fighter says yes, it'd be perfectly OK by
her.)
Dr Nancy's Sweetie - 27 Oct 2009 01:53 GMT
I wrote that it is unseemly to even *listen* to accusations of
wrongdoing that come without documentation.  Merely the act of
listening at all creates a market for such gossip, and makes you
partially culpable for it.

"Stephanie <noway@nohow.com>" replied:
> I used words like If and whatnot. You seem quite excited over this
> topic.  I am sorry this topic excites you. I have no strong opinion
> at all.

Gossip is immoral.  Innuendo and rumors can do lots of damage, and
there are people with no scruples whatever who make their fortunes
pandering such rubbish to anyone who will listen.

Repeating accusations with "if it's true" on the front is merely acting
to spread the rumors yourself.  There's even a website devoted to it
now, <http://glennbeckrapedandmurderedayounggirlin1990.com/>.

If you don't care, at least don't be part of the problem.

Darren Provine ! kilroy@elvis.rowan.edu ! http://www.rowan.edu/~kilroy
"No gossip ever dies away entirely, if many people voice it: it, too,
is a kind of divinity." -- Hesiod
Stephanie - 27 Oct 2009 14:10 GMT
> I wrote that it is unseemly to even *listen* to accusations of
> wrongdoing that come without documentation.  Merely the act of
> listening at all creates a market for such gossip, and makes you
> partially culpable for it.

I disagree. I disagree with that with extreme vehemence.

> "Stephanie <noway@nohow.com>" replied:
>> I used words like If and whatnot. You seem quite excited over this
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> If you don't care, at least don't be part of the problem.

You are excited beyond reason, and I am not sure why. Listening is part of
an open mind. When one refuses even to listen to a POV one cannot ever have
new truth exposed to them. Spreading gossip would make me culpable.

> Darren Provine ! kilroy@elvis.rowan.edu ! http://www.rowan.edu/~kilroy
> "No gossip ever dies away entirely, if many people voice it: it, too,
> is a kind of divinity." -- Hesiod
AllYou! - 27 Oct 2009 14:39 GMT
>> Gossip is immoral.  Innuendo and rumors can do lots of damage,
>> and there are people with no scruples whatever who make their
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> You are excited beyond reason, and I am not sure why.

How is it beyond reason to take the position that repeating gosip,
even if qualified with an "if true" predicate, is still spreading
unsubstantiated gossip?  I can understand where some people might
diagree, but I do not understand how that position is "beyond"
reason.

> Listening is part of an open mind. When one refuses even to listen
> to a
> POV one cannot ever have new truth exposed to them.

Given your position you've just taken regarding the opinion above, I
find it mildly amusing that you'd be the one to make this clam.  How
much of an open mind have you taken to the opinion that repeating
gossip is perpetuating the problem?

This reminds me of all of the times that you preach tolerance by
being intolerant of any opinion which, in your opinion, with no
accompaning logical argument, is inconsistent with your own
opinion..

> Spreading
> gossip would make me culpable.

Yes, it would.
Dr Nancy's Sweetie - 27 Oct 2009 20:10 GMT
> You are excited beyond reason, and I am not sure why.

Letting other people fill your head with idle gossip is a form of
stupidity that is particularly offensive to me.  Aren't I allowed a
pet peeve?

Darren Provine ! kilroy@elvis.rowan.edu ! http://www.rowan.edu/~kilroy
"Be very, very careful what you put into your head, because you will never,
ever get it out." -- Thomas Cardinal Wolsey
Stephanie - 27 Oct 2009 20:55 GMT
>> You are excited beyond reason, and I am not sure why.
>
> Letting other people fill your head with idle gossip is a form of
> stupidity that is particularly offensive to me.  Aren't I allowed a
> pet peeve?

Certainly! Peeve on!

But I fail to see how listening "fills your head with idle gossip." If I
then *believed* it in the absence of reason, then I think my head would be
thus filled. It wouldn't be idle gossip if it were true.
Doug Anderson - 27 Oct 2009 15:14 GMT
> I wrote that it is unseemly to even *listen* to accusations of
> wrongdoing that come without documentation.  Merely the act of
> listening at all creates a market for such gossip, and makes you
> partially culpable for it.

I'm not sure how you determine if accusations have meritorious
documentation without listening to them.

But apart from that quibble, Christopher Hitchens (who has been
mentioned in this thread) claims to have evidence for his criticisms of
Mother Teresa, the Catholic Church's handling of her beatification,
and the journalists who have contributed to what he considers to be
her myth of saintliness.

So maybe Hitchens is wrong, and maybe Hitchens is right.  The issue
has never seemed important enough to me to put a lot of time into
reading about.  But whichever it is, Mother Teresa has critics who use
their names and claim to have evidence for their criticisms that we
could choose to investigate.

You mention (further above) Christopher Hitchens's shock that Mother
Teresa doesn't like abortion.  It may be that he didn't actually make
his point on the TV interview you saw, but that isn't his point at
all.  His actual point isn't that she opposes abortion, but used the
bully pulpit of a Nobel Peace Prize acceptance speech to claim that
abortion is the "great destroyer of peace."
AllYou! - 27 Oct 2009 16:05 GMT
>> I wrote that it is unseemly to even *listen* to accusations of
>> wrongdoing that come without documentation.  Merely the act of
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> I'm not sure how you determine if accusations have meritorious
> documentation without listening to them.

It's pretty clear that he meant it in the sense of "to pay attention
to: give credence to" as opposed to "give attention with the ear",
although what his clear intentions were in using the term wouldn't
stop someone, as part of their right-fighting endeavors, from trying
to demean the author by suggesting that he just said something
stupid.

> But apart from that quibble, Christopher Hitchens (who has been
> mentioned in this thread) claims to have evidence for his
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> critics who use their names and claim to have evidence for their
> criticisms that we could choose to investigate.

How is that, in any way, a response to what DNS wrote?  Are you
fully agreeing with what he said, or disagreeing to some extent or
other?

> isn't his point at all.  His actual point isn't that she opposes
> abortion, but used the bully pulpit of a Nobel Peace Prize
> acceptance speech to claim that abortion is the "great destroyer
> of peace."

How do you know that was his point?  Where's your proof for that
leap?  And since when do political figures being honored with a
Nobel price not give a speech which is furtherance of their beliefs?
And since when is a Nobel acceptance speech a "bully" pulpit?

A major part of Mother Teresa's life work was a fight to save the
defenseless, and everyone in the world should have known, or at
least assumed, that a Catholic Nun would regard the unborn as the
ultimate defenseless person.  And so to be shocked that she'd use
the world stage not to advance her cause for defending the unborn is
shocking in its own right for its sheer stupidity.

But then again, some people, through their own arrogance, hypocrisy,
and self-righteousness, are so convinced of the right of a mother to
choose to kill the unborn that they would be shocked if every
opportunity to advance *that* cause would not be taken, while being
shocked that anyone would take an opportunity to express the
opposing opinion.  The first casualty of the need to prove tolerance
IS tolerance.
Dr Nancy's Sweetie - 27 Oct 2009 20:08 GMT
I wrote that it is improper to listen to accusations without references,
because the act of listening creates a market for gossip and makes one
partially culpable for its spread.

"Doug Anderson <ethelthelogremovethis@gmail.com>" asked:
> I'm not sure how you determine if accusations have meritorious
> documentation without listening to them.

If the documentation is not presented in advance, or at least promised,
then the safer course of action is not to listen at all.

"AllYou! <idaman@conversent.net>" offered:
> It's pretty clear that he meant it in the sense of "to pay attention
> to: give credence to" as opposed to "give attention with the ear"[.]

Actually, Mr Anderson has it right: there have been times I have
interrupted stories about people not present to ask where the
information came from.  If no sensible source was provided, I have
either left the room or asked the speaker to stop.  I try not to even
listen -- and I really do mean "listen at all" -- to accusations
without reasonable evidence behind them.  (On Usenet, I skim such
posts; if no references appear, I don't go back to read the article.)

It's all well and good to talk about "I will listen, and postpone
assent until the references appear", but I doubt many people can really
do that.  In my experience, once something gets in your head, it can be
tough to get it out.

Think about this example for a second: suppose you were told by a
friend of yours that some third friend was cheating on their spouse.
You listen for a few minutes, finally ask "How do you know this?", and
the answer is "overheard some people talking on the elevator".  I think
most of us would be able at that point to put the thing aside
consciously: it is an unproven accusation.  But can you fully put aside
the credence you were giving the story while listening?  Can you put
aside the emotional reaction you had when you were listening?  The next
time you see the person the gossip was about, could you be 100% sure
that you wouldn't think of the accusation at all?  Maybe Mr Spock could
do it, but I have my doubts that the rest of us could really 100% erase
those things from our minds.

One of my quotes is from Vladimir Lenin: "A lie told often enough
becomes the truth."  Internally, that means that if you listen to the
gossip now, when you hear it again it'll seem more plausible to you.
You may not remember where you heard it before, but somewhere in your
head you will remember hearing it before, and that will make it seem
more believable, even if it shouldn't be believed.  And externally, it
means that if you repeat gossip -- even if you put "if it's true" on
the front -- then you are contributing to the problem.  Repeated often
enough, even by people saying "I don't know for sure", a lie will
become one of those things that "everybody knows".

*

Christopher Hitchens isn't posting in this thread, so I don't see what
he's got to do with the problem of gossip.  Nobody who posted (or
repeated, even with "if it's true" on the front) the attacks on Mother
Teresa has cited anything worth citing.

My complaints are not to Mr Hitchens.  My complaints are to those who
stated, or repeated, attacks on a person not present without
justification.  If you can't give any reason to believe an attack, you
shouldn't repeat it--even with "I'm not saying it's true" as a
disclaimer.  If you don't know whether it's true, you shouldn't repeat
it until you find out.  (And if you don't care enough to find out, why
do you care enough to repeat it?)

And yes, I really do mean that if you're hearing/reading accusations of
wrongdoing and don't find any indication of sensible sources, then you
should exercise the self-discipline to stop listening/reading and not
finish.  Letting other people fill your head with gossip is not doing
you, or them, any favors.

*

Earlier, Mr Anderson thought it worth pointing out that Ms Vickie had
committed a reasoning error in trusting a web page whose author is not
really an expert on the subject, and whose citations are insufficient
to demonstrate his claims.  Why is it not also worth pointing out the
reasoning error of taking seriously accusations written by someone who
provides no documentation at all?

Since I consider accusations of wrongdoing more immediately serious than
somewhat abstract discussions of how brains work, it seems to me that
gossip is *more* worthy of response than the material you objected to.

Darren Provine ! kilroy@elvis.rowan.edu ! http://www.rowan.edu/~kilroy
"The reason there's so much ignorance is that those who have it are so
eager to share it." -- Frank A Clark
AllYou! - 27 Oct 2009 20:44 GMT
> I wrote that it is improper to listen to accusations without
> references, because the act of listening creates a market for
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
> interrupted stories about people not present to ask where the
> information came from.

But by that point, you've already 'listened', and so, by your
standard, you've become part of the problem.  The passive act of
listening to an unsupported assertion, all by itself, is no
different than the passive act of seeing something as vile as kiddie
porn.  If someone shouts 'look at this', and flips a picture in
front of me, I'm not part of the problem unless I do something that
could remotely be considered consumption of that product.

In the case of unsupported claims about people, I agree that once it
becomes clear that no support of negative assertions will be
forthcoming, that further consumption of those assertions for its
own sake could well be providing a market for it, and therefore,
make me part of the problem.  However, I think it's too strick a
standard to claim that I must first read some support for an
assertion that hasn't even been made yet.

> It's all well and good to talk about "I will listen, and postpone
> assent until the references appear", but I doubt many people can
> really do that.  In my experience, once something gets in your
> head, it can be tough to get it out.

I doubt that most people can write support for an assertion yet to
be made.  I suppose someone could say "In his book, DR Smith has
reasearched Mother Theresa quite extensively, and he claims to know
that.......".   But I think it's just as acceptable to say 'I've
come to believe that Mother Theresa wasn't as generous as we've come
to believe, and I've come to that conclusion by reading Dr. Smith's
book on the subject....".

By your standard, the latter would make you part of the problem.

> Think about this example for a second: suppose you were told by a
> friend of yours that some third friend was cheating on their
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> accusation.  But can you fully put aside the credence you were
> giving the story while listening?

Well, I think you just acknowledged that you were talking about
'listening' as in the definition of 'giving credence to', which is
what I replied to Anderson, and which you said that I had it wrong.

Secondly, even if it were true that I could not get it out of my
mind, to the extent that you're making a case that I could not help
it, then you're also making a case that it's my friend who is the
problem, and not me for not being able to help what's now in my
mind.

Thirdly, I would not give it any credence in the first place until I
got the support to do so.  But if my friend blurted out to me 'Joe
is cheating on his wife", and then couldn't provide any support for
that, I certainly would not think that I was part of the problem for
having heard it unless I had given my buddy a reason to think that
I'm in the market for that kind of gossip.
Dr Nancy's Sweetie - 27 Oct 2009 22:23 GMT
I wrote:
> Actually, Mr Anderson has it right: there have been times I have
> interrupted stories about people not present to ask where the
> information came from.

> But by that point, you've already 'listened', and so, by your
> standard, you've become part of the problem.  The passive act of
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> front of me, I'm not part of the problem unless I do something that
> could remotely be considered consumption of that product.

Yes, I should have been clear that I meant "as soon as you understand
what is going on".  If someone throws a book of objectionable photos in
your lap, and you look at it and then close it to be rid of it, that is
different than paging through it at length.  Once you know what it is,
however, I am still of the view that you should be rid of it without
finishing.

> I doubt that most people can write support for an assertion yet to
> be made.  I suppose someone could say "In his book, DR Smith has
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> to believe, and I've come to that conclusion by reading Dr. Smith's
> book on the subject....".

I agree that either of those would be reasonable.  Of course, if one
is actually quoting a source, one standard textual cue is indenting the
entire paragraph, which sends an immediate signal that some sort of
reference can be found at the bottom.

Darren Provine ! kilroy@elvis.rowan.edu ! http://www.rowan.edu/~kilroy
"Cogito ergo I'm right and you're wrong." -- Blair P. Houghton
AllYou! - 28 Oct 2009 13:18 GMT
> I wrote:
>> Actually, Mr Anderson has it right: there have been times I have
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
> it at length.  Once you know what it is, however, I am still of
> the view that you should be rid of it without finishing.

Me too, and hence my comment:

"It's pretty clear that he meant it in the sense of 'to pay
attention
to: give credence to' as opposed to 'give attention with the ear',"

The first, unintentional look at the porn is 'give attention with
the eye', whereas the continued look at the porn once you know
what's going on is the 'pay attention to', or 'give credence to'.
Stephanie - 27 Oct 2009 20:57 GMT
> I wrote that it is improper to listen to accusations without
> references, because the act of listening creates a market for gossip
[quoted text clipped - 31 lines]
> consciously: it is an unproven accusation.  But can you fully put
> aside the credence you were giving the story while listening?

I don't think everyone automatically gives credence to a story just from
listening to it.

> Can
> you put aside the emotional reaction you had when you were listening?
[quoted text clipped - 52 lines]
> "The reason there's so much ignorance is that those who have it are so
> eager to share it." -- Frank A Clark
Doug Anderson - 27 Oct 2009 22:50 GMT
> I wrote that it is improper to listen to accusations without references,
> because the act of listening creates a market for gossip and makes one
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> If the documentation is not presented in advance, or at least promised,
> then the safer course of action is not to listen at all.

I grant that this is true, though being rigorous about pursuing such a
principle would require some fairly flagrant violations of social
norms.

> "AllYou! <idaman@conversent.net>" offered:
> > It's pretty clear that he meant it in the sense of "to pay attention
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
> do that.  In my experience, once something gets in your head, it can be
> tough to get it out.

I suppose.  If I were to count the unsupported assertions (some
critical, many neutral from my point of view) I hear in a day, it is
probably a large number.  

Most things I hear I simply don't care about.  The ones I do care
about require further investigation, so in that sense they don't get
out of my head, but on the other hand, I also don't automatically lend
them credence.  Even well-meaning people who believe they are speaking
the truth are frequently mistaken after all.

> Think about this example for a second: suppose you were told by a
> friend of yours that some third friend was cheating on their spouse.
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> the credence you were giving the story while listening?  Can you put
> aside the emotional reaction you had when you were listening?

This is a good point.  I'm no Spock, mevertheless I don't think I'd
have a strong emotional reaction to a claim that a friend of mine was
having an affair (I also have no strong emotional reactions to either
the beatification or the villification of Mother Teresa), which would
make it easier to put aside.

> The next
> time you see the person the gossip was about, could you be 100% sure
> that you wouldn't think of the accusation at all?  Maybe Mr Spock could
> do it, but I have my doubts that the rest of us could really 100% erase
> those things from our minds.

I devote very little time (but more than none) to wondering which of
my friends might be having affairs.  And in so far as I think about
it, I doubt that many of them are.  But if I _really_ think about it,
I realize that I simply have no idea.

> One of my quotes is from Vladimir Lenin: "A lie told often enough
> becomes the truth."

(If I say he got it from George Orwell, will that become the truth?)

> Internally, that means that if you listen to the
> gossip now, when you hear it again it'll seem more plausible to you.
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> enough, even by people saying "I don't know for sure", a lie will
> become one of those things that "everybody knows".

Not to knock Lenin, who clearly understood propoganda, but I don't
actually think his maxim works.  I think it works only in so far as
people have some desire to believe the particular lie.

For example, the story about the health care bill including death
panels didn't acquire weight simply because it was repeated.  It
acquired weight because people wanted to believe it.

> Christopher Hitchens isn't posting in this thread, so I don't see what
> he's got to do with the problem of gossip.  Nobody who posted (or
> repeated, even with "if it's true" on the front) the attacks on Mother
> Teresa has cited anything worth citing.

You brought up Hitchens (or at least you mentioned him - maybe someone
else mentioned him first).  And you (I'm sure unwittingly)
mischaracterized what he said.  So I wanted to correct that.

Certainly Hitchens (in a more careful and respectful way, though not
that much more respectful) has made accusations similar to those of
dejablues.  That doesn't make either of them right (or wrong).  It may
or may not be the source of dejablues's opinions.

> My complaints are not to Mr Hitchens.  My complaints are to those who
> stated, or repeated, attacks on a person not present without
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
> reasoning error of taking seriously accusations written by someone who
> provides no documentation at all?

I think if someone has made that reasoning error it is worth pointing
out.  I don't know if anyone has.  And I suppose, since you didn't
give any source, if I follow your rules I should just not have read
the paragraph above!

> Since I consider accusations of wrongdoing more immediately serious than
> somewhat abstract discussions of how brains work, it seems to me that
> gossip is *more* worthy of response than the material you objected
> to.

Thus you should respond to it.  Though how you'd be able to do that
without reading it is a worthy conundrum.
AllYou! - 28 Oct 2009 14:52 GMT
>> One of my quotes is from Vladimir Lenin: "A lie told often
>> enough becomes the truth."
[quoted text clipped - 20 lines]
> panels didn't acquire weight simply because it was repeated.  It
> acquired weight because people wanted to believe it.

It think that's an oversimplification.  Even in your example, it
could be that it's not so much believed as feared that it *could* be
true.

But to the larger issue of "A lie told often enough becomes the
truth.", I think that's a piss poor way of trying to make the point
that a lie told often enough, and loudly enough so as to diminish or
even eliminate the real truth, can create a very believable, yet
false, perception of reality in the minds of the victims of the lie.

In that sense, that maxim does work.  In the more literal sense, no
matter how many times I claim that Obama was the 1st American
President, or how much someone believes it, it will never, ever be
true.

And so to DNS's point, repeating a lie often enough can very well
create the perception of reality that is totally false.  That's why
I not only hate the kind of gossip to which DNS alludes, but it's
why I hate the kind of revisionist history in which movie makers
like Oliver Stone engage.  So many people take those kinds of
portrayals of history as reality that some of it is bound to leak
into societies belief of what transpired, and then the value of
history is diminished accordingly.

DNS might take his point a little too far, but, for the most part, I
agree with it.
Bill in Co - 28 Oct 2009 20:20 GMT
>>> One of my quotes is from Vladimir Lenin: "A lie told often
>>> enough becomes the truth."
[quoted text clipped - 35 lines]
> President, or how much someone believes it, it will never, ever be
> true.

"Obama was the 1st American President"???   What were all the rest?

I think you're talking about some of those right-winger nuts who say he is
not American, and want to see his birth certificate.  (the moronic and
apparently illiterate, Rush Limbaugh, Hannity, and Glenn Beck crowd and its
followers).
Bill in Co - 28 Oct 2009 22:25 GMT
I reread this and it still isn't clear to me, as commented on below.

AllYou! wrote:
> In news:3ck4ygfqwk.fsf@ethel.the.log,
> Doug Anderson <ethelthelogremovethis@gmail.com> mused:
[quoted text clipped - 38 lines]
> President, or how much someone believes it, it will never, ever be
> true.

"Obama was the 1st American President"???   What were all the rest??

I think you're talking about some of those right-winger nuts who say he is
not American, and want to see his birth certificate (the moronic and
apparently illiterate, Rush Limbaugh, Hannity, and Glenn Beck crowd, and its
followers).

Come to think of it, have we ever had a non-American President?
Doug Freyburger - 29 Oct 2009 16:56 GMT
>> Doug Anderson <ethelthelogremovethis@gmail.com> mused:
>
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>> could be that it's not so much believed as feared that it *could* be
>> true.

It unfortunately is already true.  Insurance companies deny claims and
people die.  No matter how unpleasant the idea there are not unlimited
funds for medical care.  If there were we would all be impoverished to
put people on life support.  There was a time when the medical
technology simply did not exist to extend life.  As the technology
advances more and more it is a matter of having unlimited funds
available.  I have long considered spending my 70th birthday getting
"DNR" tatooed on my chest to tell folks that I do not want to be such an
unlimited fanancial drain.

>> But to the larger issue of "A lie told often enough becomes the
>> truth.", I think that's a piss poor way of trying to make the point
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
>
> "Obama was the 1st American President"???   What were all the rest?

Playing the straight man in a joke?  I think the point was a lot simpler
and a lot more clear when not treated as a joke.  When you make up
something that's false, no matter how many times you repeat it it
remains false.  Not even if it's about someone treated as a political
mesihah.

> I think you're talking about some of those right-winger nuts who say he is
> not American, and want to see his birth certificate.  (the moronic and
> apparently illiterate, Rush Limbaugh, Hannity, and Glenn Beck crowd and its
> followers).

Your attempt to turn a simple example into a joke failed to work with
me.  The example was of a statement very obviously false and somehow you
tried to twist it into someone actually trying to assert it's true.
Bill in Co - 29 Oct 2009 20:10 GMT
>>> Doug Anderson <ethelthelogremovethis@gmail.com> mused:
>>
[quoted text clipped - 30 lines]
>
> Playing the straight man in a joke?

If that's directed to me, it wasn't a joke.    I was trying to understand
what was written, as written.   And it makes no sense.   More on this below.

> I think the point was a lot simpler
> and a lot more clear when not treated as a joke.  When you make up
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> me.  The example was of a statement very obviously false and somehow
> you tried to twist it into someone actually trying to assert it's true.

Whose attempt, Doug??    I didn't try to turn it into a joke, so I guess you
mean AY, because I don't find it funny *at all*.   I just find this whole
thing a really sad commentary on us, as a society.
phelbooth - 02 Nov 2009 00:12 GMT
On Oct 29, 1:10 pm, "Bill in Co" <surly_curmudg...@earthlink.net>
wrote:
> >>> Doug Anderson <ethelthelogremovet...@gmail.com> mused:
>
[quoted text clipped - 53 lines]
> mean AY, because I don't find it funny *at all*.   I just find this whole
> thing a really sad commentary on us, as a society.

Not sure, Beams. As a society, we're probably remarkably similar to as
a society 100 years ago. (I think this may have been addressed in a
discussion previously about movies) Had we polled the population in
1909, probably just as many ppl would not know when Columbus sailed to
"america"--

Fill
Bill in Co - 02 Nov 2009 02:37 GMT
> On Oct 29, 1:10 pm, "Bill in Co" <surly_curmudg...@earthlink.net>
> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 58 lines]
> Not sure, Beams. As a society, we're probably remarkably similar to as
> a society 100 years ago.

Ummm, I don't think so!!!
Well, let's go a bit more recent than that (more on that below).

> (I think this may have been addressed in a
> discussion previously about movies) Had we polled the population in
> 1909, probably just as many ppl would not know when Columbus sailed
> to "america"--

But today there is NO excuse for such rampant illiteracy.

As for comparing periods, I'm not sure if I would choose 1909 as a pivotal
moment in our history, either.   Let's try around, say, the 1940's, instead,
the Era of the "Greatest Generation", which just barely preceded me
(although I share most of its core values).  :-)
phelbooth - 02 Nov 2009 02:59 GMT
On Nov 1, 8:37 pm, "Bill in Co" <surly_curmudg...@earthlink.net>
wrote:
> > On Oct 29, 1:10 pm, "Bill in Co" <surly_curmudg...@earthlink.net>
> > wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 68 lines]
>
> But today there is NO excuse for such rampant illiteracy.

This is persuasive.
With the ease of information (which can be remarkably different from
knowledge or, probably, even literacy)--I would have to agree, that
today, it's so easy to find info compared to when I was my students
age.

Yet, there ARE excuses, I suspect, and I'd probably accept most of
them.

> As for comparing periods, I'm not sure if I would choose 1909 as a pivotal
> moment in our history, either.   Let's try around, say, the 1940's, instead,
> the Era of the "Greatest Generation", which just barely preceded me
> (although I share most of its core values).  :-)
Doug Freyburger - 28 Oct 2009 17:33 GMT
> Think about this example for a second: suppose you were told by a
> friend of yours that some third friend was cheating on their spouse.
> You listen for a few minutes, finally ask "How do you know this?", and
> the answer is "overheard some people talking on the elevator".  I think
> most of us would be able at that point to put the thing aside
> consciously: it is an unproven accusation.

Right.  And even in a case where evidence builds until there's little
doubt, why would I want to start telling the tale to others?

> But can you fully put aside
> the credence you were giving the story while listening?  Can you put
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> do it, but I have my doubts that the rest of us could really 100% erase
> those things from our minds.

Aristotle said something like - It is the mark of an educated mind to be
able to entertain a thought without agreeing with it.

Aristotle's standards included folks with less emotional control than
Spock but he's definitely not discussing the majority of the population
when he mentions "an educated mind".

> One of my quotes is from Vladimir Lenin: "A lie told often enough
> becomes the truth."

I thought that was Goebells.  If so then they both likely learned it
from someone a generation before that.  It's the basis of propaganda and
part of why the open flow of ideas on the Internet is such a mixed
blessing - It allows statements to be checked for accuracy but it also
supplies a channel for unlimited propaganda.  Telling the difference
between the true and the false is a matter of who elitist you think
Aristotle was!
Doug Anderson - 28 Oct 2009 18:41 GMT
> > Think about this example for a second: suppose you were told by a
> > friend of yours that some third friend was cheating on their spouse.
[quoted text clipped - 26 lines]
> I thought that was Goebells.  If so then they both likely learned it
> from someone a generation before that.

I've seen this quote attributed to Lenin.  I've seen similar, but more
nuanced ideas attributed to Goebbels.  And I've seen another similar
idea (also more nuanced than the supposed Lenin quote) attributed to
William James, which presumably would predate the Lenin and Goebbels
versions, thus justifying your "generation before that."

I've never seen a proper source for any of these quotes, and for
various reasons I kind of doubt that Goebbels actually said the quote
attributed to him.

My favorite forged dead Nazi quote is the one attributed to Goering
(which he probably also didn't say): "Whenever I hear the word
culture, I reach for my revolver."  Hard to use considering its
supposed source (though again, Goering appears not to be the actual
source) but an often apt sentiment.

> It's the basis of propaganda and
> part of why the open flow of ideas on the Internet is such a mixed
> blessing - It allows statements to be checked for accuracy but it also
> supplies a channel for unlimited propaganda.  Telling the difference
> between the true and the false is a matter of who elitist you think
> Aristotle was!

I wonder if the internet makes false information more problematic than
it used to be, or not.  One doesn't have to look very hard to find
widely accepted and very damaging false information before the
internet.  My guess is that some of this is human nature and based on
the desire to believe certain false things in the first place (hence
my caveat that the supposed Lenin quote is more accurate if modifided
to "A lie that people would like to believe told often enough become
the truth."
rj - 27 Oct 2009 03:03 GMT
>> I don't know a great deal about Mother Theresa or Calcutta. I don't
>> know what her motives were.  [...]
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>gossip for anyone to entertain any accusations at all.  ("One who
>listens to backbiting is a backbiter himself." -- Ali ibn-abu-Talib)

(snip of good stuff)

>Darren Provine ! kilroy@elvis.rowan.edu ! http://www.rowan.edu/~kilroy
>"Hey, all you frowny faces, who are still moping because you lost your
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> annual bonuses in history, and it looks like 9.8% of Americans took
> the year off work to celebrate." -- Peter Sagal

As it happens, while I was browsing through this thread, TLOML (aka my
wife) walked in and I started reading it aloud to her.  She
immediately started objecting... *very* strenuously.  You see as it
happens, when we were living in India, TLOML had personal contact with
some of the nuns and the patients at one of Mother Theresa's hospices.
And so she has personal experience in this.

My wife was told by the nuns at the local hospice that one of Mother
Theresa's very firm rules was that no proselytizing was to go on and
that *everyone* was to be loved and cared for, regardless of religion.
And further, she says, that she personally saw that love and care
there in action in that very hospice.  In addition, the very strong
anti-proselytizing/anti-conversion laws in effect in that part of
India (this was Tamil Nadu) would have brought the full force of the
nationalistic Hindu government down onto the hospice if they had been
even subtly violated.

So, these allegations about Mother Theresa are not only unfounded but
seem to me to be themselves more than a little bit evil.  Or at least,
just plain *wrong*.

rj
Emma Anne - 27 Oct 2009 16:14 GMT
> Since no evidence whatever has been presented except the bald assertion
> by a person who doesn't even have a real name, it is simply unseemly
> gossip for anyone to entertain any accusations at all.

So, would it be fair to ask Deja for references to back up her
assertions?  Or does that fact that she feels it to be true mean it
would be rude to suggest she might be wrong?
AllYou! - 27 Oct 2009 19:14 GMT
>> Since no evidence whatever has been presented except the bald
>> assertion by a person who doesn't even have a real name, it is
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> So, would it be fair to ask Deja for references to back up her
> assertions?

That would be fair, although it doesn't reduce her complicity in
making an assertion which attempts to destroy a reputation without
support.

>  Or does that fact that she feels it to be true mean
> it would be rude to suggest she might be wrong?

It would not be rude to suggest that she might be wrong, no matter
what she feels.  And it certainly would not be wrong to suggest that
she is being wholly unfair for posting her assertions without any
support.
phelbooth - 27 Oct 2009 22:36 GMT
> Innews:1j88myg.1t4q35i1satsm0N%emma_anne@mac.com,
> Emma Anne <emma_a...@mac.com> mused:
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
> she is being wholly unfair for posting her assertions without any
> support.

A while back, I read a book called "Mother Theresa: Beyond the
Image" (or something close to that).

I thot it was fairly even-handed in discussing both the good works MT
performed and some of the problematic issues related to her work in
Calcutta. I would think most public libraries would have that book (I
don't think it is too old; I'm thinking it was maybe a decade since I
read it?), and I think the author--Sebba?--had done extensive research
and provided a coherent bibliography.

Maybe deja read something similar...???

Fill
AllYou! - 28 Oct 2009 13:32 GMT
In
news:488852b4-8594-4bde-819b-69e97d6632b9@l13g2000yqb.googlegroups.com,
phelbooth <phelbooth@gmail.com> mused:
>> Innews:1j88myg.1t4q35i1satsm0N%emma_anne@mac.com,
>> Emma Anne <emma_a...@mac.com> mused:
[quoted text clipped - 31 lines]
>
> Maybe deja read something similar...???

I cannot allow for that possibility based simply on her post
because, to DNS's point, it seems to me highly unfair to post
something like:

"She was evil and selfish, keeping people poor instead of helping
them out of poverty."

with no support whatsoever, and not even any indication of any
support.  If, at this point, I allow for the possiblity that deja
might have support, the danger is this......

I'm sure that there are some here, maybe you, and maybe even me if I
ever bothered to keep track of the posting habits of many of the
'regulars' here, who would have some degree of respect for deja.
And so when she posts something like that, you (in the hypothetical
sense) would give it some degree of credibility.  Maybe not too
much, but some.  And then time passes, and the next time you're in a
discussion with someone about MT, you say something to the effect of
'I read somewhere where MT wasn't all that she was cracked up to be,
and that she could actually be somewhat nasty at times'.   So now,
the people who respect *you* file that in their heads, and on and on
it goes.

It's the type of gossip and rumor mongering that DNS was talking
about, and how giving it any credibility whatsoever, if not
supported, would make you (or me, or anyone) part of the problem for
having given deja's post any allowance at all for the possibility
that it might be true ("Maybe deja read something similar...???")

In my mind, she provided no support whatsoever, and so I cannot
allow myself to even entertain the possibility that she's got
support for it, or, as DNS has indicated, I'm part of the problem.
news - 24 Oct 2009 05:45 GMT
> "dejablues <dejablues@comcast.net>" wrote, of Mother Teresa:
> So, if you were dropped in Calcutta with just what you own today, what
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> parenting, you may find that you know way fewer of the answers once you
> are actually face-to-face with the problems.

I have no desire to fix poverty in Calcutta. None whatsoever. I don't care
about it , and never will.  I admit that.  I won't, however, take money from
people and pretend to fix poverty there when I'm really not.

Teresa whined, exhorted and raised millions of dollars "for the poor" in
Calcutta. Guess what?  Much of that money went to the Vatican. There are
still poor people there! The only thing that seems to be raising India out
of poverty is the tech boom and Western corporations building satellite
facilities there.  No religion or insincere conversion required.
Religion is fine when it gives unconditionally. It's evil when its
representatives require conversion and adherence to a doctrine unwanted and
unnecessary,  and withholds basic needs like food and water until the
individual gives up and accepts the particular brand of religion the giver
is offering. Teresa did just that.

I wish people would learn more about her before blindly praising her.  Her
religious ideology came first, while the suffering masses were the means to
her end.
phelbooth - 26 Oct 2009 05:39 GMT
> > "dejablues <dejabl...@comcast.net>" wrote, of Mother Teresa:
> > So, if you were dropped in Calcutta with just what you own today, what
[quoted text clipped - 28 lines]
> religious ideology came first, while the suffering masses were the means to
> her end.

,,,There is laughter
every day in the terrible streets of Calcutta,
and the women laught in the cages of Bombay;
we lessen the importance of their deprivation,
We must risk delight...

Jack Gilber
"A Brief for the Defnese"
Doug Freyburger - 21 Oct 2009 21:17 GMT
Some amuzing spammer wrote:

> Are you GOOD ENOUGH for Heaven ??

On the one hand the question can be asked in terms of a very strict
interpretation of Christianity that all who get to heaven get there
through Jesus and that good works are not relevant.  If good works are
not relevant that paints a pretty ugly picture of putting effort into
life.

On the other hand, why figure that it's hard or atypical to be blessed
in the afterlife?  I prefer the question - Are you bad enough to go to
Niflhel?

It's interesting that the questions comparing any of us to saints or
soon to be saints have an assumption that it takes an above average
amount of good work to have a blessed afterlife.  How pessimistic.

I think the question would have been better as a Cialis commercial.  Can
you stay hard enough to take her to heaven?  At least it would have been
funny in a way recognized by more here.
Vickie - 21 Oct 2009 22:40 GMT
> Some amuzing spammer wrote:
>>
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
> you stay hard enough to take her to heaven?  At least it would have been
> funny in a way recognized by more here.

Right, right, and right!

Vickie
Stephanie - 22 Oct 2009 00:40 GMT
> Some amuzing spammer wrote:
>>
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> not relevant that paints a pretty ugly picture of putting effort into
> life.

You cannot say that "the question can be asked in terms of a very strict
interpretation of Christianity that all who get to heaven get there through
Jesus and that good works are not relevant. " since Christians differ
greatly on this point. This was the very crux of the dogmatic difficulties
that Luther had with Catholicism. The other difference was the corruption of
forced and abusive tithing and payment linked absolution...
Dr Nancy's Sweetie - 22 Oct 2009 04:33 GMT
> You cannot say that "the question can be asked in terms of a very strict
> interpretation of Christianity that all who get to heaven get there
> through Jesus and that good works are not relevant. " since Christians
> differ greatly on this point. This was the very crux of the dogmatic
> difficulties that Luther had with Catholicism.

Some RC theologian (I think it was Hans Kung) has written that the entire
doctrinal dispute between Luther and Rome is because of a misunderstanding.
His view is that Luther missed a subtlety in the phrasing of the Latin,
and that the Vatican respondents got defensive and so didn't completely
address Luther's position, and it went out of control from there.

As regards practice, Luther got almost all of his 95 theses addressed by
the Vatican, because (as they realized once they got over being defensive
about the criticism) he was basically right on those issues.

Darren Provine ! kilroy@elvis.rowan.edu ! http://www.rowan.edu/~kilroy
I was torn between two possible quotations for this post.  You get
both:

"Again, my own position is that all doctrine sucks." -- Michael Siemon

"Heaven goes by favor; if it went by merit, you would stay out and
your dog would go in." -- Mark Twain
Doug Anderson - 22 Oct 2009 05:26 GMT
> > You cannot say that "the question can be asked in terms of a very strict
> > interpretation of Christianity that all who get to heaven get there
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> the Vatican, because (as they realized once they got over being defensive
> about the criticism) he was basically right on those issues.

Not that Luther is really my fave religious figure, but did they
address those points before or after excommunicating him?

I seem to remember a passage of 40-50 years between the 95 theses and
the pope banning indulgences.  

I confess that I don't know when vernacular bibles began to be
accepted by the catholic church, though I do know that latin mass was
the rule up until Vatican II.

Given who Kung is, it makes sense for him to want to reconcile the
reformation with Catholicism (though the Catholic church seems to want
him to be quiet), but I'm not sure I really buy this argument you
quote.  

(I understand - you are not advocating it, merely noting it.)
Dr Nancy's Sweetie - 23 Oct 2009 04:15 GMT
I noted an RC theologian's theory (possibly Hans Kung) that Luther's
position on salvation could be reconciled with the Vatican's, and that
some of that doctrinal dispute was the result of a mistake.  Eventually,
most of his 95 theses were addressed by the Vatican.

"Doug Anderson <ethelthelogremovethis@gmail.com>" replied:
> Not that Luther is really my fave religious figure, but did they
> address those points before or after excommunicating him?

Almost certainly after.  The Vatican takes forever to do things.  It was
480 years before they canonized Joan of Arc, which is more than twice as
long since the Declaration of Independence.  (They still use Roman
numerals for the Popes; I guess they figure Arabic numerals may turn out
to be fad, or something. 8-)

> Given who Kung is, it makes sense for him to want to reconcile the
> reformation with Catholicism (though the Catholic church seems to want
> him to be quiet), but I'm not sure I really buy this argument you
> quote.  

I'm not sure about "wants him to be quiet", but he was stripped of his
official teaching position after publishing _The Church: Maintained in
Truth_, in which he argued against the notion of Papal Infallibility.
That being an official dogma, the book is officially heretical, and
there went his formal teaching authority.

I often find the esoteric doctrinal hairs that theologians like to
split incomprehensible, so I'm not at all competent to address the
particulars of the argument about Luther.

However, I have seen competent histories that connect the split in 1054
in part to language differences.  For centuries, Greek and Latin had
been spoken at Rome, and essentially all educated people, along with
anyone involved in trade or business, could speak both.  But in the 6th
century the Latin-speaking world essentially dropped Greek.  After
that, communication difficulties got worse, Greek theologians didn't
read Latin commentaries and vice-versa, differences accumulated, and
the Church eventually broke in two.

So, it doesn't seem entirely implausible to me that similar things may
have happened in other times and places, and may have contributed to
other problems.  (Note that nobody claims the language problems alone
are responsible for any of these troubles.)

Darren Provine ! kilroy@elvis.rowan.edu ! http://www.rowan.edu/~kilroy
"...But if we laugh with derision, we will never understand.  Human
intellectual capacity has not altered for thousands of years so far as
we can tell.  If intelligent people invested intense energy in issues
that now seem foolish to us, then the failure lies in our understanding
of their world, not in their distorted perceptions." -- SJ Gould
Doug Anderson - 23 Oct 2009 04:30 GMT
> I noted an RC theologian's theory (possibly Hans Kung) that Luther's
> position on salvation could be reconciled with the Vatican's, and that
[quoted text clipped - 39 lines]
> other problems.  (Note that nobody claims the language problems alone
> are responsible for any of these troubles.)

Nor to me, I suppose.  But the fracas with Luther doesn't seem like an
example from the bits of that history that I've learned about.
AllYou! - 23 Oct 2009 04:58 GMT
>> I noted an RC theologian's theory (possibly Hans Kung) that
>> Luther's position on salvation could be reconciled with the
[quoted text clipped - 48 lines]
> like an example from the bits of that history that I've learned
> about.

Can you provide any support for how you came to that perception, or
did you just make that leap by finding another a-hole on the
internet to agree with you?  :-)  Or maybe you didn't even do that
much.
 
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