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Opinions - 14 Nov 2005 17:21 GMT
Five years ago, 2/3 of parents in Britain thought student behavior had
gotten worse since corporal punishment was banned in the mid-1980s.

Last summer, concerns over bullying via cell phones prompted official
demands that all British schools institute anti-bullying policies.
There have also been calls to ban pencil boxes, hooded sweatshirts, and
anything else that one student can use to torment another.

Only a couple of weeks ago, a former Member of Parliament complained
about a video game in which players use their on-screen persona to kick
and punch peers in a school environment.

More recently, a 15-year-old British schoolgirl was physically attacked
by peers after receiving 2 awards for academic excellence.  The attack
left the victim with various facial scratches and bruises in addition
to a bloody nose, a split eyelid, and a black eye.  After the
mid-morning attack, the victim spent the rest of the day in the
hospital.  Only 1 of the attackers was punished - with a week's
vacation from school!

School officials claim they acted appropriately.  The mother of the
victim is livid.

Welcome to the wonderful world of no-spank.  It is a world in which
bullies run rampant and school officials do little or nothing to stop
them.
Jennie - 14 Nov 2005 18:36 GMT
The occasional serious incident in a school is quite likely the result
of the abolition of corporal punishment, but the more important point
is that when CP was abolished, the standard of behaviour in schools
fell to a level where many competent teachers have quit. Standards of
achievement in schools have fallen to the point where about half the
children in Scotland cannot read or count -- one can hardly call what
they do in schools mathematics -- to 'Grade D' standard, the bare
minimum.  See The Sunday Times Scotland 13/11/05.

This is a decline in educational standards serious enough to threaten
European civilisation itself: how can a nation be cultured if its
citizens are nearly illiterate?  There are several reasons for this
decline, notably the torrent of cheap American rubbish on television,
but the absence of discipline in schools is in part due to the
abolition of the cane and the strap. Would the kids shout and disrupt
the class constantly if they knew they might be caned? I doubt it.

Jennie
Opinions - 14 Nov 2005 19:28 GMT
No one has yet gone broke underestimating the bad taste of the American
public.  From automobiles to television, Americans are probably the
greatest purveyors of junk in the history of the world.  Even the
current American president is junk.

> The occasional serious incident in a school is quite likely the result
> of the abolition of corporal punishment, but the more important point
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>
> Jennie
pohaku.kane@gmail.com - 14 Nov 2005 22:01 GMT
> The occasional serious incident in a school is quite likely the result
> of the abolition of corporal punishment, but the more important point
> is that when CP was abolished, the standard of behaviour in schools
> fell to a level where many competent teachers have quit.

No, many abusive underachievers quite because they could not understand
methods that didn't use intimidation and fear.

And you are entirely wrong.

> Standards of
> achievement in schools have fallen to the point where about half the
> children in Scotland cannot read or count -- one can hardly call what
> they do in schools mathematics -- to 'Grade D' standard, the bare
> minimum.  See The Sunday Times Scotland 13/11/05.

Sorry about Scotland. Here we have seen states with CP at the lower
rungs of academic achievement, and the behavioral problems much worse
in states the use the paddle on students.

> This is a decline in educational standards serious enough to threaten
> European civilisation itself: how can a nation be cultured if its
> citizens are nearly illiterate?

You have a problem in Scotland. It's not one based on the failure to
switch or otherwise bea children.

> There are several reasons for this
> decline, notably the torrent of cheap American rubbish on television,

Likely chosen by a lot of people now in authority that were routinely
birched back when they went to school before the law stopped it.

> but the absence of discipline in schools is in part due to the
> abolition of the cane and the strap. Would the kids shout and disrupt
> the class constantly if they knew they might be caned? I doubt it.

No, they'd find other ways. As they alway do. Your "civilization,"
presuming you consider yourself a Brit, has created a world of pain and
agony for billions over the past two centuries and beyond. The quicker
you sink into the oblivion you so richly deserve for the scourging of
the planet your civilization has been responsible for, the better.

> Jennie

Kane
Jennie - 20 Nov 2005 18:15 GMT
The latest figure (reported in Scotland on Sunday today, 20/11/05)
shows that 36 teachers were deliberately injured by pupils in the last
twelve months, seriously enough to need treatment in hospital.  Such
incidents were pretty well unknown before CP was abolished in schools
(and yes, I was caned at school).

Jennie
pohaku.kane@gmail.com - 21 Nov 2005 00:34 GMT
> The latest figure (reported in Scotland on Sunday today, 20/11/05)
> shows that 36 teachers were deliberately injured by pupils in the last
> twelve months, seriously enough to need treatment in hospital.  Such
> incidents were pretty well unknown before CP was abolished in schools
> (and yes, I was caned at school).

No, that is a lie, Jennie. Such incidents happened before. And if the
ONLY way you can reduce such incidents is by hitting kids, don't you
think that one then exhibit a lack of knowledge and skill concerning
the raising of children?

Millions of people raise children without hitting them. Perfectly
normal children.

Did you, by the way, bother to work out the numbers? In a nation that
STILL just as the US, allows, even where child are NOT paddled, parents
to still inflict corporal punishment on their children, the percentage
of teachers in Scotland that are attacked as you say, 36, is .07% out
of the total of teachers, over 57,000.

In other words, it is very likely that those children were ALL spanked
and or worse, by their parents. Where else have they to express their
rage at being so treated but against someone that is legally bound not
to hit them, or, as is bound to happen, their own children when they
grow up, as well as smaller children around them they bully?

You can't simply ignore the other variables related to the issue, like
parents still using CP, and contend that they children are violent
because the schools don't paddle.

I grew up where schools paddled, and I KNOW what the outcome is. And
it's exactly as I have. There have always been violent children,
Jennie, and the ones I knew were the ones paddled at home, though
terrified of the teachers they STILL found ways to get back, usually by
bullying others.

Your logic is entirely lacking. One of, I've noticed, disability in
folks that have experienced untreated trauma in their lives.

I believe they tend toward sneakiness and dishonesty as well. I read
that article you casually but carefully without link and without
mentioning what the article itself pointed out and I bothered to do the
math on. That that's an extraordinarily small percentage of the total.

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Scotsman.com News
Monday, 21st November 2005
Education
Scotland on Sunday Sun 20 Nov 2005
Classroom attacks put 36 teachers in hospital
MURDO MACLEOD POLITICAL CORRESPONDENT

AT LEAST 36 Scottish teachers were hospitalised by pupils last year,
according to official figures which reveal the horrifying extent of
classroom violence.

Primary school children as well as secondary school pupils were
involved in the attacks, in which teachers were punched, head-butted,
hit by flying chairs or shoved so hard they hit desks or walls.

The injuries ranged from cuts and bruises to lacerations needing
stitches, broken arms and back injuries. Many victims had to take weeks
off work.

The revelation that an average of three Scots teachers a month need
hospital treatment following classroom violence has enraged teaching
unions and opposition politicians.

Most authorities were unable or unwilling to disclose what sanctions,
if any, had been taken against the culprits. In some cases, they were
moved to other schools or suspended. But teachers complain that in many
situations violent pupils are allowed to return to the same school.

The trend is rapidly rising, according to our research. In Edinburgh,
there were four attacks on teachers in 2000 and eight last year.
Glasgow recorded three in 2001 and eight in 2004.

A spokesman for the EIS, Scotland's biggest teaching union, said: "All
the signs are that the problem is getting worse, not better, and urgent
action is needed."

SNP education spokeswoman Fiona Hyslop said: "These figures are deeply
worrying, especially at a time when we are trying to recruit more young
people into teaching."

But the Scottish Executive said the figures did not mean that the
nation's classrooms were descending into chaos.

"It is important to remember that they only affect a tiny minority of
the 51,287 teachers in Scotland," said an Executive spokeswoman. ...

And the article offers a far more balanced view, in that it points out
the lack of followup on the part of schools to deal with the offender.
They fail to remove the child, the very least possible remedial action,
as well as fail to assign the child reeducation. They also find
themselves up against parents that defend the child and claim they are
being falsely accused. I follow these and other matters in Scotland
very closely. I have relatives there.

It's plain you are an advocate of scottish schools taking up the cane
and paddle again, and more articles in The Scotsman make the same
point. In other words, just advocacy to try and return to the bad old
days. Propaganda. It's also plain where they wish to go....back to what
created the problem in the first place....children of the parents that
were once subjected to being switched, smacked, paddled, caned in
school.

And you folks can't seem to make the connection. There are the children
of the children. And nothing stops their parents from smacking them at
home. Am I right, or am I right?

Sneaking, lack of logic. Tsk.

You were spanked.

> Jennie

Kane
pohaku.kane@gmail.com - 21 Nov 2005 00:35 GMT
> The latest figure (reported in Scotland on Sunday today, 20/11/05)
> shows that 36 teachers were deliberately injured by pupils in the last
> twelve months, seriously enough to need treatment in hospital.  Such
> incidents were pretty well unknown before CP was abolished in schools
> (and yes, I was caned at school).

No, that is a lie, Jennie. Such incidents happened before. And if the
ONLY way you can reduce such incidents is by hitting kids, don't you
think that one then exhibit a lack of knowledge and skill concerning
the raising of children?

Millions of people raise children without hitting them. Perfectly
normal children.

Did you, by the way, bother to work out the numbers? In a nation that
STILL just as the US, allows, even where child are NOT paddled, parents
to still inflict corporal punishment on their children, the percentage
of teachers in Scotland that are attacked as you say, 36, is .07% out
of the total of teachers, over 57,000.

In other words, it is very likely that those children were ALL spanked
and or worse, by their parents. Where else have they to express their
rage at being so treated but against someone that is legally bound not
to hit them, or, as is bound to happen, their own children when they
grow up, as well as smaller children around them they bully?

You can't simply ignore the other variables related to the issue, like
parents still using CP, and contend that they children are violent
because the schools don't paddle.

I grew up where schools paddled, and I KNOW what the outcome is. And
it's exactly as I have. There have always been violent children,
Jennie, and the ones I knew were the ones paddled at home, though
terrified of the teachers they STILL found ways to get back, usually by
bullying others.

Your logic is entirely lacking. One of, I've noticed, disability in
folks that have experienced untreated trauma in their lives.

I believe they tend toward sneakiness and dishonesty as well. I read
that article you casually but carefully without link and without
mentioning what the article itself pointed out and I bothered to do the
math on. That that's an extraordinarily small percentage of the total.

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Scotsman.com News
Monday, 21st November 2005
Education
Scotland on Sunday Sun 20 Nov 2005
Classroom attacks put 36 teachers in hospital
MURDO MACLEOD POLITICAL CORRESPONDENT

AT LEAST 36 Scottish teachers were hospitalised by pupils last year,
according to official figures which reveal the horrifying extent of
classroom violence.

Primary school children as well as secondary school pupils were
involved in the attacks, in which teachers were punched, head-butted,
hit by flying chairs or shoved so hard they hit desks or walls.

The injuries ranged from cuts and bruises to lacerations needing
stitches, broken arms and back injuries. Many victims had to take weeks
off work.

The revelation that an average of three Scots teachers a month need
hospital treatment following classroom violence has enraged teaching
unions and opposition politicians.

Most authorities were unable or unwilling to disclose what sanctions,
if any, had been taken against the culprits. In some cases, they were
moved to other schools or suspended. But teachers complain that in many
situations violent pupils are allowed to return to the same school.

The trend is rapidly rising, according to our research. In Edinburgh,
there were four attacks on teachers in 2000 and eight last year.
Glasgow recorded three in 2001 and eight in 2004.

A spokesman for the EIS, Scotland's biggest teaching union, said: "All
the signs are that the problem is getting worse, not better, and urgent
action is needed."

SNP education spokeswoman Fiona Hyslop said: "These figures are deeply
worrying, especially at a time when we are trying to recruit more young
people into teaching."

But the Scottish Executive said the figures did not mean that the
nation's classrooms were descending into chaos.

"It is important to remember that they only affect a tiny minority of
the 51,287 teachers in Scotland," said an Executive spokeswoman. ...

And the article offers a far more balanced view, in that it points out
the lack of followup on the part of schools to deal with the offender.
They fail to remove the child, the very least possible remedial action,
as well as fail to assign the child reeducation. They also find
themselves up against parents that defend the child and claim they are
being falsely accused. I follow these and other matters in Scotland
very closely. I have relatives there.

It's plain you are an advocate of scottish schools taking up the cane
and paddle again, and more articles in The Scotsman make the same
point. In other words, just advocacy to try and return to the bad old
days. Propaganda. It's also plain where they wish to go....back to what
created the problem in the first place....children of the parents that
were once subjected to being switched, smacked, paddled, caned in
school.

And you folks can't seem to make the connection. They are the children
of the children. And nothing stops their parents from smacking them at
home. Am I right, or am I right?

Sneaking, lack of logic. Tsk.

You were spanked.

> Jennie

Kane
pohaku.kane@gmail.com - 14 Nov 2005 22:09 GMT
> Five years ago, 2/3 of parents in Britain thought student behavior had
> gotten worse since corporal punishment was banned in the mid-1980s.
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
> bullies run rampant and school officials do little or nothing to stop
> them.

And you can provide even the slightest of evidence that not paddling in
public schools is the cause of this kind of behavior, and not other
social conditions?

Please proceed.

The brits have a lot of history of brutality toward children ... that
now resides in their adults population ... to get over. It's going to
take a generation or two.

The reason for banning the paddle resides in the evidence of history.
The current crop of older adults where in fact strapped and paddled. We
can see what they are like.

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Carlson LaVonne - 16 Nov 2005 01:15 GMT
"Welcome to the wonderful world of no-spank.  It is a world in which
bullies run rampant and school officials do little or nothing to stop
them."

Where is your evidence that the behavior you describe below is a result
of banning corporal punishment in schools?  Do you even know that the 15
year old who was victimized was victimized by adolescents that had not
been spanked?

For all you know, the perpetrators could have been children whose
parents spanked (a well-established correlation between spanked children
and aggressive behavior).  The perpetrators could have been even further
abused at home.

You present no facts and no research, only one supposed opinion poll
from the mid 1980's, which you say was conducted five years ago.  What a
hoot.  This is 2005 and the supposed survey was conducted approximately
20 years ago.

No wonder you call yourself "opinions."  You have nothing but opinions,
which you try to pass off as a universal fact.  You can't even reference
a survey correctly.

You'd been a giggle when, in the face of scientific evidence, you
continued to declare the earth to be flat, and you would have had ample
survey evidence to support your "opinion."

LaVonne

> Five years ago, 2/3 of parents in Britain thought student behavior had
> gotten worse since corporal punishment was banned in the mid-1980s.
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
> bullies run rampant and school officials do little or nothing to stop
> them.
Doan - 16 Nov 2005 07:16 GMT
And you are a PROVEN liar, LaVonne. ;-)

Doan

> "Welcome to the wonderful world of no-spank.  It is a world in which
> bullies run rampant and school officials do little or nothing to stop
[quoted text clipped - 51 lines]
> > bullies run rampant and school officials do little or nothing to stop
> > them.
pohaku.kane@gmail.com - 16 Nov 2005 15:57 GMT
It becomes tiresomely boring, though humorus, to continually, study
after study, reveal the truth to the apolgists and compulsives. Here's
yet another finding showing the pointlessness and damage of punitive
physical punishment:

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2005/11/051114110820.htm

Year after year you, I, others, have posted similar to this ng and the
apologists and compulsives are so lost in their need to defend this
savage outmoded practice they insist on lying about whether or not we
have so posted.

The desire to endlessly debate the same tired nonsense they are unable
to get past smacks of the worst kind of cargo cult mentallity. Because
spanking looks like it works, regardless of the real negative outcomes,
they continue to pretend to themselves spanking has some real useful
child rearing components.

Sigh.

"  ...  Source:  Society for Research in Child Development
Date: 2005-11-14

Spanking Leads To Child Aggression And Anxiety, Regardless Of Cultural
Norm

No matter what the cultural norm, children who are physically
disciplined with spanking and other such approaches are more likely to
be anxious and aggressive than children who are disciplined in other
ways. This finding, published in the November/December journal Child
Development, comes from surveys of parents and children in six
different countries.  ... "

By the way, LaVonne, just thought I'd take this opportunity to thank
you for the 60 to 80 times you have either posted reference or portions
of and to various studies that pertained to outcomes and other related
issues in the use of corporal punishment.

Can't imagine how anyone, unless they were lying, would make claims
you've not done so.

It becomes tiresomely boring, though humorus, to continually, study
after study, reveal the truth to the apolgists and compulsives. Here's
yet another finding showing the pointlessness and damage of punitive
physical punishment:

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2005/11/051114110820.htm

Year after year you, I, others, have posted similar to this ng and the
apologists and compulsives are so lost in their need to defend this
savage outmoded practice they insist on lying about whether or not we
have so posted.

The desire to endlessly debate the same tired nonsense they are unable
to get past smacks of the worst kind of cargo cult mentallity. Because
spanking looks like it works, regardless of the real negative outcomes,
they continue to pretend to themselves spanking has some real useful
child rearing components.

Sigh.

Wanted to take this opportunity to thank you for the 60 to 80 posts
you've provided over the years where you specifically cited studies on
the subject, and more specifically discussed the reports findings
outcomes in terms of anti social behavior issues.

http://tinyurl.com/eytqj

Don't you find it interesting that anyone would lie about something so
obviously easy to prove otherwise? What happens to so many people when
they are spanked as children that would lead them into such unethical
behavior, or self delusion?

Hard to imagine, if we didn't have so many horrible examples, such
people coming into positions of power, authority, and decision making
for the rest of us. Thank goodness they are gradually being replaced
over time.

Trying to debate the issues, including posting relevant and well
constructed research and reports, with a few yapping small dogs around
the edges of the discussion is quite interesting.

Too bad there isn't a kennel for them.

Apparently they are so accustomed to and expectant of being spanked
they can't handle real debate, with or without the spanking.

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Jennie - 20 Nov 2005 18:17 GMT
You too are a giggle when you insist, in the teeth of common sense and
all the experience that anyone has ever had, that children behave
better when they are freely allowed to go on the rampage.

Jennie
Jeremy James - 21 Nov 2005 10:26 GMT
Good point

> You too are a giggle when you insist, in the teeth of common sense and
> all the experience that anyone has ever had, that children behave
> better when they are freely allowed to go on the rampage.
>
> Jennie
pohaku.kane@gmail.com - 22 Nov 2005 01:07 GMT
> You too are a giggle when you insist, in the teeth of common sense and
> all the experience that anyone has ever had, that children behave
> better when they are freely allowed to go on the rampage.

Presuming, since I believe LaVonne used "giggle" in her subject line,
that you mean she advocates free allowace of chidren to go on the
rampage and that helps them behave better.

I've watched LaVonne post for a good many years, and have googled her
posts back from as far as Usenet archives them. I must have missed
something.

In fact I am more prone to speak out against punishment methods than
she, and I assure you I never let children run wild and go on rampages.
Never happens. It's the children of punishing parents, among other
proven failure methods that creates that desire in children.

> Jennie

I am sorry, and I'm reasonable certain LaVonne would be as well, that
you are unable to think of all the very simple ways to direct, guide,
coach, teach children that handles any tendency, easily, for them to go
on "rampage."

Your were rampagers where they, that you could only stop with corporal
punishment?

When mine had excess energy we had prescribed activities for them to
engage in, as well as other methods of dealing with it than allowing
them to rampage, or beating them into submission and calling it
"spanking" and "discipline."  Both phony ways to cover up incompetency
with names that disguise what be assault if you tried it on any adult
that didn't want to comply with you.  

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