Family Forum / Marriage / Divorce / January 2005

In getting back out there....(dating) again....anyone have any pros/cons
comments on dating people who've been through divorce?  Anyone notice any
difference between dating the divorced and those never married?
As I am now getting back out there on the dating scene....it strikes to ...

'X-No-archive: yes'
I was looking at some classifieds.  I don't recall if it was in the
newspaper, a magazine, or CraigsList.  I'm not necessarily looking to
date, but sometimes I find it amusing to peruse the personals section

Currently, I haven't been served Divorce papers yet, although the
Circuit Court has them on file.  My current Federal Withholding while
we were married, and up until the date of separation, was Federal 4.
In my state, Federal income tax is subtracted from the amount used to

I think hiring a PI, is the best solution. He's so wormy, I have not been
able to catch up to him thus far. Thanks again to the kind hearted folks
here, and to all the rest of you with corrosive words, please go to Iraq.
Sincerely,

i got my kids back-i beat that bitch-i won-took me 2 and a half years-but i
won.
take heart men!-you can too!!

I left my wife almost one year ago.  She immigrated from Jamaica and
has conditional permanent residency through marriage.  We were married
here in 2002.  I currently reside in NY.  She can apply for permanent
residencey in January, 2006 (or 90 days before).  She refuses to sign

Was on yahoo instant messenger earlier today, and the recent ex-gf saw
me and said hi.  I said hi back and we talked for awhile.  She brought
up something that troubles me a bit.  She's having a hard time getting
over the break-up and wants me to tell her that i don't love her, and

On another thread i saw poster ML state, "Now, the kids are grown, i'm
remarried, and we all get along just fine. (it wasn't easy getting to
this point but that doesn't matter now)."  I don't mean to put ML or
anyone on the spot....seeing assumingly happily married people on this

Exorcise is a strong word, I know... I mean, get rid of the reminders
of your ex. I have been reading the book "Rebuilding" and came across
the authors' suggestion to remove all the photos of the two of you
together -- in some cases maybe even get rid of your bed! I have a few

Something that's caught my attention: every once in a while, I notice that a
boyfriend/girlfriend comes to this platform, looking for pointers on how to
"help" their married lover get a divorce.
I, for one, got a divorce all on my own! I wanted out, and I found a way to

OK, how 'bout a show of hands from those that (like myself) have been told,
in no uncertain terms (by an angry X), to "f.ck off" and that your Christmas
celebrations with your children are hear-by canceled.  But make sure to send
the presents via UPS.

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Am feeling rather washed out this evening after filing the divorce petition
today.  I guess if I were more 'hard boiled' it would be matter-of-fact, but
doesn't feel that way.  This was my third marriage. There were such high
hopes at the beginning.  We were only married for six ...

Do you guys still do LSD and pot?