Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / September 2004

Yo, Big RJ...
Here in Chennai, it's the end of the day on Monday and I am about to
head home to The Love of My Life.  But according to my handy-dandy
website that gives the local time all around the globe, you are

Hey everyone,
I am finally almost caught up with work.  I went to my Mandatory Settlement
Conference on Monday.  Nothing like what I expected.  Both attorneys, my
S2BX and I went to the cafeteria and sat down to see what we could settle.

 I had threats last year from my mother inlaw during a seperation agreement
about not ever seeing my daughter.  I signed a seperation agreement made out
by only my wife and I. No lawyers wrote it up.  I got ripped plus my mother
inlaw was the witness.

Hi rj,
    I liked your comment about evaluating what our own faults were in a
marriage. In programming, I picked up a concept call a "project
post-mortem"- an analysis of a project that you do when it's over. You

    http://www.mbychosting.com/illwillpress/tech.swf

Well, it's official.....I'm going to be the first retard to go to court
without a lawyer even though my x does. Judge denied another stay and my
income isn't low enough (you had to have sold plasma to eat to qualify or
had violence in the marriage......maybe I'll just go beat her up ...

...every where...and in every way in which marraige is "marketed" & "promoted".
newspapers should have the "divorce announcements" adjacent to the mairrage
announcements.  show the formerly happy couple with now updated photos and a
blurb/synopsis of the train wreck. i'm sure you ...

You can save the goats:
http://savethegoat.ingyenweb.hu

I have been in counseling for a several years, some times it got better,
sometimes worse.  Divorce was discussed many times, but last Friday,
both my wife and the counselor made a point at showing me it was the
end.  I guess I knew it would come to this, but didn’t want to face ...

If you want a bit more details look in alt.support.marriage - I
started there, but obviously I got what I was able to pay for...
But,  she does not want a specific separation agreement, except what
she scatched up.  No, I cannot afford a lawyer at $275/hour.  I barely

I've never posted here before.  I just have to say this to someone and if
anyone on earth will understand it will be someone here.
Background:
Divorced in 1995.  My sons were 10 and 12 at the time.  Moved 180 miles away

Does anyone know of any lawyers in the D/FW, TX area that work on sliding
scale or pro bono? And typically, are these lawyers any good?  I have been
completely suckered by my stbx. I just recd notice of a hearing this Friday
from her lawyer. I cannot afford one because she left and ...

Didn't believe in that crap but it happen to me this morning.
Everything in my life comes to 2 things:
Fear and Desire.
I have 4 different fears but it is actually one: Fear of pain, sickness

Yes, life goes on after divorce! :-)
Son 21- living temporarily back at dad's, back on career path and becoming
financially independent, still planning to move back to GA permanently.
Son 18- living in his own apartment and attending college, doing well and

I swear, I take back everything nice I ever said about my ex in my
posting "my schizophrenic existence"...
For those of you who came in late, my ex is selling our house. And he
has to get out fast because it was listed on Sept. 10 and we had a