Family Forum / Parenting / Step Parents / June 2008

This child lived with us for about a year before she wanted to move
back with her other step mom that called her a Slut and HORE.  While
living with is I took her everywhere with me, shopping, getting nails
done, hair done, visiting with friends and so on.  She was even
included in what new car I was going to get - things were going
great.  We got calls from the school about her cell phone at school
and when WE asked her about this she lied to us as she had about her
grades.  She would always tell us she had no homework when she wanted
on the computer when she was way behind in school.

Well one night she got into a fight with her father and moved back
with her other step-mom(his X) and things then began to be MY FAULT.
She went to my part-time job and started telling everyone that it was
MY fault that she moved because I was a Bitch and things got worse
from there.  She has called me a BAR WHORE, SLUT,...... AND then she
texted me and told me that her dad was cheating on me with his X and
come to find out this was yet another lie.  She posted this sh.t on
her MYSPACE page also for better than a year.

Is this respect?  Her father thinks I should just get over it and I
say she is no longer welcome at our home and if he and true feeling
for ME this would not have gotten this far out of control

I need feedback on this PLEASE