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Tracey - 26 Jun 2007 17:52 GMT
As a lot of you knew, our son went in to AF boot camp in April.
What *should* have been a six week visit to hell turned into an
eleven week stay in Purgatory. :P He didn't pass his PT test
during his fifth week of training and has been in a special
flight (company) for the past five weeks, trying to pass his
test.

Today, he passed. Yay!!!!!!!! He will be graduating on Friday
and on his way to school on Monday.

I feel 20 pounds lighter...

Tracey
Emma Anne - 26 Jun 2007 17:59 GMT
> As a lot of you knew, our son went in to AF boot camp in April.
> What *should* have been a six week visit to hell turned into an
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> I feel 20 pounds lighter...

Yay!  I'm glad for you.
Tracey - 28 Jun 2007 01:27 GMT
>>As a lot of you knew, our son went in to AF boot camp in April.
>>What *should* have been a six week visit to hell turned into an
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>
> Yay!  I'm glad for you.

Thanks, EA. This is a great opportunity for him and I hope he realizes
it and plugs away at it.

Tracey
dejablues - 26 Jun 2007 19:07 GMT
> As a lot of you knew, our son went in to AF boot camp in April.
> What *should* have been a six week visit to hell turned into an
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>
> Tracey

Woohoo!
He must me in great shape now!
Tracey - 28 Jun 2007 01:28 GMT
>>As a lot of you knew, our son went in to AF boot camp in April.
>>What *should* have been a six week visit to hell turned into an
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> Woohoo!
> He must me in great shape now!

He'll probably kick my butt at racquetball the next time we play. :P

Tracey
DrLith - 27 Jun 2007 02:14 GMT
> As a lot of you knew, our son went in to AF boot camp in April.
> What *should* have been a six week visit to hell turned into an
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>
> Tracey

I bet that was no fun for him! Not. Glad he's moving on to bigger and
better things.
Tracey - 28 Jun 2007 01:29 GMT
>> As a lot of you knew, our son went in to AF boot camp in April.
>> What *should* have been a six week visit to hell turned into an
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> I bet that was no fun for him! Not. Glad he's moving on to bigger and
> better things.

Me, too. And we're already lining up folks to harass him at his school.
Between hubby and myself, we know someone at just about any place he
will possibly go from now on. :P

Tracey
Tai - 27 Jun 2007 04:53 GMT
> As a lot of you knew, our son went in to AF boot camp in April.
> What *should* have been a six week visit to hell turned into an
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>
> I feel 20 pounds lighter...

Great news, Tracey!

So when do we stop worrying about them, I wonder?

Tai
Barbara Didrichsen - 27 Jun 2007 12:24 GMT
[snip]

>Great news, Tracey!
>
>So when do we stop worrying about them, I wonder?

Never :-))  My 21 year old has been out of reach now for 8 days, doing
trail maintenance or whatever in the national park he's working at
this summer.   Not a day has gone by when I haven't thought about him,
worried about the fires out that way and so on.  

I guess we have to accept that the parental worry monitor never turns
off entirely once activated.

Barb
Tai - 27 Jun 2007 13:38 GMT
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>
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>
> Never :-))

  <sob>

>My 21 year old has been out of reach now for 8 days, doing
> trail maintenance or whatever in the national park he's working at
> this summer.   Not a day has gone by when I haven't thought about him,
> worried about the fires out that way and so on.

Urk, yes - I had forgotten about that disquieting aspect while dwelling more
on your son spending the summer in getting lots of exercise and fresh air in
the great outdoors! I'm assuming this is his college vacation job?

> I guess we have to accept that the parental worry monitor never turns
> off entirely once activated.

I guess so. :(  And perhaps these transition years of later teen and early
adulthood are particularly difficult for parents!  :)

Tai
Barbara Didrichsen - 28 Jun 2007 14:40 GMT
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>>My 21 year old has been out of reach now for 8 days, doing
>> trail maintenance or whatever in the national park he's working at
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>on your son spending the summer in getting lots of exercise and fresh air in
>the great outdoors! I'm assuming this is his college vacation job?

It's a kind of internship or fellowship; he's actually getting 3
university credit hours (for which I learned last week would cost *me*
over $800 unbudgeted dollars; his current school loan didn't cover
summer term and he hasn't finalized his loan for next year).

>> I guess we have to accept that the parental worry monitor never turns
>> off entirely once activated.

>I guess so. :(  And perhaps these transition years of later teen and early
>adulthood are particularly difficult for parents!  :)

I remember the moment, 2 years ago about this time of year, when my
son and I and my brother and his eldest daughter (who's my son's age)
took a vacation together.  It was the first time I was aware of his
now being an adult, and this being our first real adult trip together
(they even drank wine with us when we had it at dinner).  Very weird,
and oddly touching!  A month after we got home, he moved out of the
house.  I'd be very surprised if he ever comes back!

I really felt the pangs of time and full-time motherhood passing that
year.

Barb
Joy - 27 Jun 2007 23:05 GMT
> [snip]
>
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> I guess we have to accept that the parental worry monitor never turns
> off entirely once activated.

Well, I'm <umpteen> years old, and my mother still worries about *me*!
Tracey - 28 Jun 2007 01:26 GMT
>>As a lot of you knew, our son went in to AF boot camp in April.
>>What *should* have been a six week visit to hell turned into an
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>
> Tai

Well, my mom says when she stops worrying about us kids, she'll
let me know. :P

Tracey
Michael A. Ball - 27 Jun 2007 23:04 GMT
>...
>Today, he passed. Yay!!!!!!!! He will be graduating on Friday
>and on his way to school on Monday.
>
>I feel 20 pounds lighter...

I bet he feels a few pounds lighter, too! :-) I'm very happy for him.

You know, the Air Force must be very interested in your son, to invest
in the extra time. Do you think he might be officer material? [How silly
of me: of course, you do!] If OCS is offered to him, I hope he accepts.

Do you know what job he will be training for?

As you might know, the Air Force has some spectacular education
opportunities.

________________________
Whatever it takes.
Tracey - 28 Jun 2007 01:26 GMT
>>...
>>Today, he passed. Yay!!!!!!!! He will be graduating on Friday
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>
> I bet he feels a few pounds lighter, too! :-) I'm very happy for him.

Heh. Probably. :)

> You know, the Air Force must be very interested in your son, to invest
> in the extra time. Do you think he might be officer material? [How silly
> of me: of course, you do!] If OCS is offered to him, I hope he accepts.

Well, personally, I hope he doesn't. But that's the old enlisted bias
in me talking. :P

> Do you know what job he will be training for?

Yes. Military intelligence linguist. Don't know what language yet though.

> As you might know, the Air Force has some spectacular education
> opportunities.

Yep and we're hoping he takes full advantage of them.

Tracey
SouthernComfort - 28 Jun 2007 03:19 GMT
> I feel 20 pounds lighter...

How much lighter is he?
 
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