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Vickie - 27 Jun 2008 20:45 GMT
f.cking, f.cked up selfish asswipe!

Damn, what a self-indulgent f.cking jerkwad!

Pisshead.

MEN!

ok, feel a bit better...

V
saulgoode - 27 Jun 2008 20:52 GMT
> f.cking, f.cked up selfish asswipe!
>
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> V

My cousin is a man, Lone Wolf. He's married now, and his girl is
pregnant.

Here in a couple of weeks I'm gonna have a t-shirt made, black with
white letters, for him that reads:

""
NEW DADDY (on the front)
Every daddy is a mother f.cker (on the back)
""

Aren't we all.

- Saul
Vickie - 27 Jun 2008 21:12 GMT
> > f.cking, f.cked up selfish asswipe!
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> Aren't we all.

ano, zkurvysyn

still...all the best for Wolf and his pup.....(dammit it)

lordy, I want to kick his a.s...kurva dr t!

see, I think of spice and this is what God doles out for me!
I will give him spice alright, some pepper spray in the eyes!

V
YooperBoyka - 28 Jun 2008 04:21 GMT
> see, I think of spice and this is what God doles out for me!
> I will give him spice alright, some pepper spray in the eyes!

Jesus Jumpin' Jenny!!!
What the hell????
Vickie - 28 Jun 2008 15:53 GMT
> > see, I think of spice and this is what God doles out for me!
> > I will give him spice alright, some pepper spray in the eyes!
>
> Jesus Jumpin' Jenny!!!
> What the hell????

Yeah, I know.  Overreaction.
It is just that I was so mad, especially after pounding my finger with
the hammer.
When you have something all planned out in your head and then it goes
to pot, gets hard to readjust, for me at least.

Vickie
YooperBoyka - 28 Jun 2008 16:28 GMT
>>> see, I think of spice and this is what God doles out for me!
>>> I will give him spice alright, some pepper spray in the eyes!
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> Vickie
YooperBoyka - 28 Jun 2008 16:28 GMT
>>> see, I think of spice and this is what God doles out for me!
>>> I will give him spice alright, some pepper spray in the eyes!
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> When you have something all planned out in your head and then it goes
> to pot, gets hard to readjust, for me at least.

The hammer explains everything.
BTDT
Xorra - 27 Jun 2008 21:32 GMT
> f.cking, f.cked up selfish asswipe!
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> V

See....NOW is a good time for some "downtime".

Xorra
Vickie - 27 Jun 2008 22:09 GMT
> > f.cking, f.cked up selfish asswipe!
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> See....NOW is a good time for some "downtime".

Give me an idea, where shall I go,..... a'spendin'?

I am up for ANYTHING, just let me out.

Vickie
Xorra - 27 Jun 2008 22:17 GMT
>>> f.cking, f.cked up selfish asswipe!
>>
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>
> Vickie

Well, what you like.  Long walk with the dog, nice bath, chick flick with a
do not disturb sign on the door, or maybe call up your sis and take her out
for dinner.  :-)

Xorra
Vickie - 28 Jun 2008 00:50 GMT
> >>> f.cking, f.cked up selfish asswipe!
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> do not disturb sign on the door, or maybe call up your sis and take her out
> for dinner.  :-)

Finally finished the wardrobe.  Looks okay, and only one other slight
miss with the hammer.
:-o !

Sis is out, not sure where.
I think Tues. and Sat. she works her second job at the hospital.  I
forget.
Good idea though, we haven't been out together for awhile.  Maybe
tomorrow, left a message.

Vickie
Bill in Co - 27 Jun 2008 21:54 GMT
> f.cking, f.cked up selfish asswipe!
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> V

Are you going to expand on this a bit more, or just leave us hanging?    :-)
Vickie - 27 Jun 2008 22:15 GMT
On Jun 27, 1:54 pm, "Bill in Co" <surly_curmudg...@earthlink.net>
wrote:
> > f.cking, f.cked up selfish asswipe!
>
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> Are you going to expand on this a bit more, or just leave us hanging?    :-)

Dullsville.
Beers, margaritas, up all night, crashed out on the bed now, promised
to help put together a wardrobe, I got the tools out and pounded the
hammer on my finger....

the owie put me over the edge is all, I will be okay

just getting out my frustrations before I say/do something I will
regret

not a big deal, life is all, back to the wardrobe...

Vickie
Xorra - 27 Jun 2008 22:19 GMT
> Dullsville.
> Beers, margaritas, up all night, crashed out on the bed now, promised
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> Vickie

LOL, yeah, that's pretty dullsville.  Not worth mentioning really. :-P  Did
your shout wake him up?

Xorra
Vickie - 28 Jun 2008 00:51 GMT
> > Dullsville.
> > Beers, margaritas, up all night, crashed out on the bed now, promised
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> LOL, yeah, that's pretty dullsville.  Not worth mentioning really. :-P  

Yep.

> Did your shout wake him up?

mumble, cuss, mumble, cuss, snore

V
Xorra - 28 Jun 2008 03:13 GMT
>>> Dullsville.
>>> Beers, margaritas, up all night, crashed out on the bed now,
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> V

Well, DH loves putting things together.  Every now and again something gets
delivered while he is at work, and I put it together before he comes home
and he gets really put out.  So knowing that I was assembling something
would be enough to get him out of bed right then. :-)

Xorra
Bill in Co - 28 Jun 2008 03:38 GMT
>>>> Dullsville.
>>>> Beers, margaritas, up all night, crashed out on the bed now,
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> Xorra

And that's the trick to get something like that done around the house.
Just start doing it yourself, and let DH come in to "do it the right way".
:-)
Xorra - 28 Jun 2008 06:35 GMT
>>>>> Dullsville.
>>>>> Beers, margaritas, up all night, crashed out on the bed now,
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> Just start doing it yourself, and let DH come in to "do it the right
> way". :-)

Yeah, sure for me, but it doesn't seem to work for Vickie.  And as for me,
I'm kind of tired of the lectures when he has to fix my screw ups.

Xorra
saulgoode - 28 Jun 2008 14:47 GMT
> >>>>> Dullsville.
> >>>>> Beers, margaritas, up all night, crashed out on the bed now,
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> Xorra

Kinda goes both ways, though, with the guy doing it, then the woman
saying, "Well, you know, it might've looked better if..." or "You
should've..."

My response is always one of the following:

"Don't ask me to do something, then sit there and tell me how to do
it."
"It's perfect. I've never seen anything more perfect in my life."

Me, I like women who are a little fixy uppy. The hang-their-own-drapes
types ;)

- Saul
Xorra - 28 Jun 2008 21:00 GMT
>> Yeah, sure for me, but it doesn't seem to work for Vickie. And as
>> for me, I'm kind of tired of the lectures when he has to fix my
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>  - Saul

This is one of the reasons why DH and I are so incompatible.  He's a
perfectionist, and I'm...well, just not able to be as meticulous as he
wants.  So every time I try to do something, he criticizes and it tears me
up inside, so over the years, I just stopped.  I did actually hang the
blinds in the kitchen windows, and I built a pressed board 2 shelf cubby to
keep our various computer papers in (it sits on the desk, under the
scanner), that I was really pleased with.  I will still put together a shelf
kit or game table, but as far as house, lawn, or car maintenance, forget it.
What he doesn't get is that when he criticizes, I stop doing it, and he has
to, so instead of making me do things to his standards, he's just making his
own life harder and harder.  Luckily for him he's never criticized the way I
do laundry or vacuum or clean the bathrooms, but he did get into such a
nasty habit of saying, "What's for dinner?" and then giving a raspberry to
whatever answer I gave, that I rarely make dinner anymore, and when I do, I
do it completely without regard to what he might like.

Xorra
saulgoode - 28 Jun 2008 22:38 GMT
> > On Jun 28, 12:35 am, "Xorra"  wrote:
> >> Yeah, sure for me, but it doesn't seem to work for Vickie. And as
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I repeat:
"Don't ask me to do something, then sit there and tell me how to do
it."
"It's perfect. I've never seen anything more perfect in my life."

Works wonders, and it's a kind and easy way of telling someone to shut
the f.ck up. I even use these at work -- a lot -- owing to the fact
that I used to have a boss that was over-critical; if it wasn't his
idea, it was wrong; if it was his idea, it was right; and if it was
right, it was his idea, no matter who came up with it.

You can also add the Batman quote from Nicholson, reply to when he
says it's wrong or imperfect:
"I didn't ask."

- Saul
Xorra - 29 Jun 2008 00:52 GMT
>>>> Yeah, sure for me, but it doesn't seem to work for Vickie. And as
>>>> for me, I'm kind of tired of the lectures when he has to fix my
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>  - Saul

Well, this is what I mean about us being incompatible.  Someone like you
would be able to just blow it off.  But for me...well, often he doesn't even
*say* anything, he just...sort of grimaces and generates a general aura of
disapproval.  Then perhaps sighs or gets into a grumpy mood, or perhaps
starts slamming doors or tossing things or muttering or...you know, just
sort of infuses the house with negativity.  If I wasn't so sensitive,
perhaps I could just go along blissfully either ignoring, or completely
unaware of his opinion.  But I am, and I know I'm not wrong about how he
feels, and it does truly distress me, and I end up feeling always like I've
screwed up......again.

Xorra
 
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