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CY - 30 Jan 2006 07:11 GMT
My DD (almost 4yo) is extremely bright for her age and speaks/expresses
herself very well.  She has a very active imagination and can recall her
dreams in vivid detail.  Recently, though, she has been complaining of
"voices" in her head, and gets visibly frustrated and will bang her head
when she hears the "voice".  Today when she did it, I asked her what the
voice was saying and who it was and she said it was her own voice, and it
was just repeating what she had just said, over and over.  She said it was
very "distracting", which I though was an amazing way to describe this
sensation from a 3 year old.

I had previously dismissed this as an over-active imagination, but now I am
getting worried about it, as this has occured a few times in the past weeks.
Does it warrant an evaluation, or is this kind of thing typical of a young
child with a vivid imgination? Could it just be the beginnings of internal
dialogue?  What other things should I look out for?

I appreciate any insight!

TIA,
CY
Ericka Kammerer - 30 Jan 2006 14:55 GMT
> My DD (almost 4yo) is extremely bright for her age and speaks/expresses
> herself very well.  She has a very active imagination and can recall her
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> child with a vivid imgination? Could it just be the beginnings of internal
> dialogue?  What other things should I look out for?

    Hard to say.  There are some books out there that
describe meditation techniques for young children.  You
might try something like that to see if it can help her
develop some tools to manage her thoughts.  If that
and a little time doesn't work, it might not hurt to have
someone have a look.  I don't think this is common, but
it could just be a very articulate child with a very
active mind.

Best wishes,
Ericka
Caitriona (aka GoddessKitten) - 30 Jan 2006 15:56 GMT
My youngest sister did the head-banging thing when she was little.  Our
family does have a tendency to have our thoughts running 90-to-nothin',
which IS very distracting, especially when you're trying to focus on
something and the "tape" in your head just won't stop.

The meditation suggestion is a good one.  Also, work with her on being
observant of the things around her.  Give her things to keep her mind
busy, to give that voice something to focus on other than the last
thing she said.  Logic and problem solving exercises helped me to "make
friends" with that always-analytical part of my brain.

HTH,

Kitten
Bateau - 30 Jan 2006 17:59 GMT
>My youngest sister did the head-banging thing when she was little.  Our
>family does have a tendency to have our thoughts running 90-to-nothin',
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>thing she said.  Logic and problem solving exercises helped me to "make
>friends" with that always-analytical part of my brain.

You're all f.cking crazy.
Jen - 31 Jan 2006 15:33 GMT
You may want to run it by her pediatrician the next time you're there.
I know it would concern me.
 
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