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<sob>
>My 21 year old has been out of reach now for 8 days, doing
> trail maintenance or whatever in the national park he's working at
> this summer. Not a day has gone by when I haven't thought about him,
> worried about the fires out that way and so on.
Urk, yes - I had forgotten about that disquieting aspect while dwelling more
on your son spending the summer in getting lots of exercise and fresh air in
the great outdoors! I'm assuming this is his college vacation job?
> I guess we have to accept that the parental worry monitor never turns
> off entirely once activated.
I guess so. :( And perhaps these transition years of later teen and early
adulthood are particularly difficult for parents! :)
Tai
Barbara Didrichsen - 28 Jun 2007 14:40 GMT
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>>My 21 year old has been out of reach now for 8 days, doing
>> trail maintenance or whatever in the national park he's working at
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>on your son spending the summer in getting lots of exercise and fresh air in
>the great outdoors! I'm assuming this is his college vacation job?
It's a kind of internship or fellowship; he's actually getting 3
university credit hours (for which I learned last week would cost *me*
over $800 unbudgeted dollars; his current school loan didn't cover
summer term and he hasn't finalized his loan for next year).
>> I guess we have to accept that the parental worry monitor never turns
>> off entirely once activated.
>I guess so. :( And perhaps these transition years of later teen and early
>adulthood are particularly difficult for parents! :)
I remember the moment, 2 years ago about this time of year, when my
son and I and my brother and his eldest daughter (who's my son's age)
took a vacation together. It was the first time I was aware of his
now being an adult, and this being our first real adult trip together
(they even drank wine with us when we had it at dinner). Very weird,
and oddly touching! A month after we got home, he moved out of the
house. I'd be very surprised if he ever comes back!
I really felt the pangs of time and full-time motherhood passing that
year.
Barb
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> I guess we have to accept that the parental worry monitor never turns
> off entirely once activated.
Well, I'm <umpteen> years old, and my mother still worries about *me*!