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Erin - 20 Apr 2008 00:16 GMT

My husband wants to reconcile the marriage and
stop the separation. He is seeing a counsellor
who is very helpful. I have agreed. I am beginning
to see things in a new light.

Erin

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Bill in Co - 20 Apr 2008 02:38 GMT

> My husband wants to reconcile the marriage and
> stop the separation. He is seeing a counsellor
> who is very helpful. I have agreed. I am beginning
> to see things in a new light.
>
> Erin

And seeing things in a new light ... can be a good thing.
(I know that cause I read it on one of the subway posters (right next to
that gal from Sex and the City)

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Rog' - 20 Apr 2008 02:39 GMT

> My husband wants to reconcile the marriage and
> stop the separation. He is seeing a counsellor who
> is very helpful. I have agreed. I am beginning to
> see things in a new light.

... which begs the question, how many lights do you have?
I'd ask, "Why? When you haven't figured out what went
wrong with him in the first place," but I really don't want
to know.

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Erin - 20 Apr 2008 02:53 GMT

> > My husband wants to reconcile the marriage and
> > stop the separation. He is seeing a counsellor who
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> wrong with him in the first place," but I really don't want
> to know.

Some kind soul gave me a flood light this time. :-)

Erin

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Lauri - 20 Apr 2008 04:31 GMT

>> My husband wants to reconcile the marriage and
>> stop the separation. He is seeing a counsellor who
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>wrong with him in the first place," but I really don't want
>to know.

This might be a "lights are on but nobody's home" situation.

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Erin - 20 Apr 2008 14:02 GMT

> >> My husband wants to reconcile the marriage and
> >> stop the separation. He is seeing a counsellor who
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> --
> Lauri in WA

Well, you may think i am sucker, but he really looks ill.
I just hope he makes it until his next doctor's appointment
in June. Apparently the massive weight loss has been
*noticed* by his doctor. I would have thought that a conscientious
counsellor might deviate for a moment from psychological
advice and suggest a medical referral. Regardless of our
crisis, which i personally believe was med withdrawal-induced,
i still care for the man and i am not so blind as to ignore the
alarming physical state he is in. So, if it makes him happy
i will yield, because he does look like he is at death's door.

Erin

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S.D. - 24 Apr 2008 22:17 GMT

> This might be a "lights are on but nobody's home" situation.

We don't agree much, but it's time for an exception. You took the words
right out of my mouth:)

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SD:)
"Intellectuals solve problems; geniuses prevent them.(A.E.)"
My disclaimer: I can say, but can't make you see...(S.D.)

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