Dilemma in Our love marriage

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rani - 20 Feb 2007 08:11 GMT

I am 25 year old guy. I got marry with my beloved on 28 May 2006 Name
is Rani Rawat. We stay together 4 months. Having good sexual relation
with her. But Now I am in Abroad Job for two years. She is alone now
feeling lonly abslutly. I am also feeling very upset and depress that
I won't able to do this job without her. Its not possible to call her
here bcz my company not allow for wife. Now Prob when we are talking
on the phone I gonna irritate if she something taking beside my love
or affection. Like whe should have lot of Money, stay in big ciy
without my parents like her fantasis. If I arrange like this then I
will be far from her approx 10 yrs. I won't be share with her my
Sexual life. When I am going to suggest her. About our satisfaction
that we should be happy as much we have now. She became angry with me
while she also don't want live far from me. I don't understand how
will arrange my love affection and sexual life. Plz anyone suggest me.
I am in big dilemma bcz I don't want creat any broblem except my love
and Healthy sex. I am taking tention and I lossing my health.
Your Umesh

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Rog' - 20 Feb 2007 14:21 GMT

>I am 25 year old guy. I got marry with my beloved on 28 May 2006.
> We stay together 4 months. Having good sexual relation with her.
> But Now I am in Abroad Job for two years. She is alone now...

As I see it, you have a choice: Forego wealth for the sake of your
marriage and move back home; or live solely for the money, as if
wealth alone can bring you happiness [See "Anna Nicole Smith"].

People get married so that they can live together and share their
lives with each other. Many couples do occassionally spend
significant periods of time apart, but its not healthy and contrary
to the purpose of a marriage. IMHO, income is not so important
that you need to spend the best years of your life, living as if you
were not married. =R=

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geetnisha@gmail.com - 20 Feb 2007 14:56 GMT

> I am 25 year old guy. I got marry with my beloved on 28 May 2006 Name
> is Rani Rawat. We stay together 4 months. Having good sexual relation
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> and Healthy sex. I am taking tention and I lossing my health.
> Your Umesh

wellll.......sex it's not a very serious matter that u had 2
handle.....so many other things that u can do it....if ur mind full of
sex fantacies surelah.....4 u a big dilema.........maybe women can
control their sex life ....but man ......masyaallah.......more than
animal......even child they dont bother......

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Wireless - 20 Feb 2007 17:16 GMT

Umesh,
I feel for you and your relationship. I can imagine the fear you
have. You are honest. To feel upset and depressed about your marital
love is a normal thing. I think you probably should try to be open
about your feelings towards her. Tell her the difficulties you have
now in communicating and promise if it is possible to improve on it.
Of curse I don't understand you are failing to do so adequately. If
the job you have is of benefit to both of you, she will understand.
You may also need to probably review your priorities here. Job and
marriages need a good balance and I am sure you don't want a job at
the expense of your own marriage! The fact she feels absolutely lonely
might be putting her under a strain whose consequences you don't want
to see. If indeed you have a job, I don't see how you can rely on a
company phone to call her! You have the solution to the situation.

Victor

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double_t_sptn - 26 Feb 2007 12:38 GMT

change jobs dope head and get back to banging your wife not getting up
the a.s from some boss in a company somewhere els

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Dilemma in Our love marriage