Ok, smart guy (I'm being ironic, Doan, don't get too sweet on me because you
think someone actually believes you intelligent). You wanted research. You
overused that "deafening silence" thing (which is a vacuous and overly
theatrical expression, the kind someone uses while trying to appear more
intelligent than one really is). Now, there, you have research.
Now, can you make something different than you've done up to now and provide
us with some serious research (and I mean serious, not the kind "the bible
says" or "thousands of us do it, so it can't be wrong") which favors
spanling as a more effective method?. I've never seen you or any of your
jolly friends do so. Fair is fair, huh?.
But I know you won't. You're just the kind of guy which can't pull his head
out of the toilet flush long enough to look around him, even less to listen
to others.
So long...
>And what did they find for non-cp alternatives? My guess is they ignored
>them or suprised to find that the non-cp alternatives show the same
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>All of these together "was found to have a much stronger relation than any of
>the other variables."
Doan - 11 Apr 2005 17:03 GMT
> Ok, smart guy (I'm being ironic, Doan, don't get too sweet on me because you
> think someone actually believes you intelligent). You wanted research. You
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>
> So long...
http://parenthood.library.wisc.edu/Larzelere/Larzelere.html
"In contrast to the common practice of pitting love and limits against
each other, several research programs have shown that optimal parenting
combines the two. This paper outlines a conditional sequence model of
optimal disciplinary responses and shows its consistency with a wide range
of research. The model suggests that optimal disciplinary responses begin
with less severe tactics, such as reasoning, but proceed to firmer
disciplinary tactics when the initial tactic achieves neither compliance
nor an acceptable compromise. The firmer tactics can be nonphysical
punishment initially with nonabusive physical punishment reserved as a
back-up for the nonphysical punishment. This is consistent with many
studies showing that a combination of reasoning and punishment is more
effective than either one alone and with new evidence that this sequence
enhances the effectiveness of milder disciplinary tactics with
preschoolers."
Now that I have answered your question, can you answer mine? Can you
show me a study in which your non-cp alternatives are better than spanking
under the same conditions?
Doan