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MoJo Werkin - 20 Jul 2006 01:38 GMT
koo-koo's care little for the children and families they use as soapboxes

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Smack ban 'breaking up families'

http://www.nzherald.co.nz/section/story.cfm?c_id=1&objectid=10392102

Thursday July 20, 2006
By Simon Collins

A Swedish human rights campaigner says Sweden's ban on smacking has broken
up families and led to thousands of children being taken away from their
parents every year.

Jamaican-born Ruby Harrold-Claesson, who chairs the Nordic Committee for
Human Rights, says Sweden's smacking ban has also produced "badly behaved"
children and young people who have a reputation for "hooliganism" in Europe.

She has been brought to New Zealand by the Christian-based Family Integrity
and other groups opposing Green MP Sue Bradford's bill to remove a legal
defence allowing parents to use "reasonable force" to discipline their
children.

Sweden had 35,950 children under 18 in state care in 1999, or almost one
child in every 50 - although some of these were cared for with their parents
in special facilities.

The comparable figure in Child, Youth and Family Services (CYFS) care in New
Zealand last year was just 5071, or only one child in 200.

Mrs Harrold-Claesson said "administrative violence" by the Swedish state was
now worse than any violence by parents in their homes.

"If any parent smacks a child, the parent faces prosecution and the child
can be taken away from them," she said.

As a lawyer, she has represented many parents who have had their children
taken because of what they felt was reasonable discipline.

In a 2003 case, seven children aged between 13 and 4 were taken from their
parents in the town of Svalov when their father was charged with "gross
disturbance of the peace" for grabbing some of his children by the arms or
neck and taking them to their rooms.

The father was held in jail for a month but was then acquitted, and the
mother was not accused of any misdemeanours. But the Swedish equivalent of
CYFS has so far refused to return their children, and in January last year
took their newborn eighth child into care too.

"Until today, that family is fighting to get their children back," Mrs
Harrold-Claesson said.

In another case, a mother slapped the faces of her two teenage daughters
because they refused to empty the dishwasher. She was fined and the girls
were removed from her care.

Mrs Harrold-Claesson said foster care in Sweden had become a
multibillion-dollar industry, with foster parents paid both taxable and
non-taxable payments. For children with special needs, payments ranged up to
$1044 a day.

Children were often physically, sexually and emotionally abused in foster
homes, but her complaints about foster parents were routinely ignored.

Mrs Harrold-Claesson herself has been banned from legal aid work in her city
of Gothenburg since 1996 - a ban which she says is because she challenged
Swedish laws at the European Commission for Human Rights.

A coalition of groups supporting Ms Bradford's bill, including Barnardos,
Plunket and the office of Children's Commissioner Cindy Kiro, referred
reporters to an article published two years ago about the ban. Barnardos
chief executive Murray Edridge said Mrs Harrold-Claesson "is reported as
acknowledging that she is not a member of the Swedish Law Society and that
she is banned from practising in courts in Western Sweden.

"We understand that she is now distancing herself from Family Integrity, yet
she herself is quoted in Sweden as saying: 'Children are emotional creatures
who listen well through their skin,"' Mr Edridge said in a written
statement.

"So far as I am concerned, she has come to New Zealand now under very
dubious circumstances."

But Mrs Harrold-Claesson said she was still able to practise fee-paid legal
work in Gothenburg and legal aid work outside that city. She has said she
did not belong to the law society because she did not have the required
income of at least 500,000 Swedish kroner ($108,000).

She said the quote about children "listening through their skin" came from a
case where a non-Swedish-speaking immigrant boy was taken from his mother,
another mother tried to comfort him and was told: "Don't bother, he won't
understand you anyway."

"I said children are emotional creatures, they understand through their
skin," she said.

However, she supported parents' right to smack and said she smacked her own
three children.* Mrs Harrold-Claesson speaks at public meetings in Lower
Hutt on Saturday and in Porirua, Hamilton, Manukau and Birkenhead next week.
Carlson LaVonne - 20 Jul 2006 20:23 GMT
So, Mrs. Harrold-Claesson, was brought to New Zealand by the
Christian-based Family Integrity and other groups to defend the practice
of spanking children.  What a surprise.  And in the process, she has
many opinions about the evils of protecting children from being
physically assaulted in the name of discipline.  What a surprise.  Don't
suppose there could be any bias in her opinions that she states as a
fact, do you?

It appears that she is no longer permitted to practice law in Sweden,
because she challenges Swedish laws that ban smacking and all forms of
corporal punishment.

Thanks for the article.  It's full of opinions by the Christian smackers
(by the way not all Christians believe in hitting children), and makes
clear her standing in Sweden, a country that was the first to take legal
steps toward banning the barbaric practice of hitting, swatting,
smacking, slapping, smacking, beating children in the name of discipline.

LaVonne

> koo-koo's care little for the children and families they use as soapboxes
>
[quoted text clipped - 95 lines]
> three children.* Mrs Harrold-Claesson speaks at public meetings in Lower
> Hutt on Saturday and in Porirua, Hamilton, Manukau and Birkenhead next week.
Greegor - 21 Jul 2006 01:52 GMT
> So, Mrs. Harrold-Claesson, was brought to New Zealand by the
> Christian-based Family Integrity and other groups to defend the practice
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> suppose there could be any bias in her opinions that she states as a
> fact, do you?

What, you see evil CHRISTIANS everywhere now?
Wasn't it a COALITION that brought her to NZ?

How many groups are in the COALITION?
Why is this ONE being singled out?

> It appears that she is no longer permitted to practice law in Sweden,
> because she challenges Swedish laws that ban smacking and all forms of
> corporal punishment.

Oh my God, an attorney who challenges a law?

Is that a reason for disbarment?

Isn't that what lawyers DO?

Was she in fact disbarred (or removed from the lawyers guild) for that
reason?

> Thanks for the article.  It's full of opinions by the Christian smackers
> (by the way not all Christians believe in hitting children), and makes
> clear her standing in Sweden, a country that was the first to take legal
> steps toward banning the barbaric practice of hitting, swatting,
> smacking, slapping, smacking, beating children in the name of discipline.

Careful LaVonne, your RABIES is showing.

I just thought I would formally announce that this will become a
big message thread since there is a LOT of information
on the web about Ruby Harrold-Claesson!  Bone up on your Svenska!

Ya speak any Bimbo Tjej Lavonne Carlsohn?

This will be so fun.
Please fasten your seat belts!

sfm.no-14.01.2005-Ruby Harrold ClaessonIn both cases Ruby
Harrold-Claesson made reference to Article 8 of the European ... And
according to Ruby Harrold-Claesson she has not done anything wrong. ...
www.sfm.no/Arkiv-2005/Art-Jan-05/ 14.01.2005-RHClaesson.htm - 34k -
Cached - Similar pages

Ruby Harrold-ClaessonRuby Harrold-Claesson lives in Gothenburg, Sweden
and can be reached at: + 46 - 31 ... Ruby Harrold-Claesson started her
academic career by studying Law and ...
www.nkmr.org/english/ruby.htm - 3k - Cached - Similar pages

Ruby Harrold-Claesson's lecture at the Families in Care ...As you heard
my name is Ruby Harrold-Claesson. I am originally from Jamaica and I
ended up in Sweden because I am married to a Swede. ...
www.nkmr.org/english/rhc_newcastle_lecture.htm - 55k - Cached - Similar
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[PDF] THE PHYSICAL CHASTISEMENT OF CHILDREN: LESSONS FROM SWEDEN AND
GERMANYFile Format: PDF/Adobe Acrobat - View as HTML
I Another critic of the Swedish anti-smacking legislation is Ruby
Harrold-Claesson. of the Nordic Committee for Human Rights. In several
articles on the ...
www.scottish.parliament.uk/business/
research/pdf_res_brief/sb02-102.pdf - Similar pages

Scoop: Ruby Harrold-Claesson Media PackBrought to NZ by over 200
concerned organizations, lobby groups, families and individuals She is
a Swedish lawyer and specialises in family law, ...
www.scoop.co.nz/stories/PO0607/S00184.htm - 34k - Cached - Similar
pages

Scoop: Swedish Lawyer being brought to NZ by CoalitionMrs. Ruby
Harrold-Claesson, Lawyer, was born in Kingston, Jamaica. They have two
daughters, Simone and Lorica and one son, Leif. Ruby lives in
Gothenburg, ...
www.scoop.co.nz/stories/PO0606/S00105.htm - 33k - Cached - Similar
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TaboosOne person the home secretary ought to consult before deciding is
the Swedish lawyer Ruby Harrold-Claesson. She has been standing up for
parents fined and ...
www.msbp.com/taboos.htm - 8k - Cached - Similar pages

Society for the Promotion of Community Standards (SPCS) - HomeFamily
Integrity says that Swedish lawyer Ruby Harrold-Claesson, who coming to
New Zealand next month, will be the most qualified person ever to speak
in ...
www.spcs.org.nz/component/ option,com_frontpage/Itemid,1/ - 34k -
Cached - Similar pages

Sourze: Tidningen som skrivs dygnet runt av läsarna självaDe
förvirrade och agalagshyckleriet · Ruby Harrold-Claesson, POLITIK &
SAMHÄLLE. 13 jul kl. 17.10, 204 läsare. SKRIV PÅ SOURZE OCH BLI RIK!
...
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Tvångsvård?Mina efterforskningar på webben visar att
Ruby-Harrold-Claesson varit en mycket ... Ruby Harrold-Claesson,
Smacking and the Law - a European Perspective ...
ulf.ing-steen.se/~ulf/tvangsvard.htm - 11k - Cached - Similar pages
0:-> - 22 Jul 2006 04:16 GMT
>> So, Mrs. Harrold-Claesson, was brought to New Zealand by the
>> Christian-based Family Integrity and other groups to defend the practice
[quoted text clipped - 103 lines]
> Smacking and the Law - a European Perspective ...
> ulf.ing-steen.se/~ulf/tvangsvard.htm - 11k - Cached - Similar pages

So tell us, Greg. Would you condone corporal punishment that went on for
15 minutes of spanking normal and not beating the child? ("Smack" is
Brit for "spank."

Do you believe that children are "foolish" and "sinful" as a rule?

0:->

http://www.iol.co.za/index.php?set_id=1&click_id=2024&art_id=qw1153280340627B252

'Smacking children does them so much good'

Wellington - A Christian group called Family Integrity has urged New
Zealand parents to smack their naughty children for up to 15 minutes,
saying the Bible recommends it to get rid of "the problem of sin in the
heart," a newspaper reported on Wednesday.

"Smacking does so much good for the child and for you," the group, which
is independent of any church, says in a booklet for parents, reported by
Wellington's Dominion Post.

"Smacking is meant to drive the foolishness, the sinful manifestations,
out of the child's personality so that they do not become permanent
fixtures."

Corporal punishment is a topical issue in New Zealand, where a
parliamentary committee is considering a proposal to repeal a section of
the Crimes Act that allows parents to use "reasonable force" to
discipline their children.

'Smacking does so much good for the child'
Family Integrity is one of several Christian organisations bankrolling a
visit to New Zealand by a Swedish lawyer, Ruby Harrold-Claeson, who is
scheduled to make a submission to the committee next week, the paper said.

Harrold-Claeson claims that Swedish children "are incredibly badly
behaved" and have been out of control since spanking and other physical
punishment was outlawed in the country nearly 50 years ago.

The Family Integrity booklet says that a smack leaves the child's
offence forever in the past and "if the child is angry after the smack,
you have not smacked hard enough."

New Zealand's Children's Commissioner Cindy Kiro told the paper, "The
idea that children are sinful and that they need to be beaten in order
to be moral beings is fundamentally wrong."

She said it was "completely off the wall" to suggest that children
should be smacked for 10 to 15 minutes, as the booklet suggests. - Sapa-dpa

Quickwire

Published on the Web by IOL on 2006-07-19 05:38:21
© Independent Online 2005. All rights reserved. IOL publishes this
article in good faith but is not liable for any loss or damage caused by
reliance on the information it contains.

http://www.iol.co.za/index.php?set_id=1&click_id=2024&art_id=qw1153280340627B252

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"Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what
to have for lunch. Liberty is a well armed lamb
contesting the vote." - Benjamin Franklin (or someone else)

Carlson LaVonne - 23 Jul 2006 00:41 GMT
>>So, Mrs. Harrold-Claesson, was brought to New Zealand by the
>>Christian-based Family Integrity and other groups to defend the practice
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> What, you see evil CHRISTIANS everywhere now?
> Wasn't it a COALITION that brought her to NZ?

No, I don't see evil CHRISTIANS everywhere.  I read the article and
learned that Christian-based Family Integrity and other groups that
defend the pracice of spanking childrebn brought her to New Zealand.  I
learned this from reading the article, and I posted the inforemation on
the ng.

> How many groups are in the COALITION?
> Why is this ONE being singled out?

I stated what was posted in the article.  The reference was provided in
the post.
>  
>>It appears that she is no longer permitted to practice law in Sweden,
>>because she challenges Swedish laws that ban smacking and all forms of
>>corporal punishment.
>
> Oh my God, an attorney who challenges a law?

You apparently know very little about the law, among other things.

> Is that a reason for disbarment?

It certainly can be.

> Isn't that what lawyers DO?

No.  Lawyers interpret and apply the law, based on history of previous
cases.

> Was she in fact disbarred (or removed from the lawyers guild) for that
> reason?

Read the article, Greegor.  I know you can read, because you are a very
prolific poster.

LaVonne

>>Thanks for the article.  It's full of opinions by the Christian smackers
>>(by the way not all Christians believe in hitting children), and makes
[quoted text clipped - 76 lines]
> Smacking and the Law - a European Perspective ...
> ulf.ing-steen.se/~ulf/tvangsvard.htm - 11k - Cached - Similar pages
toto - 23 Jul 2006 21:54 GMT
>koo-koo's care little for the children and families they use as soapboxes
>
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>up families and led to thousands of children being taken away from their
>parents every year.

http://www.scoop.co.nz/stories/PO0607/S00166.htm

Nor has there been an increase in children being removed from parents
through the intervention of social workers. Quite the reverse: the
number of children coming into care has decreased by 26% since 1982.

**********************

The Swedish Ban on Corporal Punishment has led to the following
results:
1. Public support for corporal punishment has declined,
2. Identification of children at risk has increased,
3. Child abuse mortality is rare,
4. No flood of trivial actions have occurred, as prosecution rates
have remained steady,
5. Social service intervention has become increasingly supportive and
preventive.

>Jamaican-born Ruby Harrold-Claesson, who chairs the Nordic Committee for
>Human Rights, says Sweden's smacking ban has also produced "badly behaved"
>children and young people who have a reputation for "hooliganism" in Europe.

http://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/cgi/content/full/156/4/569

OBJECTIVE: The purpose of this study was to compare syndromes of
parent-reported problems for children in 12 cultures. METHOD: Child
Behavior Checklists were analyzed for 13,697 children and adolescents,
ages 6 through 17 years, from general population samples in Australia,
Belgium, China, Germany, Greece, Israel, Jamaica, the Netherlands,
Puerto Rico, Sweden, Thailand, and the United States. RESULTS:
Comparisons of nine cultures for subjects ages 6 through 17 gave
medium effect sizes for cross-cultural variations in withdrawn and
social problems and small effect sizes for somatic complaints,
anxious/depressed, thought problems, attention problems, delinquent
behavior, and aggressive behavior. Scores of Puerto Rican subjects
were the highest,

*************************************************************************
whereas Swedish subjects had the lowest scores on almost all
syndromes.
*************************************************************************

With great cross-cultural consistency, girls obtained higher scores
than boys on somatic complaints and anxious/depressed but lower scores
on attention problems, delinquent behavior, and aggressive behavior.
Although remarkably consistent across cultures, the developmental
trends differed according to syndrome. Comparison of the 12 cultures
across ages 6 through 11 supported these results. CONCLUSIONS:
Empirically based assessment in terms of Child Behavior Checklist
syndromes permits comparisons of problems reported for children from
diverse cultures.

>She has been brought to New Zealand by the Christian-based Family Integrity
>and other groups opposing Green MP Sue Bradford's bill to remove a legal
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
>"If any parent smacks a child, the parent faces prosecution and the child
>can be taken away from them," she said.

Since Sweden's law still provides no penalty, this is not factual.

This law does not carry penalties - a point that no doubt speeded its
passage. When reports of physical punishment are substantiated by
social services staff or the police as assault (that is, child abuse)
according to Sweden's Criminal Code, the code sanctions apply. Even
so, few minor infractions have been reported by spiteful neighbors or
children, putting to rest the speculation that such a law would create
chaos by turning minor parental infractions into government cases.

>As a lawyer, she has represented many parents who have had their children
>taken because of what they felt was reasonable discipline.
[quoted text clipped - 59 lines]
>three children.* Mrs Harrold-Claesson speaks at public meetings in Lower
>Hutt on Saturday and in Porirua, Hamilton, Manukau and Birkenhead next week.

Norway, Sweden, Denmark, Austria, Finland and other countries that
have banned corporal punishment of children in general have low rates
of interpersonal violence compared to the United States. Critics
predicted that Swedish youth would grow up more unruly after parents
stopped spanking because of the l979 corporal punishment ban. Dr. Joan
Durrant who studied effects of the ban for l5 years reported that this
did not happen. Her studies indicate youth did not become more unruly,
under socialized or self-destructive following the ban. In fact, she
said most measures demonstrated a substantial improvement in youth
well-being (Durrant, 2000). Professor Adrienne Haeuser who studied
these educational laws in Europe in 1981 and 1991 said “Children are
receiving more discipline since the law in Sweden passed. Parents
think twice and tend to rely more on verbal conflict resolution to
manage their children”.

Some recent references:

Durrant, Joan E. (2000). “Trends in Youth Crime and Well-Being Since
the Abolition of Corporal Punishment in Sweden”, Youth and Society.
Youth and Society, Volume 31, 437-455.

Gershoff, Elizabeth (2002) “Corporal Punishment by Parents and
Associated Child Behaviors and Experiences: A Meta-Analytic and
Theoretical Review”, Psychological Bulletin 2002. Vol. 128, No. 4
539-579. American Psychological Association.

--
Dorothy

There is no sound, no cry in all the world
that can be heard unless someone listens ..

The Outer Limits
0:-> - 23 Jul 2006 22:17 GMT
>> koo-koo's care little for the children and families they use as soapboxes
>>
[quoted text clipped - 182 lines]
> --
> Dorothy

I recently ran into something that confounds the idea that rates of
violence are diminishing in Scandinavian countries.

It seems it's going up. ...

... Among the Immigrant groups that in fact bring VIOLENT CHILD REARING
methods to these formerly peaceful countries.

Kane

> There is no sound, no cry in all the world
> that can be heard unless someone listens ..
>
> The Outer Limits

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Doan - 24 Jul 2006 19:15 GMT
> I recently ran into something that confounds the idea that rates of
> violence are diminishing in Scandinavian countries.
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> ... Among the Immigrant groups that in fact bring VIOLENT CHILD REARING
> methods to these formerly peaceful countries.

They must be coming from Singapore right, Kane0?  ;-)  And, compare that
to the USA where, as you claimed, youth crime rate has been declining
for the past 30 YEARS!  ;-)

Doan
0:-> - 24 Jul 2006 19:39 GMT
>> I recently ran into something that confounds the idea that rates of
>> violence are diminishing in Scandinavian countries.
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>>
> They must be coming from Singapore right, Kane0?  ;-)

Not that I've heard of.

Doan, you can lower crime anywhere, if you violate peoples natural and
civil rights. Singapore is a prime example.

If folks wish to live that way, that is their right too, but you'll
never sell Corporal Punishment in the US on that basis...that we should
violate civil rights.

And eventually that right recognized for adults will be extended to
children.

> And, compare that
> to the USA where, as you claimed, youth crime rate has been declining
> for the past 30 YEARS!  ;-)

Actually it's highest where Corporal Punishment is more frequently used.

The school systems, as a laboratory for research, have shown that. And
you know as well as I that in the high crime areas of our country CP is
more common.

Back to the hysterical dancing screeching monkeyboy routine, Doan?
You should see a shrink. Talk over your childhood. Especially the
spankings you got that you have now minimized and hide from.

> Doan

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Doan - 24 Jul 2006 19:50 GMT
> >> I recently ran into something that confounds the idea that rates of
> >> violence are diminishing in Scandinavian countries.
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> Doan, you can lower crime anywhere, if you violate peoples natural and
> civil rights. Singapore is a prime example.

Then you haven't looked at Russia, stupid!

> If folks wish to live that way, that is their right too, but you'll
> never sell Corporal Punishment in the US on that basis...that we should
> violate civil rights.

Hihihi!  You might want to check on the current Bush administration.
They can tap your phones, hold you without trial....

> And eventually that right recognized for adults will be extended to
> children.

Including the right to vote? ;-)

>  > And, compare that
> > to the USA where, as you claimed, youth crime rate has been declining
> > for the past 30 YEARS!  ;-)
>
> Actually it's highest where Corporal Punishment is more frequently used.

Really?  No decline at all???  Where?

> The school systems, as a laboratory for research, have shown that. And
> you know as well as I that in the high crime areas of our country CP is
> more common.

Actually, it's where there are more Blacks.

> Back to the hysterical dancing screeching monkeyboy routine, Doan?
> You should see a shrink. Talk over your childhood. Especially the
> spankings you got that you have now minimized and hide from.

Hihihi!  Yup!  Unlike your mom who taught you how to call other women
"smelly-c.nt" right, Kane0?

Doan
0:-> - 24 Jul 2006 20:30 GMT
>>>> I recently ran into something that confounds the idea that rates of
>>>> violence are diminishing in Scandinavian countries.
[quoted text clipped - 30 lines]
>>
> Really?  No decline at all???  Where?

What has "highest" to do with "no decline at all?" Overall crime has
dropped in this country for some time. We are seeing some spikes now
that are confined entirely to those areas...especially were poverty and
a despised class of people are discriminated against exists.

>> The school systems, as a laboratory for research, have shown that. And
>> you know as well as I that in the high crime areas of our country CP is
>> more common.
>>
> Actually, it's where there are more Blacks.

Like I said, poverty areas. Being "Black" has nothing to do with it
outside racism and poverty.

Every country in the world that has a despised class, regardless of
origin, has a serious problem with crime in the areas the despised and
minimized are forced to live in. And poverty there as well.

Even when the genetic 'race' is the same.

Your logic is again in question, but then I shouldn't pick on you,
should I, monkeyboy?

>> Back to the hysterical dancing screeching monkeyboy routine, Doan?
>> You should see a shrink. Talk over your childhood. Especially the
>> spankings you got that you have now minimized and hide from.
>>
> Hihihi!  Yup!  Unlike your mom who taught you how to call other women
> "smelly-c.nt" right, Kane0?

If they deserved it yes.

Please defend the one I called a smelly-c.nt, Doan, and her argument.

The beating of children by church members, remember?

You have dodged this for a very long time now, Doan. It makes it rather
clear you have a very weak grasp of the disconnect between your claim of
being against beating children and being unwilling to call Fern on her
defense of it.

Care to comment?

Thought not.

0:->

> Doan

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Greegor - 24 Jul 2006 22:48 GMT
Kane says to Doan:
> > You should see a shrink. Talk over your childhood. Especially the
> > spankings you got that you have now minimized and hide from.

Um, Kane, I have NEVER heard of a psychological reaction
where a person minimizes an aversive from their childhood.
The assertion Doan is "hiding from it" is absurd.

Even though I find the DSM to be for the most part
a fraudulent enterprise, please refer to some
diagnoses in there where a person minimizes the spankings
they received when they misbehaved as a child.

It seems to be much more plausible to believe
that somebody with oppositional and defiant pathology
would RESENT a spanking and based on
reactive psychology would become a zealot in an
anti-spanking CRUSADE as an adult!

Are you saying that there is such a think as an
UN-REACTION to spanking?

Do some kids develop spanking envy?
0:-> - 25 Jul 2006 02:45 GMT
> Kane says to Doan:
>>> You should see a shrink. Talk over your childhood. Especially the
>>> spankings you got that you have now minimized and hide from.
>
> Um, Kane, I have NEVER heard of a psychological reaction
> where a person minimizes an aversive from their childhood.

There's a lot you seem to have not heard of, Greg.

There are books written, and classes taught on this, Greg.

> The assertion Doan is "hiding from it" is absurd.

No it isn't. It's common to stuff memories of childhood trauma.

> Even though I find the DSM to be for the most part
> a fraudulent enterprise, please refer to some
> diagnoses in there where a person minimizes the spankings
> they received when they misbehaved as a child.

I don't believe it discusses spankings. I do believe it discusses trauma.

If you are going to claim there is no trauma to spanking then you defeat
the premise of spanking made by spankers. THEY WISH TO HURT THE CHILD.

That, child, is trauma.

> It seems to be much more plausible to believe
> that somebody with oppositional and defiant pathology
> would RESENT a spanking and based on
> reactive psychology would become a zealot in an
> anti-spanking CRUSADE as an adult!

No, you weren't being considered in this, and you are hardly an example
of an anti-spanking crusader.

In fact, it's far more likely the spanked defend spanking, since it was
most often delivered by a beloved, or at least feared caregiver. Often,
paradoxically, for the child, the one spanking was both.

> Are you saying that there is such a think as an
> UN-REACTION to spanking?

Your logic escapes me. So obviously, no. I wasn't say that, because I
don't know what that is.

> Do some kids develop spanking envy?

Actually children are curious about all kinds of things.

A common phenomena in adopted and foster children, when the come to live
with a family, is "waiting to be spanked."

The will sometimes...often in fact, act out in hopes of precipitating
one, for they believe that they deserve it and they are not "loved"
unless they git it.

Kind of sick.

It is even more likely in families that adopt and foster where they do
spank their bio children. But cannot spank the foster child or the
adopted one until the adoption is final.

It can create some havoc in the household.

Would you suggest that foster and adoptive children be spanked just to
satisfy what is a psychological anomaly that results from abuse and
neglect?

You have once again shown your willingness to flout your ignorance while
insisting YOU know better, by the nature of your questions.

You are clumsy at best, and stupid at worst.

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Doan - 25 Jul 2006 04:15 GMT
> > Kane says to Doan:
> >>> You should see a shrink. Talk over your childhood. Especially the
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>
> No it isn't. It's common to stuff memories of childhood trauma.

It's also HILARIOUS! ;-)

Doan
0:-> - 25 Jul 2006 05:04 GMT
>>> Kane says to Doan:
>>>>> You should see a shrink. Talk over your childhood. Especially the
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>>
> It's also HILARIOUS! ;-)

Not to those that suffer it.

So tell us, can you recall in detail all your past life?

What parts can you not remember clearly?

What parts are you not sure were real memories or bits and pieces you
put together to make a rational whole, but in fact are not real?

Have you any living older relatives that can check this out for you, who
were observing you when you were the age in your "memories?"

> Doan

Yes, Doan, you are nothing if not hilarious.

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Greegor - 27 Jul 2006 13:23 GMT
So theoretically Doan is repressing his resentment
of his childhood spankings so well that he can openly
reject your anti-spanking kookery?

Does he also have resentment that he never won the
Publishers Clearinghouse sweepstakes?

Or is he just repressing it too well?   :)
Doan - 27 Jul 2006 17:31 GMT
I told you that this is HILARIOUS!  ;-)

Doan

> So theoretically Doan is repressing his resentment
> of his childhood spankings so well that he can openly
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>
> Or is he just repressing it too well?   :)
0:-> - 27 Jul 2006 22:46 GMT
> I told you that this is HILARIOUS!  ;-)
>
> Doan

To a person possessed by the Monkey God, of course?

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>> So theoretically Doan is repressing his resentment
>> of his childhood spankings so well that he can openly
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>>
>> Or is he just repressing it too well?   :)

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0:-> - 27 Jul 2006 22:34 GMT
> So theoretically Doan is repressing his resentment
> of his childhood spankings so well that he can openly
> reject your anti-spanking kookery?

No, you misunderstand. He has been invaded by the monkeygod spirit of
trickery and deception. Didn't you know? 0;->

> Does he also have resentment that he never won the
> Publishers Clearinghouse sweepstakes?

Monkeygod spirits can win whenever they want.

> Or is he just repressing it too well?   :)

Hysterical screeching dancing monkeyboys aren't concerned with
repression. Just better quality deceptions. 0;->

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Doan - 24 Jul 2006 19:07 GMT
> >koo-koo's care little for the children and families they use as soapboxes
> >
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> through the intervention of social workers. Quite the reverse: the
> number of children coming into care has decreased by 26% since 1982.

It's nothing but a press release from an obvious anti-spanking group,
Dorothy.  I give much credence as parenting advice from Lisa Whelchel! ;-)

> **********************
>
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> 5. Social service intervention has become increasingly supportive and
> preventive.

Compare that to a study done by Larzelere:

<Begin include>
Two recent reviews of parental corporal punishment have found little sound
evidence of detrimental child outcomes such as child aggression. This paper
explores whether the 1979 Swedish law against all corporal punishment has
reduced their child abuse. Sweden's 1979 law was welcomed by many as a much
needed policy toward reducing physical child abuse. Surprisingly, this
search located only five published studies with any relevant data. The best
study found that the rate of child abuse was 49% higher in Sweden than in
the United States, comparing a 1980 Swedish national survey with the average
rates from two national surveys in the United States in 1975 and 1985. By
comparison, a retrospective survey of university students in 1981 found that
the Swedish child abuse rate was 21% of the USA rate in the 1960s and the
1970s, prior to the anti-spanking law. More recent Swedish data indicate a
489% increase in one child abuse statistic from 1981 through 1994, as well
as a 672% increase in assaults by minors against minors. The article discusses
possible reasons for this apparent increase in child abuse and calls for
better evaluations of innovative policies intended to reduce societal abuse
and violence.

Poster presented at the XXVI International Congress of Psychology, Montreal,
August 18, 1996.

       Where is Evidence That Non-Abusive Corporal Punishment
               Increases Aggression?

Two recent reviews of the literature on parental corporal punishment have
found few methodologically sound studies. Further, hardly any of the soundest
studies found detrimental child outcomes associated with corporal punishment.
This paper explores whether there is evidence that the outlawing of corporal
punishment by parents in Sweden and other countries has had any discernible
effect, particularly on child abuse and, to a lesser degree, on child outcomes
such as aggression.

Lyons, Anderson, and Larson (1993) attempted to review all journal articles on
corporal punishment by parents from 1984 through 1993. Only 24 of the 132
articles (17%) included any empirical data on corporal punishment. Less than
half of those (11) investigated corporal punishment as a possible cause of
some other variable. Most (83%) of the studies were cross-sectional, and only
one made any attempt to exclude child abuse from the measure of corporal
punishment.

They concluded that there was empirical evidence supporting one of three
hypotheses: Several studies found that parents were more likely to use corporal
punishment themselves if their parents had used it. There was no sound evidence
that corporal punishment was ineffective, nor that it was associated with child
aggression.

Larzelere (in press) built on their review by extending the search of peer-
reviewed articles to the period 1974 to 1995 plus older articles that met the
inclusion criteria. The inclusion criteria were designed to exclude studies
that were cross-sectional or whose measures emphasized the severity of usage
of corporal punishment. Only 18 studies were found that both met the two
inclusion criteria and limited the sample to children under 13 years of age.
The 8 strongest studies found beneficial outcomes of corporal punishment,
usually in 2- to 6-year-olds. The 10 other studies were prospective (6) or
retrospective (4). Three of them found detrimental outcomes, but only 1 of
those 3 made any attempt to exclude abuse from its measure of corporal
punishment. Further, none of the 10 studies controlled for the initial level
of child misbehavior. This seems to be an important methodological problem,
since the frequency of every type of discipline response tends to be
positively associated with child misbehavior, whether the associations are
cross-sectional or longitudinal (Larzelere, Sather, Schneider, Larson, & Pike,
1996; Larzelere, Schneider, Larson, & Pike, in press). Finally, no alternative
discipline response in any of the 18 studies was associated with more
beneficial child outcomes than was corporal punishment, whereas 7 alternatives
were associated with more detrimental child outcomes, mostly in 2- to
6-year-olds. These reviews suggest that the empirical linkage between
nonabusive corporal punishment and aggression comes only from cross-sectional
studies, studies of teenagers, studies measuring particularly severe forms
of corporal punishment, and, perhaps, studies of punitiveness. This led us
to ask how well current societal experiments are working in countries that
have outlawed all forms of parental use of corporal punishment.

In 1979, Sweden passed a law prohibiting all corporal punishment by parents.
This was hailed as a crucial step in the effort to reduce child abuse (Deley,
1988; Feshbach, 1980; Ziegert, 1983). Several countries have passed similar
laws since then (Norway, Denmark, Finland, Austria, and Cyprus), and
organizations have formed to advocate against parental corporal punishment
throughout the world (e.g., End Physical Punishment of Children [EPOCH]: Radda
Barnen, no date).

This movement represents one of the most sweeping changes ever advocated by
social scientists. In the United States, for example, about 90% of parents
have spanked their 3-year-old children in the past year (Straus, 1983;
Wauchope & Straus, 1990). Some social scientific research has been used to
support the anti-spanking position (e.g., Hyman, 1995; Straus, 1994), but the
reviews summarized above have found such support coming primarily from
methodologically poor studies. Given the inconclusiveness of relevant research
and the importance of the issue, it is desirable to know whether child abuse
has decreased in Sweden following their 1979 anti-spanking law. Accordingly,
this article asks two inter-related questions: (1) To what extent have social
scientists evaluated the effect of the 1979 anti-spanking law in Sweden, and
(2) what do those evaluations indicate about the effects of the anti-spanking
law in reducing child abuse? We also report one finding about Swedish trends
in assaults by minors discovered during our study.

             Literature Search for Evaluations

Two procedures were used to find evaluations of the effects of Sweden's anti-
spanking law. First, PsycLit was searched from 1974 through June of 1995 for
all publications that included "Sweden" or "Swedish" and either "punishment"
or "spanking" in their abstracts. Second, Social Sciences Citation Index was
used to identify all articles citing Gelles and Edfeldt (1986) through April
1995, because their study reported a well-done survey of Swedish child abuse
rates one year after the anti-spanking law was passed.

            Empirical Evaluations of Sweden's Anti-Spanking Law

Five published studies and one unpublished paper were found that included any
empirical information relevant for evaluating the 1979 anti-spanking law.
Ziegert (1983) published a conceptual, preliminary article on why the law
should be effective. His only empirical data was from a Swedish opinion poll
showing that the percentage of respondents considering corporal punishment
to be necessary had dropped from 53% in 1965 to 35% in 1971 to 26% in 1979 and
1981. In an article comparing Swedish and American use of corporal punishment,
Solheim (1982) reported that 26% of Swedish respondents considered corporal
punishment necessary in 1978. Like Ziegert (1983), Solheim's (1982) article
was mostly nonempirical, discussing such issues as court decisions about
corporal punishment in schools, the 1979 law, and expert opinions. Together
these two articles show that the decline in support for the necessity of
parental corporal punishment in Sweden preceded the 1979 law, and it did not
decrease thereafter, at least through 1981.

A third article reported the rate of child homicides in various European
countries, comparing 1973/1974 with approximately 1987/1988 (Pritchard, 1992).
Note that this compared statistics before and after the 1979 law. The Swedish
child homicide rate was the sixth lowest of the 17 countries at both time
periods. However, it nearly doubled from 1973/1974 to 1986/1987. Sweden's
93% increase in its child homicide rate was the fifth largest percentage
increase among the 17 countries. It should also be noted that the rate of
accidental baby deaths in Sweden was the lowest of the 17 countries at both
time periods. Unlike the child homicide rate, it decreased by 67%
between the two time periods, although 10 of the other 16 countries decreased
their accidental baby death rates by an even larger percentage.

A fourth article compared child abuse rates among university students at one
Swedish university compared to one American university as reported in a 1981
survey (Deley, 1988). Because these were retrospective reports, they were
child abuse rates during the 1960s and the 1970s as these students were growing
up, a time period preceding the 1979 law. The critical question asked whether
a spanking had ever left physical marks that lasted for more than 10 minutes.
Two percent of the Sweden students reported receiving such physical marks from
a spanking, compared to 9.5% of the American students. Although this is far
from a representative sample, this suggests that the child abuse rate in
Sweden was only 21% of the American child abuse rate in the 1960s and 1970s
(i.e., 2.0 divided by 9.5 = .21).

The fifth and best study used telephone surveys of a nationally representative
sample of Swedish parents to measure the rates of spanking and of child abuse
in 1980 (Gelles & Edfeldt, 1986). It used the Conflict Tactics Scale, which
was also used to measure the prevalence of spanking and child abuse in two
National Family Violence Surveys in the USA (Straus & Gelles, 1986; Straus,
Gelles, & Steinmetz, 1980). Gelles and Edfeldt (1986) compared their 1980
Swedish survey only with the 1975 National Family Violence Survey. They
concluded that a smaller percentage of parents were spanking their children in
Sweden than in the United States, but that there were no significant
differences in child abuse rates.

It would have been more appropriate, however, to compare their 1980 Swedish
survey with the 1985 National Family Violence Survey in the USA (Straus &
Gelles, 1986), which reported a 47% lower rate of child abuse in the United
States than in 1975. For one thing, the 1980 Swedish survey was closer to the
1985 USA survey in its method, because both used telephone interviews. In
contrast, the 1975 USA survey used face-to-face interviews. Table 1 gives the
percentage of Swedish and United States parents reporting the use of various
forms of physical aggression in both national surveys in the United States and
the national survey in Sweden. In contrast to Gelles & Edfeldt (1986), we
report whether the Swedish rate was significantly different from the mean USA
rate from both the 1975 and the 1985 surveys. This approach represents a
compromise on the issue of which USA survey is the most appropriate comparison,
and it assumes that the 1980 rates in the USA might have been halfway between
the 1975 and the 1985 rates.

Table 1  Prevalence Rates of Various Forms of Physical Child Abuse in the
        United States and Sweden
        ______________________________________________________________________

                                        United States
                                                           Sweden
       Type of Violence                 1975     1985      1980

       1. Threw things at               5.4%     2.7%      3.6%
       2. Pushed, grabbed, or shoved   40.5     30.7      49.4***
       3. Hit (spanked or slapped)     58.2     54.9      27.5***
       4. Kicked, bit, or hit with fist 3.2      1.3       2.2
       5. Hit with an object (*1)      13.4      9.7       2.4***
       6. Beat up                       1.3       .6       3.0***
       7. Threatened with a weapon       .1       .2        .4
       8. Used a weapon                  .1       .2        .4
       Very Severe Violence (4, 6-8)    3.6      1.9       4.0*

      ________________________________________________________________________
       1 In the United States this item referred to attempted or completed
       hits. In Sweden, the item referred only to completed hits. The 1975
       and 1980 surveys are taken from Gelles & Edfeldt (1986) and the 1985
       survey from  Straus & Gelles (1986).
       *p < .05, 2-tailed t-test of proportions, comparing the combined USA
       samples with the Swedish sample.
       ***p < .001, same test.

As can be seen, significantly fewer Swedish parents spanked or hit their child
with an object, compared to USA parents. Nonetheless, 27% of Swedish parents
reported spanking or slapping their child in the past year, reflecting
imperfect compliance with the law. In contrast, most of the more serious types
of physical aggression occurred more often in Sweden one year after passing the
anti-spanking law than they did in the United States. The rate of beating a
child up was three times as high in Sweden as in the United States, the rate
of using a weapon was twice as high, and the overall rate of Very Severe
Violence was 49% higher in Sweden than the United States average from the 1975
and 1985 surveys. Except for weapon usage, all of these differences were
significantly different using a test of differences between proportions (Downie
& Heath, 1974, chap. 13), p < .05. In addition, the rate of pushing, grabbing,
or shoving was 39% higher in Sweden than the average rate in the United States,
p < .001. Thus, the rate of spanking was significantly lower in Sweden than in
the United States, but the rate of other forms of physical aggression,
including child abuse, was significantly higher in Sweden than in the United
States.

Because there were so few published studies with relevant empirical data, we
also included an unpublished field study by Haeuser (1988) and sought
additional data from Swedish sources. As co-founder of EPOCH-USA, an
organization advocating the banning of all corporal punishment in the
United States, Haeuser (1988) explicitly wanted to "promote positive visibility
of this Swedish law in the U.S. and garner U.S. support for the possibility of
promoting U.S. parenting norms which avoid physical punishment" (p. 2). Her
paper was based on her 1981 and 1988 field visits to Sweden, using extensive
interviews of 7 parents and 60 personnel in government, health and human
services, and schools.

In the summary, she concluded, "Most, if not all, believe the law has not
affected the incidence of child abuse" (p. iii). Specifically, she reported
that concerns about sexual abuse and youth gang violence had superseded
concerns about physical child abuse by 1988. She also reported that she
observed toddlers and young children often hitting their parents in her 1988
visit.

According to her, "In 1981 both parents and professionals agreed that parents
had not . . . found constructive alternatives to physical punishment [within
the two years since the law was passed]. For most parents the alternative was
yelling and screaming at their children, and some believed this was equally,
perhaps more, destructive" (p. 22). Haeuser went on to report that most Swedish
parents had developed firmer discipline techniques by 1988.

Haeuser (1988) concluded that the child abuse rate was lower in Sweden than
in the USA based on Swedish police statistics of 6.5 cases of physical child
abuse per 1000 children in 1986. Haeuser compared this to a "U. S. rate of 9.2
to 10.7" per 1000 (Haeuser, 1988, p. 34), but acknowledged, "Since the Swedish
police data omits child abuse cases known to social services but not warranting
police intervention, the actual Swedish incidence rate is probably higher"
(p. 34).

However, the American survey that she cited (National Center on Child Abuse and
Neglect [NCCAN], 1988) indicated that the basis of the rate of 9.2 or 10.7 per
1000 differed from the Swedish police statistic in two ways. First, the USA
rate included sexual and emotional abuse as well as physical abuse. Second,
the USA rate included not only cases known to police, but also cases known to
at least one professional across a wide range of occupations, including those
in child protection services, public health, education (schools, daycare
centers), hospitals, mental health, and social services. If limited to only
physical abuse, the USA rate was only 4.9 or 5.7 known to at least one of
these professionals, depending upon the definition of physical child abuse. If
limited to all three kinds of abuse known specifically to police or sheriffs,
the USA rate was only 2.2 per 1000 (NCCAN, 1988).

The most relevant statistics we have obtained from Sweden are police-record
trends in physical abuse of children under 7 years of age (Wittrock, 1992,
1995). Those records showed a 489% increase in the child abuse rate from 1981
to 1994 (see Figure 1). The same police records also indicated a 672% increase
in assaults by minors against minors (under 15 in Sweden) from 1981 to
1994 (see Figure 2).

        Discussion and Conclusions

Although the Swedish anti-spanking law was intended to reduce child abuse, the
best empirical study since then indicated that the rate of child abuse in
Sweden was 49% higher than in the United States one year after the anti-
spanking law was passed. Does this mean that the anti-spanking law increased
the rate of physical child abuse in Sweden? Deley's (1988) retrospective data
indicates that the Swedish physical child abuse rate was 21% of the USA rate
in the 1960s and 1970s. This  suggests that the anti-spanking law not only
failed to achieve its goal of reducing child abuse, but that the child abuse
rate increased from 21% to 149% of the equivalent USA rate, a seven-fold
increase relative to the decreasing rate in the United States. We doubt that
the increase was actually that substantial, because Deley used a retrospective
measure with a small unrepresentative sample. Nonetheless, the available
evidence suggests that a sizeable increase in the Swedish child abuse rate
occurred around the time of the 1979 anti-spanking law. The other studies
indicate no changes in attitudes about corporal punishment nor in child
homicides due to the 1979 law.

Was the apparent increase in the Swedish child abuse rate only a temporary
increase following their anti-spanking law? More recent data on Swedish child
abuse rates would help answer that question. One piece of subsequent data was
the 6.5 cases of physical child abuse per 1,000 children in official 1986
Swedish police statistics, which was substantially higher than the 2.2 per
1,000 known to police or sheriffs in the USA. The other available evidence is
the sharp increase in physical child abuse in Swedish police records from 1981
through 1994, along with a similar sharp increase in certain assaults by
minors.

Why might Sweden experience an increasing child abuse rate and an increase in
assaults by minors after outlawing corporal punishment? Haeuser's (1988)
description of some parental frustration and yelling in 1981 might indicate an
increased risk of escalation to abuse at that time. This is reminiscent of
Baumrind's (1973) observation of permissive parents. Compared to authoritative
and authoritarian parents, permissive parents were the most likely to report
"explosive attacks of rage in which they inflicted more pain or injury upon
the child than they had intended. . . . Permissive parents apparently became
violent because they felt that they could neither control the child's behavior
nor tolerate its effect upon themselves" (Baumrind, 1973, p. 35). Permissive
parents used spanking less than did either authoritative or authoritarian
parents. So it could be that the prohibition of all spanking eliminates a type
of mild spanking that prevents further escalation of aggression within
discipline incidents (see Patterson's [1982] coercive family process).
Haeuser's (1988) report suggests that Swedish parents later developed new,
firm discipline responses that reduced escalations to yelling and possibly to
child abuse. But adequate data on the resulting child abuse rates are lacking.

In conclusion, the available Swedish data indicate that we cannot reduce child
abuse just by mandating that parents stop using corporal punishment. Parents
also need new, effective techniques to replace corporal punishment if it is to
be outlawed. It is even possible that mild corporal punishment may play an
important role in preventing escalation to abuse for some parents.  The other
surprise is that there has been so little empirical evaluation of the effects
of Sweden's anti-spanking law. Perhaps it has seemed so obvious that
eliminating parental spanking would reduce the child abuse rate that people
have felt that no evaluation was needed. If so, this summary of available
evidence should shake us out of our premature complacency. The role of parental
discipline responses in preventing aggression in parent and child is
surprisingly complex (Grusec & Goodnow, 1994; Patterson, 1982; Snyder &
Patterson, 1995). We need better research to understand the complexities
involved in parental discipline, including its relationship to child abuse. We
need to discriminate effective from counterproductive forms of discipline
responses, including the role of different forms of corporal punishment in
increasing or decreasing the risk of child abuse. We also need better
evaluations of policies designed to change parental discipline, given that the
effects of the Swedish anti-spanking law seem to have had exactly the opposite
effect of its intention, at least in the short term.
<End include>

> >Jamaican-born Ruby Harrold-Claesson, who chairs the Nordic Committee for
> >Human Rights, says Sweden's smacking ban has also produced "badly behaved"
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> >
> Since Sweden's law still provides no penalty, this is not factual.

And the proof is what?

>  This law does not carry penalties - a point that no doubt speeded its
> passage. When reports of physical punishment are substantiated by
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> children, putting to rest the speculation that such a law would create
> chaos by turning minor parental infractions into government cases.

So why are the abuse rate went up?

> >As a lawyer, she has represented many parents who have had their children
> >taken because of what they felt was reasonable discipline.
[quoted text clipped - 74 lines]
> think twice and tend to rely more on verbal conflict resolution to
> manage their children”.

She also said:

"Swedish parents now discipline their children; and in doing so, they rely
on a variety of alternatives to physical punishment.  The method most
commonly used is _verbal_conflict_resolution_, which invites parents as
well as children to express their anger in words.  Parents insist that
discussions involve constant eye contact, even if this means taking firm
hold of young children to engage their attention.  Parents and
professionals agree that discussions may escalate into yelling, or that
yelling may be a necessary trigger for discussion.  Still, many point out
that while yelling may be humiliating, it is better than ignoring the
problem or containing the anger, and it is usually less humiliating than
physical punishment."

It is better to yell at your kid - just call it "verbal conflict
resolution"!  ;-)

> Some recent references:
>
> Durrant, Joan E. (2000). “Trends in Youth Crime and Well-Being Since
> the Abolition of Corporal Punishment in Sweden”, Youth and Society.
> Youth and Society, Volume 31, 437-455.

She used data that did not even reached "statistical significant"!

> Gershoff, Elizabeth (2002) “Corporal Punishment by Parents and
> Associated Child Behaviors and Experiences: A Meta-Analytic and
> Theoretical Review”, Psychological Bulletin 2002. Vol. 128, No. 4
> 539-579. American Psychological Association.

And try these for a more balanced view:

1. Larzelere RE. Child outcomes of nonabusive and customary physical punishment
  by parents: An updated literature review. Clinical Child and Family
  Psychology Review 2000;3(4):199-221.
2  Baumrind D, Larzelere RE, Cowan P. Ordinary physical punishment - Is it
  harmful? Commentary on Gershoff. Psychological Bulletin  2002.

Doan
0:-> - 24 Jul 2006 19:27 GMT
>>> koo-koo's care little for the children and families they use as soapboxes
>>>
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>
> Doan

Baumrind was once a credible researcher whose work I considered very
valuable in the ANTI SPANKING interest.

She, later in life, puzzled me with her presentation at Berkeley to a
national meeting of Psychologists, where she did a turn about, with a
tiny sample, and a that sample TRIMMED OF THE MORE SEVERE SPANKING numbers.

And STILL her results would not stand up to being published ... for she
would not submit her research for peer review to GET IT published.

Tell you anything?

This has been covered repeated in this ng and so has the refutation of
Larzelere.

Apparently you simply wish to deceive and pretend that discredited
research is still valid?

http://www.umanitoba.ca/faculties/human_ecology/family/Staff/Response%20to%20Lar
zelere%20on%20Sweden.pdf

http://tinyurl.com/gu74s

The above takes you to a point by point rebuttal and destruction of his
argument. You should get around to reading it, eventually.

Duran was kind enough to not to call his review of her study "shoddy"
but I have not trouble with the term.

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