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Family Forum / Marriage / Marriage / February 2008A woman who dated a married man was a fool
A few months ago, I posted multiple times in defence of Chuck, the man I dated who was married to another woman. (I knew what I was doing all along, as she had a google alert on me and I have one posted on myself also, so I did know it would be found. I did it to piss her off and get her to leave him-it just had a delayed reaction as he had her on a cruise where he declared his love, gave her a diamond, then came home, lied to me, and told me he loved me, made plans for a future with me, was late for dinner-red roses in hand-on valentines because he was talking to me and telling me he loved me). (Thank Goodness she didn't leave him and he is with her and not me). (Oh, and I am sure she will be pissed when she sees his first name on here, but I could post full name, address, and social security number, but I didn't). ya'll told me I was a fool, and guess what I was wrong and you were right. his wife found out, yet again about our communications and plans and guess what....he lied and lied and lied and lied about lying and lied to save his butt and then pretended he had a "problem" then blamed it all on me, and his wife asked me for information which I provided, then they turned on me, attacked me, he accused me of altering the e-mails, etc. I guess I altered the photo he is in beside me, too, eh? He is a dirty rotten lying scoudrel who lied to both of us. She is a pretty decent human being, not an intellectual imbicle or a dead fish in the bedroom as he suggested, just a wounded terribly mislead woman who still is believing his train of lies. Boy was I sold a lot of stinky stuff. And I believed it. I am glad to be out of it. But, I promised I would say if I was wrong and I was wrong... maybe I am stupid, but at least I can admit when I am wrong. Oh, and it's just awful. I "ended up" with a sweet, SINGLE, gorgeous, medical resident, 16 years my junior who is crazy about me and just informed me he is whisking me away by helicopter for a weekend at a spa resort in hawaii to recuperate from my recent hospitlizaiton, surgery, and hemorrhagic stroke I suffered as a result of an intracranial hemorrhage following surgery-but I will make a full recovery with some therapy. Guess I was able to reap even better than I sowed. > Oh, and it's just awful. I "ended up" with a sweet, SINGLE, gorgeous, > medical resident, 16 years my junior who is crazy about me and just > informed me he is whisking me away by helicopter for a weekend at a > spa resort in hawaii Glad you are well and the skunk finally showed his stripes. BTW, you can't fly from GA or TN to HI in a helicopter. You can't even fly from CA to HI by helicopter! > > Oh, and it's just awful. I "ended up" with a sweet, SINGLE, gorgeous, > > medical resident, 16 years my junior who is crazy about me and just [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > BTW, you can't fly from GA or TN to HI in a helicopter. You can't even fly > from CA to HI by helicopter! Yes, but you can fly from North Carolina to California by helicopter and from CA to HI by plane ;-) Thats how we are doing it. >> > Oh, and it's just awful. I "ended up" with a sweet, SINGLE, gorgeous, >> > medical resident, 16 years my junior who is crazy about me and just [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] >Yes, but you can fly from North Carolina to California by helicopter >and from CA to HI by plane ;-) Thats how we are doing it. Eek. One has to wonder why you'd want to. A trip of that length is far more comfortable and quiet by plane, usually. On Feb 28, 11:50 am, "news" <n...@news.org> wrote: > "krzgirl" <krzg...@gmail.com> wrote in message > [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > BTW, you can't fly from GA or TN to HI in a helicopter. You can't even fly > from CA to HI by helicopter! Yes, but you can fly from North Carolina to California by helicopter and from CA to HI by plane ;-) Thats how we are doing it. NC to CA is 2,689 miles. How many times would you have to refuel? On Feb 28, 11:50 am, "news" <n...@news.org> wrote: > "krzgirl" <krzg...@gmail.com> wrote in message > [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > BTW, you can't fly from GA or TN to HI in a helicopter. You can't even fly > from CA to HI by helicopter! >Yes, but you can fly from North Carolina to California by helicopter >and from CA to HI by plane ;-) Thats how we are doing it. I don't believe this for a minute. You've already posted here for the "benefit" of your ex-lover and his wife, and this is just more of the same. You made this up in an attempt to thumb your nose at them. Oh, and I bet this new "boyfriend's" patients will love having a doctor with herpes. > On Feb 28, 11:50 am, "news" <n...@news.org> wrote: >> "krzgirl" <krzg...@gmail.com> wrote in message [quoted text clipped - 21 lines] > with > herpes. Oh, come on, this is just (yet another) a sign of the newage times. How many times do I have to tell y'all? And that the "Scarlet Letter" went the way of the dodo bird - which is now extinct. Viva Le Nouveau Age.... >> On Feb 28, 11:50 am, "news" <n...@news.org> wrote: >>> "krzgirl" <krzg...@gmail.com> wrote in message [quoted text clipped - 27 lines] > > Viva Le Nouveau Age.... You know ,when you type New Age as "newage" I think of it as rhyming with "sewage". (This is not a commentary on the New Age movement , which I mostly think of as having spawned a bunch of crappy music like Yanni.) > >> On Feb 28, 11:50 am, "news" <n...@news.org> wrote: > >>> "krzgirl" <krzg...@gmail.com> wrote in message [quoted text clipped - 32 lines] > (This is not a commentary on the New Age movement , which I mostly think of > as having spawned a bunch of crappy music like Yanni.)- Hide quoted text - LOL! V >>> On Feb 28, 11:50 am, "news" <n...@news.org> wrote: >>>> "krzgirl" <krzg...@gmail.com> wrote in message [quoted text clipped - 28 lines] > You know ,when you type New Age as "newage" I think of it as rhyming with > "sewage". Sounds about right. > (This is not a commentary on the New Age movement , which I mostly think > of > as having spawned a bunch of crappy music like Yanni.) Yanni??? I don't know anything about any "Yanni". Maybe it's just as well. > On Feb 28, 11:50 am, "news" <n...@news.org> wrote: > [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > Oh, and I bet this new "boyfriend's" patients will love having a doctor with > herpes. I don't care what you believe. We have a couple photo stops planned along the way. And he doesn't have herpes, at least not yet, as we haven't been intimate yet. And he has had appropirate blood testing to know for sure about this or any other STD. It ain't any of your business but I have gone back on suppressive therapy to decrease the chances of transmission. If you knew anything about herpes which I am sure you don't, there is no reason for his patients to know or care whether he has herpes or not, he doesn't plan on having sex with his patients, so nobody is at risk. I do appreciate your concern, though. > But, I promised I would say if I was wrong and I was wrong... maybe I > am stupid, but at least I can admit when I am wrong. Heh, I have to admit, it's nice to hear "you were right." ;-) But, I'm sorry too, because it sounds like your last few months were hell. :-( And I'm sorry for Chuck's wife. Chuck sounds like a loser. And no, you're not stupid. You got out fast. We all make mistakes, you're only stupid if you persist in them or never learn from them. > Oh, and it's just awful. I "ended up" with a sweet, SINGLE, gorgeous, > medical resident, 16 years my junior who is crazy about me and just [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > > Guess I was able to reap even better than I sowed. Yeah for you! Enjoy your spa retreat with the single young man. ;-) jen > > But, I promised I would say if I was wrong and I was wrong... maybe I > > am stupid, but at least I can admit when I am wrong. [quoted text clipped - 22 lines] > > jen Actually, I am very sorry for her too. She is still there, being snowed by him as the lies mount and mount and mount. I am sorry for her that she is stuck in her situation with him. She actually believes most of his lies. But, it is time for me to wash my hands of it. > A few months ago, I posted multiple times in defence of Chuck, the man > I dated who was married to another woman. (I knew what I was doing all [quoted text clipped - 33 lines] > > Guess I was able to reap even better than I sowed. My only thought is do not be in a new romantic relationship for a while. Let your keel come back to center. Good luck. In news:478a0e72-95ab-4319-8485-28dc241c8652@b1g2000hsg.googlegroups.com, krzgirl <krzgirl@gmail.com> mused: > A few months ago, I posted multiple times in defence of Chuck, > the man I dated who was married to another woman. (I knew what I [quoted text clipped - 36 lines] > > Guess I was able to reap even better than I sowed. In terms of how it went with him, and how it ended with him, and how they both turned on you, you got exactly what you deserved. And so did he. But it seems to me that you've learned nothing about morals, character, or ethics as a result of all this, and only learned that someone who is willing to lie to someone else would be just as willing to lie to you. Too bad you can't see the more important picture here.  SignatureNOTICE: I treat everything which anyone posts in Usenet as nothing more than a work of fiction with no basis in fact or reality whatsoever. Every comment in every one of my posts is nothing more than a useless opinion or a wild speculation, and must never be taken seriously or as having any positive value to anyone for any reasons. I never assume that there's any more to a story than what I have read, no matter what else the author or anyone else may have posted anywhere. Be advised that my remarks are that of an ignorant layperson, and no one should ever base their decisions upon them under any circumstances. > Innews:478a0e72-95ab-4319-8485-28dc241c8652@b1g2000hsg.googlegroups.com, > krzgirl <krzg...@gmail.com> mused: [quoted text clipped - 64 lines] > > - Show quoted text - And too bad you have made all those incorrect assumptions about me, oh well. Things are not always what they seem. >>Innews:478a0e72-95ab-4319-8485-28dc241c8652@b1g2000hsg.googlegroups.com, >>krzgirl <krzg...@gmail.com> mused: [quoted text clipped - 67 lines] > And too bad you have made all those incorrect assumptions about me, oh > well. Things are not always what they seem. Hopefully you have learned not to get involved with a married man. You can't win ....... You either get hurt or you end up with a loser. In news:3fbb26f2-e763-4c3d-9d48-d1e08399e64d@u72g2000hsf.googlegroups.com, krzgirl <krzgirl@gmail.com> mused: >> Innews:478a0e72-95ab-4319-8485-28dc241c8652@b1g2000hsg.googlegroups.com, >> krzgirl <krzg...@gmail.com> mused: [quoted text clipped - 69 lines] > And too bad you have made all those incorrect assumptions about > me, oh well. Things are not always what they seem. They usually are. And the fact that you take delight in knowing that this series of notes will piss her off, and that you know that she'll see it, and so you have to mention the pics you have of her DH and you in bed, and that you've never once hit upon anything having to do with the moral aspects of this situation puts me on pretty solid ground wrt my conclusions. > A few months ago, I posted multiple times in defence of Chuck, the man <xxx> > Guess I was able to reap even better than I sowed. A guy I used to hang out with always said he had no trouble messing around with a married woman, even had on many occasions, used to bang his neighbor's wife, a teacher, when he was in high school, cut the grass, then mow her lawn. Marital status had no meaning to this guy. I said, "I couldn't do it, no way. I have zero attraction to a married woman, they might as well be covered in spiders." His response was always the same little joke: "Well, sh.t, I ain't got no morals, bro, you know that." And he didn't. You can't cheat on one side of the bed without staining the other. Yet here we have some young feller and several married women laying down on the woman's side of that mattress to cuddle with her, patting her with some atta-girls, way to go, glad you realized he was a skunk, here's a helly-copter ride, it's all ~his~ fault you poor sweet innocent-yet-wiser woman, rolling around on that sticky slime, laughing, infecting themselves with her false sense of self- rightousness, somehow ignoring the stench, somehow deflecting the blame across that invisible partition separating her pillow from his. Have him post, would you, so we guys can sit on his side and tell him how he's wiser, learned his lesson, glad he's a good man, now, hope things work out between him and his wife now that he realized that "other woman" was a skunk, finally showed her stripes, atta-boy for finally realizing what's important in life, treat yourself to a vacation and a spa treatment, you deserve it, it's all ~her~ fault. He's a good guy, you know, so let's trim out that bedroom -- no sense tilting the bed all the way to the woman's side, that'd just be lopsided and silly, now wouldn't it. - Saul > > A few months ago, I posted multiple times in defence of Chuck, the man > <xxx> [quoted text clipped - 32 lines] > tilting the bed all the way to the woman's side, that'd just be > lopsided and silly, now wouldn't it. I am not a fan of krzgirl. I find what she did ugly. And I agree with AY in that she hasn't learned much of anything with her ravings about trying to hurt the wife and now flaunting her new boy-toy. I do have to say HE was the married one, so I do put a bit more fault on him, just as I would the women who got her bush wacked. Vickie >>> A few months ago, I posted multiple times in defence of Chuck, the man >>> <xxx> [quoted text clipped - 41 lines] > > Vickie They're all at fault. Well, maybe not his wife, can't remember all the details at this point, nor do I want to. The absence of morality these days is already well noted. On Feb 28, 12:44 pm, "Bill in Co" <surly_curmudg...@earthlink.net> wrote: > >>> A few months ago, I posted multiple times in defence of Chuck, the man > >>> <xxx> [quoted text clipped - 43 lines] > > They're all at fault. Okay. I'm with ya. Vickie In article <478a0e72-95ab-4319-8485-28dc241c8652@b1g2000hsg.googlegroups.com>, > A few months ago, I posted multiple times in defence of Chuck, the man > I dated who was married to another woman. (I knew what I was doing all [quoted text clipped - 33 lines] > > Guess I was able to reap even better than I sowed. Thanks for posting this. It is good to get feedback on how things turn out either way. I hope that you have learned to protect yourself from this mess, and I hope that you have learned some good life lessons. Good luck. T (snip) > But, I promised I would say if I was wrong and I was wrong... maybe I > am stupid, but at least I can admit when I am wrong. [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > > Guess I was able to reap even better than I sowed. I'm glad things turned out so well for you (in that this loser didn't leave his wife for you, which would have been good for his wife, but bad for you). Sorry to hear about the helicopter ride. 2000 miles in a helicopter doesn't sound like a good way to recover from surgery. |
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