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Family Forum / Marriage / Marriage / June 2008Jealousy
This is funny; from Buzzle.co. I was looking at sites on the common problem of the "jealous wife". It's a bit like detective work when you don't know both sides. But time reveals everything. Time will reveal the truth. ---------------- Jennifer Aniston – Jealous Wife? Recent reports have likened Jennifer Aniston to a jealous wife and there are rumors that her jealousy is causing conflict in her marriage to Brad Pitt. Is there truth to the rumors or is this yet another attempt by the media to portray the golden couple as being on the outs? Recent reports have portrayed the Friends star as an "insecure mess" who is so insanely jealous that she has reportedly had hubby Brad Pitt followed. A source was quoted as saying, "Jennifer [Aniston] is so afraid that Brad [Pitt] will cheat on her that she has hired a private detective to follow him." Other reports have claimed that the couple is having trouble agreeing on whether or not to have children. Reports have offered that since Aniston’s Friends run is nearing an end she would like to settle down and have children. Reportedly she wants to settle some place other than Los Angeles, whereas Pitt wants to stay in L.A. and focus on his career. Apparently this is a sore spot for the couple because Pitt, according to a close friend, is not even sure if he would like to have children. Pitt and Aniston, who were married in July 2000, have always appeared to be the perfect couple. Is it possible that the media and the public prefer to focus on the negative aspects of a Hollywood marriage? Is the public so jaded that we always assume the worst and almost hunger for it or is it just that so many Hollywood marriages and relationships fail so frequently? There are "yes" answers to both of those questions, at least in part. But it will certainly be interesting to see how this unfolds, if the rumors are true. By Buzzle Staff and Agencies Published: 9/4/2002 ----------------------------- Erin > This is funny; from Buzzle.co. I was looking at sites on > the common problem of the "jealous wife". It's a bit [quoted text clipped - 50 lines] > > Erin On the other hand: The Unthinkable: she dumps him-- I can smell it. Then what? This is like the game Diplomacy. Erin > On the other hand: > > The Unthinkable: she dumps him-- I can smell it. > Then what? This is like the game Diplomacy. > > Erin Who dumps who? You do realize the two in the article divorced a few years ago, correct? Tracey > > On the other hand: > > [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > > Tracey That's why i posted it; at first JA was considered a typical jealous wife, but later her suspicions were justified. "Who dumps who?" I meant, imagine if the pursued woman (not the wife) dumped the man. What would he do, assuming he has abandoned his family or even divorced. That would be a great risk. When people take such risks, they are not driven by some compulsive urge-- not rational. Erin >>>On the other hand: >>> [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > a typical jealous wife, but later her suspicions > were justified. And it could also be a matter of 'Sheesh, I'm being accused of doing something I'm not, why not go ahead and do it? I'm already getting grief for it.' Is that a mature response? Not really, but it's an understandable one. Tracey > >>>On the other hand: > >>> [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > > Tracey It's not understandable to me; it's like saying my friend at work thinks I deleted some of his private e-mail. I didn't, but since he thinks so I may as well do it. Or, my neighbour accused me of letting my dog pooh on his lawn. My dog did not, but I may as well let my dog do it next time. These kind of oppurtinistic turns of mind can only be viable if there is actually a motive in the first place; you don't just do it because you can. Well, maybe President Clinton did, lol. ("I did it because I could.") Erin > > >>>On the other hand: > [quoted text clipped - 33 lines] > > - Show quoted text - It is easy for you to say, it isn't understandable, but you are insinuating that there is one case of being accused of deleting private email, or you got accused one time of letting your dog crap on the neighbor's lawn. If you were accused daily of these things, you would eventually be tempted to do it. Especially, when the subject is cheating. I'm not saying it is justified, because it isn't, but coming from a husband who used to be accused on a daily basis of cheating, I can understand how one would come to that point. Seriously, my wife used to do this to me and I cannot explain the anger I felt, to be accused of something so heinous. I got to a point that my thought process was something like this, "you know, if I'm going to be relentlessly accused of something like this, maybe I should at least have the enjoyment associated with it." The only thing(s) that stopped me were 1) my Christian beliefs and 2) I didn't have any "opportunities" staring me in the face...in other words, it would have required some effort that I wasn't willing to put forth. Thank goodness, I never gave in and things are much better now. > X-No-Archive:yes > [quoted text clipped - 53 lines] > would have required some effort that I wasn't willing to put forth. > Thank goodness, I never gave in and things are much better now. It wasn't every day accusations -- it was one discovery and then a process of separation. Erin >>> On the other hand: >>> [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > a typical jealous wife, but later her suspicions > were justified. And if she it's true that she was having him followed she was probably suffocating him in other ways which helped drive him away - Michaela > "Who dumps who?" I meant, imagine if the > pursued woman (not the wife) dumped the [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > > Erin -- |
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