Katherine is a good eater - enjoys a wide range of food but she seems to
have no awareness of thirst. Recently she seems to drink very little
through the day and Ive inadvertently resorted to constant nagging which
does neither of us any good.
Yesterday I decided a different tact - that I would no longer keep
nagging her but would casually offer a drink each time I was having one
myself in the hope that general survival instincts would kick in - I
doubt she really is going to expire from dehydration. But today all she
has had has been a few sips of water (not even half a glass in total)
through the day and a cup of milk this evening. I cant believe this can
be good for her.
So what now? Do I keep up the casual offering/no nagging tact or do I
try something different? Im a bit lost on this one.

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Tori M - 26 Oct 2005 21:24 GMT
you could offer her foods with higher water content.. You could also offer
juices, crystal light.. things with flavor.. I can go days without drinking
anything really and then one day I will spend all day just drinking water
like I had not been offered it for a month ;)
Tori
> Katherine is a good eater - enjoys a wide range of food but she seems to
> have no awareness of thirst. Recently she seems to drink very little
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> Sarah
> It's an odd world I live in.
kiticat - 26 Oct 2005 22:28 GMT
I think the food idea is a good one, she really is funny about her plain
water though, I think she once heard it was good for her and chooses
that over other stuff. I wonder if I can find some stuff on the web that
will educate her about why she needs to drink. Im a bit like you (and
her I guess), I just dont notice Im thirsty and can get pretty
dehydrated without realising - its only my English tea habit that keeps
me on an even keel.
> you could offer her foods with higher water content.. You could also offer
> juices, crystal light.. things with flavor.. I can go days without drinking
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>>Sarah
>>It's an odd world I live in.

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Nan - 26 Oct 2005 21:59 GMT
>Katherine is a good eater - enjoys a wide range of food but she seems to
>have no awareness of thirst. Recently she seems to drink very little
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>So what now? Do I keep up the casual offering/no nagging tact or do I
>try something different? Im a bit lost on this one.
I would keep up the casual offering and try to add flavored water.
Either by specifically buying flavored water, or adding lemon slices
or making sugar-free drink like kool-aid.
E drinks *a lot* of milk and very little water. I don't mind the milk
drinking since it's whole milk and she needs the calories.
Nan
kiticat - 26 Oct 2005 22:25 GMT
>>So what now? Do I keep up the casual offering/no nagging tact or do I
>>try something different? Im a bit lost on this one.
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> Nan
I offered her flavoured water when we were out today and she turned it
down in favour of plain water which she then barely touched :-( Its a
good idea for me though lolol!!

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Nan - 26 Oct 2005 22:27 GMT
>I offered her flavoured water when we were out today and she turned it
>down in favour of plain water which she then barely touched :-( Its a
>good idea for me though lolol!!
I find water to be pretty boring. I prefer iced tea :-)
Aula's idea about the individual bottles is a good idea. E likes the
small Dasani bottles, so I got a few and kept filling them up for her.
Nan
kiticat - 26 Oct 2005 22:31 GMT
>>I offered her flavoured water when we were out today and she turned it
>>down in favour of plain water which she then barely touched :-( Its a
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> Nan
Im definitely going to give it a go :) Its worth a try!
at school they are allowed to have a bottle of water which they keep in
the classroom. Ive seen lots of other kids help themselves but it doesnt
seem to occur to Katherine but I think if I can just break the habit of
not drinking then she will get used to the feeling of not being thirsty
and it will occur to her that she needs to drink something. Maybe anyway!

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Puester - 27 Oct 2005 03:55 GMT
>>I offered her flavoured water when we were out today and she turned it
>>down in favour of plain water which she then barely touched :-( Its a
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> Nan
Iced tea has enough caffeine to keep little kids up half the night.
Don't ask me how I know this.... :-(
gloria p
Nan - 27 Oct 2005 04:01 GMT
>>>I offered her flavoured water when we were out today and she turned it
>>>down in favour of plain water which she then barely touched :-( Its a
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>gloria p
LOL. I don't let A have any sips after 5 pm, and E doesn't care for
tea ;-)
More for me, I say!
Nan
Mermaid - 27 Oct 2005 04:23 GMT
> >>>I offered her flavoured water when we were out today and she turned it
> >>>down in favour of plain water which she then barely touched :-( Its a
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> Nan
There are some super duper wonderful iced teas sans the stimulants. I don't
care for the watered down herbal teas but there are some that really rock
and my girls love them and so do I.
Anni
Nan - 27 Oct 2005 04:35 GMT
>> >>>I offered her flavoured water when we were out today and she turned it
>> >>>down in favour of plain water which she then barely touched :-( Its a
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>Anni
Got a brand name I can look for?
Nan
SHERRY - 27 Oct 2005 05:19 GMT
We went though this with my boyfriends 2 year old. She would eat all
time with no problem but would not drink anything but maybe a little
here and there. But we then got Juicy Juice in the boxes and she likes
it, she loves the Apple Grape and Cherry. She will even take it in her
cup so we have started to buy Bottles of it and the boxes.
We like it because its a 100% Juice, No Added sugar and a excellent
source of Vitamin C.
We had the problem where she would hold the box as tight as she could
and the juice would run out the hole so we found some things at
wal-mart you can sit the box down in and put the top on it and still
see the box and she cant make the juice run out anymore. We even got
one for his son so he would cool it, he showed her how to do that. He
is 5 years old, and loves to show her things we dont want her to know.
Kids!!!
Mermaid - 27 Oct 2005 15:09 GMT
> >> >>>I offered her flavoured water when we were out today and she turned it
> >> >>>down in favour of plain water which she then barely touched :-( Its a
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>
> Nan
Celestial Seasonings. Lemon Ice is our favorite. There is also Strawberry
and other "Ice" teas.
Anni
Nan - 27 Oct 2005 15:30 GMT
>Celestial Seasonings. Lemon Ice is our favorite. There is also Strawberry
>and other "Ice" teas.
I'll have a look next time I go grocery shopping. I like to browse
all the hot teas in that aisle :-)
Nan
Mermaid - 27 Oct 2005 21:53 GMT
> >Celestial Seasonings. Lemon Ice is our favorite. There is also Strawberry
> >and other "Ice" teas.
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> Nan
These I'm sure can be made hot but they are cold brew teas. That makes them
pretty easy to make and yummy!
Ani
enigma - 27 Oct 2005 20:17 GMT
Puester <puester@worldnet.att.net> wrote in
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t:
>>>I offered her flavoured water when we were out today and
>>>she turned it down in favour of plain water which she then
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>> E likes the small Dasani bottles, so I got a few and kept
>> filling them up for her.
> Iced tea has enough caffeine to keep little kids up half
> the night. Don't ask me how I know this.... :-(
it depends on the kid. Boo seems to be more relaxed after
drinking iced tea or chai tea (& the chai is pretty well
loaded with caffine). most teas come in decaf versions anyway,
which is how i know it's caffine that unwinds Boo...
Dannon markets half-pint bottles of water for kids, in
floridated & unfloridated. i used to get them for Boo, but he
can empty a 20 oz. bottle over 3-5 hours, so i had to keep
refilling those. water is his drink of choice.
lee

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just me - 26 Oct 2005 22:16 GMT
> Katherine is a good eater - enjoys a wide range of food but she seems to
> have no awareness of thirst. Recently she seems to drink very little
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> So what now? Do I keep up the casual offering/no nagging tact or do I
> try something different? Im a bit lost on this one.
DS was equally unlikely to drink water for a long time. Then I hit on using
emptied out sports drink bottles, keeping a number of them in the fridge for
quick use. I don't know what it was/is, but the ability to snag one out of
the fridge and drink it like a bottle became a major treat. Maybe that might
work for K?
-Aula
kiticat - 26 Oct 2005 22:23 GMT
>>So what now? Do I keep up the casual offering/no nagging tact or do I
>>try something different? Im a bit lost on this one.
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> -Aula
oh, I could try that - make it easy for her to get a selection herself.
tbh water is her favourite thing to drink - followed by milk but doing
this would further encourage her to take responsibility for her own
thirst. thanks :)

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Teri - 27 Oct 2005 00:51 GMT
> >>So what now? Do I keep up the casual offering/no nagging tact or do I
> >>try something different? Im a bit lost on this one.
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> this would further encourage her to take responsibility for her own
> thirst. thanks :)
just to back up what Aula said - once i started giving him water bottles -
he started drinking water. For me - I can go a long time without drink and
drink very little. But, when I'm making a concerted effort to drink water -
it seems the more I drink, the more I want to drink. HTH.
Teri
kiticat - 28 Oct 2005 08:47 GMT
> just to back up what Aula said - once i started giving him water bottles -
> he started drinking water. For me - I can go a long time without drink and
> drink very little. But, when I'm making a concerted effort to drink water -
> it seems the more I drink, the more I want to drink. HTH.
> Teri
:) thanks, it does!

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tracert - 27 Oct 2005 03:46 GMT
> Katherine is a good eater - enjoys a wide range of food but she seems to
> have no awareness of thirst. Recently she seems to drink very little
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> So what now? Do I keep up the casual offering/no nagging tact or do I
> try something different? Im a bit lost on this one.
Yikes...we all drink a *lot* of water - that's practically the only thing we
drink (DH has to have his iced tea though). At work I have a Brita filter
pitcher in the fridge and can finish it in 8 hours LOL. The kids even take a
glass to bed with them.
The kids seem to like it better when it's either ice cold or has ice in it.
Like other ppl have said the little individual bottles are more fun and
attractive. We have a well, so the water comes out of the tap cold and
pretty good-tasting, but if you have city water it might be cloudy or have
an off-taste, so bottled water might make her drink more.
I also think it's a habit we've gotten into - we're rather obsessed with
water and tend to take it wherever we go. I've always thought that anything
with caffeine dehydrates you more, juice and sodas are too sugary, and milk
is a food, not a beverage, so I urged the water.
Does K ever get really sweaty and tired from over-exertion? Do you serve
water with meals? Is her urine very concentrated - yellow and
strong-smelling? If not, she's probably OK.
Good luck!
kiticat - 28 Oct 2005 08:52 GMT
>>Katherine is a good eater - enjoys a wide range of food but she seems to
>>have no awareness of thirst. Recently she seems to drink very little
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> Good luck!
thanks! We do serve water with our meals. Yesterday though I put a jug
of water out with our glasses instead of prefilling the glasses. Id put
a slice of orange in the water. I told K that she was in charge of
serving water at the table. She really took to that and drank loads.
Ive not seen her urine but she doesnt go to the loo very often. I wonder
if this is something shes developed in reaction to school cos I seem to
remember she used to drink a lot more as a preschooler. Perhaps she
doesnt like the school toilets. I'll have a chat with her.

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Stara Baba - 29 Oct 2005 13:06 GMT
> remember she used to drink a lot more as a preschooler. Perhaps she
> doesnt like the school toilets.
Could be although at my house that was more of an issue when the kids
where in high school. DS would come through the door and go directly to
the bathroom.

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Puester - 27 Oct 2005 03:51 GMT
> Katherine is a good eater - enjoys a wide range of food but she seems to
> have no awareness of thirst. Recently she seems to drink very little
> through the day and Ive inadvertently resorted to constant nagging which
> does neither of us any good.
She is getting some liquid in food, but extra hydration is a good thing.
I would try various fruit juices (real, not the 5% fruit stuff)
to find one she loves.
Sometimes offering drink in a fun cup or glass (with a built-in straw,
perhaps) or a plain glass with a soda straw can make drinking more
attractive. Ice cubes with a grape or mint leaf frozen inside can
make the drink more attractive. A slice of lemon or lime in a glass of
water tastes good and looks pretty.
gloria p
kiticat - 28 Oct 2005 08:56 GMT
>> Katherine is a good eater - enjoys a wide range of food but she seems
>> to have no awareness of thirst. Recently she seems to drink very
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> gloria p
the slice of fruit worked well - thanks! I'll try the ice cubes as well
when the fruit novelty wears off. We do use soda straws quite often as
it seems to speed her up. Ive also tried different juices to no avail.

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Mermaid - 27 Oct 2005 03:55 GMT
> Katherine is a good eater - enjoys a wide range of food but she seems to
> have no awareness of thirst. Recently she seems to drink very little
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> Sarah
> It's an odd world I live in.
I would leave it alone. Really I don't drink much in a day and remember my
mother going a bit nutty because I didn't drink much (except in the hot
summers and then I'd really go for water).
I'm gonna take a leap and if she doens't have any medical reason for giving
her more than she wants don't worry about it!
Anni
kiticat - 28 Oct 2005 09:00 GMT
>>Katherine is a good eater - enjoys a wide range of food but she seems to
>>have no awareness of thirst. Recently she seems to drink very little
>>through the day and Ive inadvertently resorted to constant nagging which
>>does neither of us any good.
> I would leave it alone. Really I don't drink much in a day and remember my
> mother going a bit nutty because I didn't drink much (except in the hot
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> Anni
:) thanks! It is hard to know if Im worrying about nothing. I do think
she is getting dehydrated as if her mood is slipping it often improves
after a good drink. I am going to have to learn to trust her judgement
though - I trust her to moderate her own food intake (even in those
tricky times of her eating practically nothing). Im sure nature wont let
her die of thirst!
Ive given up nagging and combined with handing over all power to control
her own drinking it seems to be working. the past couple of days she has
drank significantly more .

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Marc - 28 Oct 2005 02:23 GMT
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"kiticat"
> Katherine is a good eater - enjoys a wide range of food but she seems to
> have no awareness of thirst. Recently she seems to drink very little
> through the day and Ive inadvertently resorted to constant nagging which
> does neither of us any good.
Urrgh. DD drinks about half a litre of liquids on a good day. DS drinks
about a litre and a half of liquids on a bad day. Just check that there are
no symptoms of anything wrong. I also only drink about a litre a day when
I'm not trying to get more water into me.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ it will pass,
lol, just realised, silly mood rising
Marc
kiticat - 28 Oct 2005 09:02 GMT
> <snip>
> "kiticat"
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> I'm not trying to get more water into me.
> ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ it will pass,
/groan!!
> lol, just realised, silly mood rising
> Marc
Its nice to know that other people survive on not a lot :) I dont think
theres anything wrong - she seems pretty healthy at the moment :)

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