Family Forum / Parenting / Parenting / March 2007

As a Christian American Father, I want to make sure that my son is
well informed about sex by age 14.  When my son turns 14, or possibly
even sooner, I intend to educate him about safe sex to avoid pregnancy
and disease.  This means educating him on the 10 most common STD's
(Herpes, Warts/HPV, HIV, Molluscum Contagiosum, Gonorrhea, Chlamydia/
NGU, Trichomoniasis, Crabs, Scabies, and Syphilis) the need to use a
condom to avoid these, and impressing upon him the necessity of using
two forms of birth control to avoid pregnancy as a minor - to make
sure his girlfriends are either on the pill or using another sort of
hormonal birth control or a diaphragm, in addition to a condom, or
else, to pull out even while using a condom.  So I thought it would be
a good idea to give my Son an assortment of condoms and some lube at
age 14.  I see they have an excellent selection at http://www.condomdepot.com.
I also thought it would be a good idea to get him a subscription to
Playboy or Penthouse, and wide access to internet porn.  In addition
to these products, I thought it would be a good idea to get him 4-6
fleshlight masturbation toys from http://www.fleshlight.com, a
chastity belt to help him control his masturbation urges, so he does
not deplete himself too much http://www.cb-2000.com/, and to educate
him on the benefits of not ejaculating every day, but rather to
attempt to have multiple orgasms without ejaculating, but that this -
the best sex - is best accomplished through love or sexual desire, and
give him tips on how to get girls, such as those at http://www.pickupguide.com/layguide/,
tell him to be proactive, and ask girls out, that it's better to have
sex than to masturbate, and I also intend to get him a full or queen
size bed, and let him start having girls sleep over, and to sleep over
his girlfriend's houses; but I'm not sure about the need to check this
with the girl's parents. If the girls just sleeps over - I don't know
what they're doing in their room (if anything) right, so I'm not sure
if this is important.

I also thought that it would be prudent to do a similar thing for my
daughter.  As well as the above, I intend to get her the Jack Rabbit
Vibrator by age 14, http://www.jackrabbit-vibe.com/ and the Hitachi
Wand http://www.hitachi-magic-wand.com/ , as well as a subscription to
a hormonal birth control method if she wants and is sexually active.

I also intend to give my children a basic sex education at an early
age (penis, vagina, intercourse, sperm, fallopian tubes, etc. baby)
and teach them that they own their own bodies, to not let anyone touch
them if they don't want to be touched, or in ways they don't want to
be touched, and to "just say no" to sex they don't want.

I just wanted to make sure all this is legal, because I heard the
government had passed some laws against giving porno to minors.  Is
this a crime if it's your own children?  I know I benefited greatly
from access to porn at an early age, and I believe in my children's
freedom to see and hear whatever they want.  I'm not with censorship.