Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / December 2004

Dear STBX,
It wasn't easy to break up after 25 years together --such a LONG
time.After 10 months of separation and with divorce on the horizon,  I
say goodbye to the dreams of our raising our younger child together, of

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Sunday, December 26, 2004 - 12:00 AM
     In Our View: Leave no-fault divorce alone

Some of you might like this recipe I discovered recently, for a starter:-
Get some salmon and cooked peeled prawns, and chop the salmon into
bite-sized chunks. Cut some filo pastry into pieces about 7 square inches,
and then pop in some salmon (about four chunks) and some prawns ...

~~~~Sorry but I cannot use my real name in this.~~~~~~~
To relay what is at hand is hard.  Please help with advice after reading if
you will.
I think my marriage is a sham holding up real and home for my daughter.

Hi All,
One concept that really p*sses me off is this idea that somehow all
marital and relationship problems are somehow "our" problem, when it
was quite clear to me I didn't actually have a problem, apart from

Please answer the 5-question poll:
http://www.theamericanresistance.com/polls/poll.html - the pool will be open
until the end of January, and then share the results with the 109th
Congress.

Looking for an answer to the subject line but also have a little broader
question...
What concepts do I need to ensure are addressed regarding child support
expectations? I was under the impression that the child support I will be

I hope everyone had a peaceful Christmas.  
I was blessed with one of the best i've ever had.
I'll spare the details, but there was a whole lot of love going around.

extracts from http://www.mymiserablechristmas.com/
137. Jingle balls (12/17/04) - Peter, Plymouth, Age 33
My Greek family was celebrating a traditional gathering. Wife, dog and
everyone else was downstairs so I went into the bathroom to have a

http://www.scienceblog.com/cms/node/6518
Demands for equal treatment between divorced parents may not be fair for the
children
As thousands of divorced and separated parents decide where their children

Its often recommended to put some money aside for the day you leave the
house, whether forced our or on your own free will. But how much, and how
does or will that effect discovery?
Money that you put aside for yourself before the spit is fare game, no? Any

I can't stand it, my wife is Lazy, and she doesn't clean, she doesn't
cook, she doesn't do laundry (for 3 months now). She chose to be a
housewife but this is what I get. everytime I come in she is on the
couch watching TV, or taking a nap. there is no room on the kitchen's

I get this e-mail... phishing... and part of it says...
"Your e-mail account has been temporary disabled because of
unauthorized access."...
...and then goes to tell me to open the accompanying file and enter the

In 2004 I lost money on investments. This is negative income just as
it was positive, it would be additional income. With income taxes,
negative investments...you can only apply a max of $3000 to your
positive income.

Man I avoided a car accident today by a hair.
For some reason I woke up thinking  and dare I say feeling 'car
accident', it was really strange, I kept telling myself, that's really
silly. Not just your usual, it's raining, let's drive carefully, but a