Family Forum / Parenting / Spanking / April 2007

Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the
iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage.  I don't mean
to scare you, but many problems, when they either first show up or if
they keep reoccurring could be just what's showing from a larger
problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see.  One of the
only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with
each other in the marriage.  If things become more serious, more
serious options need to be looked at as possibilities.  I have a blog
that has more information on some of what I've been writing about.
If you feel like checking it out, I would completely suggest it.
http://onlinemarriagecounseling.blogspot.com/

Love is a choice that is made every day when you wake up and every
night when you go to sleep.  Some days you may not feel the original
feeling, but love isn't a feeling or emotion.  It is an action, a
verb.  Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up
a little, or that you were never in love in the first place.  Don't
just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the
person any more