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davis8021@bellsouth.net - 07 Nov 2004 17:58 GMT

thank you so much for your answers to me. it makes me feel not so alone to
know there's other parents out there with twins. people always say how
lucky I am and they wish they could have had twins and I think u have no
idea. it is really hard. I love all my babies very much but like u said they
can be very demanding. they fight
among each other all the time. I watched the show on TV nanny 911 and
thought I could really use her. I wish I could find time for myself but I
don't have anyone to watch them so we could go out to dinner or the movies.
I have been looking into pre schools in the area even for part time but I
have a hard time trusting people I don't know with them.I know I will get it
right soon I just get overwhelmed with it all. I feel like my babies are
competing for their mommies time and they aren't wining no one is thank u.
Dawn

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Tamie - 07 Nov 2004 20:13 GMT

I hear u , welcome to mother hood. Just twins make more babies . Trust
me in some cases it get better when they get older but in some cases
like the fighting it just gets worst. My twins r 10 now and only time i
see love in my house hold is when one of them gets hurt.
I know its hard to trust ppl but are they at the age to tell u if
something happens ?? That helps so u know not to go back to same person
but other hand it is scary period. U can always put in a add for
switching babysitting , so niether one of yall have to pay for a sitter
, Poeple are doing that now a days. I have my oldest so i have a live in
babysitter .
U really need to figure out a way to have time to urseft. That does
wonders. Your kids will like it also cause u not be so grouchy if u have
a life also other than kids.
Well keep up the good work and we all here to hear from u.

Tamie

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