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? about labor..I'm not sure what happened!

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Karen - 07 Sep 2004 03:07 GMT
This question may seem really weird, since my girls were born 11
months ago...but I really am not exactly sure what happened during my
12-hour (premature) labor, due to all the drugs they were pumping into
me. The whole experience is kind of foggy!
I'm hoping some women who have gone through childbirth could give me
some insight.

My water broke at 32w 6d. I was admitted to the hospital, where they
gave me a steroid shot and started the magnesium to slow labor. Due to
a few circumstances, it was decided that I would probably need a
c-section. Contractions started about 3 hours later. They gave me
staidol a few hours after that in another attempt to slow things down.
Doc & nurses came in and told me I had developed toxemia &
preeclempsia.
I remember they checked me and said I was dilated to 4.5cm. A few
hours later I felt really intense pressure and REALLY wanted to push.
Like I said, I was pretty drugged out, so I don't know how often the
contractions were.
Next time the doc came in I was ready to tell her it had to be over
-NOW. I wanted an epidural or something. She checked me and said,
"These babies need to come out RIGHT NOW!"
It was such an urgency, they didn't even think they'd have time to do
a spinal, they were planning on putting me under (thankfully they did
do a spinal). It took them a long time to pull out Baby A. She seemed
to be stuck. When they finally got her out her head was all misshaped.

Given the specifics, I thought that perhaps I did get to 10cm and was
actually delivering Baby A. But when I asked my doc at the 6 week
follow-up, she said she thought I only got to 4.5, but she couldn't
remember for sure (she delivered several babies that night alone), and
my chart was still at the hospital.
Could it be possible that I was trying to push, even though I was only
at 4.5...and the pressure was just due to my water breaking?

Sorry this is so long. It's just really been bugging me lately
(probably since we're coming up to one  year), and I'm curious to hear
the opinions of moms who have been there :)

thanks,
Karen
Chotii - 07 Sep 2004 08:56 GMT
> Given the specifics, I thought that perhaps I did get to 10cm and was
> actually delivering Baby A. But when I asked my doc at the 6 week
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> Could it be possible that I was trying to push, even though I was only
> at 4.5...and the pressure was just due to my water breaking?

It's entirely possible to have an urge to push at 4.5cm....not fun, but
possible. Happened to me in my VBA2C. Also, the tinier babies can certainly
be delivered at less than 10cm. I think the nurses told me, as I laid on
bedrest in hospital at 27 weeks, that a baby that gestational age (27 weeks)
can slip out at 4cm without active labor if the cervix dilates, because the
baby is just so small. 32 weeks is bigger, of course, but you still might
not need to get to 10cm to deliver at 32 weeks.

--angela
Karen - 14 Sep 2004 17:30 GMT
Thanks Angela

that does make a lot of sense, and would explain why the doctor rushed
me VERY quickly into the ER (since I'm fairly certain I was on my way
to delivering Baby A). So many people told me I would NEVER have the
urge to push at 4.5, so I was getting confused.

I really appreciate your response, thanks again!

-Karen
mt - 14 Sep 2004 22:50 GMT
Don't have a comment about the labor (I'm a man), but I am curious about
your outcome, specifically with the misshapen head of one of your girls. How
is she now?

> Thanks Angela
>
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> -Karen
Karen - 24 Sep 2004 07:28 GMT
> Don't have a comment about the labor (I'm a man), but I am curious about
> your outcome, specifically with the misshapen head of one of your girls. How
> is she now?

Thanks for asking. Actually, her head went back to being round pretty
quickly - only a day or two. (And she had/still has a perfectly round
face & head) It was really amazing. It took them so long to pull her
out (er, rather push her back up then pull her out, yikes), I was
worried, but no problems.

The OR nurse told me the largest concern would have been if they did,
in fact, put me under. They said the babies would have gotten a huge
amount of anethesia (since it took so long) and that could have been
dangerous. As it was, it took 45 seconds to get Baby B breathing. I
can't even think about  what may have happened.
-Karen
 
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